FabSwingers.com forum: what advice would you give to your younger self

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And don't marry the ex can't be one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read more books !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to say no.

Said yes to covering too many shifts at my previous jobs, all on basic pay, shit hours and getting no social life. And running around after people they too advantage of my kind nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch out for that Ford Sierra and the male driver not paying attention to the road

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can relate to both of those.

What books?

What bike do you ride?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Watch out for that Ford Sierra and the male driver not paying attention to the road

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not fat. Stop dieting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can relate to both of those.

What books?

What bike do you ride?"

Ducati monster 600. The true love of my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be such a miserable cunt all your life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're not fat. Stop dieting."

So you think you would have listened or believed yourself?

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

Try harder at school, pick a career early on, don't let peer pressure stop you from shagging Claire when you get to those old house parties (those were great days nevertheless)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't waste your time and money on years 2 and 3 of uni and get an entry level job now and work your ass off there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can relate to both of those.

What books?

What bike do you ride?

Ducati monster 600. The true love of my life!

Nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't be such a miserable cunt all your life. "

Made me chuckle that did

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't waste your time and money on years 2 and 3 of uni and get an entry level job now and work your ass off there."

Know a few people like that but my eldest is at uni now so will see if he ever says the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always trust your gut.

And

Be yourself - you're fabulous!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try harder at school, pick a career early on, don't let peer pressure stop you from shagging Claire when you get to those old house parties (those were great days nevertheless)"

I have similar thing with a girl call Claire. Use to run my hand up her leg during English and even went to her house and had the oppertunity to go further but was a good boy. She hasn't changed look the same even now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Always trust your gut.

And

Be yourself - you're fabulous!

Never a truer sentence written. we as all individuals

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

smile one day you are going to know inner peace, so you dont want to be changing a thing x

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

"Try harder at school, pick a career early on, don't let peer pressure stop you from shagging Claire when you get to those old house parties (those were great days nevertheless)

The Claire I knew really liked me when every other girl failed to even notice me. Damned peer pressure though.

Saw Claire in passing a few years ago... WOW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid fast food

The really pretty girls in school won't look like that forever

You're going to grow into an awesome guy, don't worry about the awkward high school years, you'll leave there and maybe keep in contact with 4 people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are allowed to say no, even if it 'causes a fuss'. Sod being polite at your expense.

Nell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're not fat. Stop dieting.

So you think you would have listened or believed yourself?"

Nope. I was a stubborn little fucker!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try harder at school, pick a career early on, don't let peer pressure stop you from shagging Claire when you get to those old house parties (those were great days nevertheless)

The Claire I knew really liked me when every other girl failed to even notice me. Damned peer pressure though.

Saw Claire in passing a few years ago... WOW"

The path not taken think I have only two regerets like that Claire and the other was Michelle but you can't change the past

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Avoid fast food

The really pretty girls in school won't look like that forever

You're going to grow into an awesome guy, don't worry about the awkward high school years, you'll leave there and maybe keep in contact with 4 people "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to say no and not to worry about what others think about you.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Put it down and don't do it!!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Do the degree and don't marry the ex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Learn to say no and not to worry about what others think about you."

Yes this is something I wish I had known earlier and still suffer from today to a degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop worrying about that exam and pay attention when turning your car around

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do the degree and don't marry the ex "

Now I said you couldn't have the ex one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're not fat. Stop dieting.

So you think you would have listened or believed yourself?

Nope. I was a stubborn little fucker!

Bet you still are too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stop worrying about that exam and pay attention when turning your car around

Sounds like it could have been expensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think first. Leap second. Don't ignore me you stubborn cow. I know how it turns out. Oh and wear your hearing aid

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Learn your scales

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think first. Leap second. Don't ignore me you stubborn cow. I know how it turns out. Oh and wear your hearing aid

This made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be so grumpy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do listen to what they tell you, anal sex does hurt if you don't use proper lube

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do listen to what they tell you, anal sex does hurt if you don't use proper lube

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think first. Leap second. Don't ignore me you stubborn cow. I know how it turns out. Oh and wear your hearing aid

Funny, you still didn't listen to your self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think first. Leap second. Don't ignore me you stubborn cow. I know how it turns out. Oh and wear your hearing aid

Funny, you still didn't listen to your self.

I didn't have my hearing aid in. I'm impossible to lipread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the leap - defer university and go travelling instead of being talked out of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Take the leap - defer university and go travelling instead of being talked out of it

Do you think you would have gone back and finished if you did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be afraid, the worst thing that can happen very rarely does!

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

My nan used to say youth is wasted on the young. So yeah, anything but that really!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My nan used to say youth is wasted on the young. So yeah, anything but that really!

As meat loaf once said. A wasted youth is better by far than a wise and productive old age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To stop feeling so insecure and to realise that the cliché is and will always be true that you're only young once!

It's the best you will ever look and feel!

Being fat always stopped me from so many things!

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD

Don't eat THOSE mushrooms..oh! You already did?ok,ENJOY!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To stop feeling so insecure and to realise that the cliché is and will always be true that you're only young once!

It's the best you will ever look and feel!

Being fat always stopped me from so many things!"

Well you look fantastic as you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't eat THOSE mushrooms..oh! You already did?ok,ENJOY!!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Seriously?

All these pains you know, all these people you know, everything you think you know - none of it will matter in 20 years time and you will have lived more than any of those fucks.

Relax. Lose the anger. It's no one's fault.

But if I'd told my 10 year old self that, I wouldn't have understood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it doesn't matter what advice I give, my younger self was far too street wise to listen

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

What advice would you give to your younger self...

"And don't marry the ex can't be one of them."

Go for it son, the world is your oyster... but just remember, 'You' have to live in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spend more time with dad

Do not hold back on anything you're doing

Wear a helmet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be brave and hold shares for longer and each pay rise invest half and but enjoy other half.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try harder, be better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to.worry because everything turns out awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about your weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It won't make you go blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say,,,,, no don't do that you twat,,, no dont do that,,,, What are you fucking doing,,,, stop it,,,,, nononono dont,,,,, no thats wrong,,,, dont you will get in trouble,,,,, stop itttttt!!!! ,,,, nononononono,,,,, dont drink that,,,, oi nooo stop it!!!!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Stay away from air guns, till you are 18.

Stop messing about with the crossdressing, enjoy it while you can.

Don't give up on things when the fun stops, that is when you are becoming good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your life will not be as expected, but never change all the hardships and trials you went through, because that will make you the person you are now.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

There's not enough space here for me to fit it all in - but probably the biggest one in terms of the way my life shaped out would be:

"Don't be a bloody fool and leave the Navy after only 3 months, you'll spend the rest of your life regretting it"

There are a ton more but that's probably the most significant.

Mr G

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By *londie bearWoman
over a year ago

Bexley-ish

Read a whole bunch of psychology books. Learn to recognise and avoid narcissistic men, they are emotionally unavailable and cause you all sorts of pain, then discard you without a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You actually were Skinny!!

Stop thinking you weren't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join FAB the women are gagging for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop worrying you're not good enough and go for it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"You're not fat. Stop dieting."

OMG this

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

be more decisive in life grab life by the horns

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Oh and don't take in that last lodger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a lovely young girl with you whole life ahead of you...stop trying to please everyone.....have a bit of confidence and yes you are funny as fuck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't stop swinging, it's who you are...

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

Take up Muay Thai 15 years earlier than I did .

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

You are right they are as thick as you think they are and just keep doing what you are it will all work out in the end. Oh yes and that girl you really like she's a fucking bitch you will do much better

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By *evnLuCouple
over a year ago

Be confident in your own skin, be happy and don't settle down too young.

Live life to it's fullest and cherish those close to you as you don't know how long they will be with you x

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Oh and don't take in that last lodger."

My last lodger got me pregnant, and 21 years later, we're still together!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone who played along.

The question is how many of you think your younger self would have listened?

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

you can do it

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By *entomillaMan
over a year ago

norwich

"it doesn't matter what advice I give, my younger self was far too street wise to listen

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Don't bother selling all your motorbikes to pay for your first wedding!

It really wasn't worth it!

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Love more then you hate

Be happier

The world is not against you

Girls are not that scary

But please don't go back to 'that one' again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And don't marry the ex can't be one of them."

Do NOT keep a souvenier from your victims. This will eventually become your signature and ultimately lead to being tracked down by the BAU.

Lessons learnt.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax your not as ugly and stupid as you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let teacher Rodger you in detention no matter how much fun it was

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Oh and don't take in that last lodger.

My last lodger got me pregnant, and 21 years later, we're still together!"

That's good

I spent 22 years with mine, no children and a shit relationship. But I'm free now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And never start a land war in Asia.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't get married.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Be happy, being miserable doesn't make you live any longer it just feels that way..

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Use birth control, get a better dentist.

dont worry about being like everyone else, not to be so trusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the next plane and leave this country there's a big world out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think first. Leap second. Don't ignore me you stubborn cow. I know how it turns out. Oh and wear your hearing aid

This made me chuckle

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mmmm

definitely this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont spend lots of money on clothes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How ever quiet you think your being, your parents can still hear you having sex.. X.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read less,get out more.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Don't bother achieving the job I'm in now... It wasn't worth it.

Come out as soon as possible so you don't have to hide in the shadows.

You know how you like photography well make a go of that.

Oh and always say hi to the prettiest girl in the bar. It's amazing how they are normally the loneliest.

Wish I hadn't wasted so much time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck as much as you can before you get married. After that you are totally fucked in totally different ways. Lol

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Had a similar conversation recently with friends and joked that if I could do it all over again, knowing what I know now, I'd probably just make the same mistakes but at an even younger age, lol.

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