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"Hairy bum is ... odd. I don't mind trimmed bush but bum is eeewww" Yeah I agree, a nice trimmed bush isn't as bad | |||
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"  women have hairy bums?? "Yep | |||
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"I have a hairy bum. An ex lover used to call me Sasquatch. I have hair on my foof too. Other than that, never had an issue or a complaint. I'm not embarressed or ashamed by it. It is what it is. " | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't. "Couldnt have said it better i have massive hangups about the way i look im starting to learn that the women who judge me based purely on my body hair and extra baggage arnt worth worrying about | |||
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but I supose it would too late if you notice it on a meet, be abit rude to just halt and leave if there was | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't.
Couldnt have said it better i have massive hangups about the way i look im starting to learn that the women who judge me based purely on my body hair and extra baggage arnt worth worrying about "Don't have hang ups about how you look . I know that's easy for other people to say but none of us are perfect and we shouldn't let other people's preferences for body types other than ours affect us negatively. Now go and look in the mirror and tell yourself you're gorgeous.
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"Preferably no hair on the flower for me but if it's not the end of the world if there is, unlike bum hair that's a definete no go but I supose it would too late if you notice it on a meet, be abit rude to just halt and leave if there was "Flower | |||
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"I have a hairy bum. An ex lover used to call me Sasquatch. I have hair on my foof too. Other than that, never had an issue or a complaint. I'm not embarressed or ashamed by it. It is what it is. " Why should you be? I grew up in the 70's when women had hair, it's a residual love of mine. As long as it's clean, so what? | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business." I wasn't body shaming anyone at all! I haven't mentioned anyone specifically and I merely asked for others opinion! And yes I am fully aware of the fact that it is other people's business wether or not they want to shave or not! Like I said I'm not body shaming anyone I would never do that! If people want to get offended with my opinion then that's their problem. | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business." I don't think there's been any body shaming so far. Preferences have been expressed in terms of certain things being a turn off which people do all the time, I'm ok with that some things turn me off | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I wasn't body shaming anyone at all! I haven't mentioned anyone specifically and I merely asked for others opinion! And yes I am fully aware of the fact that it is other people's business wether or not they want to shave or not! Like I said I'm not body shaming anyone I would never do that! If people want to get offended with my opinion then that's their problem. " Nobody has said you are body shaming just like your post no names were mentioned. You asked for opinions and you're getting them | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't.
Couldnt have said it better i have massive hangups about the way i look im starting to learn that the women who judge me based purely on my body hair and extra baggage arnt worth worrying about
Don't have hang ups about how you look . I know that's easy for other people to say but none of us are perfect and we shouldn't let other people's preferences for body types other than ours affect us negatively. Now go and look in the mirror and tell yourself you're gorgeous.
Love from the hairy arsed barbarian xxx "Haha im getting allot better im finding a suprising ammount of people on here that are more interested in if we (me and the mrs) can hold a converstion and have a laugh i really expected the swinging community to be all about looks we're very new to this not met anyone yet but it seems to me the majority of the shallow peolple (not all) are the young single profiles Oh and hairy bum or not you look fit as  | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I don't think there's been any body shaming so far. Preferences have been expressed in terms of certain things being a turn off which people do all the time, I'm ok with that some things turn me off "I do apologise if anyone has been offended and I would never ever body shame anyone I'm not like that at all x | |||
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" What does everyone think about women with a hairy bum? Turn on/off? Personally I like to be clean shaven everywhere and my partner likes this too. We was talking to a couple for a while until we found out the lady had a very hairy bum. It was a straight turn off for myself. " Massive turn off, I met a women once and her arse was like Chewbeccas, I nearly gagged. Btw it is my preference and choice not to like hairy arsed women | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't.
Couldnt have said it better i have massive hangups about the way i look im starting to learn that the women who judge me based purely on my body hair and extra baggage arnt worth worrying about
Don't have hang ups about how you look . I know that's easy for other people to say but none of us are perfect and we shouldn't let other people's preferences for body types other than ours affect us negatively. Now go and look in the mirror and tell yourself you're gorgeous.
Love from the hairy arsed barbarian xxx
Haha im getting allot better im finding a suprising ammount of people on here that are more interested in if we (me and the mrs) can hold a converstion and have a laugh i really expected the swinging community to be all about looks we're very new to this not met anyone yet but it seems to me the majority of the shallow peolple (not all) are the young single profiles
Oh and hairy bum or not you look fit as "Thank you, you two look great too | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I wasn't body shaming anyone at all! I haven't mentioned anyone specifically and I merely asked for others opinion! And yes I am fully aware of the fact that it is other people's business wether or not they want to shave or not! Like I said I'm not body shaming anyone I would never do that! If people want to get offended with my opinion then that's their problem. " I just meant in general,not you in particular. I didn't see any body shaming on here either but it is an issue where body shaming could occur. | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I don't think there's been any body shaming so far. Preferences have been expressed in terms of certain things being a turn off which people do all the time, I'm ok with that some things turn me off
I do apologise if anyone has been offended and I would never ever body shame anyone I'm not like that at all x"I haven't personally been offended that you find people like me a turn off, I learned years ago that I'm not everyone's perfect woman . What makes me fed up about the way these threads often go (and that's not your fault you have no control over it) is the inevitability of insulting comments, I see there's already been a charming reference to Chewbacca and doubtless at some point someone will mention pre pubescent women. | |||
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"It's just a bit of hair. I find it funny that people are horrified when they see hair on a mammal. " Have you noticed I have said sphincter and arsed? I'm on a roll  | |||
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"It's just a bit of hair. I find it funny that people are horrified when they see hair on a mammal. Have you noticed I have said sphincter and arsed? I'm on a roll "Haha! | |||
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" women have hairy bums?? "my thought too - i know the odd stray hair but one that needs combing and parting came to mind and made me  | |||
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"It's just a bit of hair. I find it funny that people are horrified when they see hair on a mammal. Have you noticed I have said sphincter and arsed? I'm on a roll
Haha! "I don't usually swear at all because I'm a laydeee with a hirsute bottom | |||
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" women have hairy bums?? "This was my reaction too 
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business." Yet still they do it! | |||
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My experience is that when it comes down to it, people perhaps have a preference, both for their own hair and for other people but when I say I genuinely don't care, I genuinely don't. As long as we're all clean, hair is perfectly natural much like farting and going for a piss... we all do. | |||
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" What does everyone think about women with a hairy bum? Turn on/off? Personally I like to be clean shaven everywhere and my partner likes this too. We was talking to a couple for a while until we found out the lady had a very hairy bum. It was a straight turn off for myself. " All clean here. 
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I don't think there's been any body shaming so far. Preferences have been expressed in terms of certain things being a turn off which people do all the time, I'm ok with that some things turn me off
I do apologise if anyone has been offended and I would never ever body shame anyone I'm not like that at all x"As far as i can see you do not have anything to apologize for. You are just stating what you like.Do not let some of the foreright opinion of some in this thread make you feel that your opinion is any less validated then theirs. | |||
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"I have a hairy bum. An ex lover used to call me Sasquatch. I have hair on my foof too. Other than that, never had an issue or a complaint. I'm not embarressed or ashamed by it. It is what it is. Why should you be? I grew up in the 70's when women had hair, it's a residual love of mine. As long as it's clean, so what? " Exactly, and it's always clean | |||
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"Considering the amount of hair on my head, I really don't have a lot of fuzz down below which in itself is a bit of a surprise but in my younger years I used to be horribly anal (scuse the pun) about the tidiness down there. As I've aged I give less of a toss about it. What I can say is that I've been caught unaware that sex was on the cards on a number of occasions and I've yet to come across anyone (literally or otherwise!) who has stopped mid shag to say 'omg... you've not shaved!!'
My experience is that when it comes down to it, people perhaps have a preference, both for their own hair and for other people but when I say I genuinely don't care, I genuinely don't. As long as we're all clean, hair is perfectly natural much like farting and going for a piss... we all do. "I do NOT do lady puffs | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I don't think there's been any body shaming so far. Preferences have been expressed in terms of certain things being a turn off which people do all the time, I'm ok with that some things turn me off
I do apologise if anyone has been offended and I would never ever body shame anyone I'm not like that at all x"Haven't offended me x | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I don't think there's been any body shaming so far. Preferences have been expressed in terms of certain things being a turn off which people do all the time, I'm ok with that some things turn me off
I do apologise if anyone has been offended and I would never ever body shame anyone I'm not like that at all xAs far as i can see you do not have anything to apologize for. You are just stating what you like.Do not let some of the foreright opinion of some in this thread make you feel that your opinion is any less validated then theirs. "I don't think anyone has said their opinion isn't valid  | |||
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i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X | |||
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X "Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen. | |||
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"I shave my pussy but recently realised I have a hairy ass. As I do not have eyes in the back of my head I had not noticed. This is just another of those silly "i don't like "threads. How about men then with their hairy baboons bum holes? It doesn't bother me if a man has hairy cock, ass, balls, chest or even if they are doing an impression of a shaggy rug all over. It's their personality that is important and sexual compatibility. Your personal opinions OP are just that "your opinion" With the amount of single men available for sex, we women aren't going to worry about it. Plenty of them are willing to fuck our hairy bums. XXX" I personally shave more for myself rather than what a man would think, I've never been short of offers so I would t be to concerned in that case. I just like to look and feel good down there. | |||
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X
Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen. "That's because most women pluck it
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X
Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen. "Really!? Loads of women have it. I think the trend has been for full body hair removal for so long that lots of people aren't aware that some women have hair in places other than their head, arms, legs and pubic area. | |||
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X
Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen.
That's because most women pluck it
*keeps on digging that hole for herself*"You should see my chin and upper lip in full sun light | |||
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X
Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen. "I had one I'd missed and was going to pluck it before going to see a regular partner. I forgot and only remembered as he took my bra off and covered them with lube,for a slippery hand massage. It made me laugh but he didn't say anything if he noticed. | |||
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" women have hairy bums??
This was my reaction too
*runs to the mirror* "I wasn't aware I had anything until I noticed hair growing back after a hot wax where she literally stripped everything off! It's a tricky spot to shave that's for sure. | |||
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X
Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen.
That's because most women pluck it
*keeps on digging that hole for herself*
You should see my chin and upper lip in full sun light "Best place for spotting those is in a car in the mirror on the sun visor. | |||
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" women have hairy bums??
This was my reaction too
*runs to the mirror*
I wasn't aware I had anything until I noticed hair growing back after a hot wax where she literally stripped everything off!
It's a tricky spot to shave that's for sure."Waxing sounds painful | |||
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"I shave my pussy but recently realised I have a hairy ass. As I do not have eyes in the back of my head I had not noticed. This is just another of those silly "i don't like "threads. How about men then with their hairy baboons bum holes? It doesn't bother me if a man has hairy cock, ass, balls, chest or even if they are doing an impression of a shaggy rug all over. It's their personality that is important and sexual compatibility. Your personal opinions OP are just that "your opinion" With the amount of single men available for sex, we women aren't going to worry about it. Plenty of them are willing to fuck our hairy bums. XXX I personally shave more for myself rather than what a man would think, I've never been short of offers so I would t be to concerned in that case. I just like to look and feel good down there. " I feel when i shave/ wax down there is feels so much nicer and to me, more hygenic too. | |||
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X
Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen.
That's because most women pluck it
*keeps on digging that hole for herself*"I wish you could see my puckered up face of empathy after reading that!!!!!!!!!! Ouch | |||
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"I shave my pussy but recently realised I have a hairy ass. As I do not have eyes in the back of my head I had not noticed. This is just another of those silly "i don't like "threads. How about men then with their hairy baboons bum holes? It doesn't bother me if a man has hairy cock, ass, balls, chest or even if they are doing an impression of a shaggy rug all over. It's their personality that is important and sexual compatibility. Your personal opinions OP are just that "your opinion" With the amount of single men available for sex, we women aren't going to worry about it. Plenty of them are willing to fuck our hairy bums. XXX I personally shave more for myself rather than what a man would think, I've never been short of offers so I would t be to concerned in that case. I just like to look and feel good down there. I feel when i shave/ wax down there is feels so much nicer and to me, more hygenic too. " Exactly it looks nicer and it's such a turn on | |||
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X
Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen.
That's because most women pluck it
*keeps on digging that hole for herself*"I have nipple hair as well. No shame here! xxx | |||
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X
Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen.
That's because most women pluck it
*keeps on digging that hole for herself*
I have nipple hair as well. No shame here! xxx"Me too, I'm going to measure it against a sky remote | |||
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X
Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen.
That's because most women pluck it
*keeps on digging that hole for herself*
You should see my chin and upper lip in full sun light "Snap! Give me another 20 years n a shopping trolley n ill be the bearded lady of rhyl. xxx | |||
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"This sort of thread is the exact reason I don't meet anymore. I just can't be bothered to worry that I'm 'meet ready' all the time. I also don't have the time to be meet ready either!! " I don't think shaving is a big ask! I certainly wouldn't stop Meeting because it was too much of a hassle to shave or wax | |||
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"We all have our preferances nothing wrong in that i'm a 5ft feck all and a size 16. And even worse....a lezza!!!!
I don't like hair or bum hair or nipple hair!
Nor do i have hair anywhere down there. Also i'd not meet just bwcause someone made me laugh i need to fancy them. Nothing wrong with that. That's why i love fab. Someone for everyone on here. X
Nipple hair, now that's something I've never seen.
That's because most women pluck it
*keeps on digging that hole for herself*
I have nipple hair as well. No shame here! xxx
Me too, I'm going to measure it against a sky remote "Good call lets see if we can get our nipple hair in hot pics xxx | |||
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"This sort of thread is the exact reason I don't meet anymore. I just can't be bothered to worry that I'm 'meet ready' all the time. I also don't have the time to be meet ready either!! I don't think shaving is a big ask! I certainly wouldn't stop Meeting because it was too much of a hassle to shave or wax " Try doing my job everyday love!!! I'm sure when things settle down in may start again but right now shaving my legs and everything else eats into time i could be using elsewhere! My personal appearance is way down on my list of things to do. As I said I don't meet anymore so I'm not inflicting it on anyone else!! | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't. "Well I for one will be using the phrase "I don't give a hairy sphincter" in my day to day life now | |||
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"This sort of thread is the exact reason I don't meet anymore. I just can't be bothered to worry that I'm 'meet ready' all the time. I also don't have the time to be meet ready either!! I don't think shaving is a big ask! I certainly wouldn't stop Meeting because it was too much of a hassle to shave or wax Try doing my job everyday love!!! I'm sure when things settle down in may start again but right now shaving my legs and everything else eats into time i could be using elsewhere! My personal appearance is way down on my list of things to do. As I said I don't meet anymore so I'm not inflicting it on anyone else!!" Your finding time to post on here | |||
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"This sort of thread is the exact reason I don't meet anymore. I just can't be bothered to worry that I'm 'meet ready' all the time. I also don't have the time to be meet ready either!! I don't think shaving is a big ask! I certainly wouldn't stop Meeting because it was too much of a hassle to shave or wax Try doing my job everyday love!!! I'm sure when things settle down in may start again but right now shaving my legs and everything else eats into time i could be using elsewhere! My personal appearance is way down on my list of things to do. As I said I don't meet anymore so I'm not inflicting it on anyone else!! Your finding time to post on here "So instead of being sat waiting for a doctor's appointment I should sack it off to shave my entire body?! Er nope. | |||
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"This sort of thread is the exact reason I don't meet anymore. I just can't be bothered to worry that I'm 'meet ready' all the time. I also don't have the time to be meet ready either!! I don't think shaving is a big ask! I certainly wouldn't stop Meeting because it was too much of a hassle to shave or wax Try doing my job everyday love!!! I'm sure when things settle down in may start again but right now shaving my legs and everything else eats into time i could be using elsewhere! My personal appearance is way down on my list of things to do. As I said I don't meet anymore so I'm not inflicting it on anyone else!!" I don't care what job it was I still would shave at least my legs | |||
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"Despite being very pale skinned and freckly I'm another dark haired 'hairy' woman (I blame the Spanish blood on my dad's side) ... or at least I would be if I left it alone. I do 'prefer' to be hair free but there's no getting away from the fact it's immensely time consuming and often painful to remove it, plus, as mentioned upthread you do have to be a contortionist to ensure you get it all. I love the look and feel of being smooth but I have long questioned how much my 'preference' for being hair free is down to purely my own personal taste and how much it's down to the expectations and preferences of other people and my willingness - or not - to present myself 'au naturel'. Fact is ... and I'm not saying this is right, at all ... but 'hairy' women are often ridiculed. Just look at how the tabloids leap on any female celebrity who dares not to shave her armpits, and I've seen and heard first hand the sniggers directed at a woman who had the temerity to turn up at the swimming pool with hairy legs. There's such a huge general pressure on women to be non hairy in public I think we end up getting a distorted view of what's 'normal' because we see so little hair on anyone else ... and if and when we do grow it for whatever reason we then compare ourselves very unfavourably with those who keep the removal regime up. It therefore takes a confident and self assured woman to effectively say this is me, take me or leave me, and I genuinely admire those who feel able to do that ... I categorically would never criticise that decision either. I'm just not yet brave enough to join you though and so in the meantime I'll just continue to wrestle with my frustration at the time spent removing hair vs society's expectations and my own confidence. Ms G" Christ if your not confident enough there is no hope for the rest of us you look fantastic | |||
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"This sort of thread is the exact reason I don't meet anymore. I just can't be bothered to worry that I'm 'meet ready' all the time. I also don't have the time to be meet ready either!! I don't think shaving is a big ask! I certainly wouldn't stop Meeting because it was too much of a hassle to shave or wax Try doing my job everyday love!!! I'm sure when things settle down in may start again but right now shaving my legs and everything else eats into time i could be using elsewhere! My personal appearance is way down on my list of things to do. As I said I don't meet anymore so I'm not inflicting it on anyone else!! Your finding time to post on here
So instead of being sat waiting for a doctor's appointment I should sack it off to shave my entire body?! Er nope."Do what you want, | |||
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"This sort of thread is the exact reason I don't meet anymore. I just can't be bothered to worry that I'm 'meet ready' all the time. I also don't have the time to be meet ready either!! I don't think shaving is a big ask! I certainly wouldn't stop Meeting because it was too much of a hassle to shave or wax Try doing my job everyday love!!! I'm sure when things settle down in may start again but right now shaving my legs and everything else eats into time i could be using elsewhere! My personal appearance is way down on my list of things to do. As I said I don't meet anymore so I'm not inflicting it on anyone else!! I don't care what job it was I still would shave at least my legs " And that's a joy of this world.... we're all different and we all prioritise different things | |||
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"This sort of thread is the exact reason I don't meet anymore. I just can't be bothered to worry that I'm 'meet ready' all the time. I also don't have the time to be meet ready either!! I don't think shaving is a big ask! I certainly wouldn't stop Meeting because it was too much of a hassle to shave or wax Try doing my job everyday love!!! I'm sure when things settle down in may start again but right now shaving my legs and everything else eats into time i could be using elsewhere! My personal appearance is way down on my list of things to do. As I said I don't meet anymore so I'm not inflicting it on anyone else!! Your finding time to post on here
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"Despite being very pale skinned and freckly I'm another dark haired 'hairy' woman (I blame the Spanish blood on my dad's side) ... or at least I would be if I left it alone. I do 'prefer' to be hair free but there's no getting away from the fact it's immensely time consuming and often painful to remove it, plus, as mentioned upthread you do have to be a contortionist to ensure you get it all. I love the look and feel of being smooth but I have long questioned how much my 'preference' for being hair free is down to purely my own personal taste and how much it's down to the expectations and preferences of other people and my willingness - or not - to present myself 'au naturel'. Fact is ... and I'm not saying this is right, at all ... but 'hairy' women are often ridiculed. Just look at how the tabloids leap on any female celebrity who dares not to shave her armpits, and I've seen and heard first hand the sniggers directed at a woman who had the temerity to turn up at the swimming pool with hairy legs. There's such a huge general pressure on women to be non hairy in public I think we end up getting a distorted view of what's 'normal' because we see so little hair on anyone else ... and if and when we do grow it for whatever reason we then compare ourselves very unfavourably with those who keep the removal regime up. It therefore takes a confident and self assured woman to effectively say this is me, take me or leave me, and I genuinely admire those who feel able to do that ... I categorically would never criticise that decision either. I'm just not yet brave enough to join you though and so in the meantime I'll just continue to wrestle with my frustration at the time spent removing hair vs society's expectations and my own confidence. Ms G" What you say is very true. I decided to no longer care one day about 20 years ago when I was at the swimming pool with a friend of mine who was very hairy and heard women sniggering about her "hairy minge". I told them she was a friend of mine and they shut up but I looked at them and thought "what a bunch of small minded bullies" why the hell would I give any credence to their opinion of me. Of course I groom to my and Mr Ns preference and that must have outside influences on it but I think we are all more content if we accept ourselves and don't seek the acceptance of other people too often | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't.
Well I for one will be using the phrase "I don't give a hairy sphincter" in my day to day life now "Then my work here is done, I can die a happy woman (not for a very long time and please pluck my chin before you close the lid) | |||
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"If a woman is presenting me with her bottom, or cunt, I am not going turn it down because of the presence of hair. I I will present myself however I wish and I don't put out demands for who ever chooses to meet me. I do have a preference but it is not the be all and end all. As long as we are all comfortable and happy with ourselves then this makes for happy swinging. " Hurrah!! | |||
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"If a woman is presenting me with her bottom, or cunt, I am not going turn it down because of the presence of hair. I I will present myself however I wish and I don't put out demands for who ever chooses to meet me. I do have a preference but it is not the be all and end all. As long as we are all comfortable and happy with ourselves then this makes for happy swinging. " That's my post of the day so far! | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I wasn't body shaming anyone at all! I haven't mentioned anyone specifically and I merely asked for others opinion! And yes I am fully aware of the fact that it is other people's business wether or not they want to shave or not! Like I said I'm not body shaming anyone I would never do that! If people want to get offended with my opinion then that's their problem. I just meant in general,not you in particular. I didn't see any body shaming on here either but it is an issue where body shaming could occur. " Let's all agree body shaming is wrong and we should be working towards a completely shameless society. I didn't see any body shaming on the thread though. | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I wasn't body shaming anyone at all! I haven't mentioned anyone specifically and I merely asked for others opinion! And yes I am fully aware of the fact that it is other people's business wether or not they want to shave or not! Like I said I'm not body shaming anyone I would never do that! If people want to get offended with my opinion then that's their problem. I just meant in general,not you in particular. I didn't see any body shaming on here either but it is an issue where body shaming could occur. Let's all agree body shaming is wrong and we should be working towards a completely shameless society. I didn't see any body shaming on the thread though. " | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I wasn't body shaming anyone at all! I haven't mentioned anyone specifically and I merely asked for others opinion! And yes I am fully aware of the fact that it is other people's business wether or not they want to shave or not! Like I said I'm not body shaming anyone I would never do that! If people want to get offended with my opinion then that's their problem. I just meant in general,not you in particular. I didn't see any body shaming on here either but it is an issue where body shaming could occur. Let's all agree body shaming is wrong and we should be working towards a completely shameless society. I didn't see any body shaming on the thread though. " I agree | |||
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"I personally don't mind it. In fact I'd go as far as to say I like it. I've always had a penchant for women who don't particularly care or worry their minds over such trivial things. Sadly, taking something that's totally natural and making it seem totally unnatural and weird is very much a human trait." It is, you're right. | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't. "This. Mine isn't just a few stray hairs as I had it shaved for many operations. I refuse to have it waxed and shaving is painfu due to scar tissue. So if missing a bit from shaving is going to put you off/call me derogatory names then don't bother to stop by. We don't point and ewww when you have a hairy cock! | |||
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"Are we talking about a hairy bum, as in, hairy 'bum cheeks', or, do you mean around the puckered hole? Let's be clear on this, please. " I think we mean both | |||
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"Are we talking about a hairy bum, as in, hairy 'bum cheeks', or, do you mean around the puckered hole? Let's be clear on this, please. " Hairy arsehole and around that area | |||
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"Are we talking about a hairy bum, as in, hairy 'bum cheeks', or, do you mean around the puckered hole? Let's be clear on this, please. Hairy arsehole and around that area" I bet you didn't know what you'd started | |||
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"Well _icecouple561. I am surprised by the outrage I seem to have caused and I can't help But feel that I've offended a few of the more "natural" lot. But after seeing a thread called "101 ways to get a meet if you're a monger" and some of the people who were offended in my post have posted derogatory comments in that one i couldn't care less "I think it's more you're so quick to judge people on the topic of body hair, it's all a bit trivial really | |||
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"I have a hairy bum. An ex lover used to call me Sasquatch. I have hair on my foof too. Other than that, never had an issue or a complaint. I'm not embarressed or ashamed by it. It is what it is. " | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't. "your bum looks great to I would love to play with it | |||
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"Well _icecouple561. I am surprised by the outrage I seem to have caused and I can't help But feel that I've offended a few of the more "natural" lot. But after seeing a thread called "101 ways to get a meet if you're a monger" and some of the people who were offended in my post have posted derogatory comments in that one i couldn't care less " | |||
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"Are we talking about a hairy bum, as in, hairy 'bum cheeks', or, do you mean around the puckered hole? Let's be clear on this, please. Hairy arsehole and around that area" Awesome. Now, we're all on the same page. | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't. your bum looks great to I would love to play with it "Thanks | |||
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"Well _icecouple561. I am surprised by the outrage I seem to have caused and I can't help But feel that I've offended a few of the more "natural" lot. But after seeing a thread called "101 ways to get a meet if you're a monger" and some of the people who were offended in my post have posted derogatory comments in that one i couldn't care less "Good because on a forum if you ask "what does everybody think?" they will tell you | |||
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"I personally don't mind it. In fact I'd go as far as to say I like it. I've always had a penchant for women who don't particularly care or worry their minds over such trivial things. Sadly, taking something that's totally natural and making it seem totally unnatural and weird is very much a human trait. Do you wear deodarant? " I can see what you're getting at but I was thinking more from the body shaming angle. Just how we're capable of making people feel like they're doing something wrong or making them feel like weirdos simply for having something that is totally natural. | |||
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"I personally don't mind it. In fact I'd go as far as to say I like it. I've always had a penchant for women who don't particularly care or worry their minds over such trivial things. Sadly, taking something that's totally natural and making it seem totally unnatural and weird is very much a human trait. Do you wear deodarant? I can see what you're getting at but I was thinking more from the body shaming angle. Just how we're capable of making people feel like they're doing something wrong or making them feel like weirdos simply for having something that is totally natural." When I was a lot younger I didn't wear any make up, at a conference a man felt it his duty to tell me I would look much better if I did and another man took me to one side and asked me if I would sleep with him that night. It was a lesson in pleasing yourself not other people and made me realise that other people's opinions on how I look vary so much I might as well only pay attention to the good ones. | |||
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Good because on a forum if you ask "what does everybody think?" they will tell you "Yes and that's exactly what o asked for and expected but seems to be the ones with the hairy arses are getting offended. | |||
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Good because on a forum if you ask "what does everybody think?" they will tell you
Yes and that's exactly what o asked for and expected but seems to be the ones with the hairy arses are getting offended. "I see. Well I'm not offended, I save offence for people who genuinely insult me or my family and whose opinion matters to me. That isn't to say that I don't respect your opinion and your right to hold it but I'm old enough and ugly enough to know that you being turned off by the way part of me looks has no bearing on my opinion of myself, some call it confidence, some call it arrogance most call it deluded | |||
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"Lol never seen a lady with a hairy ass I've not even got one "lucky baldy you. | |||
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"I personally don't mind it. In fact I'd go as far as to say I like it. I've always had a penchant for women who don't particularly care or worry their minds over such trivial things. Sadly, taking something that's totally natural and making it seem totally unnatural and weird is very much a human trait. Do you wear deodarant? I can see what you're getting at but I was thinking more from the body shaming angle. Just how we're capable of making people feel like they're doing something wrong or making them feel like weirdos simply for having something that is totally natural. When I was a lot younger I didn't wear any make up, at a conference a man felt it his duty to tell me I would look much better if I did and another man took me to one side and asked me if I would sleep with him that night. It was a lesson in pleasing yourself not other people and made me realise that other people's opinions on how I look vary so much I might as well only pay attention to the good ones."Did you sleep with him then ? | |||
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"Lol never seen a lady with a hairy ass I've not even got one
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"I have a very small amount of hair in that area. I also have some soft downy hair at the bottom of my bum cheeks. I also have hairy arms and hairy big toes!! Crikey I'm a gruffalo "Oh yeah! Just noticed on your pics hehehe xx Kidding xx | |||
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"I have a very small amount of hair in that area. I also have some soft downy hair at the bottom of my bum cheeks. I also have hairy arms and hairy big toes!! Crikey I'm a gruffalo
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't. "Totally agree | |||
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"I personally don't mind it. In fact I'd go as far as to say I like it. I've always had a penchant for women who don't particularly care or worry their minds over such trivial things. Sadly, taking something that's totally natural and making it seem totally unnatural and weird is very much a human trait. Do you wear deodarant? I can see what you're getting at but I was thinking more from the body shaming angle. Just how we're capable of making people feel like they're doing something wrong or making them feel like weirdos simply for having something that is totally natural. When I was a lot younger I didn't wear any make up, at a conference a man felt it his duty to tell me I would look much better if I did and another man took me to one side and asked me if I would sleep with him that night. It was a lesson in pleasing yourself not other people and made me realise that other people's opinions on how I look vary so much I might as well only pay attention to the good ones.
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"While we are discussing excess hair, do any other women have hairy toes? I have to shave mine "Yes I have hairy big toes | |||
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"I personally don't mind it. In fact I'd go as far as to say I like it. I've always had a penchant for women who don't particularly care or worry their minds over such trivial things. Sadly, taking something that's totally natural and making it seem totally unnatural and weird is very much a human trait. Do you wear deodarant? I can see what you're getting at but I was thinking more from the body shaming angle. Just how we're capable of making people feel like they're doing something wrong or making them feel like weirdos simply for having something that is totally natural. When I was a lot younger I didn't wear any make up, at a conference a man felt it his duty to tell me I would look much better if I did and another man took me to one side and asked me if I would sleep with him that night. It was a lesson in pleasing yourself not other people and made me realise that other people's opinions on how I look vary so much I might as well only pay attention to the good ones.
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"I personally don't mind it. In fact I'd go as far as to say I like it. I've always had a penchant for women who don't particularly care or worry their minds over such trivial things. Sadly, taking something that's totally natural and making it seem totally unnatural and weird is very much a human trait. Do you wear deodarant? I can see what you're getting at but I was thinking more from the body shaming angle. Just how we're capable of making people feel like they're doing something wrong or making them feel like weirdos simply for having something that is totally natural. When I was a lot younger I didn't wear any make up, at a conference a man felt it his duty to tell me I would look much better if I did and another man took me to one side and asked me if I would sleep with him that night. It was a lesson in pleasing yourself not other people and made me realise that other people's opinions on how I look vary so much I might as well only pay attention to the good ones.
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"Well _icecouple561. I am surprised by the outrage I seem to have caused and I can't help But feel that I've offended a few of the more "natural" lot. But after seeing a thread called "101 ways to get a meet if you're a monger" and some of the people who were offended in my post have posted derogatory comments in that one i couldn't care less
Good because on a forum if you ask "what does everybody think?" they will tell you
Yes and that's exactly what o asked for and expected but seems to be the ones with the hairy arses are getting offended. "Strange how people being told they are unattractive and unhygienic don't take to kindly to it huh??? I mean....they should just accept it and nick off down to Tescos for some veet so they can join the body beautiful. | |||
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"Im going to pull mine into a tight pony tail, give myself a cheap bum lift" Your but is beautiful jez, hair or no hair | |||
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"Well _icecouple561. I am surprised by the outrage I seem to have caused and I can't help But feel that I've offended a few of the more "natural" lot. But after seeing a thread called "101 ways to get a meet if you're a monger" and some of the people who were offended in my post have posted derogatory comments in that one i couldn't care less
Good because on a forum if you ask "what does everybody think?" they will tell you
Yes and that's exactly what o asked for and expected but seems to be the ones with the hairy arses are getting offended.
Strange how people being told they are unattractive and unhygienic don't take to kindly to it huh??? I mean....they should just accept it and nick off down to Tescos for some veet so they can join the body beautiful. "Or ignore the thread | |||
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"I had odd hair on my nipples not bother anyone even my bum think it all over top blame porn.everyone to own . Your blaming porn for having a hairy arse??mean on most thing like pussy hairy to ..should had wrote that right way" Pardon?? | |||
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"I wasn't judging anyone " You were. You were instantly turned off because a woman had a hairy bum. She might not want you to play with her bum but a few strands of hair were enough for you to overlook hee personality and other features to terminate the conversation | |||
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"Well _icecouple561. I am surprised by the outrage I seem to have caused and I can't help But feel that I've offended a few of the more "natural" lot. But after seeing a thread called "101 ways to get a meet if you're a monger" and some of the people who were offended in my post have posted derogatory comments in that one i couldn't care less
Good because on a forum if you ask "what does everybody think?" they will tell you
Yes and that's exactly what o asked for and expected but seems to be the ones with the hairy arses are getting offended.
Strange how people being told they are unattractive and unhygienic don't take to kindly to it huh??? I mean....they should just accept it and nick off down to Tescos for some veet so they can join the body beautiful.
Or ignore the thread "Where's the fun in that lol | |||
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"Nobody has the right to 'body shame' anyone else, whether it's because of hair or any other issue. O.K. so some may not like it but they can go dislike it somewhere else. If someone chooses to shave or not to shave (any part of their body) it is their own business. I wasn't body shaming anyone at all! I haven't mentioned anyone specifically and I merely asked for others opinion! And yes I am fully aware of the fact that it is other people's business wether or not they want to shave or not! Like I said I'm not body shaming anyone I would never do that! If people want to get offended with my opinion then that's their problem. Nobody has said you are body shaming just like your post no names were mentioned. You asked for opinions and you're getting them "Opinions are like hairy arses..........everyones got one | |||
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"What? There are hairy arsed women out there? Run a mile if I saw one "Even if it was (trying to think of a sexy celeb now lol)......ummmmmm.......Angelina Jolie | |||
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"What? There are hairy arsed women out there? Run a mile if I saw one "Yep, it is a scary world out there | |||
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"By hair, do u mean actual hair, like long/dark/visible hairs? Or are we also counting the really really fine small hairs that u can barely see? " Mine are really fine small hairs, but they are dark (because I'm a brunette). I did try and bleach them once but they turned ginger
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"By hair, do u mean actual hair, like long/dark/visible hairs? Or are we also counting the really really fine small hairs that u can barely see? Mine are really fine small hairs, but they are dark (because I'm a brunette). I did try and bleach them once but they turned ginger
Shall I get my coat? "Nope you're in good company here haha | |||
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"Well _icecouple561. I am surprised by the outrage I seem to have caused and I can't help But feel that I've offended a few of the more "natural" lot. But after seeing a thread called "101 ways to get a meet if you're a monger" and some of the people who were offended in my post have posted derogatory comments in that one i couldn't care less
Good because on a forum if you ask "what does everybody think?" they will tell you
Yes and that's exactly what o asked for and expected but seems to be the ones with the hairy arses are getting offended.
Strange how people being told they are unattractive and unhygienic don't take to kindly to it huh??? I mean....they should just accept it and nick off down to Tescos for some veet so they can join the body beautiful. "Now you've not read my thread correctly At all!!! I asked for opinions I stated mine! Not once have I said someone was unattractive or unhygienic so don't go twisted my words! If you don't like this thread don't comment with things I haven't said | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't. "What she said. | |||
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"Despite being very pale skinned and freckly I'm another dark haired 'hairy' woman (I blame the Spanish blood on my dad's side) ... or at least I would be if I left it alone. I do 'prefer' to be hair free but there's no getting away from the fact it's immensely time consuming and often painful to remove it, plus, as mentioned upthread you do have to be a contortionist to ensure you get it all. I love the look and feel of being smooth but I have long questioned how much my 'preference' for being hair free is down to purely my own personal taste and how much it's down to the expectations and preferences of other people and my willingness - or not - to present myself 'au naturel'. Fact is ... and I'm not saying this is right, at all ... but 'hairy' women are often ridiculed. Just look at how the tabloids leap on any female celebrity who dares not to shave her armpits, and I've seen and heard first hand the sniggers directed at a woman who had the temerity to turn up at the swimming pool with hairy legs. There's such a huge general pressure on women to be non hairy in public I think we end up getting a distorted view of what's 'normal' because we see so little hair on anyone else ... and if and when we do grow it for whatever reason we then compare ourselves very unfavourably with those who keep the removal regime up. It therefore takes a confident and self assured woman to effectively say this is me, take me or leave me, and I genuinely admire those who feel able to do that ... I categorically would never criticise that decision either. I'm just not yet brave enough to join you though and so in the meantime I'll just continue to wrestle with my frustration at the time spent removing hair vs society's expectations and my own confidence. Ms G" There is a whole industry designed around making women as hair free as possible and somewhere along the line this has been equated with hygiene. I've only got this far down the thread and what is being described as a personal preference has comments about 'it's not asking too much to shave' and 'it's cleaner and my hygienic'. That sort of message conveys that those of us who don't shave are a) lazy and b) dirty. I accept it's some people's preference but there is judgmental language used. | |||
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"Well _icecouple561. I am surprised by the outrage I seem to have caused and I can't help But feel that I've offended a few of the more "natural" lot. But after seeing a thread called "101 ways to get a meet if you're a monger" and some of the people who were offended in my post have posted derogatory comments in that one i couldn't care less
Good because on a forum if you ask "what does everybody think?" they will tell you
Yes and that's exactly what o asked for and expected but seems to be the ones with the hairy arses are getting offended.
Strange how people being told they are unattractive and unhygienic don't take to kindly to it huh??? I mean....they should just accept it and nick off down to Tescos for some veet so they can join the body beautiful.
Now you've not read my thread correctly At all!!! I asked for opinions I stated mine! Not once have I said someone was unattractive or unhygienic so don't go twisted my words! If you don't like this thread don't comment with things I haven't said "i never said you specifically said it did i? so dont go twisting my words. if you dont like my post on your public thread dont respond to it | |||
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"I think women with hairy bums (I am one of these women) are about a whole lot more than a few centimetres of their body. I don't give a hairy sphincter how you think of me, what insulting terms you use to describe me, how disgusting you feel it would be to look at me or whether or not you want to have sex with me because I choose to concentrate on those who like me rather than those who don't. "stunning hairy bum xx | |||
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"We like it trimmed. Clean hair free buns only x" I d take a hairy bun back to the bakers | |||
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