FabSwingers.com forum: Been recognised again!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've had to hide my profile yet again, because some shoe horns recognised me!

I don't have any face photos on apart from friends and I'm very selective with them.

My bloody postman who I went to school with recognised me yesterday, well he's told this other lad I went to school with, and he's messaged me on Facebook.

Scared to death of it coming out in my town now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell the postman to mind his own business and youre a big girl now and do exactly as you please,if he knows youre on here then he's on here to,you dont have to answer to anyone just yourself,hate nosey busy bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself a big dog as as he walks down your path let the fucking dog out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't people just keep quiet...

It's happened to me and I disappeared for a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had to hide my profile yet again, because some shoe horns recognised me!

I don't have any face photos on apart from friends and I'm very selective with them.

My bloody postman who I went to school with recognised me yesterday, well he's told this other lad I went to school with, and he's messaged me on Facebook.

Scared to death of it coming out in my town now

How did he recognise you without face pics? I would have just played ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My stomach tattoos on my Facebook

And I said I know you when he said I was fit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My stomach tattoos on my Facebook

And I said I know you when he said I was fit lol

Ha ha...yet you still have your tattoo on display??...doesn't strike me as someone who is scared of anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My stomach tattoos on my Facebook

And I said I know you when he said I was fit lol

Ha ha...yet you still have your tattoo on display??...doesn't strike me as someone who is scared of anything."

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

My post always comes at stupid non recurrent times. Those trolley things they use are quite nifty though.

If you're worried OP, just hide for a while and plead ignorance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he tells another person tell him you'll start saying someone saw him on Fab Guys

If he's straight then that'll make him think twice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a lady from here in Morrisons, I didnt aproach her, just messaged her bt mail on here lol

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By *ongueTied40Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've only seen one person on here that I've known. I just don't see the point in telling anyone? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My stomach tattoos on my Facebook

And I said I know you when he said I was fit lol

Ha ha...yet you still have your tattoo on display??...doesn't strike me as someone who is scared of anything."

that actual photos not on my Facebook

I've messaged him back telling him I'll tell his mum coz were good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't understand the word 'privacy' and respect of other's personal space.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this postman's going to ring twice!! Twat!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Some people have a different way of looking at things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just trying to think who's fault this situation is......erm,erm......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"run tooo the hilllls, run for your liiiiffee!" (to the tune of the iron maiden song) lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd recognise you from your avatar if I knew you.

The fault lies firmly with the person who can't keep their mouth shut but you do still have a face picture on display even if your eyes are missing.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I've messaged him back telling him I'll tell his mum coz were good friends

*shakes head in disbielvement at such a "Look at me" thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My stomach tattoos on my Facebook

And I said I know you when he said I was fit lol

Ha ha...yet you still have your tattoo on display??...doesn't strike me as someone who is scared of anything.

that actual photos not on my Facebook

I've messaged him back telling him I'll tell his mum coz were good friends

No but you said he recognised you on fb from your tattoo...you've obviously changed avatar to something that would also be identifiable as you to anyone that knows you. Hence my comment. The guy is obviously in the wrong, but you aren't helping the situation.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I've got face pics on show and it's never happened to me.

I presume it's probably because i people guess I've got nothing to hide by showing them so it's would be less of a lick for them to "out" me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not your fault that people are indiscreet but you need to weigh up posting pics that are recognisble to attract others on here.

You do have a unique look

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I've got face pics on show and it's never happened to me.

I presume it's probably because i people guess I've got nothing to hide by showing them so it's would be less of a lick for them to "out" me "

I wouldn't mind getting in you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH what happens on fab should stay on fab IMO ...

As a postman this person should know all about discretion surely? If he says anything about telling anyone just remind him he is also on here... I doubt the Royal Mail would look kindly on that fact

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I've got face pics on show and it's never happened to me.

I presume it's probably because i people guess I've got nothing to hide by showing them so it's would be less of a lick for them to "out" me

I wouldn't mind getting in you though

. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's ridiculous we are all entitled to a personal life and confidentialy. Shame people have to open their big mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep gettin messages saying we're you in such n such a place recently. Prob is tho I attually agrophobic so I don't go out very often. I must have a dopple ganger in rhyl

poor girl will be gettin paranoid by now cos of these randoms staring at her.

xxx

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

To "Out" you he would also be "Outed" So ask if he's married on a relationship & whether they know he's on Fab?

We went the opposite way because of H's hair, stick your face pics up, no one one can "out" what's already "out" & common knowledge amongst friends & direct family..

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

If anyone doesn't want recognising in public, wanting to keep their naughty habit discrete then dont put face pics on the public galley. Sadly some people are on the site to suss out anyone local to them and once they have varied games & sketches can be played.

If you put full size hidden pics as that small square profile pic remember with a bit of magic they can be seen full size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got reqognised for the first time this morning at work and it was fun, she works just about 20 metres from me, she came up to me and we was chatting about fab and the forum and we both have been here long time.

It makes you wonder how many more that we dont know yet who are on this site, that are really close

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"If anyone doesn't want recognising in public, wanting to keep their naughty habit discrete then dont put face pics on the public galley. Sadly some people are on the site to suss out anyone local to them and once they have varied games & sketches can be played.

If you put full size hidden pics as that small square profile pic remember with a bit of magic they can be seen full size."

All the while peeps on here see this as "Their naughty habit" it'll never change..That phrase or anything close to iy fck's me off big time tbh with you

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"I got reqognised for the first time this morning at work and it was fun, she works just about 20 metres from me, she came up to me and we was chatting about fab and the forum and we both have been here long time.

It makes you wonder how many more that we dont know yet who are on this site, that are really close

Did you offer her some haribo mate

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im always getting recognised. some guy started chatting to me in tesco the other week. Not ad dodgey as it sounds as he has mesdaged me lots to say hes seen me around and id said it was ok for him to say hello the next time he saw me. If you have something recognizable on your profile you can hardly be surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes you wonder how many more that we dont know yet who are on this site, that are really close

Did you offer her some haribo mate

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I didnt have any pal, but I will give her some haribos next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of this makes any sense , just what!

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I must be misunderstanding what is being pissed and moaned about ; a mutual friend of yours has told you his friend; your postman has recognised you from here? .. 'Cause if that's the case then I don't see what the postman has done wrong surly the mutual friend is the one who has betrayed the confidence of both you and the postman ... Is the postman not going to see this post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone recognised me. He has never seen me half naked and I have no face pics on here. How in hell did he know it's me? Beats me but I don't care

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dramarama.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've messaged him back telling him I'll tell his mum coz were good friends

*shakes head in disbielvement at such a "Look at me" thread

Yes! Please look at me! That's why my profile is hidden

And yes it's obviously my fault isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dramarama."

*drama lama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dramarama.

*drama lama "

Llama llama, red pyjama.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dramarama.

*drama lama

Llama llama, red pyjama....."

I knew I'd spelt llama wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest annoyance is when someone has no public pictures on their profile and they message saying they know you and use your name but won't say who they are. Puts me off having face pictures public now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get yourself a big dog as as he walks down your path let the fucking dog out"

Love it!

Betty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair you have half your face as your avatar.I would possibly recognise you I you lived close.However I wouldn't message you through another site to tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair you have half your face as your avatar.I would possibly recognise you I you lived close.However I wouldn't message you through another site to tell you."

Well exactly, being recognised is one thing but being harrased is another one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's my annoyance. Recognise me, fair enough, but then finding me on FB and pestering me is pathetic

This guy thinks because I'm here, I'll shag him and he's got more chance of plaiting fog

I've had someone turn up at my house because they worked out where I live from my name and work

Fab should stay fab. That's why I don't except friend requests unless I know them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My biggest annoyance is when someone has no public pictures on their profile and they message saying they know you and use your name but won't say who they are. Puts me off having face pictures public now. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy who invited me to spit-roast his mrs with him at my local club now attends my gym each morning.

We know that each other is who each other is, but just have the normal head tilt and nod greeting, same as anyone else, and nothing ever causes any issues, despite having shared a lady!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

OP .... why rise to the bait ....your an adult ....tell him to mind his own buisness ....your a big girl .....he is acting like a child .....if you feel he is blackmailing you ....or.bullying you , and your scared of him ....go to the local police and get it logged .....but personally ...I wouldn't worry ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP .... why rise to the bait ....your an adult ....tell him to mind his own buisness ....your a big girl .....he is acting like a child .....if you feel he is blackmailing you ....or.bullying you , and your scared of him ....go to the local police and get it logged .....but personally ...I wouldn't worry ....

I could have him in a fight to be honest

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I've had to hide my profile yet again, because some shoe horns recognised me!

I don't have any face photos on apart from friends and I'm very selective with them.

My bloody postman who I went to school with recognised me yesterday, well he's told this other lad I went to school with, and he's messaged me on Facebook.

Scared to death of it coming out in my town now

I keep my private life just that.. I would expect those I meet and chat to to do the same , sadly those who wish to gossip will always gossip , I've no identifying tattoos or similar if yours are that unique I'd be obscuring them in your pictures... my face is on public for a bit normally it's in friends or private.

I keep faceache locked down as it's very very invasive ..

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We have had people chatting to us in Tesco before because they recognised us.

People in glass houses can't throw stones as they would only have spotted you on here if they are members of trawling thru looking for people themselves.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"We have had people chatting to us in Tesco before because they recognised us.

People in glass houses can't throw stones as they would only have spotted you on here if they are members of trawling thru looking for people themselves.

Should say or not of bloody predictive text lol.

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

If you put full size hidden pics as that small square profile pic remember with a bit of magic they can be seen full size.

All the while peeps on here see this as "Their naughty habit" it'll never change..That phrase or anything close to iy fck's me off big time tbh with you

I never mentioned 'it'll never change'. The point was if people dont want recognising for whatever you want to call it (lets call it swinging

) then dont put your face pics up. Apply discretion it's as simple as.

Sadly as sex is involved it attracts some strange people & oddbods. People who will do one or more of the many strange things they sometimes do when sussing out who the local swingers are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dramarama.

*drama lama

Llama llama, red pyjama.....

I knew I'd spelt llama wrong

....can't get the llama song outta my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have had people chatting to us in Tesco before because they recognised us.

People in glass houses can't throw stones as they would only have spotted you on here if they are members of trawling thru looking for people themselves.

Anyone can start a rumour and not be identified as the source

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can always say you turned down his advances so he's just telling people shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just trying to think who's fault this situation is......erm,erm......

It's always the man's fault.

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