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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have my first social meet tomorrow a bit nervous. Hope I don't appear too eager too play but cannot read the signs

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Good luck

Just be yourself!

Red x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have my first social meet tomorrow a bit nervous. Hope I don't appear too eager too play but cannot read the signs "

Is it a social with a possibility of play immediately after? If not then my advice would be go with no expectation of playing. Go, hopefully have an enjoyable time, get to know each other, then worry about playing another time.

Even if there IS a possibility of play immediately after, still go with the expectation of no play - then anything that does happen will be a bonus rather than a disappointment of you don't connect.

Remember they're probably as equally nervous as you! Good luck fella!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Have my first social meet tomorrow a bit nervous. Hope I don't appear too eager too play but cannot read the signs

Is it a social with a possibility of play immediately after? If not then my advice would be go with no expectation of playing. Go, hopefully have an enjoyable time, get to know each other, then worry about playing another time.

Even if there IS a possibility of play immediately after, still go with the expectation of no play - then anything that does happen will be a bonus rather than a disappointment of you don't connect.

Remember they're probably as equally nervous as you! Good luck fella! "

This is the perfect advice. Have fun.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

It's a social. Relax. Chat. Get to know the person. Talk about normal everyday stuff and only chat about sexual likes, dislikes etc if the atmosphere is relaxed/smiley/flirty.

Keep it light hearted and friendly.

Smile. Genuine compliments.

Enjoy meeting them and don't think of it as a prelude to playing.

Hope it goes well.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

What Dan said, I prefer social meets first anyway to see if there is a connection.

Just be yourself and have fun fella

P.s. wear your best aftershave, she'll be climbing up yer cock then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm fortunate that we have been friends on here for a while now. Thanks for the advice guys

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same"

You know I wanna get nervous with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same

You know I wanna get nervous with you "

do ya ?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same

You know I wanna get nervous with you

do ya ?"

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same

You know I wanna get nervous with you

do ya ?

Of course "

smooth

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same

You know I wanna get nervous with you

do ya ?"

Avoid Ace - he's like Charles Bronson crossed with Jeremy Beadle!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same

You know I wanna get nervous with you

do ya ?

Avoid Ace - he's like Charles Bronson crossed with Jeremy Beadle!!! "

That's cruel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same

You know I wanna get nervous with you

do ya ?

Avoid Ace - he's like Charles Bronson crossed with Jeremy Beadle!!! "

haha - no single men at all here atm -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same

You know I wanna get nervous with you

do ya ?

Avoid Ace - he's like Charles Bronson crossed with Jeremy Beadle!!!

haha - no single men at all here atm - "

I'm not single

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Just take it easy and relax - I still get pre meet never as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go there with a loaded gun my mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be chill, and good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be your self chum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get your cock out under the table while you're talking!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Meet update I had a fantastic time we seemed to get on from the first minute to the last. We were together for 3 hours which unfortunately went so quickly. We parted with a couple of kisses this was the only physical contact that there was between us, maybe I should have done something more but we were in Costa and didn't want to go too far too soon. Afterwards she sent me a nice message. I have indicated that I would love to see her again, and I'm hopeful that this will happen. The ball is in her court now

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"years into this and we still get pre meet nerves - we think they are a good thing and if we ever lost that edge it wouldnt be the same

You know I wanna get nervous with you

do ya ?

Of course

smooth "

Now I seemed to have frightened her off site ffs

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