FabSwingers.com forum: No one seems interested

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What can I do to get a meet? People keep saying it's because I havent got any verifications need to start somewhere though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you need to go to a social and mingle

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To a swingers club?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes your profile stand out from all the other hundreds of profiles? Put effort in = get rewards out

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

You've a cock for a profile pic.

Think on.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have a wank and chill

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you need to go to a social and mingle "

In similar situation and keep checking for socials, bit nervous about clubs still, but people don't seem that social in my locality, Scunthorpe/Lincoln area.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ye im a little nervous about going to a club on my own but might just have to try it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A change of name may help.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ye im a little nervous about going to a club on my own but might just have to try it "

Go to a social. Chat to people on the forum. Make your profile interesting and your picture stand out from the thousands of other cock pictures that look pretty much the same. Send witty messages. Read all the other threads about not getting meets and apply the tips from those too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, being brutally honest here. As a female on this site, I wouldn't answer a message from you. I probably wouldn't open a message from you.

1) Your only photos are of your cock. I'm not interested. Even if I was interested I'd want to see something else as well.

2) Your profile is supposed to give me a sense of who you are. Would there be chemistry? Could we have a giggle? What kind of dynamic could I expect? Instead you have a couple of lines basically saying 'please fuck me'.

There's nothing that makes me want to say hi. You've got to put more of yourself out there to get more back...then this site sparkles

Good luck!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"What can I do to get a meet? People keep saying it's because I havent got any verifications need to start somewhere though. "

When have you ever pulled a girl with a cock as your face?never thats when.profile is zero effort.it offers nothing but two pics of your cock.

Build your profile and get networking at socials,and clubs.get a few drinks down you,relax,and chat.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A change of name may help."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A change of name may help.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"A change of name may help.

Sorry OP this might sound harsh,

but looking at your pics, my first impression is:

why would anyone respond to a dick-head?

Like many have suggested, go to a club and improve your profile/pics.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience is the key lol"

you're awesome

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chnage the name...lose the cock pic....write a profile...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres 1000s of fun guys on here what makes you stand out ..your profile is pretty lame

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Meet anyone for more than just sex, to gain verification.

Improve the photos that you have. It's almost impossible to imagine how you look and it's better not to leave others tp imagine as they wont. They'll look at the next guy with a great profile instead.

Take out any negativity from your profile.

Search the forum to pick up the many tips that people have posted.

Get out and meet others.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"To a swingers club?"

Now see if you don't understand the advice you are given, than how are you going to follow what someone requests when you meet them.

The advice is to go out and meet people. You know, in real life, without the computer and stuff. If you do a quick search you'll find that there are a few socials in your area. You may have to drive a bit or take public transport but it will be worth it in my opinion. Remember that this is purely to get to know some new people over a few drinks. Just be friendly and they might give you a verification. Even better if they invite you to play with them in the future.

Next thing you know you'll be giving some guy advice on how to get a meet!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

Ok that's cool, you've added a bit of personality there! You mention that you're a big guy. How about getting someone to take a full body shot? Maybe wearing something nice! Don't feel like you have to do it all in one go. Your profile may evolve as you get more experience.

Happy swinging, mate...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A change of name may help."

Yeah there's not mush room to manoeuvre with that one huh!?!?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like a mushroom

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A change of name may help.

Yeah there's not mush room to manoeuvre with that one huh!?!?

Oh and OP good luck

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't often comment on these but, your name.... Fun guy 15? You need something else, doesn't have to be witty just a little more imaginative, first an Foremost when I think of fun guy, I instantly think of mushrooms etc!!

Secondly get some more pics and change your profile pic, a lot of women like to see a nice torso, bottom etc, a cock pic I would have instantly gone 'no thanks' too, yes you have a cock but it's not the first thing is women care about when building a rapport, well some might of course!

Thirdly build your profile, it has a good basis of likes and dislikes but it reads more of a job description, if you are actually fun, make your profile fun, witty ones always caught my eye!!

Fourthly, use the forum, it's a great way to build something, fab is great but it is hard work and the more you are seen (admittedly a small portion of fab users use this tool) but you get to know someone a bit better, where not using it you are missing out.

Good luck op

G x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What can I do to get a meet? People keep saying it's because I havent got any verifications need to start somewhere though. "

People read profiles before messages...that is all.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ok, being brutally honest here. As a female on this site, I wouldn't answer a message from you. I probably wouldn't open a message from you.

1) Your only photos are of your cock. I'm not interested. Even if I was interested I'd want to see something else as well.

There's nothing that makes me want to say hi. You've got to put more of yourself out there to get more back...then this site sparkles

Good luck!"

Exactly this!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about my profile??

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ye im a little nervous about going to a club on my own but might just have to try it "

But you are not nervous to show your genitalia to people you have never met.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"How about my profile??"

You can express a preference without insulting others.

I prefer larger ladies sounds nicer than "I'm not a fan of skin and bones".

Your age could be a disadvantage so you need a profile that stands out and showcases you. Unfortunately, yours doesn't.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ye im a little nervous about going to a club on my own but might just have to try it

But you are not nervous to show your genitalia to people you have never met."

Funny old world isn't it?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Ok, being brutally honest here. As a female on this site, I wouldn't answer a message from you. I probably wouldn't open a message from you.

1) Your only photos are of your cock. I'm not interested. Even if I was interested I'd want to see something else as well.

There's nothing that makes me want to say hi. You've got to put more of yourself out there to get more back...then this site sparkles

Good luck!"

Well said

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

"You've a cock for a profile pic.

Think on."

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittle missnaughtyWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"You've a cock for a profile pic.

Think on."

Totally agree

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Ye im a little nervous about going to a club on my own but might just have to try it "

Go to one in a afternoon, maybe less busy.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hy-totCouple
over a year ago

Skellow

"you need to go to a social and mingle

In similar situation and keep checking for socials, bit nervous about clubs still, but people don't seem that social in my locality, Scunthorpe/Lincoln area.

"
hull has regular socials

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

I used to respond to these threads but then by doing so does it not dilute the field more for other single men and those looking for them.

Those getting it right do so for a reason, survival of the fittest. Or in this case survival of the sexiest.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, being brutally honest here. As a female on this site, I wouldn't answer a message from you. I probably wouldn't open a message from you.

1) Your only photos are of your cock. I'm not interested. Even if I was interested I'd want to see something else as well.

There's nothing that makes me want to say hi. You've got to put more of yourself out there to get more back...then this site sparkles

Good luck!"

I was just about to type exactly the same...2 cock pics, bland profile ...nothing makes your profile stand out so although we respond to all msgs - it would be a "no thanks"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"What can I do to get a meet? People keep saying it's because I havent got any verifications need to start somewhere though. "

Nice torso shot! Keep going, mate...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Wrll done for changing your name, but as you can see from the comments names can be difficult.

Find your own voice and personality. With those in place it won't matter what the name is.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"What can I do to get a meet? People keep saying it's because I havent got any verifications need to start somewhere though.

Nice torso shot! Keep going, mate...

I'm giving you

for being so supportive and encouraging to the potential competition.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you need to go to a social and mingle

In similar situation and keep checking for socials, bit nervous about clubs still, but people don't seem that social in my locality, Scunthorpe/Lincoln area.

Barnsley social is not that far from you and we have people who have travelled from near you to us

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What can I do to get a meet? People keep saying it's because I havent got any verifications need to start somewhere though. "

Chuck a frock on,call yourself a TV them look for women who want to meet TV's. Block single men from messaging you to cut out all the "straight" guys from messaging you. Job done! You to can pretend you're a lesbian.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"What can I do to get a meet? People keep saying it's because I havent got any verifications need to start somewhere though.

Nice torso shot! Keep going, mate...

I'm giving you

for being so supportive and encouraging to the potential competition. "

What is this...competition...you speak of?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purchase of Platinum Membership from all good retailers comes with an initial meet (and veri) included....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"What can I do to get a meet? People keep saying it's because I havent got any verifications need to start somewhere though.

Nice torso shot! Keep going, mate...

I'm giving you

for being so supportive and encouraging to the potential competition.

What is this...competition...you speak of?

I don't think you need to worry.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"What can I do to get a meet? People keep saying it's because I havent got any verifications need to start somewhere though. "

I think that's an excuse to let you down easy...

. Having zero verifications didn't stop me.

Have fun..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread