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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are nervous couple what Would you do to make us not nervous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are nervous couple what Would you do to make us not nervous?"

Experience and time is the only thing that will cure that

Although even long standing swingers still get nervous before meets lol

Ya would be strange if ya didn't ta some degree xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Personally if I didn't have nerves before I meet I would give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally if I didn't have nerves before I meet I would give up.

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Agreed it's all part of the fun, but I guess too nervous could be a bad thing.

Maybe go to a social...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dont hit the bottle Big time and make fool of yourself , lol xx some have in the passed i am sure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get nervous...always excited, but never nervous! We are all different.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I never get nervous...always excited, but never nervous! We are all different. "

I am with you on that one. I don't feel there is anything to be nervous about... but plenty to be excited about.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I never get nervous...always excited, but never nervous! We are all different.

I am with you on that one. I don't feel there is anything to be nervous about... but plenty to be excited about."

God I still get nervous... I think it's excitement and of course it depends on what I'm doing but the club thing... for the five minutes from pulling up in the car park to getting in the front door, I feel a bit on the sick side! Am fine once I'm in and naked but blimey those five minutes are far from enjoyable!!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"We are nervous couple what Would you do to make us not nervous?"

Lots of things make us feel nervous, it's part of a self defence system. It can be the fear of the unknown or guilt (in many cases) or any number of things.

Sometimes it is a sign that you are at your limits and to push beyond is not always a good thing.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We still get nervous mixed with excitement before a new meet..you may always get nervous, who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get nervous...always excited, but never nervous! We are all different.

I am with you on that one. I don't feel there is anything to be nervous about... but plenty to be excited about.

God I still get nervous... I think it's excitement and of course it depends on what I'm doing but the club thing... for the five minutes from pulling up in the car park to getting in the front door, I feel a bit on the sick side! Am fine once I'm in and naked but blimey those five minutes are far from enjoyable!! "

I can understand that, but I never meet in clubs, hotels, meet today, go dogging, socials etc - that's not for me. The people I'm going to be playing with I've chatted to, met socially, some a couple of times before actually meeting to play. So there's nothing for me to be nervous about - just the thrill of the grand old time (usually) to come!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I never get nervous...always excited, but never nervous! We are all different.

I am with you on that one. I don't feel there is anything to be nervous about... but plenty to be excited about.

God I still get nervous... I think it's excitement and of course it depends on what I'm doing but the club thing... for the five minutes from pulling up in the car park to getting in the front door, I feel a bit on the sick side! Am fine once I'm in and naked but blimey those five minutes are far from enjoyable!!

I can understand that, but I never meet in clubs, hotels, meet today, go dogging, socials etc - that's not for me. The people I'm going to be playing with I've chatted to, met socially, some a couple of times before actually meeting to play. So there's nothing for me to be nervous about - just the thrill of the grand old time (usually) to come! "

Yup... the people I play with I know and really don't get very nervous around them... that's definite excitement because I'm entirely comfortable. The club thing is outwith my comfort zone I suppose. In my head, before I go, I think right... I'm gonna be a proper trollop, then when I get there I think too much about stuff. It's bizarre. I have a fight with myself every time cause once I get past the initial approach thing and find someone I want to play with I totally love it and stop thinking too much and have a fab time. I've just not figured out how to make myself less uptight about it... at the moment I'm going with the practice makes perfect theory!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

No need to be nervous my loves!

The first thing I do to calm the nerves when a partner/s stands there in awe at my majesty is to pour a cognac and offer cigars. I then put on Serge Gainsbourg's 'Je t'aime', remove my smoking jacket and cravat and begin my dance!

My hypnotic naked monkey love dance! (Think Tales of the Unexpected credits but more awesome!)

All will feel their fears melt away in absolute wonder at ME!

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over a year ago

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"No need to be nervous my loves!

The first thing I do to calm the nerves when a partner/s stands there in awe at my majesty is to pour a cognac and offer cigars. I then put on Serge Gainsbourg's 'Je t'aime', remove my smoking jacket and cravat and begin my dance!

My hypnotic naked monkey love dance! (Think Tales of the Unexpected credits but more awesome!)

All will feel their fears melt away in absolute wonder at ME!"

How can anyone resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No need to be nervous my loves!

The first thing I do to calm the nerves when a partner/s stands there in awe at my majesty is to pour a cognac and offer cigars. I then put on Serge Gainsbourg's 'Je t'aime', remove my smoking jacket and cravat and begin my dance!

My hypnotic naked monkey love dance! (Think Tales of the Unexpected credits but more awesome!)

All will feel their fears melt away in absolute wonder at ME!

How can anyone resist"

exactly, my thoughts also

pushes petite pois behind me in the queue

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


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How can anyone resist

exactly, my thoughts also

pushes petite pois behind me in the queue"

See, now I'm nervous!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


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How can anyone resist

exactly, my thoughts also

pushes petite pois behind me in the queue

See, now I'm nervous! "

You should be... I'm on my way!

*packs strapon and wiggles eyebrows*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont ya just love it when a guy is nervous. i just see a potential cleaner for me house lol

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm not coming back into this thread now

I'm faced with either being impaled by DG or cleaning for bi pussy.

Decisions decisions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"dont ya just love it when a guy is nervous. i just see a potential cleaner for me house lol "

Ya still make me nervous now and I've known ya fa years xx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I could lick you too if you like?! Does that swing it in my favour?!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"I could lick you too if you like?! Does that swing it in my favour?! "

It be swunged!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I could lick you too if you like?! Does that swing it in my favour?!

It be swunged! "

Reeeeeeeeeeesult!

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i would be nervous too living in middle earth, i've seen the films - its petrifying. And as for meets i'm scared .....witless.

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