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"I think inteliljent ladie is dead clever wiv this thtread esp in filtar, filtur, filtering out eediots! " Lolled | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " Spelling words correctly is hard enough without trying to get them all in the right order... | |||
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"I think inteliljent ladie is dead clever wiv this thtread esp in filtar, filtur, filtering out eediots! " I see what you did there! | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " If she starts to talk about theory of general relativity while we are playing footsie of course I will be turned off | |||
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"Intelligence is pretty much my number one turn on!" Before looks? | |||
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"I'd like to know who did that research. What a load of bollocks." Scientists from the Warsaw School of Economics in Poland | |||
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"Intelligence is pretty much my number one turn on! Before looks? " he doesn't wank to porn he wanks to physics seminars | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated..." Thanks for generalisation, real classy | |||
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"Intelligence is pretty much my number one turn on! Before looks? he doesn't wank to porn he wanks to physics seminars " Einstein was a complete manfox | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " I call bullshit! | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated..." Sweeping statement | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated..." You can intimidate this fucktard any time you like!!! | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated... Sweeping statement " Humble intelligence is a turn on. If not then l do find it off putting. Biggest thing for me is personality. If a girl treats me well I'll make a lot of effort. That's pretty universal though. | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated..." If a guy made a sweeping attack like this on women here, he would be hounded. Par for course. | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated..." Some men might be intimidated by being called a fucktard.... | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated... If a guy made a sweeping attack like this on women here, he would be hounded. Par for course. " I second that, but she's a female so it pretty much went unnoticed. | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated... Sweeping statement " One favours sweeping this evening | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated... If a guy made a sweeping attack like this on women here, he would be hounded. Par for course. " Guys do lots of things here... | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated... If a guy made a sweeping attack like this on women here, he would be hounded. Par for course. I second that, but she's a female so it pretty much went unnoticed." | |||
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"I might start my own thread called 'lasses don't make passes at guys who are short arses'. Then wait for all the estrogenic foaming at the mouth about how they shouldn't have to justify their preferences, etc etc... " Everyone is taller than me | |||
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"Bollocks. I'm a munter with a brain and still get shagged on occasion." Bwahahaaa | |||
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"Ah that explains it! I'm intelligent and ugly " I'm unintelligent and ugly, fancy a fuck ? | |||
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" Everyone is taller than me " But only a man 6ft or over can protect you. Did you not know this? | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated... Thanks for generalisation, real classy " Miss Honey apologises for her mood this evening | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated..." Einstein, Copernicus, Aristotle !!Fuckety Fucktards.. the lot of them. I'm proud to be a member of the fucktard fraternity... I wear my fucktard badge with honour | |||
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"Ah that explains it! I'm intelligent and ugly I'm unintelligent and ugly, fancy a fuck ?" Awh shucks Are you sure? Is this a sympathy fuck? | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " Haha I see what you did there, It's a contradiction in terms. | |||
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"Ah that explains it! I'm intelligent and ugly I'm unintelligent and ugly, fancy a fuck ? Awh shucks Are you sure? Is this a sympathy fuck? " Since you have at least the intelligence going for you, I'll leave it up to you to decide | |||
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"I might start my own thread called 'lasses don't make passes at guys who are short arses'. Then wait for all the estrogenic foaming at the mouth about how they shouldn't have to justify their preferences, etc etc... " Lol!! | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated... Thanks for generalisation, real classy Miss Honey apologises for her mood this evening " In my humble opinion, you should never do that, just be you and let other people deal with it. | |||
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"Ah that explains it! I'm intelligent and ugly I'm unintelligent and ugly, fancy a fuck ? Awh shucks Are you sure? Is this a sympathy fuck? Since you have at least the intelligence going for you, I'll leave it up to you to decide" I'll give you a sympathy fuck, you give me a sympathy fuck. Problem solved | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated... Thanks for generalisation, real classy Miss Honey apologises for her mood this evening In my humble opinion, you should never do that, just be you and let other people deal with it. " I never mean it when i say sorry.. If i say something i mean it ha | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated... Thanks for generalisation, real classy Miss Honey apologises for her mood this evening I, as one male accept the apology. Make love not war." Make love...we arent here to make love Less war more fucking | |||
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"I am told by friends and their husbands that men are intimidated by me. Sometimes I feel I have to 'dumb down' in order to be 'approachable '. That sounds arrogant but I don't mean it to be. But guys often call me 'posh' or 'too brainy' for them etc....and it is frustrating. It's like they have some kind of inferiority complex and I find that really unattractive. Thing is, I don't think I am especially intelligent at all but men don't approach me or if they do, I admit I get bored with small talk and mundane shallow topics of conversation especially if someone just agrees with everything I say because they don't have an opinion of their own or they are afraid to express it. I guess it's one of the reasons I like confident dominant guys. I like an intelligent man who stands up to me and isn't a doormat. So yes, I find a lot of guys don't approach me. Yet actually I am a nice gal!! " | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " Would love to see who conducted this 'research,' at what institution, and according to what framework. The idea that men are 'actively turned off by intelligence,' is utter tripe. In fact, most of the guys I know PREFER the company of a woman who's able to think for herself and make her own decisions. | |||
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"I am told by friends and their husbands that men are intimidated by me. Sometimes I feel I have to 'dumb down' in order to be 'approachable '. That sounds arrogant but I don't mean it to be. But guys often call me 'posh' or 'too brainy' for them etc....and it is frustrating. It's like they have some kind of inferiority complex and I find that really unattractive. Thing is, I don't think I am especially intelligent at all but men don't approach me or if they do, I admit I get bored with small talk and mundane shallow topics of conversation especially if someone just agrees with everything I say because they don't have an opinion of their own or they are afraid to express it. I guess it's one of the reasons I like confident dominant guys. I like an intelligent man who stands up to me and isn't a doormat. So yes, I find a lot of guys don't approach me. Yet actually I am a nice gal!! " Yes | |||
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"Ah that explains it! I'm intelligent and ugly I'm unintelligent and ugly, fancy a fuck ? Awh shucks Are you sure? Is this a sympathy fuck? Since you have at least the intelligence going for you, I'll leave it up to you to decide I'll give you a sympathy fuck, you give me a sympathy fuck. Problem solved " Sounds like a plan, I'll be extra careful as well. I don't want to cause you a back injury again . | |||
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"Ah that explains it! I'm intelligent and ugly I'm unintelligent and ugly, fancy a fuck ? Awh shucks Are you sure? Is this a sympathy fuck? Since you have at least the intelligence going for you, I'll leave it up to you to decide I'll give you a sympathy fuck, you give me a sympathy fuck. Problem solved Sounds like a plan, I'll be extra careful as well. I don't want to cause you a back injury again ." Awh thanks! You may not be smart but at least you're thoughtful | |||
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"Ah that explains it! I'm intelligent and ugly I'm unintelligent and ugly, fancy a fuck ? Awh shucks Are you sure? Is this a sympathy fuck? Since you have at least the intelligence going for you, I'll leave it up to you to decide I'll give you a sympathy fuck, you give me a sympathy fuck. Problem solved Sounds like a plan, I'll be extra careful as well. I don't want to cause you a back injury again . Awh thanks! You may not be smart but at least you're thoughtful " That really made me laugh | |||
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"Ah that explains it! I'm intelligent and ugly I'm unintelligent and ugly, fancy a fuck ? Awh shucks Are you sure? Is this a sympathy fuck? Since you have at least the intelligence going for you, I'll leave it up to you to decide I'll give you a sympathy fuck, you give me a sympathy fuck. Problem solved Sounds like a plan, I'll be extra careful as well. I don't want to cause you a back injury again . Awh thanks! You may not be smart but at least you're thoughtful That really made me laugh " | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated..." All of them? That's statistically highly unlikely if nothing else. | |||
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"It'd be unattractive and off-putting to calculate how unlikely, right?" Definitely! Put away that calculator | |||
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"Hate the concept of intelligence, everyone is intelligent in their own particular interests and mind, its just another way of seperating people and creating another class, everyone is different just get over it, rant over" Very good point. | |||
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"I might start my own thread called 'lasses don't make passes at guys who are short arses'. Then wait for all the estrogenic foaming at the mouth about how they shouldn't have to justify their preferences, etc etc... " Do it. I'm not certain you'd get the response you expect. Try it and see. | |||
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"I might start my own thread called 'lasses don't make passes at guys who are short arses'. Then wait for all the estrogenic foaming at the mouth about how they shouldn't have to justify their preferences, etc etc... " 'Estrogenic foaming' ! Now they are two sexy words I must add to my vocabulary! | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " intelligent or opinionated? | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " It's too much hard work for them | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " I think there maybe some truth in this going off of my experiences in this online cesspit of sex meets . the number of highly articulate intelligent women with high paying or highly demanding jobs I've had the pleasure of socialising with and sometimes more is high. they all have two things in common they have never married and most of there vanilla relationships never lasted much past a year. the thing that sticks out and makes me think this to be true is to me they were highly attractive women so attractive in fact I often found myself thinking how come your single when in their company . I guess the answer partly lays with the fact they all were highly intelligent articulate successful women which made them intimidating to the average guy when it comes to a romantic liaison or relationship. | |||
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"What a load of bollocks , personally I find the empty headed only worried about looks type of girl far less interesting , engage the mind as its our biggest sexual organ " ... Maybe for you ??. Trouble is most women are smart enough to know not to date me. | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo" I'll alert all of the fat bottomed, brainy bespectacled girls to block you toot sweet, you can thank me now. | |||
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"Some men are intimidated by intelligence, just as some are by beauty. " This ^^ is what I wanted to say last night when I posted but the extra glass of vino prevented it... | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? If she starts to talk about theory of general relativity while we are playing footsie of course I will be turned off " Dammit and I was planning on whispering my theory on socio-economic diversity in Copenhagen into your ear as I ....... | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " i think its right. I think people are attracted to others of the same level of intelligence (or similar at least). If your knuckles drag on the ground then you might not be comfortable with a Nobel laureate. Just like if you are a member of the beautiful people you won't go looking for a partner who looks like they are a crack addict. Brad pit has zero personality. But his looks will always be a big leg opener. Just like the research says. This research says more about the men of Poland than it does about women of intelligence. Also on here how many people say, "put effort into your messages." "Engage my mind and my body will follow." Are these women shallow or are they just admitting they are not attracted to men who cannot hold a conversation. It's not shallow to date people you are on the same level as you. It's common sense because after the sexual attraction wears off, then you actually have to talk to the person opposite you. Date your own species people. | |||
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"Some men are intimidated by intelligence, just as some are by beauty. " I'm intimidated by nether quite the opposite in fact. beauty is subjective but intelligence is not that explains why intelligent woman find it harder to find a perfect playmate or partner . after all you can beautify yourself up far easier than you can dum yourself down. | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo I'll alert all of the fat bottomed, brainy bespectacled girls to block you toot sweet, you can thank me now. " Ah but you have brains and beauty. And I thank you x | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? i think its right. I think people are attracted to others of the same level of intelligence (or similar at least). If your knuckles drag on the ground then you might not be comfortable with a Nobel laureate. Just like if you are a member of the beautiful people you won't go looking for a partner who looks like they are a crack addict. Brad pit has zero personality. But his looks will always be a big leg opener. Just like the research says. This research says more about the men of Poland than it does about women of intelligence. Also on here how many people say, "put effort into your messages." "Engage my mind and my body will follow." Are these women shallow or are they just admitting they are not attracted to men who cannot hold a conversation. It's not shallow to date people you are on the same level as you. It's common sense because after the sexual attraction wears off, then you actually have to talk to the person opposite you. Date your own species people. " | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo I'll alert all of the fat bottomed, brainy bespectacled girls to block you toot sweet, you can thank me now. Ah but you have brains and beauty. And I thank you x" Oh, how can you make such a daring assumption? You don't know me. | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo" Well, aren't you a little ray of sweetness and light? (Hope I typed that correctly, I haven't put my glasses on yet because I'm too comfy sat on my fat arse) | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? Would love to see who conducted this 'research,' at what institution, and according to what framework. The idea that men are 'actively turned off by intelligence,' is utter tripe. In fact, most of the guys I know PREFER the company of a woman who's able to think for herself and make her own decisions." It was a study which involved speed dating between men and women from Colombia University and a set of questions that were asked of them both.. Whilst the women daters were impressed by men who were either intelligent or good looking, it was found that the male daters put more of a premium on physical appearance so if the woman was more intelligent, then only if she was more attractive would she be worth persuing.... | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo I'll alert all of the fat bottomed, brainy bespectacled girls to block you toot sweet, you can thank me now. Ah but you have brains and beauty. And I thank you x Oh, how can you make such a daring assumption? You don't know me. " Intuition | |||
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"This is because men are fucktards who are clearly intimidated..." You Maybe right there some are but I would love meet an intelligent lady | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " Really? I'd love to know the research methods and sample area? | |||
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" It was a study which involved speed dating between men and women from Colombia University and a set of questions that were asked of them both.. Whilst the women daters were impressed by men who were either intelligent or good looking, it was found that the male daters put more of a premium on physical appearance so if the woman was more intelligent, then only if she was more attractive would she be worth persuing.... " So to clarify did these guys in the study prefer unattractive unintelligent women over moderate looking intelligent women. | |||
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"It just proves that 'we' don't like admitting that women are superior to us. " what fabulous and bearded said...! | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " What research is this ? Written by a page 3 bimbo ? I've always found intelligence attractive | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? I think there maybe some truth in this going off of my experiences in this online cesspit of sex meets . the number of highly articulate intelligent women with high paying or highly demanding jobs I've had the pleasure of socialising with and sometimes more is high. they all have two things in common they have never married and most of there vanilla relationships never lasted much past a year. the thing that sticks out and makes me think this to be true is to me they were highly attractive women so attractive in fact I often found myself thinking how come your single when in their company . I guess the answer partly lays with the fact they all were highly intelligent articulate successful women which made them intimidating to the average guy when it comes to a romantic liaison or relationship. " Or..a simpler explanation They were focussed on their high powered career they didn't have time for the guy.. | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? I think there maybe some truth in this going off of my experiences in this online cesspit of sex meets . the number of highly articulate intelligent women with high paying or highly demanding jobs I've had the pleasure of socialising with and sometimes more is high. they all have two things in common they have never married and most of there vanilla relationships never lasted much past a year. the thing that sticks out and makes me think this to be true is to me they were highly attractive women so attractive in fact I often found myself thinking how come your single when in their company . I guess the answer partly lays with the fact they all were highly intelligent articulate successful women which made them intimidating to the average guy when it comes to a romantic liaison or relationship. Or..a simpler explanation They were focussed on their high powered career they didn't have time for the guy.. " Jesus christ I didn't say it was the soul reason I could have listed a few more reasons I know to be true but by doing so I would have been breaching trust | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? Really? I'd love to know the research methods and sample area? " I see you as someone who cba reading the content of a thread? Lol | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo Well, aren't you a little ray of sweetness and light? (Hope I typed that correctly, I haven't put my glasses on yet because I'm too comfy sat on my fat arse)" A munter but at least you wear glasses Sorry not sure which emoji to use!!! | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? If she starts to talk about theory of general relativity while we are playing footsie of course I will be turned off Dammit and I was planning on whispering my theory on socio-economic diversity in Copenhagen into your ear as I ....... " Oh, you can whisper in my ear whatever you want, just finish what you were about to do | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo I'll alert all of the fat bottomed, brainy bespectacled girls to block you toot sweet, you can thank me now. " Consider it done | |||
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"Whilst the women daters were impressed by men who were either intelligent or good looking, it was found that the male daters put more of a premium on physical appearance so if the woman was more intelligent, then only if she was more attractive would she be worth persuing." Except that concepts such as 'good looking' and 'attractiveness' - physical or otherwise - is purely subjective. According to what criteria did the researchers judge the men and women involved as being 'good looking' or 'attractive'? For example, I think that Deborah Meaden from Dragons Den is gorgeous, but it's evident from comments made to me that I'm in a minority, at least among male members of Fab... | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo" Wow! What a catch | |||
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"It just proves that 'we' don't like admitting that women are superior to us. " We're not though. | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo" Awwww...troll. At least you're open about being shallow! But that might be why you've been on over a year and only have the one veri! I have glasses (for reading), and a fat arse and it's a shame you'll never get to see either | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo Awwww...troll. At least you're open about being shallow! But that might be why you've been on over a year and only have the one veri! I have glasses (for reading), and a fat arse and it's a shame you'll never get to see either " It won't be a shame. You're not his type so you wouldn't do it for him anyway would you. I don't like fat arses on men. Or saggy,old ones. | |||
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"Them researchers sounds like brexiters, as they are intimidated with someone with intelligence lol." Some of us who support Brexit have been studying European politics for 25 years or more. We're not all racist oiks. I am sure your copy of the Treaties of Rome and Maastricht are as dog-eared as mine.... | |||
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"Them researchers sounds like brexiters, as they are intimidated with someone with intelligence lol. Some of us who support Brexit have been studying European politics for 25 years or more. We're not all racist oiks. I am sure your copy of the Treaties of Rome and Maastricht are as dog-eared as mine...." I dont believe brexitters are racist or antisemitic or any of the other things they have been called i just see it as a bit of an unachievable pipe dream, the idea of sovereignty and control is a nice one just one i dont see happening i truly believe the only thing that will change when the tie is broken is our ability to influence or vito and that to me is a bad trade off when were set to gain nothing of real importance | |||
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"I am told by friends and their husbands that men are intimidated by me. Sometimes I feel I have to 'dumb down' in order to be 'approachable '. That sounds arrogant but I don't mean it to be. But guys often call me 'posh' or 'too brainy' for them etc....and it is frustrating. It's like they have some kind of inferiority complex and I find that really unattractive. Thing is, I don't think I am especially intelligent at all but men don't approach me or if they do, I admit I get bored with small talk and mundane shallow topics of conversation especially if someone just agrees with everything I say because they don't have an opinion of their own or they are afraid to express it. I guess it's one of the reasons I like confident dominant guys. I like an intelligent man who stands up to me and isn't a doormat. So yes, I find a lot of guys don't approach me. Yet actually I am a nice gal!! " Wonder why they don't approach me then? Maybe it's because Im a little large lol | |||
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"unfortunately, i think this is pretty accurrate...not of all men by a long way, but on the whole, i think its a fair generalisation in my experience." Well their loss!! | |||
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"Which men are they talking about? All men? " the men in the study, obviously... | |||
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"Them researchers sounds like brexiters, as they are intimidated with someone with intelligence lol." don't forget that there is still a politics room shag....maybe you should go and loiter in there? lol | |||
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"Looks fade, intelligent conversation doesn't. That study is nonsense." Tell that to someone with Alzheimer's... | |||
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"When brains means glasses and fat arses the answer is noooooooooo I'll alert all of the fat bottomed, brainy bespectacled girls to block you toot sweet, you can thank me now. " If you could send them my way while you're at it would be much appreciated. I need some fresh stock on here to give me a good stiff ignoring! | |||
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" It was a study which involved speed dating between men and women from Colombia University and a set of questions that were asked of them both.. Whilst the women daters were impressed by men who were either intelligent or good looking, it was found that the male daters put more of a premium on physical appearance so if the woman was more intelligent, then only if she was more attractive would she be worth persuing.... " If women were impressed by intelligence and that it over-rides any lack of good looks, I'd be a fanny magnet! So I'm afraid on this occasion I must refute your above point. | |||
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" It was a study which involved speed dating between men and women from Colombia University and a set of questions that were asked of them both.. Whilst the women daters were impressed by men who were either intelligent or good looking, it was found that the male daters put more of a premium on physical appearance so if the woman was more intelligent, then only if she was more attractive would she be worth persuing.... If women were impressed by intelligence and that it over-rides any lack of good looks, I'd be a fanny magnet! So I'm afraid on this occasion I must refute your above point." 2 counter points, it's an American study, so if their study was mainly American persons based the given outcome is predictable as traditional gender roles are still deeply entrenched in some parts of America. On another note, I see your point, however I tend to find smart men are perceived as far more attractive for women who are looking for serious dating/starting a relationship. Obviously there still has to be physical attraction. Lets face it, if a man or women is just looking for a shag after a few drinks,they most likely don't care if you are smart. Just that you look good, perform well and maybe have a good sense of humour. | |||
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"Them researchers sounds like brexiters, as they are intimidated with someone with intelligence lol. don't forget that there is still a politics room shag....maybe you should go and loiter in there? lol" lol and yes I know there is that room too. I do post in there a well, it is fun | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " I think the obstacle could easily be surmounted if they've nice tits and put out | |||
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"I might start my own thread called 'lasses don't make passes at guys who are short arses'. Then wait for all the estrogenic foaming at the mouth about how they shouldn't have to justify their preferences, etc etc... " But it wouldn't be factual you lanky fcker S | |||
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"Bollocks. I'm a munter with a brain and still get shagged on occasion." I've met you. Munter is never a word I'd use to describe you! | |||
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"I might start my own thread called 'lasses don't make passes at guys who are short arses'. Then wait for all the estrogenic foaming at the mouth about how they shouldn't have to justify their preferences, etc etc... But it wouldn't be factual you lanky fcker S" I'm a short-arsed, spec-wearing northerner, but I do okay... Sometimes | |||
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"Which men are they talking about? All men? the men in the study, obviously..." Names,I need names. And occupations. | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " I much prefer an intelligent woman but they need personality too. Throw in a sharp wit with sarcasm and a hint of dark humour then all is good | |||
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"I might start my own thread called 'lasses don't make passes at guys who are short arses'. Then wait for all the estrogenic foaming at the mouth about how they shouldn't have to justify their preferences, etc etc... But it wouldn't be factual you lanky fcker S" You say that as if the headline of this thread is factual... | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? Would love to see who conducted this 'research,' at what institution, and according to what framework. The idea that men are 'actively turned off by intelligence,' is utter tripe. In fact, most of the guys I know PREFER the company of a woman who's able to think for herself and make her own decisions. It was a study which involved speed dating between men and women from Colombia University and a set of questions that were asked of them both.. Whilst the women daters were impressed by men who were either intelligent or good looking, it was found that the male daters put more of a premium on physical appearance so if the woman was more intelligent, then only if she was more attractive would she be worth persuing.... " I fail to see the link between what you've posted here and your original statement "men are actively turned off by intelligence"? Having a stronger preference for looks is not the same as being turned off by intelligence! | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " Literally the opposite is true for me.. smarter the better | |||
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"According to recent research, when it comes to choosing a romantic partner, men are actively turned off by intelligence...and they can only overcome this massive obstacle if they find the woman particularly attractive! Shallow much? " Who conducted this research?? | |||
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"Well that explains it I am smart " AND *ahem* FIT! X | |||
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""Women were impressed by men who were either good-looking or clever. But the male view of what makes the perfect date was far more complicated." Is what the article concludes. If you read the full article you will notice a couple things... 1...Around 560 participants 2...4000 speed dates of around 4 minutes each 3...Participants were all from Columbian University of New York. Hardly conclusive in demographics of age, culture, professional status or life experiences. A fuck can last a few hrs or less....an intelligent mind hand hold your attention much much longer. " *hand = can | |||
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""Women were impressed by men who were either good-looking or clever. But the male view of what makes the perfect date was far more complicated." Is what the article concludes. If you read the full article you will notice a couple things... 1...Around 560 participants 2...4000 speed dates of around 4 minutes each 3...Participants were all from Columbian University of New York. Hardly conclusive in demographics of age, culture, professional status or life experiences. A fuck can last a few hrs or less....an intelligent mind hand hold your attention much much longer. " Again, what exactly constitutes evidence of men "actively turned off by intelligence"? | |||
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""Women were impressed by men who were either good-looking or clever. But the male view of what makes the perfect date was far more complicated." Is what the article concludes. If you read the full article you will notice a couple things... 1...Around 560 participants 2...4000 speed dates of around 4 minutes each 3...Participants were all from Columbian University of New York. Hardly conclusive in demographics of age, culture, professional status or life experiences. A fuck can last a few hrs or less....an intelligent mind hand hold your attention much much longer. " Quick analysis: 4000 speed dates 560 participants roughly 7 speed dates per paticipant 4 minutes each Wow that's a full half hour of research. NEARLY! | |||
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""Women were impressed by men who were either good-looking or clever. But the male view of what makes the perfect date was far more complicated." Is what the article concludes. If you read the full article you will notice a couple things... 1...Around 560 participants 2...4000 speed dates of around 4 minutes each 3...Participants were all from Columbian University of New York. Hardly conclusive in demographics of age, culture, professional status or life experiences. A fuck can last a few hrs or less....an intelligent mind hand hold your attention much much longer. Quick analysis: 4000 speed dates 560 participants roughly 7 speed dates per paticipant 4 minutes each Wow that's a full half hour of research. NEARLY! " If this is what women are using as research results then God help them in their search for compatible like minded men lol | |||
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"Breaking news - the average bloke is more shallow when selecting his shag! Surely there has been a misunderstanding.....? " Glad I'm not average | |||
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