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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently I have been reading profiles. I know who doesn't right?

It is quite fasinating to read many of them. I suspect many women do not read other women's profiles, couples tend to read everyone's profile. Men you should really look at other men's profiles also.

People tend to overlook that mutual attraction plays a big part in what we do here. I do like reading that many people are acutely aware of this fact.

There are many wonderful and varied people out there men, women and couples, all with their distinct view and I for one think that what makes this community better.

You are all great people and I hope whatever you desire or want out of this fantastic experience you get it.

Much love x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I have been reading profiles. I know who doesn't right?

It is quite fasinating to read many of them. I suspect many women do not read other women's profiles, couples tend to read everyone's profile. Men you should really look at other men's profiles also.

People tend to overlook that mutual attraction plays a big part in what we do here. I do like reading that many people are acutely aware of this fact.

There are many wonderful and varied people out there men, women and couples, all with their distinct view and I for one think that what makes this community better.

You are all great people and I hope whatever you desire or want out of this fantastic experience you get it.

Much love x

"
Nice post x

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool


"Recently I have been reading profiles. I know who doesn't right?

It is quite fasinating to read many of them. I suspect many women do not read other women's profiles, couples tend to read everyone's profile. Men you should really look at other men's profiles also.

People tend to overlook that mutual attraction plays a big part in what we do here. I do like reading that many people are acutely aware of this fact.

There are many wonderful and varied people out there men, women and couples, all with their distinct view and I for one think that what makes this community better.

You are all great people and I hope whatever you desire or want out of this fantastic experience you get it.

Much love x

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks but I don't see the point of reading other guy's profile. It would bring 0 benefit to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks but I don't see the point of reading other guy's profile. It would bring 0 benefit to mine."

Fucking quads on you! Jesus, mahoosive, nice!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I enjoy reading profiles that show some humour I think it also show some intelligence and we'll I'd never meet anyone I couldn't enjoy a laugh with. Must admit though I don't read blokes profile as I don't see the point..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun' "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun' "
boo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun' boo! "
booooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun' "

You've just elaborated on that phrase in your profile mister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks but I don't see the point of reading other guy's profile. It would bring 0 benefit to mine.

Fucking quads on you! Jesus, mahoosive, nice!"

Think they're made of lego lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I have been reading profiles. I know who doesn't right?

It is quite fasinating to read many of them. I suspect many women do not read other women's profiles, couples tend to read everyone's profile. Men you should really look at other men's profiles also.

People tend to overlook that mutual attraction plays a big part in what we do here. I do like reading that many people are acutely aware of this fact.

There are many wonderful and varied people out there men, women and couples, all with their distinct view and I for one think that what makes this community better.

You are all great people and I hope whatever you desire or want out of this fantastic experience you get it.

Much love x

"

Hmm....good point. Might have to look at some of the profiles of the other blokes on here as it might help me get more success! I've listed my intentions, stated why I can't accommodate, uploaded a few pics and used proper grammar (none of that text speak crap ha ha), yet I'm still getting nowhere!

Might be good to check out the profiles of the successful men on here and find out the secret to their success!

Thanks for the inspiration OP! x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're reminded almost daily that people absolutely do not read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun' "

More likely to get an idea of what NOT to put...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun'

More likely to get an idea of what NOT to put..."

Well yes that too! The sodding Sydney uni warning for a start.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I am just nosey and read a lot of profiles. Then get confused and send messages with a comment that relates to someone else profile lol.... xxxx. Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone interests me then I always read the profile thoroughly before contacting them.

I don't read through many other men's profiles to be honest despite your suggestion - it's up to them how they sell themselves and what works for them might not be my style at all even if it's really successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a typical man I just look at the pics unless it's someone im very intrested in. xxx

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I for one love reading the profiles of both sexes, it's a great insight into the people here.

Gotta admit, I despise the one liner profiles, the ones that might as well say "I just can't be bothered to write anything interesting about me"....

Those just get passed by.

Remember, life is like a job interview... You have to sell yourself in the first 2 minutes or you won't get the (blow) job!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Well I know people read my profile and veris from feedback I have had at meets

I can tell from fabs that people do look at photos

I know that for some people I am what they are looking for, some I am not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun' "

agree on that one xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I enjoy reading profiles that show some humour I think it also show some intelligence and we'll I'd never meet anyone I couldn't enjoy a laugh with. Must admit though I don't read blokes profile as I don't see the point.."

Don't you check out the profile when someone on the forum makes an interesting or contentious point though, or has an interesting avatar pic you want to see clearly? I check out profiles of all sorts of people, just out of curiosity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun' "

Disagree. If they steal an amazing profile yet they are boring and disrespectful ...

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Recently I have been reading profiles. I know who doesn't right?

It is quite fasinating to read many of them. I suspect many women do not read other women's profiles, couples tend to read everyone's profile. Men you should really look at other men's profiles also.

People tend to overlook that mutual attraction plays a big part in what we do here. I do like reading that many people are acutely aware of this fact.

There are many wonderful and varied people out there men, women and couples, all with their distinct view and I for one think that what makes this community better.

You are all great people and I hope whatever you desire or want out of this fantastic experience you get it.

Much love x

"

I often read other folks (ladies,couples and gents)profiles, those that interest me I'll read all, those that lose my interest I move on quickly to the next.

I've said it often the same basic rules apply to all on here, afterall we're all trying to inform and attract .. if having a bland and one dimensional profile works fair play having an Informative profile might bring way more though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love yours OP !

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Some profiles are classic for all of the wrong reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun'

Disagree. If they steal an amazing profile yet they are boring and disrespectful ..."

I didn't mean steal a profile. But look at the info provided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun'

Disagree. If they steal an amazing profile yet they are boring and disrespectful ...

I didn't mean steal a profile. But look at the info provided."

Sorry yep I meant that. If they use someone else's ideas to improve their own but they aren't that kind of person, I'll read the profile thinking ooh he sounds cool when actually he's a train spotter that's never been kissed. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun'

Disagree. If they steal an amazing profile yet they are boring and disrespectful ...

I didn't mean steal a profile. But look at the info provided.

Sorry yep I meant that. If they use someone else's ideas to improve their own but they aren't that kind of person, I'll read the profile thinking ooh he sounds cool when actually he's a train spotter that's never been kissed. x"

You know,having a tartan flask and rain pac a mac doesn't mean I'm not a complete animal beneath the sheets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun'

Disagree. If they steal an amazing profile yet they are boring and disrespectful ...

I didn't mean steal a profile. But look at the info provided.

Sorry yep I meant that. If they use someone else's ideas to improve their own but they aren't that kind of person, I'll read the profile thinking ooh he sounds cool when actually he's a train spotter that's never been kissed. x

You know,having a tartan flask and rain pac a mac doesn't mean I'm not a complete animal beneath the sheets "

Apologies.

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

I read profiles all the time.. I spend a lot of time in the forums and if I see a post that sounds interesting I go peek (doesn't matter if it's make or female). There are a few folk whos profile instantly turns me off though due to arrogance which has always been a pet hate. I agree it's a place to "sell" oneself but if you come across as arrogant as hell in 4 sentences then I can't imagine how you'd come across in real life!

But yes, as a rule I do enjoy profile surfing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're reminded almost daily that people absolutely do not read profiles "

You've got a profile??????

Who'd have know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think new blokes should read a rew of the other blokes profiles. Get an idea of what to put other than just 'nice guy looking for fun'

Disagree. If they steal an amazing profile yet they are boring and disrespectful ...

I didn't mean steal a profile. But look at the info provided.

Sorry yep I meant that. If they use someone else's ideas to improve their own but they aren't that kind of person, I'll read the profile thinking ooh he sounds cool when actually he's a train spotter that's never been kissed. x"

What the fucks wrong with train spotting?????

Oh, hold on... oops...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to read males that have veri-ed a female or couple I look at. If they are all tall, muscular and handsome I don't bother sending a message as no amount of manners or well written profile is going to win them over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always read the profiles and we have found (in our very limited experience) that thise who have 5 words generally only send 2 word responces when chatting and were lookjng for people we can have a laugh and a drink with before not just a quick fumble

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

As well a good understandable profile get out to socials clubs parties and get in the thick of it, use the forums web cams etc as nice people always end up last so be as fucking naughty as you can be lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As well a good understandable profile get out to socials clubs parties and get in the thick of it, use the forums web cams etc as nice people always end up last so be as fucking naughty as you can be lol."

A good idea in principle, but people who read my profile think I'm a cunt. People who read my forum posts think I'm a cunt. It stands to reason that anyone I would meet in a club would also think I'm a cunt...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a typical man I just look at the pics unless it's someone im very intrested in. xxx "

interesting that you associate yourself as a man, when your profile states your a woman, Freudian slip, this is why I love fab and the people you are all wonderful!

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