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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On the post of body's ,do body op scars make you look at some one od ?

I've false wrist ,two shoulder rebuilds ,hip op and bottom of shin with skin missing (never healed up )..all these tell a story how do you see them or feel about them ?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

It wouldn't worry me, I like to touch them. It's quite sexy, and tells a story of your life. I have a large scar belly button to pubes - no one I have met even mentions it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually interested in how they were aquired, to me scars are like ink, skin character, I like to trace tattoos with my fingers, or mouth, x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wanted mine tattooed over but the tattoo guy talked me out of it as he said it's more to see the scars as they really do tell your story ,I'm not proud of them but they do tell a story of all my bike crashes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on many things. Mostly it wouldn't put me off. If body parts looked 'mangled' it might put me off. I wouldn't give that as my reason for rejection though.

But that's my problem not yours.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Most women who love men won't worry about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wanted mine tattooed over but the tattoo guy talked me out of it as he said it's more to see the scars as they really do tell your story ,I'm not proud of them but they do tell a story of all my bike crashes "

Scar tissue doesn't tattoo the same as 'normal' skin. You could have a tattoo around it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol all mine were done by to surgeon's so all good and meet my full false wrist you can bearly tell just a 3in scar ,my shoulder too and hip ,hip was done through very small hole even supriced me shoulder is meet too but you can see all the plates lol

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

I have a fair few on my stomach and round and in my belly button from emergency surgery, they saved my life, they don't bother me at all X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol all mine were done by to surgeon's so all good and meet my full false wrist you can bearly tell just a 3in scar ,my shoulder too and hip ,hip was done through very small hole even supriced me shoulder is meet too but you can see all the plates lol"

Six million dollar man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the post of body's ,do body op scars make you look at some one od ?

I've false wrist ,two shoulder rebuilds ,hip op and bottom of shin with skin missing (never healed up )..all these tell a story how do you see them or feel about them ?"

I have a lot of Stretch Marks from being Pregnant Year's ago and on My arm's from losing weight hasn't bothered guy's I've met in the past and My Stretch Marks don't bother My Thug.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

I find the stories behind fascinating, and seeing someone with a scar certainly wouldn't put me off at all!

Red xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol all mine were done by to surgeon's so all good and meet my full false wrist you can bearly tell just a 3in scar ,my shoulder too and hip ,hip was done through very small hole even supriced me shoulder is meet too but you can see all the plates lol

Six million dollar man.

"

Lol more like £120,000 man ,always ask how much it cost to rebuild me lol

And still ride and race bikes

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I think you need another mode of transport!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shattered wrist 30 bone fragments ,second coral in plant with reused cartilage and major rebuild = works fine

60mph in to crash barrier head butted my helmet on my wrist ..bang

Shoulder two offs ,the usual hi side brake ..two rebuilds and one bone graft and rebuild all good now after the two offs

Hip broke left top off hit corner hard and broke top off was bolted back on lol

Scull had brake and brain op to fix damage (op was via me leg ???..)..made me laugh at the time ..was told it was best way to get to me brain ,as in my balls ..still laugh about that now

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yep definitely find one that you are better at doing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nope I love bikes have lost a few good friends but bikes are my life ..but I have backed off abut now ,but will be back on one soon

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Nope I love bikes have lost a few good friends but bikes are my life ..but I have backed off abut now ,but will be back on one soon "

Some people learn from their mistakes, others keep making the same mistake again and again.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"Nope I love bikes have lost a few good friends but bikes are my life ..but I have backed off abut now ,but will be back on one soon "

You can fix skin and bones but you can't fix stupid...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol true but I'm a true bike lover been on the most of my life and I'll never change that even after all the bad times

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

My partner now has a thick scar on his neck from a biopsy. As it's healing. The more I like it. I have my own scars & stretch marks from 2 big babies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Coming of a bike is just part of racing ..its just one of them things it happens you just have to get over it .its the love of bikes that some just don't get lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My partner now has a thick scar on his neck from a biopsy. As it's healing. The more I like it. I have my own scars & stretch marks from 2 big babies "

Hope he's ok ..get the scar cream from boots it does help the scar heal up better as in not a painful due to tightening of the skin

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

I gave up bikes at Frisky's request 13 years ago... I still miss them every day...

Frisky has an anchor scar on her right breast and a large S shape scar in her right arm pit. Both from breast cancer and a caesarean scar from 3 c sections...

No one has mentioned them, we don't even mention them on our profile anymore...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars on others really don't bother me, in fact some are sexy.

I have one on my lower back from surgery but I can't see it so forget its there, but I have one on my top lip from where I split my lip wide open a few years back that I hate and am very conscious of...but most people say they dont even notice it unless i mention it...gotta love makeup & good lippy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the post of body's ,do body op scars make you look at some one od ?

I've false wrist ,two shoulder rebuilds ,hip op and bottom of shin with skin missing (never healed up )..all these tell a story how do you see them or feel about them ?"

I find them interesting, as you said they tell a story right.

Ive got two, one on my head and one on my chest. They're only baby scars though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love mine inside and out never been a problem got quite a few one from below my knee to my back kids used to run Thomas the tank up thinking it was a train track

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love scars, they add character.

That said I've had my wrist scar tattooed over, mainly because seeing the scar made me want to be careful with it when there is really no need anymore.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love scars, they add character.

That said I've had my wrist scar tattooed over, mainly because seeing the scar made me want to be careful with it when there is really no need anymore.

Mrs x"

My wrist was checked every 6 months for wear ..not had it done lately but I do give it some hammer and it's still going well ..told once it wears out it new full false joint ...

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Shattered wrist 30 bone fragments ,second coral in plant with reused cartilage and major rebuild = works fine

60mph in to crash barrier head butted my helmet on my wrist ..bang

Shoulder two offs ,the usual hi side brake ..two rebuilds and one bone graft and rebuild all good now after the two offs

Hip broke left top off hit corner hard and broke top off was bolted back on lol

Scull had brake and brain op to fix damage (op was via me leg ???..)..made me laugh at the time ..was told it was best way to get to me brain ,as in my balls ..still laugh about that now "

Blimey I thought I was bad lol, worst I had was coming off a 350lc on gravel bloke says "Your ok mate just don't look at your right hand" huh huh, Looked to find my thumb next to my wrist pointing at my elbow, weirdly until I looked I had no pain. Got left shoulder ball damage & left knee damage too, but not bad considering a life of bikes (since 12) & offs & being a DR for 10+ years..

Hope they don't give you too Much grief when older, mine stopped my riding all year round, just wasn't worth the pain after tbh..

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Nope I love bikes have lost a few good friends but bikes are my life ..but I have backed off abut now ,but will be back on one soon "

I still ride my TL1000s like I stole it! But have others for mooching about

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mine are all ok so far ,was told all work has a life span but can be redone ,the wrist was social op to keep the cartilage and as told it will wear off but I'll deal with that when it happens ..on and had knee op to the usual bike racer scars lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've surgical scars on my tum but nobody has ever commented on them. Scars wouldn't bother me on someone else either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking at my big scar from emergency ceasarian earlier this morning. It's quite noticeable but no one has ever commented on it. I wouldn't worry about seeing men's scars XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear my scars with pride after recently fighting breast cancer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear my scars with pride after recently fighting breast cancer.

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Well done! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are like pages in a journey; each has a different story. They can be good conversation starters too.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I wear my scars with pride after recently fighting breast cancer.

"

You know more people should read what you've just wrote. I've been reading some nonsense about cliques on the forums and after reading your post it makes you realise how we can make mountains out of molehills over nothing that's really important.

That's great news!

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL


"I wear my scars with pride after recently fighting breast cancer.

"

Big hugs X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear my scars with pride after recently fighting breast cancer.

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Great news ...stay strong & well xx

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Must admit if I could take the scars off our daughter & have them I would, but as said she has a story to tell. Would rather she didn't have to tell it at such a young age that's all.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear my scars with pride after recently fighting breast cancer.

Well done! Xx"

Thank you darling! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear my scars with pride after recently fighting breast cancer.

You know more people should read what you've just wrote. I've been reading some nonsense about cliques on the forums and after reading your post it makes you realise how we can make mountains out of molehills over nothing that's really important.

That's great news!"

Thank you ...and yes it's so true. it's certainly made me put things into perspective. . I never sweat the small stuff!

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear my scars with pride after recently fighting breast cancer.

Big hugs X"

Thank you darling xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear my scars with pride after recently fighting breast cancer.

Great news ...stay strong & well xx"

Thank you so much darling I will xx

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I've met a few with scars from various incidents. Never been an issue and is certainly a talking point. I've played with guys who have had a hip replacement, knee surgery, ankle surgery, etc

Most recently a friend lost his big toe due to a sporting injury. I'm helping with his rehab

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op you sound like the bionic man ive never met anyone with a false wrist so id be inqisitive.

False body parts and scars play no part. But it would be nice to be told as i had an embarresing experience once.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"My partner now has a thick scar on his neck from a biopsy. As it's healing. The more I like it. I have my own scars & stretch marks from 2 big babies

Hope he's ok ..get the scar cream from boots it does help the scar heal up better as in not a painful due to tightening of the skin "

The hospital gave him some & it's healing nicely. Just waiting for treatment to start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh good hope he makes a good recovery and out come of op is good

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"On the post of body's ,do body op scars make you look at some one od ?

I've false wrist ,two shoulder rebuilds ,hip op and bottom of shin with skin missing (never healed up )..all these tell a story how do you see them or feel about them ?"

I really like scars and find them fascinating. Very sexy on a lady

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