FabSwingers.com forum: Bi?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your definition of bi is too rigid. I don't think it necessarily extends as far as being happy to be in a relationship with them. I think it's all about are you happy to engage in sexual activity with them. But what do I know? Shades of grey innit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think your definition of bi is too rigid. I don't think it necessarily extends as far as being happy to be in a relationship with them. I think it's all about are you happy to engage in sexual activity with them. But what do I know? Shades of grey innit? "

*spits on floor in a theatrical and over the top manner* don't mention that book to me lol

I just think that there's a lot of life in between gay and straight just like everything else, its more fluid than that

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

50 Shade of Ghey?

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By *orkshire biMan
over a year ago

elland

I'm married and bi. The mrs doesn't know but I sometimes think she does. I class myself as liking it both ways.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

But yes, I concur.

The OP's definition of bisexual is flawed.

Go do a Kinsey Test.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Robbie Williams feat. Rufus Wainwright - Swings Both Ways

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L1s7KZgWXGc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Kinsey test? Would I have to study for it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Willy wonky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Willy wonky?"

Straight until they have a willy in front of them.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Kinsey test? Would I have to study for it?

No, just a basic knowledge of Google and yourself will suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*spits on floor in a theatrical and over the top manner* don't mention that book to me lol

I just think that there's a lot of life in between gay and straight just like everything else, its more fluid than that"

nah - the point at which any man wants to start playing with another man's John Thomas he's at least bi-curious in my simplistic view of the world. And if then they cross the line from 'wanting to play' to 'actually playing' then they are bi.

Nowt wrong with that at all, nothing to be ashamed of, I just don't subscribe to this 'I'm not bi I just like playing with cocks' notion - it's just denial innit?

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By *hangovCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Labels can be very problematic though. Mrs C would not want to have a relationship with a woman (which would mean that she is not bi by your definition) but she has been enjoying sex with women for many years so she could hardly be described as bi curious.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*spits on floor in a theatrical and over the top manner* don't mention that book to me lol

I just think that there's a lot of life in between gay and straight just like everything else, its more fluid than that

Nowt wrong with that at all, nothing to be ashamed of, I just don't subscribe to this 'I'm not bi I just like playing with cocks' notion - it's just denial innit?

To turn the proposition on its head, you might as well posit that all straights do is vaginal sex in the missionary position.

There's a whole lot of pleasure centres, degrees of desire and preferences out there.

I occasionally find a man who's happy to take it up the jacksie and suck cock but who won't kiss.

Whatever. It's not my sexuality.

*shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kinsey test? Would I have to study for it?

No, just a basic knowledge of Google and yourself will suffice

Sounds like my fucking sex life at the moment

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Kinsey test? Would I have to study for it?

No, just a basic knowledge of Google and yourself will suffice

Sounds like my fucking sex life at the moment

Have you thought about becoming bisexual?

Double your chance of a date and, let's face it, the site is *full* of single men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Labels can be very problematic though. Mrs C would not want to have a relationship with a woman (which would mean that she is not bi by your definition) but she has been enjoying sex with women for many years so she could hardly be described as bi curious."

I think labels can be comforting sometimes though, its an easy way to say what you're into

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kinsey test? Would I have to study for it?

No, just a basic knowledge of Google and yourself will suffice

Sounds like my fucking sex life at the moment

Have you thought about becoming bisexual?

Double your chance of a date and, let's face it, the site is *full* of single men

Yeah, I thought about it, I had an experience, its not for me, I don't have a problem with cock, I just don't lijke them on men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

What a load of codswallop, a person is Bi if they have sex with both sexes.

There is a name for a man who enjoys another man's genitals, it's gay or Bi.

Never heard of a spaghetti lesbian, not sure what books you are reading.

Men fuck women without wanting a relationship, so what does that make them then, closet heterosexual???

Absolutely rubbish statement.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Kinsey test? Would I have to study for it?

No, just a basic knowledge of Google and yourself will suffice

Sounds like my fucking sex life at the moment

Have you thought about becoming bisexual?

Double your chance of a date and, let's face it, the site is *full* of single men

Yeah, I thought about it, I had an experience, its not for me, I don't have a problem with cock, I just don't lijke them on men lol

Sounds a little bit gay to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are only bi if you like the cock, the rest is gay lol.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"You are only bi if you like the cock, the rest is gay lol."

No.

It's only gay if you push back whilst being fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

I call myself situationaly bi. (if the situation is right im bi)....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi... gay... straight... who actually gives a fuck, as long as you enjoy what you do, there's no need for labels on anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

That's only Your definition though.

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder

"In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

I call myself situationaly bi. (if the situation is right im bi)....

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then youre bi, end of.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kinsey test? Would I have to study for it?

No, just a basic knowledge of Google and yourself will suffice

Sounds like my fucking sex life at the moment

Have you thought about becoming bisexual?

Double your chance of a date and, let's face it, the site is *full* of single men

Yeah, I thought about it, I had an experience, its not for me, I don't have a problem with cock, I just don't lijke them on men lol

Sounds a little bit gay to me..."

I'm bi-sapien lol I don't even know what that !means lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are only bi if you like the cock, the rest is gay lol.

No.

It's only gay if you push back whilst being fucked

Reminds me of a quote from layer cake

"Fucking women is for poofs" I've never been able to work that one out

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Kinsey test? Would I have to study for it?

No, just a basic knowledge of Google and yourself will suffice

Sounds like my fucking sex life at the moment

Have you thought about becoming bisexual?

Double your chance of a date and, let's face it, the site is *full* of single men

Yeah, I thought about it, I had an experience, its not for me, I don't have a problem with cock, I just don't lijke them on men lol

Sounds a little bit gay to me...

I'm bi-sapien lol I don't even know what that !means lol

So you go for chicks with dicks?

See, I'm fully bisexual but that just don't work for me...

It's a spectrum - bit like a special school

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kinsey test? Would I have to study for it?

No, just a basic knowledge of Google and yourself will suffice

Sounds like my fucking sex life at the moment

Have you thought about becoming bisexual?

Double your chance of a date and, let's face it, the site is *full* of single men

Yeah, I thought about it, I had an experience, its not for me, I don't have a problem with cock, I just don't lijke them on men lol

Sounds a little bit gay to me...

I'm bi-sapien lol I don't even know what that !means lol

So you go for chicks with dicks?

See, I'm fully bisexual but that just don't work for me...

It's a spectrum - bit like a special school

No but I'm partial to a hussy with a pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

Hmm. I like having sex with both, women and men but I only see myself being in a relationship with women. What does that make me?

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder

"In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

Hmm. I like having sex with both, women and men but I only see myself being in a relationship with women. What does that make me?

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hopefully someone who tells the female the truth of his sexuality so she knows exactly what youre in to. bisexual

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD

"In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

I have always found both male and female sexually attractive,so I guess I would,if pressed,call myself bi.whether I could have a full time relationship with a man? I don't know,but would never rule it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

I'd agree with your relationship statement. There doesn't seem to be a suitable label for the lesser bi people that just want to fuck.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

I'd agree with your relationship statement. There doesn't seem to be a suitable label for thr lesser bi people that just want to fuck.

I'm situationally bi. Or bi playful. I like other girls sexually but romantic relationship wise it's always been men for me. Mind you, I'm not looking for a relationship with a guy either so bi will do for what I use fab for.

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By *ntriguedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

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By *ntriguedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

I've heard some people describe themselves as bisexual but heteroamorous. They could be sexually attracted to either gender but would only want a romantic relationship with the opposite gender. Or vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The terminology is problematic really. There should be another term for those you are romantically interested in as opposed to just sexual interest. Hetero/homophile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've heard some people describe themselves as bisexual but heteroamorous. They could be sexually attracted to either gender but would only want a romantic relationship with the opposite gender. Or vice versa. "

Or this ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are only bi if you like the cock, the rest is gay lol.

No.

It's only gay if you push back whilst being fucked

This statement made me do a big splurty type of laugh on the bus

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Dublin

"In my opinion, someone is bi, if they are attracted to both men and women to the extent that they would be happy to be in a relationship with either.

What a lot of people on here are describing falls short of that some what.

But there is no real term for a man who enjoys another mans genitals, I mean there's the "spaghetti lesbian" (straight till wet) but nothing for men, any ideas? Its just a thought

As a bi guy married to a man I'd agree with you but at what point do you tip the scale and declare yourself bi because unless you try a relationship with a guy you'll never know.

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By *rincessAdrestiaTV/TS
over a year ago

Reading

"Hmm. I like having sex with both, women and men but I only see myself being in a relationship with women. What does that make me?

Bisexual, heteroromantic.

I did a lot of study on alternative sexualities (I'm pansexual - which doesn't mean I'll fuck anything, but it means gender doesn't matter), and your sexuality is who you have sex with. But you can want romantic relationships with only one sex.

So I'm pansexual, homoromantic (technically gyneromantic as it's femininity I'm attracted to) and also polyamorous.

Eventually you can find enough labels to define yourself. If not, go make some more up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view on bisexuality is that there's two sides -

Sexually - where there's attraction and you'd have sex but it's a casual thing.

Romantically - where you seek romantic relationships with the same sex, like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But with the logic that you can only be bisexual if you want a relationship with both sexes, surely that's just as limiting as saying if you're heterosexual you should want a relationship with every person you have sex with! Sexuality is a huge sliding scale,that often changes/morphs through life. In my humble opinion!xx

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