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By *oyaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

used to be on this site 2012 time then left while i was on i made some good friends who i still keep in contact with. after i had left i cought hiv from a one night stand with a lass im now on medication and undetectable viral load. my biggest question is would anyone actually play with a hiv+ guy or are we sentenced to hell haha

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I applaud your honesty and wish you well

I would play but I would limit what I would do.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would. I always practice safe sex so know that we could still have fun without risk of infection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i probably would not but only because i don't have enough info to make an informed decision.

hope you don't get any grief for being honest though and wish you well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good on you for being honest but I wouldn't

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By *oyaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

thanks thats the biggest problem these days medication has come along along way and its not publicized enough

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I wouldn't but as others have said well in for the honesty. Best of luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the honesty!! I don't think I'd be put off as such, as I'm always very careful anyway.

good luck OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks thats the biggest problem these days medication has come along along way and its not publicized enough "

you could help us become informed? i'm going to sleep now but will have a nosey tomorrow in here and see what i can learn.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I think your honesty is amazing and that in itself would influence whether we met.

Play wise I only really play with ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The irony is, people would probably be at less risk playing with someone they knew to be HIV+ as they'd be exceedingly cautious than what they probably are with someone that they don't know their HIV status... They can always have PrEP!! Reassurance and information is key!!

As this OP has stated it was a one-night-stand and he made a silly mistake!! Kudos to you for being so honest and a lesson to everyone to watch your sexual health.. I recently had a scare and never again will I be so trusting or flippant. Xx

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I'm another that applauds your honesty

I'm ashamed to say I don't know enough about the changes in the way HV is treated or medical breakthroughs to make a decision so couldn't honestly answer your question

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Great honesty. So playing with you much safer than playing with the ignorant and careless. Wish you the very best.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

I really do not know how to answer this OP!

I have tried to type a few replies but all seem irrelevant!

I only hope treatment goes well and somehow a meet/relationship works out...

HIV does not define who you are as a person....

Best Wishes

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

personally i wouldnt but wish you all the best

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By *oyaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I really do not know how to answer this OP!

I have tried to type a few replies but all seem irrelevant!

I only hope treatment goes well and somehow a meet/relationship works out...

HIV does not define who you are as a person....

Best Wishes"

medication has come along way i take 1 tablet every day and and virus is undectable in blood tests i still have it but under control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really do not know how to answer this OP!

I have tried to type a few replies but all seem irrelevant!

I only hope treatment goes well and somehow a meet/relationship works out...

HIV does not define who you are as a person....

Best Wishes"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Someone who's got a near undetectable viral load is about as safe as someone who's negative. We all could have been playing with you op and not had anything to be bothered about at all, by practicing safer sex. People who don't know their status and assume they're negative may be a much different situation.

I'd assess things by the person, not a label.

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By *oyaguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Someone who's got a near undetectable viral load is about as safe as someone who's negative. We all could have been playing with you op and not had anything to be bothered about at all, by practicing safer sex. People who don't know their status and assume they're negative may be a much different situation.

I'd assess things by the person, not a label."

exactly easier to practice safe sex when u know than not know other peoples history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a good understanding of both the virus, and the medication. An undetectable load means there's almost no chance of transmission even without using protection.

But who wouldn't use protection when using a site like this? (I know some actively seek it, but to me that's moronic)

So, to answer your question, I would be utterly delighted with your honesty and it wouldn't stop me from sleeping with you.

I really wish more was done to educate the general public on the reality of HIV, and how far we have come in the treatment of it.

Good luck with everything

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