FabSwingers.com forum: Straight MM Spoons

By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hug my mates. Even a kiss on the cheek sometimes.

Wouldnt spoon with them but I have shared beds before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not for me either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

Was the 'report' commissioned by gay times magazine?

The only time it's acceptable to hug another man is during a sporting celebration or whilst singing Robbie Williams "angels"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

From YouGov:

'1 in 2 young people say they are not 100% heterosexual'

My uni straight male friends get up to all kinds of stuff, including cuddling in bed. I think the older generations are a bit less uninhibited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spooning!?

with your straight mates!? You're pulling our plonkers OP, surely!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

Was the 'report' commissioned by gay times magazine?

The only time it's acceptable to hug another man is during a sporting celebration or whilst singing Robbie Williams "angels" "

It's an academic report but it is slanted to being pro gender neutrality about sex.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"From YouGov:

'1 in 2 young people say they are not 100% heterosexual'

My uni straight male friends get up to all kinds of stuff, including cuddling in bed. I think the older generations are a bit less uninhibited."

They are happy to share this information with you and others? Are your uni friends younger?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Spooning!?

with your straight mates!? You're pulling our plonkers OP, surely!

You've never once placed your plonker anywhere near enough for me to pull it.

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

Hug yes...although it is obligatory to announce "Manhug!" Before you do it.

Kissing?.nope!

Spooning. Not a fucking chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doubt it lol

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Hug yes...although it is obligatory to announce "Manhug!" Before you do it.

Kissing?.nope!

Spooning. Not a fucking chance!

Not even a peck on the cheek?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

I gave a friend I'd not seen for 15 years a manhug at a funeral.

I've been known to shoulder punch.

I've shared the occasional fist pump.

I've even chest bumped.

All with clothes on.

There has never been spooning, dressed or otherwise with another man.

Nor will there be.

Someone did put ribbons in my hair at the tea party though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around!

No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

I gave a friend I'd not seen for 15 years a manhug at a funeral.

I've been known to shoulder punch.

I've shared the occasional fist pump.

I've even chest bumped.

All with clothes on.

There has never been spooning, dressed or otherwise with another man.

Nor will there be.

Someone did put ribbons in my hair at the tea party though.

AS I know you don't have any hair on your head, as I removed the last one, I feel the tea party moved on, quite considerably, after I left.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around!

No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends

A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

And I'm not even straight.

Maybe if I were particularly d*unk, perhaps, but an old-fashioned handshake is just fine

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"From YouGov:

'1 in 2 young people say they are not 100% heterosexual'

My uni straight male friends get up to all kinds of stuff, including cuddling in bed. I think the older generations are a bit less uninhibited.

They are happy to share this information with you and others? Are your uni friends younger?"

Most of my uni friends are younger and they're fairldy open about what they get up to, or I see it for myself - plus others are always talking. We have a lot of discussions about sex and sexuality - obviously things that I know very little about.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

I see you as spooning with only one person. You're remarkably self contained, non-touchy for the raving sex maniac that you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around!

No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends

A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it.

Ha! I'm glad I planted a lovely thought

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"From YouGov:

'1 in 2 young people say they are not 100% heterosexual'

My uni straight male friends get up to all kinds of stuff, including cuddling in bed. I think the older generations are a bit less uninhibited.

They are happy to share this information with you and others? Are your uni friends younger?

The report is about younger men so thank you for confirming that you have some experience of this.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around!

No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends

A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it.

Ha! I'm glad I planted a lovely thought

I'm planting myself in the middle now, like the stamen in a flower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around!

No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends

A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it.

Ha! I'm glad I planted a lovely thought

I'm planting myself in the middle now, like the stamen in a flower.

A rose between the thorns.

Can I spoon too.

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

I must admit that I am an automatic cuddler. When I've been on champions league away trips with the boys and sharing a bed then they get cuddles. The upshot is than when we're away I now get the twin/single room

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around!

No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends

A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it.

Ha! I'm glad I planted a lovely thought

I'm planting myself in the middle now, like the stamen in a flower.

A rose between the thorns.

Can I spoon too. "

I don't think their thorns are out. They're all straight.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I must admit that I am an automatic cuddler. When I've been on champions league away trips with the boys and sharing a bed then they get cuddles. The upshot is than when we're away I now get the twin/single room"

Thank you for sharing. Do they push you away or just accept and then make sure you can't do it again by giving you the single room?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

I gave a friend I'd not seen for 15 years a manhug at a funeral.

I've been known to shoulder punch.

I've shared the occasional fist pump.

I've even chest bumped.

All with clothes on.

There has never been spooning, dressed or otherwise with another man.

Nor will there be.

Someone did put ribbons in my hair at the tea party though.

AS I know you don't have any hair on your head, as I removed the last one, I feel the tea party moved on, quite considerably, after I left."

No hair?????

I refer you to a recent post;

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/515703

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

I gave a friend I'd not seen for 15 years a manhug at a funeral.

I've been known to shoulder punch.

I've shared the occasional fist pump.

I've even chest bumped.

All with clothes on.

There has never been spooning, dressed or otherwise with another man.

Nor will there be.

Someone did put ribbons in my hair at the tea party though.

AS I know you don't have any hair on your head, as I removed the last one, I feel the tea party moved on, quite considerably, after I left.

No hair?????

I refer you to a recent post;

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/515703

Possession is 9/10th stuff here, methinks.

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

I often work away from home, staying in hotels with colleagues. This usually means sharing a room with another man. Trust me, 99% of straight men practically beg for separate rooms because of the "snoring" and 100% of proper straight men do NOT push the beds together.

Don't believe everything that you see in surveys or reports.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

If I was lost on the side of a mountain and freezing to death. I may consider it then

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over a year ago

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

I gave a friend I'd not seen for 15 years a manhug at a funeral.

I've been known to shoulder punch.

I've shared the occasional fist pump.

I've even chest bumped.

All with clothes on.

There has never been spooning, dressed or otherwise with another man.

Nor will there be.

Someone did put ribbons in my hair at the tea party though.

AS I know you don't have any hair on your head, as I removed the last one, I feel the tea party moved on, quite considerably, after I left.

No hair?????

I refer you to a recent post;

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/515703

Possession is 9/10th stuff here, methinks.

He seems think so too.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I have no qualms about giving 'some' of my mates a hug (some would not like it as they are not tactile people) one or two even a kiss to the cheek (because of culture / upbringing) why not..

I'm straight and I know my sexuality, I hug gay friends (male and female) , I'm not going to become gay by doing so, I hug nephews, some uncles, what is the difference.

Cuddle (just nephews Yes) or Spoons.. Umm no...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spooning is a bit intimate isn't it? Spooning my straight mates? No it's not the same as shaking hands or patting them on the back.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

And I'm not even straight.

Maybe if I were particularly d*unk, perhaps, but an old-fashioned handshake is just fine "

I'm with you. Handshake it is. Cuddle a feller?....not so much.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Spooning is a bit intimate isn't it? Spooning my straight mates? No it's not the same as shaking hands or patting them on the back. "

I think of it as intimate.

I'm not sure any of the links would be permitted but Google straight men cuddling and spooning and quite a lot comes up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, spooning is too intimate to do with your straight mates, there's no good reason to spoon unless you are freezing to death in the South Pole, then it's life and death so acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

Sounds gay! I'd suck a dick,but I ain't spooning another man!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No forking involved, but do any of you straight men hug, cuddle or spoon with your straight mates?

I was reading a report suggesting this is now more acceptable (and happening) with (some) younger straight men.

Sounds gay! I'd suck a dick,but I ain't spooning another man!

Clem, you are so authentic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man hugs are acceptable but spooning is just laying yourself open for a reach around!

No OP, it wouldn't happen amongst me and my circle of friends

A circle of spooning men sounds so lovely. I can just picture it.

Me too....funny thought......a mass man spoonin after the football maybe XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a lovely idea, everyone needs cuddles!

Spread the love people!!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll embrace friends and hug them.

I leave the kissing to my football playing friends.

Spooning....for survival maybe, because one of us had a bad day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spooning!?

with your straight mates!? You're pulling our plonkers OP, surely!

You've never once placed your plonker anywhere near enough for me to pull it.

one of my life regrets

Still making me shudder the thought of spooning with my mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A firm hand shake and a slap on the back! Rather!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Kind of, ground control to major Tom, to me

Hate the out of the world space cadets.

Every ones different, just Im a man's man who is attracted to women .

Fuck, don't even know why I'm posting.

Have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.

Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.

Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though. "

Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party.

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over a year ago

"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.

Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.

Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party.

Oh that sounds sooooooooo wrong.

Move along everyone, nothing to see here.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.

Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.

Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party.

Oh that sounds sooooooooo wrong.

Move along everyone, nothing to see here.......

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL4L4Uv5rf0

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.

Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.

Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party.

Oh that sounds sooooooooo wrong.

Move along everyone, nothing to see here.......

I'm not sure how spooning moved on to fisting.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.

Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.

Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party.

Oh that sounds sooooooooo wrong.

Move along everyone, nothing to see here.......

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL4L4Uv5rf0"

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Well, considering the huge number of men on here who seem to like showing their ass to all and sundry, a bit of spooning doesn't seem too out of the way.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck that shit. It's a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, considering the huge number of men on here who seem to like showing their ass to all and sundry, a bit of spooning doesn't seem too out of the way."

I love a bit of spooning with the opposite sex but not with another hairy arsed man, nooo way thank you. I'd give a good spooning tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hug and kiss my friends quite often. We're quite an affectionate bunch.

Spooning is perhaps a bit too intimate though.

Fu ckaaaaaf, you didn't even fist pump me at the tea party.

Oh that sounds sooooooooo wrong.

Move along everyone, nothing to see here.......

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL4L4Uv5rf0

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No chance "

Not even in the big spooning flower?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Fuck that shit. It's a no from me"

Are you absolutely sure about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck that shit. It's a no from me

Are you absolutely sure about that?

I have no intention or desire to spoon with any man. So yes I am very sure.

With the opposite sex though, bring it on. Nothing better I'd rather do

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

I regularly sleep with my best (gay) friend. Love spooning and kissing, but we don't have sex. It is just the intimacy we enjoy.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Fuck that shit. It's a no from me

Are you absolutely sure about that?

I have no intention or desire to spoon with any man. So yes I am very sure.

With the opposite sex though, bring it on. Nothing better I'd rather do

Nothing better... that seems a bit of a limitation.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I regularly sleep with my best (gay) friend. Love spooning and kissing, but we don't have sex. It is just the intimacy we enjoy. "

Thank you for sharing. Not quite straight but heartwarming all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spooning!?

with your straight mates!? You're pulling our plonkers OP, surely!

lol,,made me laugh,,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck that shit. It's a no from me

Are you absolutely sure about that?

I have no intention or desire to spoon with any man. So yes I am very sure.

With the opposite sex though, bring it on. Nothing better I'd rather do

Nothing better... that seems a bit of a limitation.

On second thoughts, my last message was a bit rash lol. I'm sure there are few more things I'd rather do haha!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Fuck that shit. It's a no from me

Are you absolutely sure about that?

I have no intention or desire to spoon with any man. So yes I am very sure.

With the opposite sex though, bring it on. Nothing better I'd rather do

Nothing better... that seems a bit of a limitation.

On second thoughts, my last message was a bit rash lol. I'm sure there are few more things I'd rather do haha!"

You could bookend things with a couple of spoons.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"No chance

Not even in the big spooning flower? "

Nah....horrid sweaty men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seriously why would a straight guy wanna sppon his pal,,lol like why would a gay gay go near a fanny

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No chance

Not even in the big spooning flower?

Nah....horrid sweaty men

In my imagination (not in a Kylie way, don't start singing), I see freshly laundered men in peaceful slumber, all looking sweet and comfortable, forming a lovely circle.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"seriously why would a straight guy wanna sppon his pal,,lol like why would a gay gay go near a fanny

I think the spooning is supposed to be just friendly affection and not sexual. More like brotherly puppies being happy to pile together in sweet, happy sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"seriously why would a straight guy wanna sppon his pal,,lol like why would a gay gay go near a fanny

I think the spooning is supposed to be just friendly affection and not sexual. More like brotherly puppies being happy to pile together in sweet, happy sleep.

nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi n theres no way id want my male friends spooning me.

no way,,thats reserved for folk I fancy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No matter how much you tart it up, it's a mega no from me. I don't particularly like sitting next to men tbh.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"No matter how much you tart it up, it's a mega no from me. I don't particularly like sitting next to men tbh. "

I don't either. They hog all the space.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's strange - the circle of young straight blokes that I mix with get up to cuddles in bed, cuddles out of bed, sleeping together (for sleep) but touching.

There really aren't the hangups amongst the guys who are younger than the blokes in the forum. We've moved on.

I think we've evolved to be touchy, probably from when caucasians and others were in cold climates and huddling together would have been a bonding experience as well as keeping everyone safe and warm. Full circle again.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It's strange - the circle of young straight blokes that I mix with get up to cuddles in bed, cuddles out of bed, sleeping together (for sleep) but touching.

There really aren't the hangups amongst the guys who are younger than the blokes in the forum. We've moved on.

It is interesting to see the heteronormity assert itself so strongly around something as benign as cuddling and spooning on here.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"No matter how much you tart it up, it's a mega no from me. I don't particularly like sitting next to men tbh. "

I do

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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"It's strange - the circle of young straight blokes that I mix with get up to cuddles in bed, cuddles out of bed, sleeping together (for sleep) but touching.

There really aren't the hangups amongst the guys who are younger than the blokes in the forum. We've moved on.

It is interesting to see the heteronormity assert itself so strongly around something as benign as cuddling and spooning on here.

I agree! They'll agree to a very formal bed share, minimal hand or shoulder contact, when greeting or anything very straight. I think it's more than just appearing to be even a little bi-leaning on Fab, as is the norm that so many refrain from.

My hockey, rugby, American Football and other sports playing young male friends may as well be from another universe than this lot.

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

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Thank you for sharing. Do they push you away or just accept and then make sure you can't do it again by giving you the single room?

Room to myself these days

I do also snore like a train after a few beers.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't spoon or fork any man !!!!!

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