FabSwingers.com forum: Guys are you more body concious?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Since joining fab?

I know we should be liked for who we are, but on here, looks seems to come first and getting your personality across is difficult on interweb.

So guys are you happy with the way you are with a take you as you find me outlook, or are you constantly trying to improve on what you have, I am always trying to improve myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be until all the washboard abs turned up

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

No...can't be bothered, I am what I am and happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been body concious for years before I came on here. But hey we can't all be built like a Greek god. Somewhere on here there are people that have a thing for chunk muffins like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say i am a little more than before.....but i get more compliments now too...i joined a gym last week! (Now...just need to go!)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah, I started going to the gym cos I see the top fabbed men and shags abs and I can't compete. That wasn't the real reason, of course. I'm on a long term fitness doodle-flop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%. Average with a hairy chest.

Seems I'm in the bottom 5%

Need to work out, wax and get some tattoos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to meet guys with "amazing" bodies tbh, think I'd feel like a potato next to a guy with a mega six pack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want to meet guys with "amazing" bodies tbh, think I'd feel like a potato next to a guy with a mega six pack. "

Wrap me in foil and I'd pull off the baked spud look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I had my body before fab, it's the same body. I'm as comfortable now as I always have been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

I had my body before fab, it's the same body. I'm as comfortable now as I always have been. "

You're in good shape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I am yes, but it's more, 'I need to get in shape' doesn't stop me putting up current pictures of myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with my perfect body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest since being on fab I have become more body confident.

I know I am mo gym bunny but I am more confident in the skin I am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100%. Average with a hairy chest.

Seems I'm in the bottom 5%

Need to work out, wax and get some tattoos

I like your chest. I would have fabbed it if I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want to meet guys with "amazing" bodies tbh, think I'd feel like a potato next to a guy with a mega six pack. "

Are you for real

If your a potato I'm getting a job at mcains it's to get my hands on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest since being on fab I have become more body confident.

I know I am mo gym bunny but I am more confident in the skin I am in

I think the vast array of preferences here, muscles, skinny, larger build, short, tall, hairy, smooth means there's always someone who likes whatever body characteristics you have and throw a compliment our way. That's nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100%. Average with a hairy chest.

Seems I'm in the bottom 5%

Need to work out, wax and get some tattoos

I like your chest. I would have fabbed it if I could

Oh stop it! You're making me blush! Thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm partially body conscious, but to be honest I now care more about improving my performance than physique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest since being on fab I have become more body confident.

I know I am mo gym bunny but I am more confident in the skin I am in

Yes same here truthfully

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Upon joining Fab I enjoyed the compliments I got. It wasn't something I ever expected and it did give me more confidence in myself. That has held me in good stead and given me something to cling onto.

As time has gone on though and I've come to realise the kinds of bodies women really go for, what turns them on generally (obviously I know everyone likes different things), the more the confidence in my body has dropped. Quite dramatically in fact. It's the main reason I've not been around much lately and the number one reason why I've given up on the site for now. I've come to realise that I have to improve what I have. More for myself as much as anything. It's not even about Fab anymore. This sounds pretty pathetic but it has really made me feel unattractive. In my whole life I'd never felt that way, hence the reason why I had to get away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have become more body conscious with age not because of any 'fab effect'

Things have started giving up on me or going south which is never good.

That said, I'd never change to raise my profile on here, I make changes that benefit me health wise not to make me aesthetically pleasing to a group of strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Upon joining Fab I enjoyed the compliments I got. It wasn't something I ever expected and it did give me more confidence in myself. That has held me in good stead and given me something to cling onto.

?????

Your body looks great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm partially body conscious, but to be honest I now care more about improving my performance than physique. "

Well I read the OP wrong...

No I am not anymore self conscious about my body or performance since joining fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no need to be body conscious

Having been to several clubs and seen the range of body types that are "on display" there's nothing to be worried about.

Yes, I'd like to lose a couple of pounds, have a slightly firmer stomach or more toned biceps .... but where would that stop?

I'm not that narcissistic to always strive for something better.

I'm in damn good shape for someone of my years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I have never been body concious. I do bodybuilding and got the chest and 6pack

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I have become more body conscious with age not because of any 'fab effect'

Things have started giving up on me or going south which is never good.

That said, I'd never change to raise my profile on here, I make changes that benefit me health wise not to make me aesthetically pleasing to a group of strangers."

Spot on, been on Fab 5 weeks but on a slow reduced food intake diet since January, not for fab but for me, 5'8" and 14st+ I didn't like, 5'8" and 13st is better now, but looking for 12st or less if I work at it, two small kids & a younger wife help a lot though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in my 20s possibly. I've always been competitive.

Now? So long as I'm fit and healthy within myself I couldn't care less what people think of me.

As for personality. If someone's willing to get to know me then that comes through eventually.

Life's good on here. Ain't that bad even with all the skinny Minnies!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have realised that the older I get that it's so much easier to put on weight than before so do have days where I feel too heavy around the waist. Really must stop eating such huge evening meals....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Na, thought about it them decided like being in my own skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our feeling of inadequacy stems from comparising ourselves with others.

I totally get what you mean, depends on days, but overall I am pretty happy with who I am

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

"No. I have never been body concious. I do bodybuilding and got the chest and 6pack

Does that mean you don"t know what body concious means then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I have never been body concious. I do bodybuilding and got the chest and 6pack

Does that mean you don"t know what body concious means then?

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I think you are right there, as it is all about to get big lol

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

Actually seeing all the scaffold requiring toolage on here has skewed my view of my own moderate ding dong which I previously thought of as average.

But I guess you could say that anyone with a decent schlong is bound to be proud enough to snap it and parade it.

Also the amount of large tooled dudes on here that seem to struggle to get to use it is comforting.

My stick of rock may not be spectacular but it gets chewed fairly often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never will be happy. Allways room for improvement and as most who workout will know your allways wanna be that little bit bigger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going to lie, I do like my face - I have been blessed in that department ha ha but when it comes to the body well... that's a whole different story! Definetly issues there, the more I see guys with ripped bodies and sick pictures I do become self aware and think hmm competition is fierce!

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

"Since joining fab?

I know we should be liked for who we are, but on here, looks seems to come first and getting your personality across is difficult on interweb.

So guys are you happy with the way you are with a take you as you find me outlook, or are you constantly trying to improve on what you have, I am always trying to improve myself.

Before joining fab I was a fitness and health freak.i dont ever want to be fat,and since being on fab i have kept up the same regime.its important for me to feel good,to feel healthy and it does get noticed in clubs,and at parties

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Never really cared how I looked, but now I hate it. Started going gym, started to enjoy the excercise and with it came a hatered of being fat!

So far I'm happily the same ish weight, but a lot more solid and actually now have a shape (not just dumpling). I'll stick to gym and keep working on weights, no interest in that odd gym bunny look, but a strongman build would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was last year. I blew both my knees out and wasn't able to do much for a long time. I piled on the weight without realising. Thankfully and not far off my original weight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking about this. I think men now realise that if they want to have fun with another guy (and most seem to secretly want this from the messages I have received from "straight men I can't message as a single man" they need a athletic body. Most want MMF but it seems only with well built guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I maybe don't like to admit it but yes it's played its part in me keeping an eye on my midlife spread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want to meet guys with "amazing" bodies tbh, think I'd feel like a potato next to a guy with a mega six pack.

Are you for real

If your a potato I'm getting a job at mcains it's to get my hands on you

haha thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want to meet guys with "amazing" bodies tbh, think I'd feel like a potato next to a guy with a mega six pack.

Are you for real

If your a potato I'm getting a job at mcains it's to get my hands on you

haha thanks! "

Hahaha killer !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's a comparative pressure on men to have a "certain" body type, like there was on women years ago.

Whilst there's been a massive campaign...rightly so....to allow females to accept and be proud of their shape,it doesn't seem to be the same for men?

There's an awful lot of vain men these days as a result.

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Got smashed off my push bike and then run over while lying on the ground over a year ago. I was super fit before the accident but after a year I am now back in the gym. I was not body conscious before but certainly am now- I am slowly removing the timber with 5 sessions a week in the gym once more. You could say I am dodging sofas and salad surfing (with the odd smash of G&T).

Mr A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think generally guys are more conscious we just don't like to admit it I know I certainly am unfortunately I don't have the will power to stay away from the chocolate biccys and lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, next question please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I certainly am, hence the 133 days weight loss thread I started. There are so easy very genetically gifted men on here who were born with the genetics for enormous cocks. Add that to working hard in the gym and it is a hard act to beat if the beholder is superficial.

I would hope to add so etching else to the game. Nobody says that swinging can only be played by giant cocker ado is like shag hard and rough types. Some women, maybe few want sensual sex from a more realistic man who is perhaps not judging any of her wobbly bits as he has a few of his own.

On the other hand I may be wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No...can't be bothered, I am what I am and happy with that

Hi 5.

I look after myself, but I'm not conscious because others have a different physique. I'm aware they have and I'd like, or I would like to be taller than I am. But we're different. It's the way it is.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Aww, bless...

Don't look at me! The rise of male body insecurity

A new survey has revealed that a quarter of men between 20 and 30 are so self-conscious about their bodies that they prefer to have sex with the lights off.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/10707662/Dont-look-at-me-The-rise-of-male-body-insecurity.html

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Don't read beauty magazines - they will make you feel ugly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't read beauty magazines - they will make you feel ugly. "

Everyone's free (to wear sunscreen)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't read beauty magazines - they will make you feel ugly.

Everyone's free (to wear sunscreen)

Floss

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Don't read beauty magazines - they will make you feel ugly.

Everyone's free (to wear sunscreen)

Floss"

Stretch

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

My fav line is:

Always follow the instructions, even if you don;t follow them.

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My fav line is:

Always follow the instructions, even if you don;t follow them.

Good advice"

Specially the ones from ikea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't read beauty magazines - they will make you feel ugly.

Everyone's free (to wear sunscreen)

Floss

Stretch"

Get plenty of calcium

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"No. I have never been body concious. I do bodybuilding and got the chest and 6pack

You're the ideal that many would like to be similar to Shag.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Being on fabs has actually made me less body concious - I used to be worried about my scar/ileostomy bag, but now I give a total of zero fucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I have never been body concious. I do bodybuilding and got the chest and 6pack

You're the ideal that many would like to be similar to Shag.

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Ty and yes, it is all about, intense gym sessions, dedication and nutrition to get the results

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. I have never been body concious. I do bodybuilding and got the chest and 6pack

You're the ideal that many would like to be similar to Shag.

Not me, I prefer the natural look not the juiced up look, sorry shag, just my opinion mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na, I'm a skinny fucker. Always have been, always will be but I'm happy with my lot

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

I like both? Just not a pot belly.

Doesn't have the be bulked up and ripped, but not skinny. I like to see a little muscle

I'm not super slim, but have the woman jiggly bits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, i manscape more often that's all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been body conscious, even before this place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I have never been body concious. I do bodybuilding and got the chest and 6pack

You're the ideal that many would like to be similar to Shag.

Not me, I prefer the natural look not the juiced up look, sorry shag, just my opinion mate."
That is fine too, my idol in the sport is jay cutler.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've always been body conscious, even before this place. "

Wowzer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always been body conscious, even before this place.

Wowzer

Sup?

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

"No. I have never been body concious. I do bodybuilding and got the chest and 6pack

You're the ideal that many would like to be similar to Shag.

Ty and yes, it is all about, intense gym sessions, dedication and nutrition to get the results

I do my weights at home, not as intensely as you though shag, i have to keep stopping for tea, fag and pizza breaks. I do eat a lot of burgers, but sometimes they have lettuce in...which is good for you, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I have never been body concious. I do bodybuilding and got the chest and 6pack

You're the ideal that many would like to be similar to Shag.

Ty and yes, it is all about, intense gym sessions, dedication and nutrition to get the results

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That is good you do weights at home and them burgers sounds nice and yes, they are good with lettuce in and as well add some hot sauce to it for flavour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I have never been body concious. I do bodybuilding and got the chest and 6pack

You're the ideal that many would like to be similar to Shag.

Nah i prefer bulk

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

I've always been a bit body conscious. I'm a right skinny thing naturally so Ivery always had to go to the gym to add a bit of bulk. Fab hasn't changed that, if anything it's made me more relaxed in my own skin (up to a point!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am now officially a real ale freak which is putting weight around my middle,im trying to combat it but the ale is winning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The muscle diet that have worked for me is the anabolic diet, here it is, it is a 4 week cycle:

Week 1: Maintenance 3000kcal 250g carbs 200g protein

Week 2: Super low restricted calorie phase 1700kcal 150g carbs 230g protein

Week 3 and 4: This is where you will see changes, the bulking phase where you should eat as much as possible, aim for 5000kcal 700g carbs 290g protein

Then start over with week 1. Remember to take every 7th week a whole week of training, but keep the cardio up. Use myfitnesspal to track the daily macros on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The muscle diet that have worked for me is the anabolic diet, here it is, it is a 4 week cycle:

Week 1: Maintenance 3000kcal 250g carbs 200g protein

Week 2: Super low restricted calorie phase 1700kcal 150g carbs 230g protein

Week 3 and 4: This is where you will see changes, the bulking phase where you should eat as much as possible, aim for 5000kcal 700g carbs 290g protein

Then start over with week 1. Remember to take every 7th week a whole week of training, but keep the cardio up. Use myfitnesspal to track the daily macros on."

Iv just pm you shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The muscle diet that have worked for me is the anabolic diet, here it is, it is a 4 week cycle:

Week 1: Maintenance 3000kcal 250g carbs 200g protein

Week 2: Super low restricted calorie phase 1700kcal 150g carbs 230g protein

Week 3 and 4: This is where you will see changes, the bulking phase where you should eat as much as possible, aim for 5000kcal 700g carbs 290g protein

Then start over with week 1. Remember to take every 7th week a whole week of training, but keep the cardio up. Use myfitnesspal to track the daily macros on.

Iv just pm you shag

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Nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned "

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Point is most men who are body concious (assuming they are straight) are concerned about their appearence to women. And she was trying to allay those fears. So no need to argue with her!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally dont care about others oppinons on my body, I am who I am and look like what I do,not to everyones taste but hey ho. Tbh im just happy to be alive

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

Damn right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am now officially a real ale freak which is putting weight around my middle,im trying to combat it but the ale is winning!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've already had one thread removed this week so lets not make it another, play nice now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

Bit off topic thou hey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Point is most men who are body concious (assuming they are straight) are concerned about their appearence to women. And she was trying to allay those fears. So no need to argue with her!!"

Argue

i was making a valid point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

Bit off topic thou hey.

Not at all ... I'm guessing you didn't actually read the whole thread?

Maybe in future you should...

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over a year ago

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

Bit off topic thou hey.

Not at all ... I'm guessing you didn't actually read the whole thread?

Maybe in future you should... "

I take it your a guy that works out then

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By *r Greys AnatomyMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

I have to agree..

A combination on not looking like Conan and age, it seems 45 is past it, and if you aren't hung like a horse holding a large melon .., no one wants to know you.

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

Bit off topic thou hey.

Not at all ... I'm guessing you didn't actually read the whole thread?

Maybe in future you should...

I take it your a guy that works out then

Looks like you're a guy that finds it hard to work things out then?

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over a year ago

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

Bit off topic thou hey.

Not at all ... I'm guessing you didn't actually read the whole thread?

Maybe in future you should...

I take it your a guy that works out then

Looks like you're a guy that finds it hard to work things out then?

White knight alert. Read the op? The title. Guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We may not admit it but I think everyone has some kind of body image insecurity. Too tall, not tall enough, package size, too much hair, etc. Some things we change, some not.

At 46, I think I'm in pretty decent shape. I've been worse for sure. I'm not as well endowed as some would like, but that's not really something we can change.

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over a year ago

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

Bit off topic thou hey.

Not at all ... I'm guessing you didn't actually read the whole thread?

Maybe in future you should...

I take it your a guy that works out then

Not anywhere does it say ' women don't post here!'

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

Bit off topic thou hey.

Not at all ... I'm guessing you didn't actually read the whole thread?

Maybe in future you should...

I take it your a guy that works out then

Looks like you're a guy that finds it hard to work things out then?

White knight alert. Read the op? The title. Guys?"

Yeah I get it...the title was talking to guys but the girl was on topic and relevant so why point out the obvious in such a condesending way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

I had my body before fab, it's the same body. I'm as comfortable now as I always have been.

You're in good shape

Well thank you kindly sir

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over a year ago

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

Bit off topic thou hey.

Not at all ... I'm guessing you didn't actually read the whole thread?

Maybe in future you should...

I take it your a guy that works out then

Not anywhere does it say ' women don't post here!'

well i wouldnt post on a ladies are you happy with your body

And if i was to it wouldnt be to have a little dig at guys with muscles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not every woman likes the 'buff, sixpack and killer abs' look...

I try and steer clear of the gym bunnies as I personally think I would be mightily intimidated by someone who was super fit looking....

I much prefer average and toned

I didnt think the post was asking what ladies prefer

Maybe you should let all the other ladies who have posted on here know as well?

And FYI it's a public forum so I guess it's allowed

Bit off topic thou hey.

Not at all ... I'm guessing you didn't actually read the whole thread?

Maybe in future you should...

I take it your a guy that works out then

Looks like you're a guy that finds it hard to work things out then?

White knight alert. Read the op? The title. Guys?

Yeah I get it...the title was talking to guys but the girl was on topic and relevant so why point out the obvious in such a condesending way?"

Its a thread about guys who go the gym. Who like to improve themselves. Really dont know what i stay away from gym bunnies as to do with this post. But hey thats just me.

Im just gonna go and pump some iron at the gym and leave what i thought was a good thread to all you gym heads

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Suppose I am a bit of late but it's nothing to do with this place or meets as I've always had the same outlook on that. I'm here because I enjoy the forum and going to a few socials. For me it's more I've noticed I've expanded of late guess I'm getting old and not happy about it some I'm now thinking what I eat where as I've never had to before which is a pisser but I'm not that worried about to to go out and buy scales I'm dropping belt holes instead

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Oh have I walked into a kick off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh have I walked into a kick off

Not on my part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on here doesn't make a difference to my body consciousness. I'm too laid back to be affected by that anyway, which isn't always good as sometimes I look like a mess lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Oh have I walked into a kick off

Not on my part

It's all words on a screen nothing matters on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No seen a lot of "oh he's ripped/muscular" and they often look bang average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh have I walked into a kick off

Not on my part

It's all words on a screen nothing matters on here

gets a little annoying when they gang together like kids thou!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100%. Average with a hairy chest.

Seems I'm in the bottom 5%

Need to work out, wax and get some tattoos

Don't you DARE wax that chest!!!

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

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over a year ago

"100%. Average with a hairy chest.

Seems I'm in the bottom 5%

Need to work out, wax and get some tattoos

Don't you DARE wax that chest!!!

Careful, women aren't allowed to post on here..

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over a year ago

"100%. Average with a hairy chest.

Seems I'm in the bottom 5%

Need to work out, wax and get some tattoos

Don't you DARE wax that chest!!!

Careful, women aren't allowed to post on here..

Sssshhh they haven't noticed yet!

Just wanted to say that some of us women equally feel we have to compete with other women when perving at the hot pic's.... pert boobs, not a squidgy bit on show, annoying attractive (and that's just the transsexuals) Some are stunning!!

I think society as a whole is making us conscious of our body shape, nothing wrong with leading a healthy lifestyle and exercise does make you feel better, just don't become obsessed.

We just need to enjoy life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PS.... Going now.... Quietly shuts door....

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Does my bump look big in this thread

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Does my bump look big in this thread

Fucking bump

bum ffs

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"The muscle diet that have worked for me is the anabolic diet, here it is, it is a 4 week cycle:

Week 1: Maintenance 3000kcal 250g carbs 200g protein

Week 2: Super low restricted calorie phase 1700kcal 150g carbs 230g protein

Week 3 and 4: This is where you will see changes, the bulking phase where you should eat as much as possible, aim for 5000kcal 700g carbs 290g protein

230g protein on 1700Kcal? Do you own shares in a chicken farm or something?

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over a year ago

"The muscle diet that have worked for me is the anabolic diet, here it is, it is a 4 week cycle:

Week 1: Maintenance 3000kcal 250g carbs 200g protein

Week 2: Super low restricted calorie phase 1700kcal 150g carbs 230g protein

Week 3 and 4: This is where you will see changes, the bulking phase where you should eat as much as possible, aim for 5000kcal 700g carbs 290g protein

230g protein on 1700Kcal? Do you own shares in a chicken farm or something?

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lol no I don't, but it would be a good if I did. Not just chicken but tuna too you know.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"The muscle diet that have worked for me is the anabolic diet, here it is, it is a 4 week cycle:

Week 1: Maintenance 3000kcal 250g carbs 200g protein

Week 2: Super low restricted calorie phase 1700kcal 150g carbs 230g protein

Week 3 and 4: This is where you will see changes, the bulking phase where you should eat as much as possible, aim for 5000kcal 700g carbs 290g protein

230g protein on 1700Kcal? Do you own shares in a chicken farm or something?

lol no I don't, but it would be a good if I did. Not just chicken but tuna too you know."

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over a year ago

"The muscle diet that have worked for me is the anabolic diet, here it is, it is a 4 week cycle:

Week 1: Maintenance 3000kcal 250g carbs 200g protein

Week 2: Super low restricted calorie phase 1700kcal 150g carbs 230g protein

Week 3 and 4: This is where you will see changes, the bulking phase where you should eat as much as possible, aim for 5000kcal 700g carbs 290g protein

230g protein on 1700Kcal? Do you own shares in a chicken farm or something?

lol no I don't, but it would be a good if I did. Not just chicken but tuna too you know.

I've never really tried cycling my diet. I do the old-school thing of bulking and cutting. I'm just coming to the end of a cut, I've cut right down this time because I want to bulk slowly for 6 months. I'll be doing PHUL as my programme. "
That is good and I haven't heard of that program, yeah bulking that way is good too. in week 2 of the low restricted phase it is mind of matter to keep the calories low, but fun.

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over a year ago

"100%. Average with a hairy chest.

Seems I'm in the bottom 5%

Need to work out, wax and get some tattoos

Don't you DARE wax that chest!!!

Careful, women aren't allowed to post on here..

Sssshhh they haven't noticed yet!

I think society as a whole is making us conscious of our body shape, nothing wrong with leading a healthy lifestyle and exercise does make you feel better, just don't become obsessed.

We just need to enjoy life x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"The muscle diet that have worked for me is the anabolic diet, here it is, it is a 4 week cycle:

Week 1: Maintenance 3000kcal 250g carbs 200g protein

Week 2: Super low restricted calorie phase 1700kcal 150g carbs 230g protein

Week 3 and 4: This is where you will see changes, the bulking phase where you should eat as much as possible, aim for 5000kcal 700g carbs 290g protein

230g protein on 1700Kcal? Do you own shares in a chicken farm or something?

lol no I don't, but it would be a good if I did. Not just chicken but tuna too you know.

I've never really tried cycling my diet. I do the old-school thing of bulking and cutting. I'm just coming to the end of a cut, I've cut right down this time because I want to bulk slowly for 6 months. I'll be doing PHUL as my programme. That is good and I haven't heard of that program, yeah bulking that way is good too. in week 2 of the low restricted phase it is mind of matter to keep the calories low, but fun."

It's kind of a hybrid programme - stands for Power, Hypertrophy, Upper, Lower. So you'll do 4 workouts a week - 2 heavy, power based, 2 hypertrophy based for upper and lower body.

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