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By *exiliciousme OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool

No not my cock lol. Just too get a response from any of the messeges I send out ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to answer without knowing what you're saying!

I used to send loads when I first joined and likewise it was very hit and miss. Now I send the rare message out to a 'new' person only every now and then and through it being targeted at them specifically (proving I've read the profile etc) it's very rare that don't get a response back. Some I'll end up meeting, others I won't.

So spending some time writing fewer, but better, messages worked for me anyway.

Good luck my friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let men message you, you'll get loads haha

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By *exiliciousme OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Let men message you, you'll get loads haha "

Haha good plan but not floating my boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you read the full profile before messaging?

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Have you tried tinder? Far better for guys imo. Use fab as a side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you send pictures with your messages? Purely because the traffic of messages that come through my box I wouldn't respond to ask someone for pictures, I'd just delete the message. If you send a nice message that shows that you've read the profile and if they give specifics of what they're looking for and you match that and send a message containing pictures you should get a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you send pictures with your messages? Purely because the traffic of messages that come through my box I wouldn't respond to ask someone for pictures, I'd just delete the message. If you send a nice message that shows that you've read the profile and if they give specifics of what they're looking for and you match that and send a message containing pictures you should get a response. "

totally agree. If people have made the effort to read my profile and refer to it in a message will always get a response.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I very very rarely send proactive messages , I let others find me ... Those I do send I expect nothing then I'm not disappointed.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I never send unsolicited messages, I just can't stand the heart break of no reply, I feel like a failure it's horrible.

If any women and/or couples would like to send a message out of pity that's fine though (attach pictures of your fajiner) thanks.

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By *exiliciousme OP   Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"Do you read the full profile before messaging?"

Yes always read the profile fully and don't just send copied messeges

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