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"I recently messaged the organiser of a local social in order to get an invite, they read message but never replied. Is there a set criteria I need to fit to be able to get an invite to a social?" Always carry a watermelon with you mate | |||
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"Some socials limit the amount of single men. I was going to attend one down here once - got put on a reserve list. A slot later opened up the day and I was invited but I thought nah, I can't be arsed to be second choice Steve so refused (I know what a diva hey?) "Isn't Dan your name then? | |||
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"Some socials limit the amount of single men. I was going to attend one down here once - got put on a reserve list. A slot later opened up the day and I was invited but I thought nah, I can't be arsed to be second choice Steve so refused (I know what a diva hey?)
Isn't Dan your name then?
"No, and neither is Steve. Steve McClaren was "Second choice Steve" for the England football job a few years ago - and DAMN! I promised someone I would be a football-free zone today too!   | |||
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"Some socials limit the amount of single men. I was going to attend one down here once - got put on a reserve list. A slot later opened up the day and I was invited but I thought nah, I can't be arsed to be second choice Steve so refused (I know what a diva hey?) "I don't blame you. Not very sociable if they're going to exclude people | |||
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"Some socials limit the amount of single men. I was going to attend one down here once - got put on a reserve list. A slot later opened up the day and I was invited but I thought nah, I can't be arsed to be second choice Steve so refused (I know what a diva hey?)
Isn't Dan your name then?
No, and neither is Steve. Steve McClaren was "Second choice Steve" for the England football job a few years ago - and DAMN! I promised someone I would be a football-free zone today too! "You know you can't do it. As for socials... many men sign up and half turn up but you have to assume those that sign up will attend. | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. " so much for there being no cliques on here, just goes to show the opposite is true. | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. so much for there being no cliques on here, just goes to show the opposite is true." Was it a forum social? I liked the inclusive nature of the formal socials that used to happen. | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. " Organise your own social and be the better man with a mature and adult attitude. If they ask to come.....  | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. so much for there being no cliques on here, just goes to show the opposite is true. Was it a forum social? I liked the inclusive nature of the formal socials that used to happen. " No not a forum social. Advertised on the hosts couple profile. Felt like they were picking for themselves. When I told one of my fab friends she was livid that they should be so picky. | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. so much for there being no cliques on here, just goes to show the opposite is true. Was it a forum social? I liked the inclusive nature of the formal socials that used to happen. No not a forum social. Advertised on the hosts couple profile. Felt like they were picking for themselves. When I told one of my fab friends she was livid that they should be so picky. " So it was a couple scoping their local 'talent' rather than a social? | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. Organise your own social and be the better man with a mature and adult attitude. If they ask to come..... "Have helped organise one recently to help newbies get verified. It was a great success. | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. so much for there being no cliques on here, just goes to show the opposite is true. Was it a forum social? I liked the inclusive nature of the formal socials that used to happen. No not a forum social. Advertised on the hosts couple profile. Felt like they were picking for themselves. When I told one of my fab friends she was livid that they should be so picky. " That's akin to a private party then. Would you expect to just accept anyone who asked to, into your party? I wouldn't. | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. so much for there being no cliques on here, just goes to show the opposite is true." It doesn't because we have been to socials where everyone has been welcomed. | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. so much for there being no cliques on here, just goes to show the opposite is true. Was it a forum social? I liked the inclusive nature of the formal socials that used to happen. No not a forum social. Advertised on the hosts couple profile. Felt like they were picking for themselves. When I told one of my fab friends she was livid that they should be so picky. So it was a couple scoping their local 'talent' rather than a social? " It is a social which it is held monthly and I believe is well attended. I'm apparently not good enough. No sour grapes. I wish them every success | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. so much for there being no cliques on here, just goes to show the opposite is true. Was it a forum social? I liked the inclusive nature of the formal socials that used to happen. No not a forum social. Advertised on the hosts couple profile. Felt like they were picking for themselves. When I told one of my fab friends she was livid that they should be so picky. So it was a couple scoping their local 'talent' rather than a social? It is a social which it is held monthly and I believe is well attended. I'm apparently not good enough. No sour grapes. I wish them every success" It doesn't mean you're not good enough it means you're not what they're looking for. None of us can appeal to everyone. | |||
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"Yes been turned down for a local social. Was told I was not what they were looking for. Fussy buggers. I always thought the idea of a group social was for all types to mingle and to get to know each other. so much for there being no cliques on here, just goes to show the opposite is true. Was it a forum social? I liked the inclusive nature of the formal socials that used to happen. No not a forum social. Advertised on the hosts couple profile. Felt like they were picking for themselves. When I told one of my fab friends she was livid that they should be so picky. So it was a couple scoping their local 'talent' rather than a social? It is a social which it is held monthly and I believe is well attended. I'm apparently not good enough. No sour grapes. I wish them every success" If it's the one I am thinking of, you aren't missing much! | |||
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"It is advertised in the meet and events section and I asked the organiser, but got no reply whatsoever." Many possibilities. They had enough responses. They didn't want any more males. They didn't consider you suitable. You will never know so don't sweat it. | |||
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