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Perspective : Do people on sites like this have a higher sex drive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're on a sex site. We're going to talk about sex a lot, yes? I get that.

But people often say on here they're constantly horny, or seem desperate for sex.

Most of the interactions we have with others on here are about sex, or about meeting for sex.

Lots of Fabbers spend a lot of their social life / free time engaged in sex related activities : regulars at swingers or sex clubs or out dogging every other night.

Some even plan all their holidays around swingers resorts to ensure a plentiful supply of shagging abroad.

So, do we have higher than normal sex drives? Are we hornier and need it more often than Joe Public or does the fact we're on this site mean we naturally talk about sex more so it just *seems* that way?

To be honest - a straight choice between having sex or watching my teams first game of the new season on Saturday? I'll opt for the football please.

A week of sex or a week on a warm clean beach? The holiday please!

How about you?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Did you mention football, check out my new avatar

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Since joining this site the Mrs sex drive has tripled easily. She wears me out sometimes. Long may it continue. Mr

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Then you read the threads about how long since youve had sex and you think youve stumbled on a celibracy site i love sex, i never go short but there are also things id prefer to do over having sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you mention football, check out my new avatar "

gonna be your year this year, surely!? Good luck for the new season!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex drive tends to be so low that it's non existent

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I don't have a higher sex drive than normal,but being single I need a fix every now and then when my hormones kick in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have a higher sex drive than normal,but being single I need a fix every now and then when my hormones kick in "

Im sure you have no difficulties when the timw arises at all

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Did you mention football, check out my new avatar

gonna be your year this year, surely!? Good luck for the new season! "

Cheers buddy & thanks for the fab, fancy a fuck by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you mention football, check out my new avatar "

Fabbed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you mention football, check out my new avatar

gonna be your year this year, surely!? Good luck for the new season!

Cheers buddy & thanks for the fab, fancy a fuck by the way "

ha, maybe a pint and watch a game at Pride Park (or whatever it's called now with sponsorship!) instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just all talk

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Did you mention football, check out my new avatar

gonna be your year this year, surely!? Good luck for the new season!

Cheers buddy & thanks for the fab, fancy a fuck by the way

ha, maybe a pint and watch a game at Pride Park (or whatever it's called now with sponsorship!) instead? "

The iPro, and yes that would be cool

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

Hi I'm MrsSB. Always horny.

PS any bifemale free tomorrow or Thursday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh i enjoy the social side to fab more then getting down and dirty

And i dnt think of sex 24hours

thats why i just meet every now and then

i crave footy more then sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I'm MrsSB. Always horny.

PS any bifemale free tomorrow or Thursday. "

I was wondering where you had got to MrsSB!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I don't have a higher sex drive than normal,but being single I need a fix every now and then when my hormones kick in

Im sure you have no difficulties when the timw arises at all "

That time is now,but I have to wait a few more day's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh i enjoy the social side to fab more then getting down and dirty

And i dnt think of sex 24hours

thats why i just meet every now and then

i crave footy more then sex "

I've come to enjoy the social side of things, possibly because of my period of involuntary celibacy but focusing on just talking to people has been a lot of fun.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It depends on how I feel about myself. If I'm happy with the way I look my sex drive goes up if I'm having a 'fat' time my sex drive goes down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh i enjoy the social side to fab more then getting down and dirty

And i dnt think of sex 24hours

thats why i just meet every now and then

i crave footy more then sex

I've come to enjoy the social side of things, possibly because of my period of involuntary celibacy but focusing on just talking to people has been a lot of fun.

"

well i can chat for England so a social is right up my street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't revolve my life around swinging and I certainly don't talk about sex all the time. I have the same sex drive now as I had before fab or swinging....my sex life is fantastic and think me and Mr A are just compatable and enjoy the same level of kink if you like. ....I wouldn't go pick a meet or going to a club over going out with friends or the local for karaoke let alone go on a swinging holiday.....that added extra every now and again is good fun tho x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hate it if my whole life revolved around sex, feeling horny all the time wouldn't be my idea of fun at all.

This site gives me the 'hit' I need & facilitates the opportunity for me to meet like minded people. It's not all about the sex for me & my sex drive isn't any higher for being on here.

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Tbh this site has mostly turned me off sex, so having a break. Just feeling I'm not wanting or needing it.

I think once you get off the hamster wheel of needing to meet or go to a club etc it's easier.

Obviously this is just my experience and I appreciate others are different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're on a sex site. We're going to talk about sex a lot, yes? I get that.

But people often say on here they're constantly horny, or seem desperate for sex.

Most of the interactions we have with others on here are about sex, or about meeting for sex.

Lots of Fabbers spend a lot of their social life / free time engaged in sex related activities : regulars at swingers or sex clubs or out dogging every other night.

Some even plan all their holidays around swingers resorts to ensure a plentiful supply of shagging abroad.

So, do we have higher than normal sex drives? Are we hornier and need it more often than Joe Public or does the fact we're on this site mean we naturally talk about sex more so it just *seems* that way?

To be honest - a straight choice between having sex or watching my teams first game of the new season on Saturday? I'll opt for the football please.

A week of sex or a week on a warm clean beach? The holiday please!

How about you? "

I did because I was constantly having sex with my X until last month now I'm with a different Guy and engaged I and ain't having sex my sex drive is a lot less than few week's ago,when I am horny ain't nothing I can't sort out myself .

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I'd hate it if my whole life revolved around sex, feeling horny all the time wouldn't be my idea of fun at all.

This site gives me the 'hit' I need & facilitates the opportunity for me to meet like minded people. It's not all about the sex for me & my sex drive isn't any higher for being on here.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm not sure that there's a correlation really, between unusually high sex drives and fab users. The users are pretty diverse, ranging from just desperate to fine connoisseurs of all things sexual.

Cutting out the 'just desperate' for any sex lot, then I'm open to the possibility that the remainder potentially have a somewhat keener need. But this may only be that they're great at knowing what they need and how they can make it happen. I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had sex since last Seltember. Do I miss it? Yes! Is it the be all and end all? No!

Yes there are some days I could throw down the nearest bloke and ride him to oblivion, but then other days sex is the last thing on my mind.

I don't want to meet men who I'm not attracted to, i can't just shag any man with a pulse. I have to have that zing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure that there's a correlation really, between unusually high sex drives and fab users. The users are pretty diverse, ranging from just desperate to fine connoisseurs of all things sexual.

Cutting out the 'just desperate' for any sex lot, then I'm open to the possibility that the remainder potentially have a somewhat keener need. But this may only be that they're great at knowing what they need and how they can make it happen. I don't know. "

valid points I think! If you're highly sexed looking for likeminded people, where better to go than to a website full of swingers?

So possibly on average more sexually liberated and active people congregate here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may seem like we are desperate for sex as we are on here constantly but time soent to actually having sex is very different.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I would imagine that the members of the Fab are an unrepresentative bunch in a few different ways vis-à-vis the population at large.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sex site so we talk sex if it was a stamp collecting one then you'd expect to talk collecting, doing it however is a very different matter

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