FabSwingers.com forum: It's not me, it's you.

By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Sometimes it's them, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently it was them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah haha

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No its never them.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Recently it was them

No cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's them, isn't it?

It's ALWAYS them

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Oh yeah haha "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently it was them

No cake?"

No room for movement and no cake

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Sometimes it's them, isn't it?

It's ALWAYS them

Well, in a way yes, in the sense that they aren't what you want at that time in your life.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It's always me!!"

There's two of you!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Recently it was them

No cake?

No room for movement and no cake"

Bed hogger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently it was them

No cake?

No room for movement and no cake

Bed hogger!"

Yeah something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always them ...never us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's always me!!

There's two of you!

Haha there is 2 of us, but it's only ever the female in the forums!!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It's always me!!

There's two of you!

Haha there is 2 of us, but it's only ever the female in the forums!!

Keep it up. Being you is all you can be.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

All the time!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"All the time!

Do you ever give the usual line though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its never me, even during sex if i cum really quick, its not my fault...its the females fault for having such sweet vaginal cushioning

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Its never me, even during sex if i cum really quick, its not my fault...its the females fault for having such sweet vaginal cushioning

Choose less cushiony ones in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its never me, even during sex if i cum really quick, its not my fault...its the females fault for having such sweet vaginal cushioning

Choose less cushiony ones in future.

I like a nice warm cushiony one tho

its what dreams are made of

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Sometimes it's them, isn't it?

Well I can only speak for myself.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"All the time!

Do you ever give the usual line though?

To whom?!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"All the time!

Do you ever give the usual line though?

To whom?!

It's not you, it's me - to whomever you're really thinking the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's always me!!"

It's never me.

xxx

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Mostly it's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's usually always me, I will happily take the blame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes= most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always me

and I'm never shy about sharing that fact with them

hahaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's them, isn't it?

Yes! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's always me

and I'm never shy about sharing that fact with them

hahaaaaa"

thats why its never me as its always you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's always me

and I'm never shy about sharing that fact with them

hahaaaaa

thats why its never me as its always you "

But if it's always you and never me, surely that means if it's you but you're you and I'm me then I can't be you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's always me

and I'm never shy about sharing that fact with them

hahaaaaa

thats why its never me as its always you

But if it's always you and never me, surely that means if it's you but you're you and I'm me then I can't be you."

oh gawd !!! shall we sort this out over a bottle of wine at ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's always me

and I'm never shy about sharing that fact with them

hahaaaaa

thats why its never me as its always you

But if it's always you and never me, surely that means if it's you but you're you and I'm me then I can't be you.

oh gawd !!! shall we sort this out over a bottle of wine at ours

Now that's an offer I can't refuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally when I say this it truly is me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was speaking to a dude Sunday to yesterday on whatsapp, back and forth back and forth and then yesterday he just stopped. I dunno what I said cos it was the same way I'd been answering the previous days. Was supposed to meet this coming Friday and nothing. I must've done something to put him off. Maybe he read some of my shit on here! Maybe it's time for a new profile again to wipe all my previous shit!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Well I was speaking to a dude Sunday to yesterday on whatsapp, back and forth back and forth and then yesterday he just stopped. I dunno what I said cos it was the same way I'd been answering the previous days. Was supposed to meet this coming Friday and nothing. I must've done something to put him off. Maybe he read some of my shit on here! Maybe it's time for a new profile again to wipe all my previous shit!"

Same shit different profile won't change anything. Sort the shit.

Anyway, it's probably him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same shit different profile won't change anything. Sort the shit.

Anyway, it's probably him.

It will wipe all the crazy shit I've written on my green arrow and if they come across any stuff I've written that would put them off it won't say my username just unlos. In future I'll have to just not write about any personal things. Orr keep my teabags for the weird shit that I write and have another profile where I don't use the forum, just use that for meeting. Is that allowed now before I make one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate told me 'if it goes well its me' if it goes tits up its 'definately them lol'

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Same shit different profile won't change anything. Sort the shit.

Anyway, it's probably him.

I don't know if it's allowed but I know plenty that have more than one profile.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Mate told me 'if it goes well its me' if it goes tits up its 'definately them lol'

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Same shit different profile won't change anything. Sort the shit.

Anyway, it's probably him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same shit different profile won't change anything. Sort the shit.

Anyway, it's probably him.

Personally I wouldn't - you are who you are, and if that's not to his liking, it's his loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's always me

and I'm never shy about sharing that fact with them

hahaaaaa

thats why its never me as its always you

But if it's always you and never me, surely that means if it's you but you're you and I'm me then I can't be you.

oh gawd !!! shall we sort this out over a bottle of wine at ours

Now that's an offer I can't refuse

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

No, you are all incorrect..

It's most definitely me, so please pass it over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, you are all incorrect..

It's most definitely me, so please pass it over here"

Ok i tried to be nice but....its you. Its always you, always been you and always will be you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most recently for me it was most definitely them. More spine in a jellyfish.

The previous was definitely me.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"All the time!

Do you ever give the usual line though?

To whom?!

It's not you, it's me - to whomever you're really thinking the opposite.

No. I'm painfully honest. Not that I've been in that position for quite some time but I tell it how it is. My view is that 'it's not you, it's me' line is a copout. There's always a way to tell the truth without being unkind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've used that line before & then had it used on me ~ made me realise what a shit line it is when you're on the receiving end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time!

Do you ever give the usual line though?

To whom?!

It's not you, it's me - to whomever you're really thinking the opposite.

I wish people would say exactly what it is that puts them off or a specific thing, how else are you supposed to learn from it and not do it again in the future? I'd have no problem saying exactly what's on my mind, like someone will talk about food or try sending a food picture I'm like nope conversation is boring me talk about something else, just wish people would be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, it really is me. i'm too good for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's them, isn't it?

"Sometimes"

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Always them and us.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've used that line before & then had it used on me ~ made me realise what a shit line it is when you're on the receiving end!"

It is. I think it's why I used to go psycho with some break-ups as I wanted to dig down to find out what it was that meant 'they' had suddenly changed. Then I realised it was 'me' in the sense that I wasn't what they wanted or needed in their life at that time.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's always them, they need dumping

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

It's mostly me. I begin to find them iritating.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never had it said to me.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

It was them this time.....honest guv! It was

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It's mostly me. I begin to find them iritating.

It's irritating! How many times do I have to tell you?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"It's mostly me. I begin to find them iritating.

It's irritating! How many times do I have to tell you?

Pedant.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

It was always them.

One was abusive and controlling, the other was a lazy piece of shit.

I wish I had had the confidemce to tell the first one that but I settled with "I don't feel the same way about you anymore".

- Amy. x

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It was always them.

One was abusive and controlling, the other was a lazy piece of shit.

I wish I had had the confidemce to tell the first one that but I settled with "I don't feel the same way about you anymore".

- Amy. x"

Wasn't that accurate, though? You realised what was going on and decided you didn't feel the same way anymore.

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