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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?" I hope you told him in a nice way The tight bastard | |||
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"Travel and take the costs on the chin! If you can't afford to travel to a meet then stay at home and wank!" Haha love that!! | |||
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"I went to meet a guy recently (not off this site, I already knew him)...He offered me petrol money, I told him not to be daft (it was only about 9 miles) and he gave me two big bars of galaxy....I felt like a winner that night. " That is awesome. | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance? I hope you told him in a nice way The tight bastard" would take bout 45 mins to get to mine | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?" The cheeky sod. | |||
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"I drove an hour ish at the weekend to get to a social night and don't expect everyone there to chip in for my petrol costs it cost me around £10 for about 110 mile round trip, what the hell is he driving that he can't cover the costs on his own?? " 45 min to mine | |||
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"To be honest if I was asking for help towards travel costs I would seriously have a good look at my life and try and fix that before looking for long distance meets" | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance? I hope you told him in a nice way The tight bastardwould take bout 45 mins to get to mine " Omg...I would never ask that, its so crass and you should seriously take a look at yourself if you'd even consider it. . | |||
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"I always offer and alway get declined. Wouldn't be impressed if a guy asked though " you offer petrol money? | |||
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"To be honest if I was asking for help towards travel costs I would seriously have a good look at my life and try and fix that before looking for long distance meets" Totally agree!! I'm shocked tbh at the meer thought | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?" No way it would be my choice to travel to you so my responsibility to make sure I can afford the trip .same with drinks on a social I pay hotels I pay to but I have gone Dutch on a few occasion when the woman involved insisted. | |||
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"If a meet travelled to me I'd feed him but wouldn't pay his petrol money! I've met at least 50 people over the last 5 years that are adamant I'm fake and I've said right I'll meet you by KFC by the pines (it's right next to the m4) I say when I get there and prove I'm the person in the pictures you can buy me a fully loaded box meal. It's a good way to get a free KFC! " Haha. I think I might try that | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?" No | |||
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"I always offer and alway get declined. Wouldn't be impressed if a guy asked though you offer petrol money?" As I don't drive the guy I've been seeing for months tends to pick me up half way. Offered petrol money so many so many times and he would never except. I'm a single mum who likes to earn money and pay her way, I understand I don't earn a huge amount but I'm so used to paying for everything. | |||
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"I love how it autocorrected to petroleum, makes me sound ever so posh " I am gutted you admitted that was a mistake I thought that was so retro! | |||
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"I would only ask someone to chip in for petrol if I was giving them a lift somewhere." This or if you've planned a day out together and share the costs. | |||
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"I would just drive there and back and not ask for money towards expenses. " That's me... | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?" you might as well ask if they can lend you £20 and nip you to ASDA when they get there. Asking for petrol money = do not meet me. What happened to decorum??? | |||
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"A friend was setting up a meet with a single fem, (they were a couple). First the fem asked for travel money, and they agreed. Then she asked for food money, or at least a takeaway when she got there.. after a conflab, they agreed. Then she asked for a specific bottle of drink to be available, and they thought, hey, why not. Then she asked for babysitting money for the whole night, as she was supposed to be staying over.......... suffice to say they told her not to bother lol! " ive heard guys say women have actually asked for babysitting money | |||
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"A friend was setting up a meet with a single fem, (they were a couple). First the fem asked for travel money, and they agreed. Then she asked for food money, or at least a takeaway when she got there.. after a conflab, they agreed. Then she asked for a specific bottle of drink to be available, and they thought, hey, why not. Then she asked for babysitting money for the whole night, as she was supposed to be staying over.......... suffice to say they told her not to bother lol! ive heard guys say women have actually asked for babysitting money " outrageous! | |||
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"I love how it autocorrected to petroleum, makes me sound ever so posh I am gutted you admitted that was a mistake I thought that was so retro! " retro is good (as long as you don't just mean old lol) | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?" WTF!!? No way! | |||
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"I'd share the cost of a hotel but not the travel. I can't exactly claim fab meets back on expenses. " Hahaha I would love to read hat justification if you tried! | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?" Have a wank and buy some beer. | |||
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"A friend was setting up a meet with a single fem, (they were a couple). First the fem asked for travel money, and they agreed. Then she asked for food money, or at least a takeaway when she got there.. after a conflab, they agreed. Then she asked for a specific bottle of drink to be available, and they thought, hey, why not. Then she asked for babysitting money for the whole night, as she was supposed to be staying over.......... suffice to say they told her not to bother lol! " What is wrong with some people? | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?" he wants you to host him, shag him and put fuel in his car id tell him to stay at home and fuck himself lol | |||
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"If a meet travelled to me I'd feed him but wouldn't pay his petrol money! I've met at least 50 people over the last 5 years that are adamant I'm fake and I've said right I'll meet you by KFC by the pines (it's right next to the m4) I say when I get there and prove I'm the person in the pictures you can buy me a fully loaded box meal. It's a good way to get a free KFC! " I could go a KFC right now. Ill meet you there, ill cover my own travel costs | |||
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" Conflab... Best slang word on this thread. " Enlighten me. What does Conflab mean? | |||
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" Conflab... Best slang word on this thread. " I used it with the children this week and they thought I'd made it up. I had to explain the etymology (confabulation) and then I got confused when they asked, Why is it 'flab' then? | |||
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" Conflab... Best slang word on this thread. Enlighten me. What does Conflab mean? " Quick chat/discussion. The root is to chat/talk together/tell a tale. | |||
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"You tight Scottish get! " I'm not tight fisted though I enjoy fisting tight lasses | |||
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" Conflab... Best slang word on this thread. I used it with the children this week and they thought I'd made it up. I had to explain the etymology (confabulation) and then I got confused when they asked, Why is it 'flab' then? " I use it all the time at work! | |||
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"Out of hours charge? Just imagine the cost if he came after midnight. ..dear God!" Gimme gimme gimme a man after midnight... When you say 'came' do you mean arrive or 'arrive'? | |||
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"Out of hours charge? Just imagine the cost if he came after midnight. ..dear God! Gimme gimme gimme a man after midnight... When you say 'came' do you mean arrive or 'arrive'? " | |||
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"I've never been asked to contribute towards travel expenses and I've had guys drive from the other end of the country to meet me. Equally I always provide an upmarket hotel room for meets and don't ask for any form of payment. Sounds like you just got a chancer OP " Definitely a chancer and well said. I've never been asked to contribute, however equally bad I had one meet 'clearly state during meet' that he travelled an hour to meet me - which was more than his 20 mile limit, but he said he wanted to meet me - despite me paying willingly for hotel, sitter and driving 45 minutes myself to meeting point. Needless to say what happened to him, and thinking about it afterwards just made me feel cheap. Lesson learned here too | |||
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"I've never been asked to contribute towards travel expenses and I've had guys drive from the other end of the country to meet me. Equally I always provide an upmarket hotel room for meets and don't ask for any form of payment. Sounds like you just got a chancer OP Definitely a chancer and well said. I've never been asked to contribute, however equally bad I had one meet 'clearly state during meet' that he travelled an hour to meet me - which was more than his 20 mile limit, but he said he wanted to meet me - despite me paying willingly for hotel, sitter and driving 45 minutes myself to meeting point. Needless to say what happened to him, and thinking about it afterwards just made me feel cheap. Lesson learned here too " Wonder what his take on that evening is? | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance?" No way. It would be down to him to cover the costs. Unless you pre-arranged some fancy / swanky / expensive hotel, then maybe !!! Just maybe you should chip in too. I'm a bit old fashioned and I always pay. | |||
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"To be honest if I was asking for help towards travel costs I would seriously have a good look at my life and try and fix that before looking for long distance meets" *laughs*. Best answer on here the only person putting money into their car should be only them They obv cant afford to run the car just one of them people that stay on red light and dont come off it | |||
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"Would you ask a meet to chip in regarding petrol money? I have been asked and declined. The guy told me it would take an hour to get here.So guys what would you do if you had to travel a distance? I hope you told him in a nice way The tight bastard" | |||
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"Yes I would insest, if they had come a long way. Or I'd buy the drinks, personally I think there's gonna be a bit of give and take." i completly agree with the give and take and sharing. If someone has travelled to me i make it nice for them but if they cant afford to put petrol in the car they shouldnt be travelling. In fact the reason i want to make sure everything is nice and i appreciate they have travelled. Nothing to do with the cost of the petrol | |||
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"I've offered people petrol money, and made them take it as I don't drive or accommodate so they pick me up and bring me home but never been asked. " thats different though | |||
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"I've offered people petrol money, and made them take it as I don't drive or accommodate so they pick me up and bring me home but never been asked. " Exactly what happend with me but still felt bad for taking it | |||
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"Did he come from Yorkshire.... " Oi you! | |||
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