FabSwingers.com forum: Meet without a face pic ????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ?

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By *inston80Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

We wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl not in a million years if meeting in a public place how would you know who you are looking for ,what if going to there door and turn out looking like Herman Munster lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run for the hills......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance! Even if they did turn up they could have a face like a punched lasagna

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Wouldnt consider it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ? "

Hell no, theres plenty of people with pics and veris, stay safe not sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

I'd suspect it's either a wind up and you're going to sit nursing a drink on your own till you get bored and go home dejected...or a single male posing as a couple whose "wife" will have mysteriously been otherwise detained and unable to attend the meet.....or worse!!

I'd politely decline if I were you

Mr G

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hell no!

No face pic = no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't either tbh when something doesn't feel right it normally isn't. So the fact your asking you obviously don't feel right about it. The talk about personal safety is normally women meeting guys but it also works the other way.

I had a meet planned a little while ago. We were meeting in a public place first but when she changed the place the day before then again an hour before meeting to somewhere that wasn't so public alarm bells rang so I cancelled. Do what feels right..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ? "

If not a face pic then a simple phone call that both can verify they are legit

If that's still a no no then fuck'em off

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Not a chance in hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

up to you.

i've done it before, was so horny i didn't realise they hadn't sent me a face pic and agreed to meet them. usually they were hot, once i didn't fancy him that much but it was because he looked like someone i went to school with and it was a bit weird, still had fun with him too though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not blind date is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic no meet. Does mean I do have to take this mask off.

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By *alacious RedWoman
over a year ago

croydon

I wouldn't it doesn't make sense or are they planning to wear a paper bag. If genuine they would at least send private pics.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ? "

You could always take a chance, it might turn out well or it could be a 25 stone trucker in a stained singlet. If you do go meet in a public place.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I always go with gut feeling. Have met without seeing face pic and guts did not let me down.

People with pics and verifications do no shows or lie about pics etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the flip side....lots of people really look like their pics dont they

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"On the flip side....lots of people really look like their pics dont they

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ? "

How desperate to empty your balls are you?

If you have had a bad experience before and would normally not entertain the idea, what is making you think about it now?

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I personally wouldn't, how would I know who to look for ? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance I'm afraid. Only way id meet without face pics is if they were attending one of my organised socials. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally wouldn't, how would I know who to look for ? Xx"

that's a good point. and they might see you and not like you in the flesh then bugger off without letting you know.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I personally wouldn't, how would I know who to look for ? Xx"

Please don't tell me you haven't got a "I'm a swinger" tee shirt

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ? "

No pic no meet in my book.

If they are reluctant to send a pic then no reason they can't both go on cam for a brief second .

Why waste all parties time if no attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way would we meet anyone without a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never meet without seeing/giving face pics firts, not a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How on earth would you recognise someone without a face picture though...? Ask them to get their genitals out and compare them side by side with their fab photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your brain, not your knob...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never ever and says so on my profile but guys keep on trying it on to meet without me seeing their face pic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If want face pics, just to be sure I didn't already know them! God forbid we unknowingly arranged to meet a relative!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its not bloody blind date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If want face pics, just to be sure I didn't already know them! God forbid we unknowingly arranged to meet a relative! "

*I'd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not a chance

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Definitely need a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no no no no! No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was chatting with someone and the banter was there yes I would meet for a social....I have chatted to loads people on here and not even looked at their profile....I don't think many people would do that tho. Mrs A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet someone without a face picture. You don't know who your looking for when you do go to meet and for me there has to be a bit of attraction for me to want to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a bloke without a face pic once, he was only one from meets I felt uneasy about, like I didn't trust him. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ? "

You're not being fussy..don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never in a million years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never send face pictures and never ask for one either (who's to say its actually their face or even upto date)....we find seeing a person in the flesh to find out if there's any attraction is much better, we do insist on a public place or club though as this way is safe and no pressure for either party.

We do however tend to chat to the person/people for a while first though. I'd not say we're fugly but I suppose that is subjective to the other person's tastes ect.

We've been very fortunate that almost all our meets have turned out great and most have turned up. We do understand it's not to everyone's taste and that's fair enough but sometimes chances are worth taking as long as you make sure you put your safety first

Jane x

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ? "

Its not a roleplay date so why would you even consider the meet.

I had a role play meet where the woman did not want to know what I looked like due to the nature of the role play fantasy she was after but I knew what she looked like .

I clearly got the better end of the fantasy as she was a nine in my opinion where as on a very good day I may hit a 7 in the right light .

As its not some sort of role play fantasy meet 'd say no picture no meet .

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Absolutely no way!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, no face pic no way!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ? "

If you fancy it, arrange to meet at (or near to) a club, then if they don't turn up, (or they're minging) then at least you've still got options.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a slam dunk, but it ain't really is it

I've met without the benefit face pics before, only cause I didn't and don't ask for them generally

But, err on the side of caution... give it a miss

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ? "

Noooooope, I would never meet without a face pic!

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Maybe they have no heads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never met without a face pic but have spoken about it so long I may have forgotten what they look like by the time they got here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If want face pics, just to be sure I didn't already know them! God forbid we unknowingly arranged to meet a relative! "

Think this is the best reason yet for wanting face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't yet.....I don't intend to change now....its a no from me. I'm out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ?

If not a face pic then a simple phone call that both can verify they are legit

If that's still a no no then fuck'em off

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I would have to agree I have met without seeing a face pic but if I can't speak to them on the phone then they wouldn't have a hope in hell of meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they have no heads?"

Zombie dead types??

EEK!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, it depends. Perhaps there is a very good feeling and no need a face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If want face pics, just to be sure I didn't already know them! God forbid we unknowingly arranged to meet a relative!

Think this is the best reason yet for wanting face pic"

maybe I'm just a bit paranoid or know I'm related to kinky buggers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did you decide OP?

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Hell no

Did you have to send them a face pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the opportunity to meet a couple but they are reluctant to share a face pic and have no Veris ,

I arranged to meet a woman on another site a few years ago without a face pic and it turned out not so good ,

What's the verdict , I wouldn't normally entertain or expect someone to meet me without a pic , or am I being too fussy ? "

Never again! I met someone without a face pic, he was at least 15 years older than he claimed lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I sent them several pics face and others at their request , I value my privacy but understand the need to look at someone before a meet ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet someone without a face pic, I've chatted to some lovely blokes without seeing a face pic before but once I've seen their face pics, sometimes, something changes.

I guess maybe it's me being not out to fuck everything going, it has to be the whole package for me.

G x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

No..don't do it

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"I sent them several pics face and others at their request , I value my privacy but understand the need to look at someone before a meet ,

Tell them to do one, making you send loads and they can't give the same courtesy rude that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not...are they going to do the meet in masks ( or he as is most prob the case)

Run for the hills and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a hope in hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance

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