FabSwingers.com forum: All look but no chat

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it me or do you get endless people checking out your profile but never message ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they don't like what they see?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Is it me or do you get endless people checking out your profile but never message ? "

They don't know if they're interested until they look though.

If they look and find they aren't interested, do you really expect them to message?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Hang on a sec. You get no messages but you can't reply to everyone? How does that work?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad "

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad "

Having just looked at your profile, it's just cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or do you get endless people checking out your profile but never message ? "

It might be you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me "

Only a few mesage you? Greedy boy

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*crosses legs and backs out of thread*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there more to you than just a cock?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me "

They aren't interested.

Out of interest, how many of those views are women and couples rather than men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be they looked and thought you weren't what they are looking for. Or,some people just like looking at photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me "

Probably because there's nothing very interesting about ur profile that makes them want to message!!

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*"

95% of blokes on here has cocks pic as a diplay pic luv

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op, do you message every profile you look at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't accommodate so I wouldn't message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or do you get endless people checking out your profile but never message ? "

Don't forget all the ones that look that u don't know about

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

Having just looked at your profile, it's just cock pics

Hence this is a swinging site and I like to keep discrete due to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*

95% of blokes on here has cocks pic as a diplay pic luv "
Fetch that man a shovel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*

95% of blokes on here has cocks pic as a diplay pic luv "

That doesn't mean everyone has to have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are wanking over your photos ?

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me

They aren't interested.

Out of interest, how many of those views are women and couples rather than men?"

I've blocked single men ...most are couples that message me but live somewhere stupid

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By *exiliciousmeMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

Having just looked at your profile, it's just cock pics

Hence this is a swinging site and I like to keep discrete due to work "

At least he has a fairly impressive cock too show off haha

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We get that, I blame the Mrs

We used to be bothered but not anymore since we use the forums a lot, need to see the goodies if playing snog,fuck,avoid after all

S&H

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*

95% of blokes on here has cocks pic as a diplay pic luv "

And? That's supposed to make them more appealing and less dull?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There really is no need for the rudeness,just because a man has asked a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. We get meets.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Nothing wrong in window shopping if people dont like wot they see they move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is proberly where I throw I the white towel .. I suppose experience speak for its self thanks for the advice people

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me

They aren't interested.

Out of interest, how many of those views are women and couples rather than men?

I've blocked single men ...most are couples that message me but live somewhere stupid "

I believe single men can still view your profile even though you've blocked them, so you're probably getting quite a few views from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

Having just looked at your profile, it's just cock pics

Hence this is a swinging site and I like to keep discrete due to work "

Ok, remove the cock pics, body shots or in smart suit also work well, yes this is a swinging site but there's more to swinging than just sex, there has to be a connection for most, and cock shots are not the way to go my friend.

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By *nowbodyyounoMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Is it me or do you get endless people checking out your profile but never message ? "

I think there's quite a lot of window shopping that goes on here. My guess is that some people never meet. Of course, people maybe attracted to a picture but put off by what they encounter on closer inspection of the profile. In fact, there may be any number of a million reasons why people look and don't then message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There really is no need for the rudeness,just because a man has asked a question. "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or do you get endless people checking out your profile but never message ? "

I don't get "endless" people checking out my profile, but I do get a few messages.

No cock pics though!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

Having just looked at your profile, it's just cock pics

Hence this is a swinging site and I like to keep discrete due to work "

I'm beginning to see why you're struggling.

You, however, are convinced you are right and everyone not messaging you is wrong, and you are apparently going to argue with everyone who says anything that opposes the way you see things. Why ask if you think you know it all already? Anyway, crack on.

Just remember, continue doing the same thing and you'll continue getting the same results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You asked is your profile pic that bad obviously not you re getting views so it must be your profile that does nt appeal to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a nice body and cock,which means people will keep looking. Some people like to see more of a person than the cock,and read a little about them,to find attraction. If it's not working,change it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me

They aren't interested.

Out of interest, how many of those views are women and couples rather than men?

I've blocked single men ...most are couples that message me but live somewhere stupid "

I asked about the 50/100 views, not the messages.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*

95% of blokes on here has cocks pic as a diplay pic luv

That doesn't mean everyone has to have them

We seem to be getting more & more ladies the same though, no artfull shots just midrift private parts on show, there fine if amongst full body or clothed stuff but just fanny/tit pivs puts me off almost as much as Willie waving tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*

95% of blokes on here has cocks pic as a diplay pic luv "

Would hazard a guess that 95% of blokes on here don't get meets. Seems you've picked your demographic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a bit on the cocky side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the same couple look at me daily, multiple times. They never ever message lol

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*"

Oooooooh the claws are out bad kitty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me

They aren't interested.

Out of interest, how many of those views are women and couples rather than men?

I've blocked single men ...most are couples that message me but live somewhere stupid

I believe single men can still view your profile even though you've blocked them, so you're probably getting quite a few views from them"

Correct, but in all fairness he wouldn't see those looking because he's filtered them. Only if they Fab the pics would he knows they have looked

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me "

You get more than us lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a guy looks every single day and has done for months and he never messages

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*

Oooooooh the claws are out bad kitty

No claws. He asked. Yes, his display pic is dull and unappealing (to me).

I'm supposed to say I love it? Sorry but if asked a question, I'll answer truthfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*

Oooooooh the claws are out bad kitty

No claws. He asked. Yes, his display pic is dull and unappealing (to me).

I'm supposed to say I love it? Sorry but if asked a question, I'll answer truthfully."

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Blimey.

If most blokes on here got 50-100 views and a few messages a day, they'd be so chuffed they'd hire a small airplane and fly a big banner behind it saying "I'm a Fabswingers God".

Me included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a decent sized cock which, let's be honest, is going to be very gay and bi friendly. So expect you get the majority of views from men, right? (With women and couples too)

If they can't message you, what do you expect?

The men like looking (and probably wanking) but don't want to meet.

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London

Your profile says

"I'll Provide What Your Man Can't Do

The majority of swinging couples I've met have amazing relationships, while 80% of the single guys are dicks, who wouldn't allow their future wife's the play with other guys. So when you open with a line like that, about the special guy in a girls life, you get put into the 80%.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of perves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile says

"I'll Provide What Your Man Can't Do

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me "

I've just looked and I'm not going to message you. There are probably a large amount of men who look repeatedly, You know, the fab straight ones who like to see cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just looked at ur profile and think u dont need 7 pics of ur cock. also ur friends contridict what ur looking for ie u say ur looking for MF FF F but ur friends with 5 M 1 MM AND 2 TV/TS that may also contribute to the no messages

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*

Oooooooh the claws are out bad kitty

No claws. He asked. Yes, his display pic is dull and unappealing (to me).

I'm supposed to say I love it? Sorry but if asked a question, I'll answer truthfully."

There's being truthful in a positive constructive way and then there's the petulant way I believe you chose the latter hence my tongue in cheek post

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

Having just looked at your profile, it's just cock pics

Hence this is a swinging site and I like to keep discrete due to work

I'm beginning to see why you're struggling.

Just remember, continue doing the same thing and you'll continue getting the same results."

Is he arguing or standing up for what he believes in? Why is your way the right way? I like to see cock pics ( not looked at the OP profile ) I also like lots of things that others probably don't and vice versa. It isn't about being right or wrong

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me "
seriously if your getting that many views aday its uncommon for single guys.

Plus you are getting a few messages a day. A lot of guys dont get that a week.

So use it to your advantage.

Youve got them looking turn your profile into your shop window and make it stand out

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Is it me or do you get endless people checking out your profile but never message ? "

I am guessing it happens to all of us. If people don't look they won't know if they fancy mailing you or not.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*

Oooooooh the claws are out bad kitty

No claws. He asked. Yes, his display pic is dull and unappealing (to me).

I'm supposed to say I love it? Sorry but if asked a question, I'll answer truthfully.

There's being truthful in a positive constructive way and then there's the petulant way I believe you chose the latter hence my tongue in cheek post

No, I chose honest.

Cock avatars are (to me) boring and unattractive. He asked if his av is that bad. Yes, it is.

I could have said yes, it is, but I also said why, which is constructive.

My post is a statement of my opinion, which is what was asked for.

I didn't say anything unpleasant about his pic or his cock, just it's a boring, unimaginative avatar. Which it is (again, in my opinion).

Anyone not wanting my honest opinion shouldn't ask for it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I get the same couple look at me daily, multiple times. They never ever message lol"

Ah that could be a different reason, they could have a failing memory like me and forget they have already looked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me seriously if your getting that many views aday its uncommon for single guys.

Plus you are getting a few messages a day. A lot of guys dont get that a week.

So use it to your advantage.

Youve got them looking turn your profile into your shop window and make it stand out"

Spot on. You're doing ok OP. I might get someone new messaging me once in a blue moon. If you're getting a few a day that's pretty darned good and you're at an advantage over most of the guys on here. Up to you then to convert those into meets if there's anyone that takes your fancy - good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it me or do you get endless people checking out your profile but never message ? "

All the time. The most puzzling ones are the fems/couples who look at my profile time and again, yet I cant message them because guys are filtered out, what's that about?

If your reading this guys..because you know who you are..tell me why you do this seemingly pointless thing.lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

Having just looked at your profile, it's just cock pics

Hence this is a swinging site and I like to keep discrete due to work

I'm beginning to see why you're struggling.

Just remember, continue doing the same thing and you'll continue getting the same results.

I didn't say my way is the right way. However, he asked for opinions and has told everyone who has said anything that disagrees with his view they are wrong.

If he's convinced he's right, and doesn't want to hear other opinions, why ask?

As for cock pics. A little can go a long way. Maybe if you had looked at his profile you'd see the point some people are trying to make.

He's said what he's doing isn't working for him. He is, absolutely, free to continue doing it but he will continue to get the same results. It doesn't make a blind bit of difference to me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I very rarely bother looking to see who has looked. What's the point? If they are interested, they message.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is it me or do you get endless people checking out your profile but never message ? "

We get about one message per 100 views so no, it isn't just you.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

Having just looked at your profile, it's just cock pics

Hence this is a swinging site and I like to keep discrete due to work

I'm beginning to see why you're struggling.

Just remember, continue doing the same thing and you'll continue getting the same results.

I didn't say my way is the right way. However, he asked for opinions and has told everyone who has said anything that disagrees with his view they are wrong.

If he's convinced he's right, and doesn't want to hear other opinions, why ask?

He didn't say they were wrong, he reiterated what his views were.

Asking for advice doesn't mean you have to take it. You can decide the advice is shit and stick to what you thought before asking for it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

Having just looked at your profile, it's just cock pics

Hence this is a swinging site and I like to keep discrete due to work

I'm beginning to see why you're struggling.

Just remember, continue doing the same thing and you'll continue getting the same results.

I didn't say my way is the right way. However, he asked for opinions and has told everyone who has said anything that disagrees with his view they are wrong.

If he's convinced he's right, and doesn't want to hear other opinions, why ask?

He didn't say they were wrong, he reiterated what his views were.

Asking for advice doesn't mean you have to take it. You can decide the advice is shit and stick to what you thought before asking for it."

Not taking it and having no intention of even listening to it are different things.

As I said, he can crack on. My point stands; do the same thing, get the same results.

There's fuck all point questioning and griping about the results if he's sure he's right and doesn't want to change anything.

He's only going to get different results by changing what he does. He's not going to be able to change other people.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Not taking it and having no intention of even listening to it are different things.

As I said, he can crack on. My point stands; do the same thing, get the same results.

There's fuck all point questioning and griping about the results if he's sure he's right and doesn't want to change anything.

He's only going to get different results by changing what he does. He's not going to be able to change other people."

He did listen to it, in fact he said Thankyou for the advice.

He may find someone who likes his profile without changing for people on the forum who say he should. The people on the forum may have it wrong

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Not taking it and having no intention of even listening to it are different things.

As I said, he can crack on. My point stands; do the same thing, get the same results.

There's fuck all point questioning and griping about the results if he's sure he's right and doesn't want to change anything.

He's only going to get different results by changing what he does. He's not going to be able to change other people.

He did listen to it, in fact he said Thankyou for the advice.

He may find someone who likes his profile without changing for people on the forum who say he should. The people on the forum may have it wrong "

He might.

I didn't actually tell him to change though.

He asked my opinion on his profile pic. I gave it. I didn't tell him to change it.

That he's likely to get the same results if he does the same thing is an observation, not an instruction of any sort. It's entirely his call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair enough but honestly ? Is my display pic that bad

cock...cock...cock...cock...*yawn*"

just this enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mesage people even if it's a compliment , but get no response,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile says

"I'll Provide What Your Man Can't Do

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Not taking it and having no intention of even listening to it are different things.

As I said, he can crack on. My point stands; do the same thing, get the same results.

There's fuck all point questioning and griping about the results if he's sure he's right and doesn't want to change anything.

He's only going to get different results by changing what he does.

I didn't actually tell him to change though.

I must have read your comments above wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that but I get at least 50/100 views a day but only a few message me "

I get the opposite but keep in mind I am delusional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the flip side I look at some of the people who have checked me out and often think 'thank god they never messaged'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the flip side I look at some of the people who have checked me out and often think 'thank god they never messaged'

some like that have checked us out so often we have blocked them

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