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By *eansayian OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

i dont get it at all! i get more sexual offers on legit dating sites than i do on here! its bizarre. granted i dont have much of a profile, but my profile doesnt get looked at anyway! i dont have much of a profile on the normal dating sites either but ive still been offered sex quite a few times, even straight off that bat a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont get it at all! i get more sexual offers on legit dating sites than i do on here! its bizarre. granted i dont have much of a profile, but my profile doesnt get looked at anyway! i dont have much of a profile on the normal dating sites either but ive still been offered sex quite a few times, even straight off that bat a few times. "

Don't forget people may be looking in Ninja mode, so you won't see that they've been looking.

Men also out-number women massively, make yourself stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not alone, it's simple really lots of guys looking at few ladies and couples.

Just the way it go's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you've made zero effort on a site with thousands of single men but your going to whine about not getting meets instead of putting effort in. You don't know that people don't look at your profile. There is the option not to show up on the who's viewed you option, for single ladies showing up on that means messages from the profiles looked at even though we've decided not to message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read my post on the swingers chat forum

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"i dont get it at all! i get more sexual offers on legit dating sites than i do on here! its bizarre. granted i dont have much of a profile, but my profile doesnt get looked at anyway! i dont have much of a profile on the normal dating sites either but ive still been offered sex quite a few times, even straight off that bat a few times. "

If I were you I'd stick to the dating sites then

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"i dont get it at all! i get more sexual offers on legit dating sites than i do on here! its bizarre. granted i dont have much of a profile, but my profile doesnt get looked at anyway! i dont have much of a profile on the normal dating sites either but ive still been offered sex quite a few times, even straight off that bat a few times.

If I were you I'd stick to the dating sites then "

Stop it ..using that sort of logic.. that'd be waaaaaay too easy.

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By *eansayian OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

didnt realise you could hide your profile. im a dumb ass sometimes! even so though i swear some of my messages get deleted before there even sent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll find that the way it is me mate.

If your hoping to find sex on here you might luckily stumble across it.. Theres so mamy lads lookin they can choose the best of the rest.

The ladies an couples need to be stimulated mentally with a good profile. Look at the blokes who"ve had lots of meets, am sure there profiles will give yeh some good pointers

Am here for the chat an forums not looking for meets, tho I wouldn't mind a social.

Hang in there you never no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so why not make more of an effort

if things are that bad, leave and concentrate on the 'dating' site

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"so why not make more of an effort

if things are that bad, leave and concentrate on the 'dating' site "

What she said

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

So because you dont make an effort on there you thought you wouldnt make an effort on here then complain your lack of effort isnt getting the results you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so why not make more of an effort

if things are that bad, leave and concentrate on the 'dating' site

What she said

"

What she said and she agreed with

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"i dont get it at all! i get more sexual offers on legit dating sites than i do on here! its bizarre. granted i dont have much of a profile, but my profile doesnt get looked at anyway! i dont have much of a profile on the normal dating sites either but ive still been offered sex quite a few times, even straight off that bat a few times. "

is the dating site one where you pay if the answer is yes .

then there's your answer you see very few men like to spend money when it come to that sort of thing this means a lot of pay to be there dating site have a shortage of men to woman.

where as on this kind of site its way way the other way round lots more men than woman or couples .

this fact means you cant get away with being lazy you need a good profile you need to write a good opening message or your just going to get over looked .

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By *eansayian OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"So because you dont make an effort on there you thought you wouldnt make an effort on here then complain your lack of effort isnt getting the results you want"

does it really make that much of a difference to women then what is written on your profile?? to the point where..say they might like the look of you? but you dont get a reply because of lack of profile!?? to me if you like the look of them, why not try and get to know them, what theyre into ect through messages? i guess i know what your answer will be, so i better get my lazy ass writing!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"i dont get it at all! i get more sexual offers on legit dating sites than i do on here! its bizarre. granted i dont have much of a profile, but my profile doesnt get looked at anyway! i dont have much of a profile on the normal dating sites either but ive still been offered sex quite a few times, even straight off that bat a few times. "

Maybe the women here are more selective...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So because you dont make an effort on there you thought you wouldnt make an effort on here then complain your lack of effort isnt getting the results you want

does it really make that much of a difference to women then what is written on your profile?? to the point where..say they might like the look of you? but you dont get a reply because of lack of profile!?? to me if you like the look of them, why not try and get to know them, what theyre into ect through messages? i guess i know what your answer will be, so i better get my lazy ass writing! "

The lack of a profile suggests that you think your body and cock is enough. That attitude is pretty unattractive.

Your current lack of effort isn't working, you admit that. so stick to sites where it does work or change your approach on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

does it really make that much of a difference to women then what is written on your profile??"

Yes it makes a difference, trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of women, and men who are into casual vanilla sex, but would never join a swingers site.

If all you are looking for is there, then why are you here? answer that and put it in your profile, and you may find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd message you purely on your pics, I'm shallow lol

But your too far away!!!

I'd have been happy to chat and if I didn't like you then I'd tell you so.

Effort cuts both ways!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op don't give up on this site because from your answers on this thread I can see you have a nice n fun personally that goes along way on here.

Write a pro n let yourself shine thro like you have on here. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Virtually! Or do you mean literally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So because you dont make an effort on there you thought you wouldnt make an effort on here then complain your lack of effort isnt getting the results you want

does it really make that much of a difference to women then what is written on your profile?? to the point where..say they might like the look of you? but you dont get a reply because of lack of profile!?? to me if you like the look of them, why not try and get to know them, what theyre into ect through messages? i guess i know what your answer will be, so i better get my lazy ass writing! "

yeah it makes a differen. i want to talk to, then meet, guys i'm compatible with.

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