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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Just curious with the etiquette. Say you meet, have a chat/flirt, and eventually get naked in the bedroom.

If the other person suddenly has a bad odour/hygiene, or in bad shape that you just don't feel attracted, How do you escape?

The worst i had was uncovering sweat/thrush under the breasts..i nearly puked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious with the etiquette. Say you meet, have a chat/flirt, and eventually get naked in the bedroom.

If the other person suddenly has a bad odour/hygiene, or in bad shape that you just don't feel attracted, How do you escape?

The worst i had was uncovering sweat/thrush under the breasts..i nearly puked!"

oh I love that smell under the breasts

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I think the idea is to screen out undesirables beforehand, then meet first time in public.

If they don;t like the look of you, or if you get the feeling that they're a nut job you can walk away, no hard feelings.

Bit more tricky if they're already in your house.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I think the idea is to screen out undesirables beforehand, then meet first time in public.

If they don;t like the look of you, or if you get the feeling that they're a nut job you can walk away, no hard feelings.

Bit more tricky if they're already in your house. "

Yeh but have the balls to say..your not for me instead of going to the bar and legging it out the other door!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You can be honest in an adult way. Something like im sorry this isnt working for me.

Noone really likes being rejected but you can soften the blow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally I see it through even if I don't fancy them.

However I met one guy off another site. He was a smoker and I could smell this awful sickly smell, it was tooth decay. He had only had one meet before so I had to take lead. After about 10 minutes I couldn't stand the smell anymore. I was on top, I pretended I thought he had cum, got off and got dressed. I left as fast as I could,with a taste like I,d licked out an ashtray in my mouth. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious with the etiquette. Say you meet, have a chat/flirt, and eventually get naked in the bedroom.

If the other person suddenly has a bad odour/hygiene, or in bad shape that you just don't feel attracted, How do you escape?

The worst i had was uncovering sweat/thrush under the breasts..i nearly puked!"

Thats why a social is always a good idea.

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"Normally I see it through even if I don't fancy them.

However I met one guy off another site. He was a smoker and I could smell this awful sickly smell, it was tooth decay. He had only had one meet before so I had to take lead. After about 10 minutes I couldn't stand the smell anymore. I was on top, I pretended I thought he had cum, got off and got dressed. I left as fast as I could,with a taste like I,d licked out an ashtray in my mouth. Xx"

Ew! That's gross..As others have said, maybe a pre-event social meet would have been better?

Even then, you never know what's underneath.....

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Just curious with the etiquette. Say you meet, have a chat/flirt, and eventually get naked in the bedroom.

If the other person suddenly has a bad odour/hygiene, or in bad shape that you just don't feel attracted, How do you escape?

The worst i had was uncovering sweat/thrush under the breasts..i nearly puked!

Thats why a social is always a good idea. "

So you can check beneath breasts, before going ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any bad smell hint of being unclean = stop ... could not would not carry on

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Similarly to Diamond, I just stop and apologise, saying that it's not working for me.

Prior to meets, it's worth checking that people are freshly showered etc, so that at least the absolute basics - if answered honestly - are covered.

A ton of veris doesn't mean that someone will be the most compatible for your needs, so use some common sense and caution.

And never be offensive to someone, just because they couldn't get it to work. We'll never know the stresses and issues that others face, as that's their private business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and husband once went to a cpls flat to be escorted straight to the bedrooms...no hey fancy a drink and a chat 1st...in the bedroom was the chick already in bed and looking like she hadn't left it in about 3 days he informed us Tey already had a meet that afternoon ...which they ' forgot' to mention to us online while chatting earlier...the room looked like it was a dump and me being me said...sorry I don't feel well I need to leave...NOW!!

Had the cheek to message us and say maybe we can arrange another date...BLOCKED!!!

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By *hav02 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"Myself and husband once went to a cpls flat to be escorted straight to the bedrooms...no hey fancy a drink and a chat 1st...in the bedroom was the chick already in bed and looking like she hadn't left it in about 3 days he informed us Tey already had a meet that afternoon ...which they ' forgot' to mention to us online while chatting earlier...the room looked like it was a dump and me being me said...sorry I don't feel well I need to leave...NOW!!

Had the cheek to message us and say maybe we can arrange another date...BLOCKED!!! "

oh dear.that's awful. but some people don't mind that sort of persona

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I met a lady who revealed to me later in the date that she had asked a friend to send her a "bail" text which she could use if she didn't like me. Turned out she didn't need to use it and we had a lovely social drink.

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