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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think these here forums are for people not like me lol... Which is cool.. Just thought I'd try them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beware of the cliques

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah this will be the last topic I post lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are for everyone, lots of arseholes in the forums i admit, but they make it addictive and fun, with their weird and wonderful threads. I've not been swinging for 3 months now, but I miss the madness on the forums so much........have to have a sneaky peek each day.

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

They are for everyone,we post so many random topic there's awkward something for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should keep posting - controversy is refreshing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay on fella - post within the rules of the forum but don't let the buggers get you down.

Ignore the clique (that will vociferously deny that they don't exist) and carry on doing your thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stay on fella - post within the rules of the forum but don't let the buggers get you down.

Ignore the clique (that will vociferously deny that they don't exist) and carry on doing your thing!

Or vociferously deny that they DO exist rather .. You know what I meant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll tell you why, it's because you only give snippets of information. You'll say a statement but not give specifics, kind of makes your statement sound like you're not really passionate about it or you're just saying it for effect, when people think you're just a saying things for a reaction they won't answer you seriously or they'll just write half arsed responses.

I've got a couple of niche things that I like that I'd write about and people would answer me in a piss taking way because they thought I was taking the piss, but I had courage in my beliefs and passion and in time people thought umm ok she's actually serious about these things.

Give more details, and be more passionate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll tell you why, it's because you only give snippets of information. You'll say a statement but not give specifics, kind of makes your statement sound like you're not really passionate about it or you're just saying it for effect, when people think you're just a saying things for a reaction they won't answer you seriously or they'll just write half arsed responses.

Give more details, and be more passionate. "

This

I stayed quiet overnight with your postings OP but you didn't really help your own cause.

New day, fresh start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only one thing you post about,or join in on. You won't get as many responses because sticking to one theme. People will get bored talking about the same thing over and over,unless it's a who has the best something or other,where they can get attention,or kiss,pass,lick threads where they can show people they fancy them by saying fuck every time.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Forge your own path OP, dont follow the crowd, start the threads you want to, comment on the ones you want to, and dont kiss arse.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It's simple You want one thing and that's all you'll talk about so people get bored with it quick.

Not to mention the ones that won't bother with you because you seem to be sexually selfish

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Give more details, and be more passionate.

This

I stayed quiet overnight with your postings OP but you didn't really help your own cause.

New day, fresh start

No wonder he doesnt feel welcome

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

People keep going on about cliques. Its bollocks.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"It's simple You want one thing and that's all you'll talk about so people get bored with it quick.

Not to mention the ones that won't bother with you because you seem to be sexually selfish

And slightly misogynistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that initially.. But persistence pays off... Well sorta. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

window....

look out of

door..

walk out of

laptop, phone, tablet...

switch off when you are irritated

I'm finally doing this.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've never thought of this place as having a clique. I've found that if you post things that come over well, then you are welcomed.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Everyone is welcome on the forums.

It's entirely up to you how you conduct yourself.

If you manage to keep yourself within the rules of the site then you can please yourself with what you post.

The little green arrow beside your name allows everyone to see what you've posted previously so if you want to please other people at any point in your time here, you should bear that in mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have stayed within the rules to my knowledge... Never been rude to anyone even when they were blatantly rude to me.

I just posted that am looking to meet some filthy women...

Luckily a few nice people inboxed me to tell me that the forums arnt as bad as they seem.

Time will tell I guess.

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By *iss AdventureWoman
over a year ago

Wonderland

"I think these here forums are for people not like me lol... Which is cool.. Just thought I'd try them.

You know what, I like that you are exactly who YOU are, you're not trying to come across as something/someone you're not.

Your likes and preferences are as valid as anyone else's. The forums are for everyone and you might not feel they're for you, but I like that you throw something else into the mix. Don't let how some people have perceived you make you feel like you shouldn't be here.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I have stayed within the rules to my knowledge... Never been rude to anyone even when they were blatantly rude to me.

I just posted that am looking to meet some filthy women...

Luckily a few nice people inboxed me to tell me that the forums arnt as bad as they seem.

Time will tell I guess."

They really aren't. Most of us spend way too much time on them. Stick around... some of us are even quite witty on occasion.

I've not looked at your little green arrow so I've no idea what you've said. I'm not that easily offended. If you behave like a chump, people will be sure to tell you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I posted a new thread... Hopefully its a bit better

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"I have stayed within the rules to my knowledge... Never been rude to anyone even when they were blatantly rude to me.

I just posted that am looking to meet some filthy women...

Luckily a few nice people inboxed me to tell me that the forums arnt as bad as they seem.

Time will tell I guess."

I wouldn't change for other people, carry on as you are. If someone else breaks forum rules while answering you that isn't down to you.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

This place is just like the real world, some will like you and find you interesting others won.t some will notice you others won't..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beware of the cliques"
oh you stand no chance in the cliques lol.

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home

"This place is just like the real world, some will like you and find you interesting others won.t some will notice you others won't..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never thought of this place as having a clique. I've found that if you post things that come over well, then you are welcomed. "

yea cant say I noticed these so called cliques.

think the forum is pretty friendly lots of nice folk and its a giggle

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

They're for everyone and if others make you unwelcome then it would be disapproved of.

You make it what you wish it to be here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that there are certain people who suck up to other people,one or two think they are king and queen of the forum as people put them on a pedestal.....dont believe the hype

Live long and prosper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say that there are certain people who suck up to other people,one or two think they are king and queen of the forum as people put them on a pedestal.....dont believe the hype

Live long and prosper"
spot on x

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

The forums are for everyone and i don't mind being ignored xx

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I think these here forums are for people not like me lol... Which is cool.. Just thought I'd try them.

The forums are for everyone,they don't belong to a select few.

Don't stop posting or change to suit others. Long as your posting within the site rules, crack on doing your own thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah this will be the last topic I post lol"

Are you sure about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have stayed within the rules to my knowledge... Never been rude to anyone even when they were blatantly rude to me.

I just posted that am looking to meet some filthy women...

Luckily a few nice people inboxed me to tell me that the forums arnt as bad as they seem.

Time will tell I guess."

You're using the forums to meet filthy women,which is fine,but that will exclude everyone else who doesn't fit your criteria. You've had some inbox response,so it's working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met and and meeting some lovely people of the forums. I tend to chat to people that have similar interests and there are never any expectations.

If people have no interest in me or dont want to take the time to get to know me thats up to them.

There are some lovely people here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah this will be the last topic I post lol

Are you sure about that?

That didn't last very long

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah this will be the last topic I post lol

Are you sure about that?

Thought I'd try again

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I just agree with everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just agree with everyone"

Yes I agree

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I just agree with everyone

Yes I agree

Yes I agree too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hola! Im just here to disrupt things hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello chums

The forums are for all, you just need to jump in , post and embrace the silliness

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I just agree with everyone

Yes I agree

Yes I agree too

I don't agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are the main reason I return to Fab. Infuriating at times but quite simply FAB entertainment at its best for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not start a thread about least favourite flavour of crisps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just agree with everyone

Yes I agree

Yes I agree too

I don't agree."

There's always one

chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just agree with everyone

Yes I agree

Yes I agree too

I don't agree."

I agree with your disagreement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hola! Im just here to disrupt things hehe"

How?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean by people not like you?

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"I would say that there are certain people who suck up to other people,one or two think they are king and queen of the forum as people put them on a pedestal.....dont believe the hype

Live long and prosper"

Tru dat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are very useful for passing the time whilst taking a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just keep posting - some get ignored some get commented on - i just wade in and be myself - say mostly positive or funny stuff (well ithink im funny )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. "
can't say I've ever found them intiminating. Yes there seems to be a clique but I never feel intimidated by them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. can't say I've ever found them intiminating. Yes there seems to be a clique but I never feel intimidated by them x"

Wait till they gang up on you X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. can't say I've ever found them intiminating. Yes there seems to be a clique but I never feel intimidated by them x"

Start a thread where you mention you shagged someone without a comdom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. can't say I've ever found them intiminating. Yes there seems to be a clique but I never feel intimidated by them x

Start a thread where you mention you shagged someone without a comdom!"

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Fools and wind up artists on forums wherever you log on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feck em! Oh...thats the point hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, green arrow indicates you are a significant part of the forums, lots of topics started and threads contributed to.

So this is a bit of an odd thread to post..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They can be intimidating when the regulars (or clique) are all together, but most of the time it's a lot of fun, I ignore the daily threads, but you do get some good topics occasionally. "

I don't believe in the 'clique', it gets thrown around a lot a bit like Santa clause or the boggyman but they are not real either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have only one thing you post about,or join in on. You won't get as many responses because sticking to one theme. People will get bored talking about the same thing over and over,unless it's a who has the best something or other,where they can get attention,or kiss,pass,lick threads where they can show people they fancy them by saying fuck every time. "

Is this about beards and tattoos again?

It is isn't it.....

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

Been roasted by a lady clique determined to argue before...but I never backed down.

It's better not to rise to the bait in the first place...but easier said thab done.

Besided I realised that the majority of peeps on here are cool and up for a laugh.

So talk to the good uns and ignore the clunges.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I've never thought of this place as having a clique. I've found that if you post things that come over well, then you are welcomed. "

You're very right

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Lots are able to give it, a lot less of them can take it back

Both new and old posters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give more details, and be more passionate.

This

I stayed quiet overnight with your postings OP but you didn't really help your own cause.

New day, fresh start

No wonder he doesnt feel welcome

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pmsl.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you say so my mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you say so my mate "

yeah I do say so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you say so my mate

yeah I do say so!"

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I think these here forums are for people not like me lol... Which is cool.. Just thought I'd try them.

Nice tats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with it op you seem like a hard fucker.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick with it op you seem like a hard fucker.

xxx"

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forge your own path OP, dont follow the crowd, start the threads you want to, comment on the ones you want to, and dont kiss arse."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the poster below..they're full of bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ignore the poster below..they're full of bullshit

He's right you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignores poster above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling op.....I once posted a thread to wake people up...."simon cowell found dead" feels like I got blackballed since..hardly bother now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love lamp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know the feeling op.....I once posted a thread to wake people up...."simon cowell found dead" feels like I got blackballed since..hardly bother now"

Only because I realised you weren't telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an open forum post whatever you like....as long as it's not personal if people don't like what you say they can do one.....if your looking for a slut meet you will always get a few people that will get on their high horse....I personally think you have conducted yourself very well and yeah there has been a few times (more lately) when I think what the fuck am I doing on this site I'm too normal lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been roasted by a lady clique determined to argue before...but I never backed down.

It's better not to rise to the bait in the first place...but easier said thab done.

Besided I realised that the majority of peeps on here are cool and up for a laugh.

So talk to the good uns and ignore the clunges.

"clunges" I love that word!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Stay on fella - post within the rules of the forum but don't let the buggers get you down.

Ignore the clique (that will vociferously deny that they don't exist) and carry on doing your thing!

Embrace the clique,they guarantee an agreeable response,

Even if your posting piss.

And always remember,sychofancy is a two way Street.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I think these here forums are for people not like me lol... Which is cool.. Just thought I'd try them.

You seem less aggressive in this thread and much more attractive. You are too young for me but, I thought I would say hi anyway. K xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think these here forums are for people not like me lol... Which is cool.. Just thought I'd try them.

Why do say that?

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