FabSwingers.com forum: Non-fab friends

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone tell friends that aren't on here or know nothing about it that you have a profile??

Fab recently came up in conversation and after I explained it I got looked as like I was filthy!!

Anyone had a similar experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Told my best mate last night. He just laughed. But then again I said it with a motive as his wife is fit as fuck lol

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Nope and don't think we ever would either.

Mr G

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By *ornylady71Woman
over a year ago

near Bury

Nope its nowt to do with anybody else wot I do,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't told anyone but have had friends discussing things which make us wonder if they're members of the site or swingers in general. We sometimes wonder if they're trying to suss out if we'd be interested or if they've found us online. Or we could just be paranoid and would totally freak them out if we made a move haha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Haven't told anyone but have had friends discussing things which make us wonder if they're members of the site or swingers in general. We sometimes wonder if they're trying to suss out if we'd be interested or if they've found us online. Or we could just be paranoid and would totally freak them out if we made a move haha! "

Haha Ive seen a couple of people I know on herelol was gonna say something but thought it Better to keep the two worlds separate!!

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By *orthLincsIronCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Nope and don't think we ever would either.

Mr G"

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have no qualms about telling anyone and most people who know me, have known that I am bi and on here. I used to work on site with a young lad who every Monday morning would ask me "Have you done any swinging this weekend"?

However I don't go broadcasting it on the streets to all and sundry

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

A couple of my mates are also on the site, when we lived local to each other we used to talk about the site but no vanilla friends get told about fab

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Close friends know my lifestyle but I don't have the need to share fab details.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

My one longest friend found out from someone on facebook he message her stating om here plus he posted video of me try share them my daughter seen them she disgusted going mad get video of wasn't hardly doing anything but anywhere got taken of but my friend said didn't think you like this and it shock me and said just be safe so she know.think ex told few even is family when he was on here.me and friend don't talk about it said enjoy life becareful.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"Close friends know my lifestyle but I don't have the need to share fab details. "

This

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I work in professional circles.

Whilst I'm not ashamed in anyway to be on here, I work in various professional circles and couldn't afford people to make incorrect assumptions of me just because I am here.

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

"Close friends know my lifestyle but I don't have the need to share fab details.

This

MrsSB

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true shouldn't have to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We moved area a few years ago and found a new circle of friends we was out one night as a group and hubby made a joke about Internet porn they all looked at him like he was an animal . All but one of the 7 couples husbands said they had never ever looked a porn on the Internet and wouldn't even know how to find it ( complete bullshit I know). Needles to say we don't bother with them all anymore. Imagine if we had told them about fab they would have treated us like leppers. But on the other hand we have told a couple of our close friends from the previous area we live and their a little less prudish and have no problem with it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My little dalliances with and meets from Fab are my little escape from normal 'everyday' life and as such there's a very clear distinction between here and everything else.

People that know me in vanilla life I think would be genuinely shocked if they knew I was on here. It's so UNLIKE normal Dan

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

2 close friends of mine know and it's good to chat to them every now and again about it as I think they have the potential swing in them so they are fascinated, helpful and not disgusted.

A few of hubby's oldest and closest friends know too.

But absolutely none of our other good friends and friends that we spend time with as couples know, I would be horrified if they knew as silly assumptions would be made!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my fab and personal life very separate.

I don't feel the need to broadcast it.

I think my friends in real life would be rather gobsmacked if they found out. I certainly wouldn't openly admit to them that I was on here either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't discuss our sex life with anybody unless they're likely to be involved in it.

I do think singles need to have one person who knows where they're going and who with though, just in case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few of my very close friends know but only those who i know wouldn't judge me for being here...

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

My friends all know. A few would be interested in trying it if their other halves were up for it but they're not. Others are curious but would never try it themselves. All have been supportive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my best mate, took me ages to tell her but I was pleasantly surprised by her reaction. Felt like a massive weight taken off my shoulders having someone to talk about Fab.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

" Does anyone tell friends that aren't on here or know nothing about it that you have a profile??

Fab recently came up in conversation and after I explained it I got looked as like I was filthy!!

Anyone had a similar experience?"

No, as my private life is simply that: private!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Nope and don't think we ever would either.

Mr G"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told my best friend we were on here, at the same time I came out to her a bi.

She joined up, had a bit of fun, met someone on here, has fallen in love and moved in together

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

my best friend knows all about fab.. she even took some pics for me...i couldn't get her to join though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers are filthy deviants. Why the hell would I tell anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't discuss our sex life with anybody unless they're likely to be involved in it.

I do think singles need to have one person who knows where they're going and who with though, just in case."

I don't even discuss my sex life with people I have sex with!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We don't discuss our sex life with anybody unless they're likely to be involved in it.

I do think singles need to have one person who knows where they're going and who with though, just in case.

I don't even discuss my sex life with people I have sex with!

That is because you're an international woman of mystery

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I tell everyone who will listen, be proud, shout it loud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't discuss our sex life with anybody unless they're likely to be involved in it.

I do think singles need to have one person who knows where they're going and who with though, just in case.

I don't even discuss my sex life with people I have sex with!

That is because you're an international woman of mystery

Can't believe you've outed me as a woman.

What do you think my profile pic is?

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

I'd be embarrassed to tell people I was on this site

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