FabSwingers.com forum: dont be so needy its a put off

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i have been talking to a few peaple on here and we all agree that needy meet me today kinda peaple are a huge put off/turn off just intrested in what every one thinks thanks x

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"i have been talking to a few peaple on here and we all agree that needy meet me today kinda peaple are a huge put off/turn off just intrested in what every one thinks thanks x"

Why are 'meet me today' people needy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what do you class as 'needy'

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I hate it when guys send me a message then another to ask why I hadn't read it, have I hone off them etc etc

Also those that don't realise that real life comes before fab life!

And married men that get impatient cos I annotations free when that are and start moaning!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

peaple that dont even talk to you to see what your like and just want to meet for fun straight away

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you are in the infancy of your swinging life... don't let it ever bother you.

just go with the flow, laugh, have fun... and never take it too seriously.

the needy really amuse me.. and the thought of sex with them constantly bleating and bleating... reaffirms a self wank is good at times.

and as for the ones who will go thro your wallet.. NO COMMENT

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"peaple that dont even talk to you to see what your like and just want to meet for fun straight away "

I'd say that's quite the opposite of needy.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"i have been talking to a few peaple on here and we all agree that needy meet me today kinda peaple are a huge put off/turn off just intrested in what every one thinks thanks x"

4 weeks in and making grossly generalising inaccurate statements... woohoo!!! go you!!!

people may just have the say the day off for example... who are you to be sumising peoples intentions...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

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and as for the ones who will go thro your wallet.. NO COMMENT

I told you I was looking for a condom and the money just fell out

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"i have been talking to a few peaple on here and we all agree that needy meet me today kinda peaple are a huge put off/turn off just intrested in what every one thinks thanks x

4 weeks in and making grossly generalising inaccurate statements... woohoo!!! go you!!!

people may just have the say the day off for example... who are you to be sumising peoples intentions...

Fabio!!! Play nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabio!!! Play nice

perhaps he is marking his territory,like the lion,watching over his pride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have been talking to a few peaple on here and we all agree that needy meet me today kinda peaple are a huge put off/turn off just intrested in what every one thinks thanks x"

For some people the meet today IS the actual thrill, a close encounter with a stranger..... sometimes not even asking for names, just meet me fuck me and fuck off type of scenario.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Fabio!!! Play nice

perhaps he is marking his territory,like the lion,watching over his pride

nah... i just can't be arsed with people making silly comments and call em out on it....

damn.. that reminds me.. missed the 2nd part of that living with lions documentry on bbc2... god i am going to be on the fecking iplayer all day.....

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

it may well be the people have hectic life and seldom free so only come on when they are able to play .

theres people who like to just meet up and get to know person face to face and see how things progress.there are others who want to get to know people first and strike up common ground and interests . some want one off meets ,others regular meets . point is THERE IS NO RIGHT OR WRONG WAY . if what you do works for you then great ! if they get meets straight off then cool ! if you dont want straight off meets then thats cool too lol !

id just focus on what you do and are happy with not what others may or may not do . if they dont respect your choice not to do last minute meets then all theyve dont is prove they arent type of person youd want to meet anyway !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people that dont even talk to you to see what your like and just want to meet for fun straight away "

When we have spur of the moment meets we dont want to waste time with endless chit chat, we both work and have kids so dont have much time for swinging anymore..That does not make us needy

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

There is nothing wrong with wanting a meet right here right now and asking for it on the meet today section.

In fact, it can be really horny

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"There is nothing wrong with wanting a meet right here right now and asking for it on the meet today section.

In fact, it can be really horny

*casual voice* So, er, what you doin' now then Ruggers?

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"peaple that dont even talk to you to see what your like and just want to meet for fun straight away "

Wow ive met hell of lot of needy people mmmmm pehaps i will send a few your way there answer would no thanks not everybody wants to become best friends

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

ive also just thought .by ops thinking

person wants meet straight away = needy . well people who use clubs must inturn, be needy lol !

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm officially needy

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I'm officially needy

In needy of some better fitting shoes.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'm officially needy

In needy of some better fitting shoes."

polo can i put avtar back on please

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I'm officially needy

In needy of some better fitting shoes."

I have new ones on today I'll have you know.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"I'm officially needy

In needy of some better fitting shoes.

polo can i put avtar back on please

Can you do a chicken or an elephant this time please?

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'm officially needy

In needy of some better fitting shoes.

polo can i put avtar back on please

Can you do a chicken or an elephant this time please?

you be careful the things you can do with photoshop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring Back the Pig! I haven't stopped laughing yet

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I'm officially needy

In needy of some better fitting shoes.

polo can i put avtar back on please

Which? The Peppa Pig one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ....forgot the O.P.

Needy!! Bloody rich coming from someone who is a serial moaning thread starter.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Bring Back the Pig! I haven't stopped laughing yet"

I have to agree.... bring back Snouty!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"There is nothing wrong with wanting a meet right here right now and asking for it on the meet today section.

In fact, it can be really horny

*casual voice* So, er, what you doin' now then Ruggers?

Hoovering

Not very horny huh

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Hoovering

Not very horny huh

hoovering in the nude????

ooh.. get "henry" all excited

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i find alot of you funny the furom is a place to share your _iews and just because i put some thing you dont like rather then saying ok fair enough and moving on you feel you have got to say something well sorry for having a opinion and bring back the pig if you do not know me dont jugde me thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wonder why folk tend to swear a lot on here n seam 2 get away with it

strange

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

" if you do not know me dont jugde me thanks"

actually the irony of that last line.. in relation to your opening post.....

so its okay for you to make judgements and statements on others... and yet, people answer you back and you get defensive...

please don't play the "victim" here... you are doing proper victims a disservice!

you are the one who made the opening statement, you are the one who got called out on those generalisations as "total pish"...thats the way the foums work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

coz we can Rocker.

btw am needy and often say meet me today

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"wonder why folk tend to swear a lot on here n seam 2 get away with it

strange "

peaple swear because they dont have the words so swear insted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" if you do not know me dont jugde me thanks

actually the irony of that last line.. in relation to your opening post.....

so its okay for you to make judgements and statements on others... and yet, people answer you back and you get defensive...

please don't play the "victim" here... you are doing proper victims a disservice!

you are the one who made the opening statement, you are the one who got called out on those generalisations as "total pish"...thats the way the foums work!

ah fab you ok hun, do yer want a nice back rub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wonder why folk tend to swear a lot on here n seam 2 get away with it

strange

peaple swear because they dont have the words so swear insted "

not in my case. i only just started to start saying the word Twat when I come on here on a bi sexual profile....the word just slips off my tongue...twat that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"coz we can Rocker.

btw am needy and often say meet me today

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why do you want 2 swear then its beyond me

as the title says

its a total turn off

they get block if they mail me who swears in the mail an get reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can never win, if you want to meet today your needy if you want to take your time your a time waster the mind boggles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i find alot of you funny the furom is a place to share your _iews and just because i put some thing you dont like rather then saying ok fair enough and moving on you feel you have got to say something well sorry for having a opinion and bring back the pig if you do not know me dont jugde me thanks"

It's called irony.

People LIKE you having an opinion.

They invest sufficient emotion and time to respond to you.

You complain.

YOU do not like THEM having opinions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i dont need to get like that and i aint playing that way its a web site peaple seem to forget that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"coz we can Rocker.

btw am needy and often say meet me today

why do you want 2 swear then its beyond me

as the title says

its a total turn off

they get block if they mail me who swears in the mail an get reported"

erm the title of thread was "dont be so needy its a put off"

and as I haven't mailed you, I haven't as yet swore at you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"coz we can Rocker.

btw am needy and often say meet me today

why do you want 2 swear then its beyond me

as the title says

its a total turn off

they get block if they mail me who swears in the mail an get reported

erm the title of thread was "dont be so needy its a put off"

and as I haven't mailed you, I haven't as yet swore at you.

"
was i meaning you

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

pops in

reacquaints myself with the thread..

pops back out to catch the last few minutes of Loose Woman..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"coz we can Rocker.

btw am needy and often say meet me today

why do you want 2 swear then its beyond me

as the title says

its a total turn off

they get block if they mail me who swears in the mail an get reported"

Seriously ? I'm interested. You report people for swearing ?

I'm sitting up eagerly now. For swearing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"coz we can Rocker.

btw am needy and often say meet me today

why do you want 2 swear then its beyond me

as the title says

its a total turn off

they get block if they mail me who swears in the mail an get reported

Seriously ? I'm interested. You report people for swearing ?

I'm sitting up eagerly now. For swearing?"

I call people a twat as a term of endearment, they tend to still want to meet and dont report me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"coz we can Rocker.

btw am needy and often say meet me today

why do you want 2 swear then its beyond me

as the title says

its a total turn off

they get block if they mail me who swears in the mail an get reported

Seriously ? I'm interested. You report people for swearing ?

I'm sitting up eagerly now. For swearing?"
o good god what is wrong with you lot

this is adult site

not a wains site got a grip

if you wanna fight

fight with some 1 else as i am not really interested,

i can speak out when i please an always within reason

but if any 1 takes a tone at me will be reported

not here 2 fight with any 1 here 2 meet folk for fun

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"wonder why folk tend to swear a lot on here n seam 2 get away with it

strange "

Swearing isn't against the rules.

Swearing AT someone is.

I wonder why people like to have digs all the time, especially when they THINK they are right.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok posts have been removed.

If you tell people to fuck off, with or without smilies you are likely to be banned from posting.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"i have been talking to a few peaple on here and we all agree that needy meet me today kinda peaple are a huge put off/turn off just intrested in what every one thinks thanks x"

Needy? My thoughts are that it's not needy to want to meet today. People swing in all sorts of ways. You just need to find a way that works for you. There's no need to criticise the way other people do things.

In my _iew... needy is when someone won't leave you alone, or when they're pissed off that you're seeing other people, or that you're not paying them enough attention and they get all huffy. I hope you don't experience that!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

ah fab you ok hun, do yer want a nice back rub

I am cool hun... I'll have the back rub if it is going....

I am waiting to see how the OP is going to try and twist his way out of this one.... and for someone who has only been here 4 weeks, those are some mighty big generalisations...

anyway since i am on the meet today list, and therefore "needy" ..fancy a shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok posts have been removed.

If you tell people to fuck off, with or without smilies you are likely to be banned from posting."

Was a joke but difference noted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah fab you ok hun, do yer want a nice back rub

I am cool hun... I'll have the back rub if it is going....

I am waiting to see how the OP is going to try and twist his way out of this one.... and for someone who has only been here 4 weeks, those are some mighty big generalisations...

anyway since i am on the meet today list, and therefore "needy" ..fancy a shag!"

im needy can i have one please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah fab you ok hun, do yer want a nice back rub

I am cool hun... I'll have the back rub if it is going....

I am waiting to see how the OP is going to try and twist his way out of this one.... and for someone who has only been here 4 weeks, those are some mighty big generalisations...

anyway since i am on the meet today list, and therefore "needy" ..fancy a shag!"

Ah Fabs anytime sweetheart, bending over ready as we speak

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I think twat has less meaning in the north of England. As Puss says we say it as a cheeky term of endearment but I've noticed when I call people further south a twat they raise their eyes a lot. (in real life)

As for swearing or not swearing it's up to that person what they write and up to the reader to determine if it's offensive.

It's all cunting relative really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok posts have been removed.

If you tell people to fuck off, with or without smilies you are likely to be banned from posting.

Was a joke but difference noted.

I was only saying that I wont swear at him coz he aint funny

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If you don't like peoples posts, ignore them.

If you don't want people to disagree with you, don't start threads.

If you are implying that mods let people " get away with things" then use the CONTACT button on the bottom of the page and send your complaint there, don't keep making snide remarks on here instead.

Thread closed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses.

The meet today element of the site will never appeal to me. Neither will clubs or dogging. Just because I don't like it it doesn't mean others that do are "needy".

I don't understand why some people feel the need to question and comment on how other people conduct THEIR sexual lives!

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