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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

I don't mean to moan just sick of always been friend zoned by ladies I know I go to clubs and have a laugh and jokes with every one get to know a lot of really nice people but I some times feel like I just get looked past I know it's never a 100% of getting laid but feel as if iam becoming the hot girls gay best mate so to speak

Anyway sorry for the moan I knows it's just another single guy moaning about not getting any just felt like a bit of a rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it is all your piercings??

I know everyone has their own style but your a gorgeous guy...... Why have all those.

it would put me off

Sorry not being horrid but it would

Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to get things off your chest

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Maybe it is all your piercings??

I know everyone has their own style but your a gorgeous guy...... Why have all those.

it would put me off

Sorry not being horrid but it would

Xxxxx "

Have to agree with this. The piercings would put me off.

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Maybe it is all your piercings??

I know everyone has their own style but your a gorgeous guy...... Why have all those.

it would put me off

Sorry not being horrid but it would

Xxxxx "

It's fine your not been horrid every one can say what they feel and I do under stand they are not to every ones taste but I would like to think that after some one has met me they can look past them

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"It's good to get things off your chest "

Thanks but it is just another single guy moaning about not getting laid I will put it down to been grumpy and not sleeping right lol

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Maybe it is all your piercings??

I know everyone has their own style but your a gorgeous guy...... Why have all those.

it would put me off

Sorry not being horrid but it would

Xxxxx

Have to agree with this. The piercings would put me off."

Once again that's fine it really is just even would like to think my personality is much better then my looks and I would hope that. That would help me

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Maybe it is all your piercings??

I know everyone has their own style but your a gorgeous guy...... Why have all those.

it would put me off

Sorry not being horrid but it would

Xxxxx

Have to agree with this. The piercings would put me off.

Once again that's fine it really is just even would like to think my personality is much better then my looks and I would hope that. That would help me "

We will never have universal appeal.

I'm morbidly obese. I've been married, have children and now in a long term relationship. If I were younger, without a partner and family and wanted that I'd look at myself in a different light and try and broaden my appeal.

I'm not saying deny who you are as that would make you unhappy. However, you have to be realistic and accept your extreme look will limit your chances. We are visual beings, we're attracted to pretty packaging. If the initial reaction is off putting you're not going to bother about personality.

I'm the nicest person I know, with a devilish smile, quick wit and a sunny disposition. My size 24 frame will put off more men than it attracts: I have the same options you do.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to have a rant bud. You'll find someone in time. Try not to think about it too much. Just keep enjoying yourself and you may just meet someone when you least expect it.

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Maybe it is all your piercings??

I know everyone has their own style but your a gorgeous guy...... Why have all those.

it would put me off

Sorry not being horrid but it would

Xxxxx

Have to agree with this. The piercings would put me off.

Once again that's fine it really is just even would like to think my personality is much better then my looks and I would hope that. That would help me

We will never have universal appeal.

I'm morbidly obese. I've been married, have children and now in a long term relationship. If I were younger, without a partner and family and wanted that I'd look at myself in a different light and try and broaden my appeal.

I'm not saying deny who you are as that would make you unhappy. However, you have to be realistic and accept your extreme look will limit your chances. We are visual beings, we're attracted to pretty packaging. If the initial reaction is off putting you're not going to bother about personality.

I'm the nicest person I know, with a devilish smile, quick wit and a sunny disposition. My size 24 frame will put off more men than it attracts: I have the same options you do.

Good luck!"

Veru true each to their own and yes we do Base a lot on looks at 1st meeting some one just as I have said I would like some one to at lest have a chat with me before thinking 'no way in hell'

I would rather have sex with some one I get on with and can have a laugh with then some one who's stunning but can't stand talking too

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"It's good to have a rant bud. You'll find someone in time. Try not to think about it too much. Just keep enjoying yourself and you may just meet someone when you least expect it. "

Thanks man just did not one to come across as anothe single guy moaning about not getting sex and such lol

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"It's good to have a rant bud. You'll find someone in time. Try not to think about it too much. Just keep enjoying yourself and you may just meet someone when you least expect it.

Thanks man just did not one to come across as anothe single guy moaning about not getting sex and such lol"

But that's exactly what you are doing though. Lol.

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"It's good to have a rant bud. You'll find someone in time. Try not to think about it too much. Just keep enjoying yourself and you may just meet someone when you least expect it.

Thanks man just did not one to come across as anothe single guy moaning about not getting sex and such lol

But that's exactly what you are doing though. Lol. "

Maybe so but I said sorry for moaning and going on a rant so ied like to think it makes me a little diffrent

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