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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If anyone else parks on my mothers disabled bay without a blue badge,and i politely ask them to move and they tell me to f..k off i swear i will put a hammer to their vehicle,so inconsiderate,sod the consequences,fed up with the abuse.And she is nearly ninety and they shout at her to ,how rude and disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they arent enforceable by law from what ive read.. its just a courtesy thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No ,but you can ring parking services and they will give them a ticket ,but then i would be ringing them all day long .If someone is disabled and has a blue badge then yes,park there all day long ,but if not then no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ,but you can ring parking services and they will give them a ticket ,but then i would be ringing them all day long .If someone is disabled and has a blue badge then yes,park there all day long ,but if not then no."

honestly i dont think they would get a ticket even if its reported.

Its a pain and unfortunate yes, especially as you have verbally informed the person who parked there of your mothers situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes they have came out twice before and issued tickets,but i feel rotten doing that .

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It all depends on the type of bay it is:

A disabled bay road marking may be ‘advisory’ or ‘mandatory’.

•An advisory disabled bay road marking is not enforceable

No action can be taken by the police or the council if a non-disabled person or indeed another disabled person parks in the disabled bay

•A mandatory disabled bay road marking is enforceable by law

We can take action against anyone parking in the disabled bay without displaying a blue badge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It all depends on the type of bay it is:

A disabled bay road marking may be ‘advisory’ or ‘mandatory’.

•An advisory disabled bay road marking is not enforceable

No action can be taken by the police or the council if a non-disabled person or indeed another disabled person parks in the disabled bay

•A mandatory disabled bay road marking is enforceable by law

We can take action against anyone parking in the disabled bay without displaying a blue badge

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How would you find out the difference? My mother has once yet they wont do jack shit if someone else parks there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Since they put in the new parking scheme ,they will come out if i ring them,we went out the other night and when we got home a car was parked on the bay without a badge,i rang them and they came out and put a ticket on the car.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since they put in the new parking scheme ,they will come out if i ring them,we went out the other night and when we got home a car was parked on the bay without a badge,i rang them and they came out and put a ticket on the car."

If they shouldn't be there then it's they fault. It wasn't until my wife get a badge that I have taken any notice of them but it is amazing just how many non badge holders use them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since they put in the new parking scheme ,they will come out if i ring them,we went out the other night and when we got home a car was parked on the bay without a badge,i rang them and they came out and put a ticket on the car.

If they shouldn't be there then it's they fault. It wasn't until my wife get a badge that I have taken any notice of them but it is amazing just how many non badge holders use them."

Exactly .

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


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How would you find out the difference? My mother has once yet they wont do jack shit if someone else parks there "

It would probably be on the paperwork from the Council

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"If anyone else parks on my mothers disabled bay without a blue badge,and i politely ask them to move and they tell me to f..k off i swear i will put a hammer to their vehicle,so inconsiderate,sod the consequences,fed up with the abuse.And she is nearly ninety and they shout at her to ,how rude and disrespectful."

Tell them you have photographed there car in the disabled bay and will take it to the police ,also report them for abusive and threatening behaviour as that is also a crime

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Just photo the cars parked in it. Make sure the photos are showing clearly the registration and that there is no blue badge

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"If anyone else parks on my mothers disabled bay without a blue badge,and i politely ask them to move and they tell me to f..k off i swear i will put a hammer to their vehicle,so inconsiderate,sod the consequences,fed up with the abuse.And she is nearly ninety and they shout at her to ,how rude and disrespectful."

frustrating put it in context before you decide to lose it and possibly end up with a criminal record or you being hospitalised because some bloke took offence when you smashed his car up will be beneficial for your elderly mum..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"If anyone else parks on my mothers disabled bay without a blue badge,and i politely ask them to move and they tell me to f..k off i swear i will put a hammer to their vehicle,so inconsiderate,sod the consequences,fed up with the abuse.And she is nearly ninety and they shout at her to ,how rude and disrespectful.

frustrating put it in context before you decide to lose it and possibly end up with a criminal record or you being hospitalised because some bloke took offence when you smashed his car up will be beneficial for your elderly mum..

"

less than beneficial..

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"If anyone else parks on my mothers disabled bay without a blue badge,and i politely ask them to move and they tell me to f..k off i swear i will put a hammer to their vehicle,so inconsiderate,sod the consequences,fed up with the abuse.And she is nearly ninety and they shout at her to ,how rude and disrespectful.

frustrating put it in context before you decide to lose it and possibly end up with a criminal record or you being hospitalised because some bloke took offence when you smashed his car up will be beneficial for your elderly mum..

less than beneficial.. "

Not sure I agree. Many people have acted in hast and then had to live with the consequences.

If the op waved a hammer about just to scare someone / prove a point, she could end up in a lot of trouble...

Also there are plenty of people that will happily resolve a dispute with violence even if they are in the wrong...

It is things like this that grind you down over time and can cause you to snap...

So maybe the post could have been put slightly different but it is putting a vilid point across...

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Asj the council to mark it a disabled bay they have for someone in my rd

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I honestly wouldn't hit anyone with a hammer ,not a violent person ,but it just makes me angry ,the way the bay is situated ,i can get her out of the car and straight onto the lift ,but if someone has parked there its just so akward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the disabled bay outside the bank today is a lotus Elise with blue badge sticker. (With roll cage)

i keep looking out the window to see who he gets into the car via the window and where he puts his wheelchair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Asj the council to mark it a disabled bay they have for someone in my rd"
It is marked ,once on the road and there's a big sign outside the house saying disabled parking only.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the disabled bay outside the bank today is a lotus Elise with blue badge sticker. (With roll cage)

i keep looking out the window to see who he gets into the car via the window and where he puts his wheelchair "

Thats another problem people borrow badges off family members,for easy parking,not saying that's what he's done,but they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the disabled bay outside the bank today is a lotus Elise with blue badge sticker. (With roll cage)

i keep looking out the window to see who he gets into the car via the window and where he puts his wheelchair "

Disabled people do not necessarily need a wheel chair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok."

Do you have any idea how difficult and time consuming it can be to get a disabled person in and out of a car? Blocking the road with cars parked on both sides getting someone into a car is an obstruction and nuisance to many other drivers. Hence why they have bays outside their house so they can take twenty minutes getting in a vehicle without bothering any other road users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pulled up in a disabled bay and the alderly couple next to me where just abut to tell me off an were cleary upset. When I opened the door the young gentleman in my vehicle just smiled while siting in his wheelchair. The old gits still never smiled or acknowledged they were in the wrong..

I agree that they shouldn't be parking in your mum's bay afterall it's hers outside her home.

Some people hey.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Buy a clamp... Put it on yourself, leave a note to tell them you've clamped them. Get them to ring you for removing it. Take your time....... Don't charge (that would be illegal!) just waste their time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok.

Do you have any idea how difficult and time consuming it can be to get a disabled person in and out of a car? Blocking the road with cars parked on both sides getting someone into a car is an obstruction and nuisance to many other drivers. Hence why they have bays outside their house so they can take twenty minutes getting in a vehicle without bothering any other road users. "

I honestly do know.

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By *anejohnkent6263Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

hell u can get the council out for a blue badge/bay....I don't believe it.reported fly tipping nr me took 13 days to come out to tidy up....best I put a blue bay around it next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hell u can get the council out for a blue badge/bay....I don't believe it.reported fly tipping nr me took 13 days to come out to tidy up....best I put a blue bay around it next time"

Traffic wardens have targets they need to meet every month. They will come out to issue a ticket.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok."

from what ive read it is outside her house what she expected to do drive through the door and park in the living room. Hope you never need a blue badge

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"In the disabled bay outside the bank today is a lotus Elise with blue badge sticker. (With roll cage)

i keep looking out the window to see who he gets into the car via the window and where he puts his wheelchair Thats another problem people borrow badges off family members,for easy parking,not saying that's what he's done,but they do."

I don't think that the scheme is well policed at all.

Not quite the same, but still very annoying, I watched a woman park in the pick-up bay right outside the supermarket and then watched her do her weekly shop with a trolley. Why do the rest of us have to find a parking spot, but she thinks that's OK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok.from what ive read it is outside her house what she expected to do drive through the door and park in the living room. Hope you never need a blue badge"

I do have one , or use one to help two disabled people ( not for personel use)

I live in London and I'm not sure if you drive round here and need to park and carry tools. It's a nightmare.

I can fully understand people without badges parking there but it's different if the person is not the driver.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"In the disabled bay outside the bank today is a lotus Elise with blue badge sticker. (With roll cage)

i keep looking out the window to see who he gets into the car via the window and where he puts his wheelchair "

Not all disabilities mean you are a wheelchair user. Walking can be impaired but not require a wheelchair.

I have found that legitimate blue badges get misused by family members using them when the badge holder is not present, but even then you don't know if they are picking up the badge holder.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok."

It could take up to 15 minutes to get my aunt into the car when she was particularly weak. Getting the chair into the car after getting her in also took time. Finding a space near the house is challenging enough.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok.from what ive read it is outside her house what she expected to do drive through the door and park in the living room. Hope you never need a blue badge

I do have one , or use one to help two disabled people ( not for personel use)

I live in London and I'm not sure if you drive round here and need to park and carry tools. It's a nightmare.

I can fully understand people without badges parking there but it's different if the person is not the driver. "

i dont drive full stop. but i know why people have them. My stepdad cant drive but he has a blue badge how would he be able to go anywhere if my mum didnt use his blue badge when they where out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the disabled bay outside the bank today is a lotus Elise with blue badge sticker. (With roll cage)

i keep looking out the window to see who he gets into the car via the window and where he puts his wheelchair

Not all disabilities mean you are a wheelchair user. Walking can be impaired but not require a wheelchair.

I have found that legitimate blue badges get misused by family members using them when the badge holder is not present, but even then you don't know if they are picking up the badge holder.

"

I have been stopped and questioned once cos they thought I was abusing the badge. Only I had parked with the blue badge further into city centre near the banks and then my mother walked to asda which was a bit further up. At which point she couldn't walk back cos she was in too much pain. So I thought I would move my car to asda to pick her up and park just outside.

Sometimes wardens can be unreasonable but if you can prove your story then they obviously don't pursue it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok."

I cant drive up to my dear mothers house,as she lives with me and the disabled bay is outside my house.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok. I cant drive up to my dear mothers house,as she lives with me and the disabled bay is outside my house."

And how does she get out to the car by herself ,when she cant walk after a spinal stroke and us in a wheel chair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the disabled bay outside the bank today is a lotus Elise with blue badge sticker. (With roll cage)

i keep looking out the window to see who he gets into the car via the window and where he puts his wheelchair "

Don't be too hasty. I had a 911 once. I've been a wheelchair user for 25 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not all disabilities mean you are a wheelchair user. Walking can be impaired but not require a wheelchair.

I have found that legitimate blue badges get misused by family members using them when the badge holder is not present, but even then you don't know if they are picking up the badge holder.

"

My youngest son has a blue badge because he has a serious chronic illness but to look at him you wouldn't know anything was wrong

He walks normally

People who assume blue badge holders are always wheelchair users are very foolish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the disabled bay outside the bank today is a lotus Elise with blue badge sticker. (With roll cage)

i keep looking out the window to see who he gets into the car via the window and where he puts his wheelchair

Don't be too hasty. I had a 911 once. I've been a wheelchair user for 25 years. "

Just watched a dashing young fit man leap into the car a speed off

Hubby had a 911 turbo, I could hardly get me and my handbag in, where did you put your wheelchair ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the disabled bay outside the bank today is a lotus Elise with blue badge sticker. (With roll cage)

i keep looking out the window to see who he gets into the car via the window and where he puts his wheelchair

Don't be too hasty. I had a 911 once. I've been a wheelchair user for 25 years.

Just watched a dashing young fit man leap into the car a speed off

Hubby had a 911 turbo, I could hardly get me and my handbag in, where did you put your wheelchair ?"

On the passenger seat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok.from what ive read it is outside her house what she expected to do drive through the door and park in the living room. Hope you never need a blue badge

I do have one , or use one to help two disabled people ( not for personel use)

I live in London and I'm not sure if you drive round here and need to park and carry tools. It's a nightmare.

I can fully understand people without badges parking there but it's different if the person is not the driver. i dont drive full stop. but i know why people have them. My stepdad cant drive but he has a blue badge how would he be able to go anywhere if my mum didnt use his blue badge when they where out"

Sorry my fault. I was referring to people who use them without the person with the disability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ,but you can ring parking services and they will give them a ticket ,but then i would be ringing them all day long .If someone is disabled and has a blue badge then yes,park there all day long ,but if not then no."

I don't get it?

You obviously don't need the space other wise you wouldnt be saying it was ok for blue badge holders to park there all day

So if you don't need the space what does it matter who parks there

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I would contact your local councillors for support with this issue. There may be an alternative arrangement that could be implemented. Failing that, also consider your local MP. They will engage with your local councils, to investigate the issue.

Under no circumstance should the parker be approached in any manner that might inflame them. Your mother is vulnerable and they will know where she lives, thus putting her at greater risk. Alternatively, they may recruit other people to use the parking space, as a general nuisance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is very sad when people do abuse the blue badges ,but there are loads of disabled people old and young that really need these badges,people with a disability have a right to a life outside of four walls,and having the blue badges really helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would contact your local councillors for support with this issue. There may be an alternative arrangement that could be implemented. Failing that, also consider your local MP. They will engage with your local councils, to investigate the issue.

Under no circumstance should the parker be approached in any manner that might inflame them. Your mother is vulnerable and they will know where she lives, thus putting her at greater risk. Alternatively, they may recruit other people to use the parking space, as a general nuisance."

When i ask people to move off the bay ,i ask them with politeness and manners,then i get hit with a barrage of abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would contact your local councillors for support with this issue. There may be an alternative arrangement that could be implemented. Failing that, also consider your local MP. They will engage with your local councils, to investigate the issue.

Under no circumstance should the parker be approached in any manner that might inflame them. Your mother is vulnerable and they will know where she lives, thus putting her at greater risk. Alternatively, they may recruit other people to use the parking space, as a general nuisance. When i ask people to move off the bay ,i ask them with politeness and manners,then i get hit with a barrage of abuse."

Who gives most abuse?

Younger or older people, men / women, ethnic origin ?

Just wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would contact your local councillors for support with this issue. There may be an alternative arrangement that could be implemented. Failing that, also consider your local MP. They will engage with your local councils, to investigate the issue.

Under no circumstance should the parker be approached in any manner that might inflame them. Your mother is vulnerable and they will know where she lives, thus putting her at greater risk. Alternatively, they may recruit other people to use the parking space, as a general nuisance. When i ask people to move off the bay ,i ask them with politeness and manners,then i get hit with a barrage of abuse."

They sound like brexiters

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I would contact your local councillors for support with this issue. There may be an alternative arrangement that could be implemented. Failing that, also consider your local MP. They will engage with your local councils, to investigate the issue.

Under no circumstance should the parker be approached in any manner that might inflame them. Your mother is vulnerable and they will know where she lives, thus putting her at greater risk. Alternatively, they may recruit other people to use the parking space, as a general nuisance. When i ask people to move off the bay ,i ask them with politeness and manners,then i get hit with a barrage of abuse.

Who gives most abuse?

Younger or older people, men / women, ethnic origin ?

Just wondering "

why does it matter there is ignorant people in all walks of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone else parks on my mothers disabled bay without a blue badge,and i politely ask them to move and they tell me to f..k off i swear i will put a hammer to their vehicle,so inconsiderate,sod the consequences,fed up with the abuse.And she is nearly ninety and they shout at her to ,how rude and disrespectful."

I got a similar row going on about my daughter's disabled bay atm. I asked someone from down the other end of road nicely not to park there, she has told people I got funny. Fume, fume XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the disabled bay outside the bank today is a lotus Elise with blue badge sticker. (With roll cage)

i keep looking out the window to see who he gets into the car via the window and where he puts his wheelchair

Disabled people do not necessarily need a wheel chair "

True, my daughter is entitled to a blue badge but is not in a wheelchair, she has severe learning disabilities. We don't often park in disabled spaces though. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would contact your local councillors for support with this issue. There may be an alternative arrangement that could be implemented. Failing that, also consider your local MP. They will engage with your local councils, to investigate the issue.

Under no circumstance should the parker be approached in any manner that might inflame them. Your mother is vulnerable and they will know where she lives, thus putting her at greater risk. Alternatively, they may recruit other people to use the parking space, as a general nuisance. When i ask people to move off the bay ,i ask them with politeness and manners,then i get hit with a barrage of abuse.

Who gives most abuse?

Younger or older people, men / women, ethnic origin ?

Just wondering "

Usually young men and young women the females are the most abusive of white origin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No ,but you can ring parking services and they will give them a ticket ,but then i would be ringing them all day long .If someone is disabled and has a blue badge then yes,park there all day long ,but if not then no.

I don't get it?

You obviously don't need the space other wise you wouldnt be saying it was ok for blue badge holders to park there all day

So if you don't need the space what does it matter who parks there "

I think OP has already stated that if someone is parked there she cannot park right next to the lift for her mum when getting her out of car.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"If anyone else parks on my mothers disabled bay without a blue badge,and i politely ask them to move and they tell me to f..k off i swear i will put a hammer to their vehicle,so inconsiderate,sod the consequences,fed up with the abuse.And she is nearly ninety and they shout at her to ,how rude and disrespectful.

frustrating put it in context before you decide to lose it and possibly end up with a criminal record or you being hospitalised because some bloke took offence when you smashed his car up will be beneficial for your elderly mum..

less than beneficial..

Not sure I agree. Many people have acted in hast and then had to live with the consequences.

If the op waved a hammer about just to scare someone / prove a point, she could end up in a lot of trouble...

Also there are plenty of people that will happily resolve a dispute with violence even if they are in the wrong...

It is things like this that grind you down over time and can cause you to snap...

So maybe the post could have been put slightly different but it is putting a vilid point across..."

wasn't saying its not a valid point, hence my 'frustrating'..

maybe its best not to let it get to the point where one is ground down and then snaps as that will only end in tears..

just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter has the blue badge, when she's driving my car she uses it. When I'm in the car by myself and she's left it in. I turn it upside down. Cause I know the penalty for misuse of a blue badge. Not only do you get fined but the holder loses the badge. I'll go into a supermarket and park in ordinary spaces. What's the problem in walking extra 20 30 paces too entrance.

Both my daughter and ex need the badge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok."

maybe one day when you have to look after someone who is disabled you may realise. With my dad who was in a wheelchair my brother and I were more than capable of doing what you are saying unfortunately my mother wasnt !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok.

maybe one day when you have to look after someone who is disabled you may realise. With my dad who was in a wheelchair my brother and I were more than capable of doing what you are saying unfortunately my mother wasnt !"

If you read my post you will see I look after TWO disabled people ( not full time).

What am I saying. Sorry, I'm don't understand what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People if they are not stupid ,know they are not supposed to park on a disabled bay,only badge holders,the trouble where i live is you can only park on one side of the road as there is a river opposite,so parking spaces are limited,but still no excuse.They have the parking scheme here and if you havent a permit you have to feed the parking meter,so I'm sure most park on the bay as they dont want to pay.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok.

maybe one day when you have to look after someone who is disabled you may realise. With my dad who was in a wheelchair my brother and I were more than capable of doing what you are saying unfortunately my mother wasnt !

If you read my post you will see I look after TWO disabled people ( not full time).

What am I saying. Sorry, I'm don't understand what you mean. "

i dont understand why you are saying the things if you know

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Wait till they leave the car, then let the tyres down.

Better yet photo on Facebook, tends to drum up good publicity for them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok.

maybe one day when you have to look after someone who is disabled you may realise. With my dad who was in a wheelchair my brother and I were more than capable of doing what you are saying unfortunately my mother wasnt !

If you read my post you will see I look after TWO disabled people ( not full time).

What am I saying. Sorry, I'm don't understand what you mean. "

your saying your sick of parking bays and why cant she walk up to the house

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We had s badge for three years while our eldest (2 1/2 at the time) was receiving cancer treatment under GOSH. The amount of abuse we got from the older people sometimes was outrageous & in front of a child. More than once I used the "Do you have cancer? No? Then piss off then" had one guy up against the wall once, he was perfectly healthy with a mouth like a sewer and I just snapped because he wouldn't shut up..

As said you don't need to be in a wheelchair to get them

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok.

maybe one day when you have to look after someone who is disabled you may realise. With my dad who was in a wheelchair my brother and I were more than capable of doing what you are saying unfortunately my mother wasnt !

If you read my post you will see I look after TWO disabled people ( not full time).

What am I saying. Sorry, I'm don't understand what you mean. "

Sorry i missed that. All i am saying its not possible for everyone to do what you or i are capable of doing. If we had to park half way down the street that wouldnt be a problem for us. In my case my mum didnt have strength to do that so the disabled bay outside the house was very helpful.

Apologies once again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My job consist of driving and I'm getting sick to my teeth of cycle lanes double yellows and disabled bays.

OP Why cant you drive up to your dear mothers house and let her in the car. Why do YOU 'have' to park outside when you can walk ok.

maybe one day when you have to look after someone who is disabled you may realise. With my dad who was in a wheelchair my brother and I were more than capable of doing what you are saying unfortunately my mother wasnt !

If you read my post you will see I look after TWO disabled people ( not full time).

What am I saying. Sorry, I'm don't understand what you mean. i dont understand why you are saying the things if you know"

Was replying to kinky geek .not you this time diamond. I think messages all linked up

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By *iamonddave84Man
over a year ago

Hereford

I have a blue badge for my disability it doesn't matter if what type or make of car you drive often it is a mobility car I can use mine in anybody car as long as I am with them as for people parking in them they can be clamped although I never seen this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting up a camera on your property facing parking bay might be good idea with notice saying unentitled people parking here are being filmed. Could be a false camera but might put some people off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Putting up a camera on your property facing parking bay might be good idea with notice saying unentitled people parking here are being filmed. Could be a false camera but might put some people off"
I dont think i would be allowed to put up a notice like that ,people know and can see its a disabled bay,it had huge white letters on it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Putting up a camera on your property facing parking bay might be good idea with notice saying unentitled people parking here are being filmed. Could be a false camera but might put some people off I dont think i would be allowed to put up a notice like that ,people know and can see its a disabled bay,it had huge white letters on it ."

shame council can't paint yellow lines round your bay. I'm sure disability people can help, something about access on medical grounds

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