FabSwingers.com forum: Messages from the ladies

By *.Taylor OP Man
over a year ago

London

Lol I hate that I get this feeling but do other men receive a message from a lady and suspect them as being a fake immediately? I don't get many messages and when I do I almost feel like I investigate before flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just can't win

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By *.Taylor OP Man
over a year ago

London

"We just can't win

Hahaha it's mad lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat everyone with a level of suspicion until you get to the meeting point. If you are worried make it a social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to get better at spotting fakes. Takes me days to find them out.

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By *.Taylor OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Treat everyone with a level of suspicion until you get to the meeting point. If you are worried make it a social first."

To be honest I'm so Sherlock Holmes we don't get yo that point if they have messaged me haha I never want to get cat fished hahahaha

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By *.Taylor OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I need to get better at spotting fakes. Takes me days to find them out. "

I know I have talked to some for a while still suspecting there fake but they have been cool and then I get to the point I think Na must be fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your doomed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get better at spotting fakes. Takes me days to find them out.

I know I have talked to some for a while still suspecting there fake but they have been cool and then I get to the point I think Na must be fake "

Best one I had gave me his full name so I could check on FB but when I asked to FaceTime he went crazy.

Started having a right go at me.

That made me instantly suspicious.

Still wouldn't admit it but I just gave up and moved on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you can get better at spotting them.... looking at your profile your gonna get hounded hun, because you are FAF!!

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By *.Taylor OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I need to get better at spotting fakes. Takes me days to find them out.

I know I have talked to some for a while still suspecting there fake but they have been cool and then I get to the point I think Na must be fake

Best one I had gave me his full name so I could check on FB but when I asked to FaceTime he went crazy.

Started having a right go at me.

That made me instantly suspicious.

Still wouldn't admit it but I just gave up and moved on. "

Basically the same thing happens to me or similar lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate.... There's nothing you can do about it, I think this site has lost its integrity. I was talking to this one girl for about a week amd it turned out she was a escorts.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I very rarely come across fakes on here, but on the dating sites they are rife and grammar usually gives them away. As soon as I hear 'I will like to know you better. .....' I think 'Uh-oh!' and ask what their first language actually is. Then follow the cockamamy excuses about being born in the USA or something. ....

Strange how they are always widowed too..... though I had that here off one married guy.

Not funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've not yet received a message from a single woman where she's been genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a message from anyone would be nice fake it not ??

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By *.Taylor OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I very rarely come across fakes on here, but on the dating sites they are rife and grammar usually gives them away. As soon as I hear 'I will like to know you better. .....' I think 'Uh-oh!' and ask what their first language actually is. Then follow the cockamamy excuses about being born in the USA or something. ....

Strange how they are always widowed too....

. though I had that here off one married guy.

Not funny. "

It's crazy out here need a fake fabometer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why it's always best not to send messages first

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By *ouple4biwomenMan
over a year ago

Anfield

If they have face pics try google image to sus

Them out haha

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By *tew2009Man
over a year ago

wakefield

Ask them for a phone number and,if they're a couple,ask to speak to the female....that usually guarantees silence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm real I'm too ugly and hairy to be a fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was accused of being a man when I said I wasn't interested in a guy who messaged me so I'd just like to thank everyone who has met me and given me a fake verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've not yet received a message from a single woman where she's been genuine

Now you have! Hahaha.,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they have face pics try google image to sus

Them out haha "

Someone did that and found my linked account.... I rarely use it and didn't realise one of my face pics was on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to get better at spotting fakes. Takes me days to find them out. "

It would be helpful if fab included a 'fake' tickbox, right next to 'smoker'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've not yet received a message from a single woman where she's been genuine

Now you have! Hahaha.,"

Haha we have indded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've not yet received a message from a single woman where she's been genuine

Now you have! Hahaha.,

Haha we have indded

Indeed even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the profile and the context of the message.

But yes occasionally I get the feeling "she isnt who he says she is"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the profile and the context of the message.

But yes occasionally I get the feeling "she isnt who he says she is" "

Doubters, the lot of ye!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

site is full of them tbh but we are getting better at spotting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've not yet received a message from a single woman where she's been genuine

Now you have! Hahaha.,

Haha we have indded

Indeed even

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Google reverse image search gets rid of some of them and don't trust veris unless there are a lot of them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well in fairness to you every single time a single female has messaged us first she has been either a fake or a flake. So the evidence is with you on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woke up to a message from a lady that I couldn't contact but have been dying to hear from.

Im one happy man right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes think I'm too good to be true

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Well in fairness to you every single time a single female has messaged us first she has been either a fake or a flake. So the evidence is with you on this one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are unger 30 and supremely attractive I smell a rat....now if everyone already knew I was a multi millionaire then I could expect it....whoops just let the cat out of the bag...she helps find the rats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I just take it how it is. Unless they've been here a year without verifications and only 1 photo from from 2015. Then I usually am suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never yet had any inkling of a fake. I must just be lucky I guess!

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By *.Taylor OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I sometimes think I'm too good to be true

Haha quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm too fugly for fakes to bother messaging me so I only seem to get messages from real people, I've had the odd one mind but it's easy to spot them, it's usually the too good to be true types that advertise their kik on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've not yet received a message from a single woman where she's been genuine

Now you have! Hahaha.,"

Me neither, me neither, message me message me

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I sometimes think I'm too good to be true

Nah, Too tall to be true maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only really get messages from people I talk to in the forums, I make the assumption that they are real.

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

"Lol I hate that I get this feeling but do other men receive a message from a lady and suspect them as being a fake immediately? I don't get many messages and when I do I almost feel like I investigate before flirting

Not a problem for me. I don't get any messages lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give advice but i only been swinging 15 yrs, so i must be fake too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs: when I had a single profile (many moons ago) I used to get called out for being a fake even after I said I was willing to prove otherwise. Made it near impossible to get verified lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrs: when I had a single profile (many moons ago) I used to get called out for being a fake even after I said I was willing to prove otherwise. Made it near impossible to get verified lol"

Probably because you'd fit into the too good to be true category

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I arranged to meet someone who wanted me to snapchat him because apparently my verifications were dubious

Please note- he wasn't verified himself!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite often accused of being fake.

Normally by couples when I point out that I don't meet couples and read the profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had messages suggesting I'm a man before

and It's why I no longer initiate a conversation. I sit in the corner and wait to be spoken to now and I think I'll let my veri's speak for themselves !

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Alarm bells go up when replies are passive and it's a one way conversation.

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

Each time I get a message from a single lady (usually like once a month or twice tho) I start singing fake in my head.

I insist for their pictures first if they've got 2-3 verifications from people with only 1-2 verifications and no need to say who the verifications come from.

They disappear and I'm like haha better lick next time mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a message from a lady until today and they where birthday wishes, but any messages I do get I will look at the profile and check verifications to see if they're fake.

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By *edallionMan
over a year ago

manchester

"Never had a message from a lady until today and they where birthday wishes, but any messages I do get I will look at the profile and check verifications to see if they're fake."

Happy happy birthday!!!

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

That might explain why I've had a couple of women say they want to meet but go quiet when I look to arrange something, fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never had a message from a lady until today and they where birthday wishes, but any messages I do get I will look at the profile and check verifications to see if they're fake.

Happy happy birthday!!!"

Cheers buddy

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