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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who else is guilty?

I was full on laying the charm earlier and I got some garlic mayo - ahem! - for free for my troubles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always doing it x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No it's really awkward when they shout "leave me alone you old hag"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a free pot plant'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love flirting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No it's really awkward when they shout "leave me alone you old hag""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh big time

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people really misread flirting though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people really misread flirting though"

Its why i dont bother....and i'm too old and ugly for it to be effective....

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm bad at flirting so doesn't work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always flirting to get stuff done at work. All the chaps at work get the full treatment if I need something. Flattery gets me everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people really misread flirting though

Its why i dont bother....and i'm too old and ugly for it to be effective...."

oh god I do without knowing, but it can lead to trouble

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"No it's really awkward when they shout "leave me alone you old hag""

You owe me a new phone now. This 1 just had a bath in my jd

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By *oredbusinessmanMan
over a year ago

Kings Lynn

Doesn't really work the same for guys! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know how to flirt...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I never flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant flirt to save my life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't really work the same for guys! Haha"

oh yes it can

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Who else is guilty?

I was full on laying the charm earlier and I got some garlic mayo - ahem! - for free for my troubles."

Bet the vampires don't snog you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"people really misread flirting though

Its why i dont bother....and i'm too old and ugly for it to be effective....

oh god I do without knowing, but it can lead to trouble"

Oh god, me too!

When I say flirting, with people I don't know well it's just big eyes, hair twirling, smiling.

With someone I actually have a mutual attraction with however, I've not been unknown to rub against them like a cat in heat. That got my then fwb to do a lot of things for me while we worked together.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No it's really awkward when they shout "leave me alone you old hag"

You owe me a new phone now. This 1 just had a bath in my jd

I've got an old one from 1998 you can have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people really misread flirting though

Its why i dont bother....and i'm too old and ugly for it to be effective....

oh god I do without knowing, but it can lead to trouble

Oh god, me too!

When I say flirting, with people I don't know well it's just big eyes, hair twirling, smiling.

ah good old fashioned manipulation

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"No it's really awkward when they shout "leave me alone you old hag"

You owe me a new phone now. This 1 just had a bath in my jd

I've got an old one from 1998 you can have

Are you flirting with me young lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know how! Plus I wouldn't want to give someone the wrong impression and have to have that awkward 'no I don't want to go for a drink with you' conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't know how! Plus I wouldn't want to give someone the wrong impression and have to have that awkward 'no I don't want to go for a drink with you' conversation."

or slap them cos they grabbed yer arse,,yea,,but hey ho some guys think yer a flirt just cos you looked in their direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do but only when I think I can get away with it.

Otherwise I find a friendly manner & a smile works wonders too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people really misread flirting though

Its why i dont bother....and i'm too old and ugly for it to be effective....

oh god I do without knowing, but it can lead to trouble

Oh god, me too!

When I say flirting, with people I don't know well it's just big eyes, hair twirling, smiling.

Ah....i'm a bit passed that sort of behaviour. Its "cute" when a young girl does it...not so much with an old lady!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't really work the same for guys! Haha

oh yes it can"

Seconded.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

No, never. Polite, friendly, sometimes charming but I would never flutter my eyelashes, twirl my hair or act in any way coquettish and flirtatious to get things. It would be unnatural and that would surely be counter-productive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I prefer to pay for what I want. Unless it's sex. I'm not paying for sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No it's really awkward when they shout "leave me alone you old hag"

You owe me a new phone now. This 1 just had a bath in my jd

I've got an old one from 1998 you can have

Are you flirting with me young lady

You'd know it if I was, very few have lived to tell the tale

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone tried to give me something for free I would go all Vicky Pollard on them and accuse them of thinking I'm poor,and can't afford things,innit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess as women got their assets lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone tried to give me something for free I would go all Vicky Pollard on them and accuse them of thinking I'm poor,and can't afford things,innit. "

Or would that be Lauren?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree doesn't work for guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm old,proper old not 50 old,I'm going to do the poor little old lady trick.

*looks at change in hand,with a sad face, and say "Oh,I don't think my pension will stretch to a pickled onion with my fish and chips" sighs*

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"No it's really awkward when they shout "leave me alone you old hag"

You owe me a new phone now. This 1 just had a bath in my jd

I've got an old one from 1998 you can have

Are you flirting with me young lady

You'd know it if I was, very few have lived to tell the tale

Will you stop it jd isn't cheap you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree doesn't work for guys"

yes it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree doesn't work for guys"

It does with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree doesn't work for guys

It does with me

depends on the guy,,but it does work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flashes a flirtatious smile then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree doesn't work for guys

It does with me

depends on the guy,,but it does work

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to flirt, if a guy fancies me i get stuff without doing anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I try to flirt, it comes off really stale and then I begin to smile while the lady looks at me awkwardly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(M) I only get slapped, funny looks or verbal abuse. I must be doing it wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"(M) I only get slapped, funny looks or verbal abuse. I must be doing it wrong

Add some lipstick & fake eye lashes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find it hard to tell if a woman is flirting for fun or whether she's really interested in me!

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