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By *mack my bum OP   Man
over a year ago

Hayle

My 2 mates are married but his wife is sex texting she says it's not more than flirting fun

is sex texting unfaithful or harmless fun

I said it cud develop into spmethink more

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

If it worries you then you can have her number blocked I should imagine

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Who is she sex texting? You or someone else? The woman across the road from me rang off with a guy she met through one of those flirt text sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

different horses for different courses... you will probably hear all answers as peoples opinions differ

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

As with most flirting, it tends to get out of control, is it a form of cheating, well, if the partner doesn't know, then it is to us.

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By *mack my bum OP   Man
over a year ago

Hayle

She's texting someone else she's and her hubby are friends of mine soz I never made myself clear

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"She's texting someone else she's and her hubby are friends of mine soz I never made myself clear"

So who told you.....her or him?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"She's texting someone else she's and her hubby are friends of mine "

Does her husband know, or has she dragged you into”Her” web of deceit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cheating end of, sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has she got a sister ?

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By *mack my bum OP   Man
over a year ago

Hayle


"She's texting someone else she's and her hubby are friends of mine soz I never made myself clear

So who told you.....her or him?"

Him he asked 4 advice and on this I ain't got a clue

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By *mack my bum OP   Man
over a year ago

Hayle


"She's texting someone else she's and her hubby are friends of mine

Does her husband know, or has she dragged you into”Her” web of deceit "

he knows he's the one askin advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its cheating too

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By *razydriver8Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

COMPLICATED

it depends on your own moral code of what is cheating..

in my mind she isn't cheating... yet!!!! but its easy to cross the line... the question she needs to ask herself is..." if it was my partner i found sending the texts.. how would i feel... even if they say its only harmless fun."""

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Then if he knows it's not a dilemma for you....tell him you pass

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Your duty as a “Friend” is to tell him to go sort it out with her.

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By *mack my bum OP   Man
over a year ago

Hayle

ok he found texts on her phone and confronted her she said to him it was a friend and just flirting he came 2 me askin advice

I'm not sure if it is cheatin if I'm honest wot worries me is it coukd progress further

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

everyone will have a differnt view, but have to say i am a flirt, and flirting can do no harm but having said that my hubby knows im a flirt and wouldnt be doing it behind his back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My 2 mates are married but his wife is sex texting she says it's not more than flirting fun

is sex texting unfaithful or harmless fun

I said it cud develop into spmethink more"

I think she is sex texting because she is not satisfied sexually with him - it may be her way of trying to flag that up to him ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me its quite simple - if she is doing something that would hurt her partner, its wrong.

I would hate it if hubby was sex texting behind my back. If you are doing it behind their back without their knowledge, then its cheating. If its something that would cause emotional turmoil, its cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be wrong here but didn't the OP indicate that she had TOLD her husband?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If her bloke doesn't know anything about it then its deceitful at the very least. There is something unsavoury about it even if its not technically cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So her husband knows, you've said you don't know what to advise - this may sound silly/selfish - but why is it a dilema for you?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I may be wrong here but didn't the OP indicate that she had TOLD her husband?"

Yes he did, hence my post, don't know why he's making it his concern now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the logical thing would be fa him ta do the same if its just a bit a "harmless fun" then she shouldn't have a problem with it should she?? xx

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

i dont get where his 2nd mate who is married comes into this

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

think he means they are a male and female mate that are married to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think he means they are a male and female mate that are married to each other"

And im also presuming they are Vanilla xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"think he means they are a male and female mate that are married to each other

And im also presuming they are Vanilla xx "

Damn, and there was I thinking this was definitely tutti-frutti

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK


"think he means they are a male and female mate that are married to each other"

ah ok thanks lol, the OP could of done with wording the post lot better LOl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So she told him - I reckon she is trying to tell him she wants their sex life to be less vanilla

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"think he means they are a male and female mate that are married to each other

And im also presuming they are Vanilla xx "

We are all presuming a dilemma existed in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say let them get on with it - it's their business and no-one elses and if it goes tits up .............

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