FabSwingers.com forum: What happened to personal choice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm getting sick to death of been messaged by guys who can't read my profile..

IT CLEARLY STATES NO ASIANS!!

I'm not racists as I have a half Asian son, but I choose not to fuck or play with them..

So grow the fuck up and do one!!!

Please fab can u sort this out as an option out button, would save a lots of racist remarks!!!

Rant over!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your profile and your preferences so you're free to meet who you want. I can imagine it's very frustrating.

However t'internet is full of people who don't read or respect others opinions so you're always likely to get people that haven't read (or choose not to adhere to the terms of) your profile so the only thing you can realistically do is ignore it and block when they message or put filters up and go hunting for potential meets yourself.. You have the ability to make your Fab experience better - relying on others to do that for you is likely to fail!

Good luck in your ventures on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have all filters up but... There isn't a filter for personal choice.. I choose not to fuck or play with Asian male.. Therefore there should be a button to stop them messaging me

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I have all filters up but... There isn't a filter for personal choice.. I choose not to fuck or play with Asian male.. Therefore there should be a button to stop them messaging me"

I don't think a preference button is a good road to go down.

There are far too many preferences.

Just ignore the message. Don't lose sleep over it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have all filters up but... There isn't a filter for personal choice.. I choose not to fuck or play with Asian male.. Therefore there should be a button to stop them messaging me

I don't think a preference button is a good road to go down.

There are far too many preferences.

Just ignore the message. Don't lose sleep over it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have all filters up but... There isn't a filter for personal choice.. I choose not to fuck or play with Asian male.. Therefore there should be a button to stop them messaging me"

You could block all single males and search yourself?

Or you could just block and delete profiles that message you and you aren't interested in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many hundreds a day do you get for them to affect you that much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such big anger. Such small problems

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Such big anger. Such small problems "

Such big letters too.

It's a funny thing that big anger seems to be reserved for the smaller issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does come across as racist to be honest. You must be getting messages from loads of men who are not your preference but you are not complaining about them. I don't see the point of you complaining about it on here.

Just be like a grown up and block people who message you that you are not interested in meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting sick to death of been messaged by guys who can't read my profile..

IT CLEARLY STATES NO ASIANS!!

I'm not racists as I have a half Asian son, but I choose not to fuck or play with them..

So grow the fuck up and do one!!!

Please fab can u sort this out as an option out button, would save a lots of racist remarks!!!

Rant over!!"

Plus why does Fab have to sort it out for you, you are only 1 member why should they bring in preference button for you. If you don't like how the site is operated, join another one instead...simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the online world should catch up with reality that it is not allowed to mention race in that way, hence they stopped using it in alabama back in the 60's.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I'm getting sick to death of been messaged by guys who can't read my profile..

IT CLEARLY STATES NO ASIANS!!

I'm not racists as I have a half Asian son, but I choose not to fuck or play with them..

So grow the fuck up and do one!!!

Please fab can u sort this out as an option out button, would save a lots of racist remarks!!!

Rant over!!"

Personal choice died the day political correctness was born .

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"i'm not a racist but I am

I served my time in veitnam

I got three jobs,and this is one

Some times I wished i'd kept my gun"

Any Carter USM fans on this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting sick to death of been messaged by guys who can't read my profile..

IT CLEARLY STATES NO ASIANS!!

I'm not racists as I have a half Asian son, but I choose not to fuck or play with them..

So grow the fuck up and do one!!!

Please fab can u sort this out as an option out button, would save a lots of racist remarks!!!

Rant over!!

Personal choice died the day political correctness was born .

Haha back to the old days huh?! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""i'm not a racist but I am

I served my time in veitnam

I got three jobs,and this is one

Some times I wished i'd kept my gun"

Any Carter USM fans on this thread?"

A massive Carter fan from their days in pubs in the late 80s to their farewell gigs last year. love that band

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I'm getting sick to death of been messaged by guys who can't read my profile..

IT CLEARLY STATES NO ASIANS!!

I'm not racists as I have a half Asian son, but I choose not to fuck or play with them..

So grow the fuck up and do one!!!

Please fab can u sort this out as an option out button, would save a lots of racist remarks!!!

Rant over!!

Personal choice died the day political correctness was born .

Haha back to the old days huh?! Lol"

Not at all having been spat at in the 70s in this country for belonging to a minority I'd never advocate such a thing .

As so much of sex dating is about fantasy I can see no wrong in stating what your fantasy is but because we live in a politically correct world people come into this world with there politically correct opinions in toe and act like a fantasy choice is a racist choice .

I doubt the same people would not use the racist card if the fantasy match up with them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting sick to death of been messaged by guys who can't read my profile..

IT CLEARLY STATES NO ASIANS!!

I'm not racists as I have a half Asian son, but I choose not to fuck or play with them..

So grow the fuck up and do one!!!

Please fab can u sort this out as an option out button, would save a lots of racist remarks!!!

Rant over!!

Personal choice died the day political correctness was born .

Haha back to the old days huh?! Lol

Not at all having been spat at in the 70s in this country for belonging to a minority I'd never advocate such a thing .

I doubt the same people would not use the racist card if the fantasy match up with them .

I'm not saying one is not entitled to their preferences. But articulation of that preference is a skill

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

""i'm not a racist but I am

I served my time in veitnam

I got three jobs,and this is one

Some times I wished i'd kept my gun"

Any Carter USM fans on this thread?

A massive Carter fan from their days in pubs in the late 80s to their farewell gigs last year. love that band"

Loving the newrocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting sick to death of been messaged by guys who can't read my profile..

IT CLEARLY STATES NO ASIANS!!

I'm not racists as I have a half Asian son, but I choose not to fuck or play with them..

So grow the fuck up and do one!!!

Please fab can u sort this out as an option out button, would save a lots of racist remarks!!!

Rant over!!

Personal choice died the day political correctness was born .

Haha back to the old days huh?! Lol

Not at all having been spat at in the 70s in this country for belonging to a minority I'd never advocate such a thing .

I doubt the same people would not use the racist card if the fantasy match up with them .

I'm not saying one is not entitled to their preferences. But articulation of that preference is a skill

And it's a skill that some really don;t recognise.

It's not hard to work out why angry shouty aggressive I WON'T comments come across far differently to those who articulate their preferences by who they want to meet rather than who they don't

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD

""i'm not a racist but I am

I served my time in veitnam

I got three jobs,and this is one

Some times I wished i'd kept my gun"

Any Carter USM fans on this thread?"

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I think there should be a button that blocks people you rant at.

Then I could talk to myself.....

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"Such big anger. Such small problems "

The truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With them !?!?

Personnal choice is fine and should always be respected.

One should also consider impact language has when posting !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think there should be a button that blocks people you rant at.

Then I could talk to myself.....

I think that idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting sick to death of been messaged by guys who can't read my profile..

IT CLEARLY STATES NO ASIANS!!

I'm not racists as I have a half Asian son, but I choose not to fuck or play with them..

So grow the fuck up and do one!!!

Please fab can u sort this out as an option out button, would save a lots of racist remarks!!!

Rant over!!"

I used to get loads of messages from guys asking if they could blow me, despite me being straight.

Then I set my filters and now my inbox is cocksucker free.

Instead of whining about it I just grew the fuck up and dealt with it.

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have Asians in Durham ..... We've eaten them all .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I read this thread yesterday.

Then read the profile and looked at the pics and meet posts and decided that it's an ad.....

Not a rant just an ad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting sick to death of been messaged by guys who can't read my profile..

IT CLEARLY STATES NO ASIANS!!

I'm not racists as I have a half Asian son, but I choose not to fuck or play with them..

So grow the fuck up and do one!!!

Please fab can u sort this out as an option out button, would save a lots of racist remarks!!!

Rant over!!"

Lady doth protest too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my golly, are you saying that there may be a tiny wee smattering of peeps on here who don't read profiles????

Who knew?!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I read this thread yesterday.

Then read the profile and looked at the pics and meet posts and decided that it's an ad.....

Not a rant just an ad.

Yep, thought the same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read this thread yesterday.

Then read the profile and looked at the pics and meet posts and decided that it's an ad.....

Not a rant just an ad.

Yep, thought the same thing! "

Such cynics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read this thread yesterday.

Then read the profile and looked at the pics and meet posts and decided that it's an ad.....

Not a rant just an ad.

Definitely an ad seeing as she only meets at parties which have a small charge to cover costs and looking at the amount of veris she's got clearly doesn't have a problem in finding the type she seeks ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, just ignore em.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I read this thread yesterday.

Then read the profile and looked at the pics and meet posts and decided that it's an ad.....

Not a rant just an ad.

Yep, thought the same thing!

Such cynics

Moi?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my golly, are you saying that there may be a tiny wee smattering of peeps on here who don't read profiles????

Who knew?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh my golly, are you saying that there may be a tiny wee smattering of peeps on here who don't read profiles????

Who knew?!

You shut your beautiful sarcastic mouth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of messages from men who are too far away even though I put CAPITALS in my profile. I am not farawayist though. No button for me either. Ahhhh life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read this thread yesterday.

Then read the profile and looked at the pics and meet posts and decided that it's an ad.....

Not a rant just an ad.

Well, now you've said it I've had a look too.

I concur......

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Most of us get messages from those that don't fit what we're looking for who or havent read the profile.

It's not that much of a big deal, that's when the delete or block button comes into play.

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