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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I wrong in thinking meeting new people is what Fabswingers is mainly about along with chat etc , but all that cyber stuff is not for me. So I am only here for the meet aspect but recently have come across so many letdowns.

Why do some go all cold when you mention

'Lets meet'?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Am I wrong in thinking meeting new people is what Fabswingers is mainly about along with chat etc , but all that cyber stuff is not for me. So I am only here for the meet aspect but recently have come across so many letdowns.

Why do some go all cold when you mention

'Lets meet'?

"

maybe its a case of where "lets meet" becomes "being pushy" in there eyes...

as a single bloke, and with all people I let them suggest the "lets meet" stuff, that way I am more happy they are comfortable with the idea of meeting....

does it mean I probably miss out on meets because I am not as forward as others... sure...

does it mean that less people "go cold"... probably....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're having a bit of a tough old time aren't you?!!

How are you going about your selection of potential meets? i ask because there has to come a point when you can't blame the other person all the time, you need to take stock of how you go about things.

All that glistens and all that...just a thought!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Am I wrong in thinking meeting new people is what Fabswingers is mainly about along with chat etc , but all that cyber stuff is not for me. So I am only here for the meet aspect but recently have come across so many letdowns.

Why do some go all cold when you mention

'Lets meet'?

"

I can only guess because they don't want to meet you.

You're better off asking them why.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I wear them down with a constant barrage of wit and bum pics before subtly suggesting they might want to touch my winky.

Works every time.

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Okay, nearly every time...

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Well, on occasion...

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er....

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Am I wrong in thinking meeting new people is what Fabswingers is mainly about along with chat etc , but all that cyber stuff is not for me. So I am only here for the meet aspect but recently have come across so many letdowns.

Why do some go all cold when you mention

'Lets meet'?

maybe its a case of where "lets meet" becomes "being pushy" in there eyes...

as a single bloke, and with all people I let them suggest the "lets meet" stuff, that way I am more happy they are comfortable with the idea of meeting....

does it mean I probably miss out on meets because I am not as forward as others... sure...

does it mean that less people "go cold"... probably....

"

Nods in agreement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear them down with a constant barrage of wit and bum pics before subtly suggesting they might want to touch my winky.

Works every time.

.

.

Okay, nearly every time...

.

.

Well, on occasion...

.

.

er.... "

*Giggles"...oh...you!

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire


"All that glistens and all that...just a thought!"

"All that GLISTERS..."

Just sayin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All that glistens and all that...just a thought!

"All that GLISTERS..."

Just sayin' "

Thanks for pointing that out...oh pedantic one!

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By *heAddamsCouple
over a year ago

corbridge


"maybe its a case of where "lets meet" becomes "being pushy" in there eyes...

"

That is spot on Fabio.

We need to be happy that the person or persons we are going to meet are right for us, and that may involve a few emails, and then a meet for a drink, long before we get near the bedroom.

Hence why the "fancy a shag?" messages get deleted....

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"All that glistens and all that...just a thought!

"All that GLISTERS..."

Just sayin'

Thanks for pointing that out...oh pedantic one! "

Surely that's ...you pedant...

Just sayin'

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"

Hence why the "fancy a shag?" messages get deleted.... "

Mine don't!!!! I print them off and put them in my swinging shrine for all eternity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All that glistens and all that...just a thought!

"All that GLISTERS..."

Just sayin'

Thanks for pointing that out...oh pedantic one!

Surely that's ...you pedant...

Just sayin' "

Oooh don't you start!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The day I only have 3 words like Fancy a shag to type in a message , I will hang my head in shame and leave fabswingers. Some of us single males are a lot more refined.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"The day I only have 3 words like Fancy a shag to type in a message , I will hang my head in shame and leave fabswingers. Some of us single males are a lot more refined.

"

refined is fine if you have a full scrotum...

down and dirty is even better once emptied...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Are you doing a backdoor entry? No, I don’t mean anything to do with anal!

I mean instead of being direct about why you are contacting people, approaching them from a different angle and starting conversations about forum post, general questions and so on to get a foot in the door… then confusing conversation with sexual interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you doing a backdoor entry? No, I don’t mean anything to do with anal!

I mean instead of being direct about why you are contacting people, approaching them from a different angle and starting conversations about forum post, general questions and so on to get a foot in the door… then confusing conversation with sexual interest.

"

When I enter into email tennis it is with a _iew to sexual interest.I make that clear and would think that is the same for 99% others on this site, otherwise why would i be here.

Recent experience tells me I maybe wrong.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Are you doing a backdoor entry? No, I don’t mean anything to do with anal!

I mean instead of being direct about why you are contacting people, approaching them from a different angle and starting conversations about forum post, general questions and so on to get a foot in the door… then confusing conversation with sexual interest.

When I enter into email tennis it is with a _iew to sexual interest.I make that clear and would think that is the same for 99% others on this site, otherwise why would i be here.

Recent experience tells me I maybe wrong."

In that case it's a pretty safe bet it's down to how you ask to meet.

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By *heAddamsCouple
over a year ago

corbridge


"The day I only have 3 words like Fancy a shag to type in a message , I will hang my head in shame and leave fabswingers. Some of us single males are a lot more refined.

"

In the scheme of things the "fancy a shag?" messages have turned out to be actually quite well written.

That is compared to "wont 2 fuk", "u luk gud" and "am free now" opening messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you doing a backdoor entry? No, I don’t mean anything to do with anal!

I mean instead of being direct about why you are contacting people, approaching them from a different angle and starting conversations about forum post, general questions and so on to get a foot in the door… then confusing conversation with sexual interest.

When I enter into email tennis it is with a _iew to sexual interest.I make that clear and would think that is the same for 99% others on this site, otherwise why would i be here.

Recent experience tells me I maybe wrong.

In that case it's a pretty safe bet it's down to how you ask to meet."

Its usaully along the lines of

Would you like to meet ?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Are you doing a backdoor entry? No, I don’t mean anything to do with anal!

I mean instead of being direct about why you are contacting people, approaching them from a different angle and starting conversations about forum post, general questions and so on to get a foot in the door… then confusing conversation with sexual interest.

When I enter into email tennis it is with a _iew to sexual interest.I make that clear and would think that is the same for 99% others on this site, otherwise why would i be here.

Recent experience tells me I maybe wrong.

In that case it's a pretty safe bet it's down to how you ask to meet.

Its usaully along the lines of

Would you like to meet ?

"

Are you just waiting for someone to say "it's not you, it's everyone else" ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you doing a backdoor entry? No, I don’t mean anything to do with anal!

I mean instead of being direct about why you are contacting people, approaching them from a different angle and starting conversations about forum post, general questions and so on to get a foot in the door… then confusing conversation with sexual interest.

When I enter into email tennis it is with a _iew to sexual interest.I make that clear and would think that is the same for 99% others on this site, otherwise why would i be here.

Recent experience tells me I maybe wrong.

In that case it's a pretty safe bet it's down to how you ask to meet.

Its usaully along the lines of

Would you like to meet ?

Are you just waiting for someone to say "it's not you, it's everyone else" ? "

Not waiting for anyone to agree or disagree we all have had our experiences on here,I am just sharing my experience of the site.

After being on here for a while I know there is not a right way or a wrong way to go about things.Sometimes its just about timing it just right to get a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you see how quite it has gone on this thread .

Did someone mention the 'MEET' word LoL.

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