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Have you conveyed who you are and what you want on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have a profile obviously and feel i havent quite got it right yet.....have you ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope. It doesn't seem to make a difference what I write.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But no one bloody takes any notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I finally git mine just how I want it not that many actually read it

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

I think so, but I am always tweaking it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeap, I'm happy enough with mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes I have, I couldn't be clearer about what I am looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's absolutely clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm pretty happy with mine.

Because it's short n sweet I don't care if people don't read it now

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

My profile is amazing

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Mine's a very longwinded way of saying there's nothing absolutely specific I'm necessarily looking for and I will probably never meet the majority of people who message me. It's pretty much one giant disclaimer. So it works for me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"My profile is amazing "

Your jokes are shite though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my profile conveys that I'm a bit of an idiot and often far too wordy. So it's reasonably accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile is amazing

Your jokes are shite though "

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

No.

Difficult question.

Some information is on my profile, and some is not. I like to keep a lot of things to myself, as I value my privacy.

Some people don't bother to read profiles properly...

What do you think is missing from yours?

Fancy a Pimms?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Mine's a very longwinded way of saying there's nothing absolutely specific I'm necessarily looking for and I will probably never meet the majority of people who message me. It's pretty much one giant disclaimer. So it works for me."

I'd like to meet you one day. I did try

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Oh yes I have, I couldn't be clearer about what I am looking for. "

...me, dipped in Nutella?

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By *am-RaiderMan
over a year ago

Corby

I think I come across as a bit of a twat in my profile...buy then...that may be accurate!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Think ours says what we want, and shows what you get.

It's not perfect but ...

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"My profile is amazing

Your jokes are shite though "

It's true!

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is coming out in book form soon. Mostly it's just us taking the piss tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No.

Difficult question.

Some information is on my profile, and some is not. I like to keep a lot of things to myself, as I value my privacy.

Some people don't bother to read profiles properly...

What do you think is missing from yours?

Fancy a Pimms? "

Pimms No.....Pouring Sauvignon Blanc....a photo yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes I have, I couldn't be clearer about what I am looking for.

...me, dipped in Nutella? "

I didn't know that was an option. Is that an option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It dont matter what you write really as if theres no attraction your not gonna meet them.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

mine doesnt state about what i expect from couple meets or that i meet females, but as all my message filters are on, i dont suppose it matters. im happy with my profile and how i go about things..so all good xx

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Yeah I think so.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"No.

Difficult question.

Some information is on my profile, and some is not. I like to keep a lot of things to myself, as I value my privacy.

Some people don't bother to read profiles properly...

What do you think is missing from yours?

Fancy a Pimms?

Pimms No.....Pouring Sauvignon Blanc....a photo yes "

Or a good Chabblis x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"mine doesnt state about what i expect from couple meets or that i meet females, but as all my message filters are on, i dont suppose it matters. im happy with my profile and how i go about things..so all good xx "

Yours is perfect to be honest, that's what drew me to you !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes I have, I couldn't be clearer about what I am looking for.

...me, dipped in Nutella?

I didn't know that was an option. Is that an option?"

Haha yes I love tits dipped in it, not penis !

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Oh yes I have, I couldn't be clearer about what I am looking for.

...me, dipped in Nutella?

I didn't know that was an option. Is that an option?"

Didn't you tick that box?

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Yes. But no one bloody takes any notice "

We do.

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine does the job

I don't know how I come across;I've put what I consider the important stuff on there. Pic wise,I'm not a fan of naked pics,I have face and boobs in private.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"mine doesnt state about what i expect from couple meets or that i meet females, but as all my message filters are on, i dont suppose it matters. im happy with my profile and how i go about things..so all good xx

Yours is perfect to be honest, that's what drew me to you ! "
thankyou honey .....see it works.. loves you F&B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes I have, I couldn't be clearer about what I am looking for.

...me, dipped in Nutella?

I didn't know that was an option. Is that an option?

Didn't you tick that box? "

I must have have missed it. I would like to put forward my interest in this.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Oh yes I have, I couldn't be clearer about what I am looking for.

...me, dipped in Nutella?

I didn't know that was an option. Is that an option?

Haha yes I love tits dipped in it, not penis ! "

Or pussy.

...dip your finger in, and take a scoop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep...although I doubt many read it to the end. Those that do know exactly what they're entering into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I don't want anything therefore it doesn't matter who I am

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Oh yes I have, I couldn't be clearer about what I am looking for.

...me, dipped in Nutella?

I didn't know that was an option. Is that an option?

Didn't you tick that box?

I must have have missed it. I would like to put forward my interest in this."

Your intrest has been duely noted.

Fancy a lick?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to add to it as I go or sometimes I delete bits of it, it makes no odds really, I'm pretty sure I'm the only person to read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think mine is really clear and i'm good at expressing what i want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes I have, I couldn't be clearer about what I am looking for.

...me, dipped in Nutella?

I didn't know that was an option. Is that an option?

Haha yes I love tits dipped in it, not penis !

Or pussy.

...dip your finger in, and take a scoop? "

Well if you insist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes I have, I couldn't be clearer about what I am looking for.

...me, dipped in Nutella?

I didn't know that was an option. Is that an option?

Didn't you tick that box?

I must have have missed it. I would like to put forward my interest in this.

Your intrest has been duely noted.

Fancy a lick?! "

T'would be rude to say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's probably too serious and waffles on too much, so in that sense it's a fair representation of me : )

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes, it gets me what i want

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, yes

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

I try to make my profile match who I am at this point in time even my profile picture I view as a way to convey even more about me as a person even my user name .

Whether it appeals to everyone is nether here or there it just has to appeal to someone who may enjoy the company of a man like me .

But I'm never truly happy with it I always think I can do better even if I'm not sure how or in what way but I guess that's just a quark of my personality .

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I have changed it a few times but it doesnt make much difference, most people dont read it properly or they take it the wrong way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy with my profile. Yes

Does it get me what I want

Well no one's thrown their underwear at me yet screaming take me now you hot ass chunk muffin.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Ours isn't quite right and probably needs another tidy up. I feel it's a bit too wordy and a bit too serious, and me ranting on a bit at the end hasn't really served any purpose because the people I get annoyed with carry on being annoying regardless . Hmmm ... does it matter when we like to meet in clubs anyway? ... maybe we're limiting opportunities. Yeah .... I ought to sort it a bit.

Ms G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it makes very little difference with a guy's profile.....so why bother

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I believe I have x

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I have a profile obviously and feel i havent quite got it right yet.....have you ? "

Strange timing OP, im going to caps lock it all to see if that works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *onlyshowWoman
over a year ago

your dreams

I've just read yours and think it's brilliant.

Have you considered an audio book version too lol

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think the Mrs should add more, ours is slightly masculine. Suspect it the nature of who we are sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine seems to convey that I want ladies to message me once or twice with unbridled filthy enthusiasm and then become nuns...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Mine seems to convey that I want ladies to message me once or twice with unbridled filthy enthusiasm and then become nuns... "
sorry made me chuckle loudly xx

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Mine will never be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like to think we have,if some choose to ignore before messaging us,that's only their time they are wasting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mine is representative of 'me'. It's more a stream of consciousness than a statement. But that's me. My mind tends to wander off. I get there..........eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mines okay?...I get the right sort of messages so I'm happy with that.

I have tried not to write more demands than a hostage taker and just be honest. Feedback always welcome.

I don't attract too many girlies though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We thought we had but 85% of our messages say otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think mines okay?...I get the right sort of messages so I'm happy with that.

I have tried not to write more demands than a hostage taker and just be honest. Feedback always welcome.

I don't attract too many girlies though

"

That made me laugh

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England

I've tweaked mine a bit in the past (my profile as well ha ha) and I'm reasonably happy with it - for the time being anyway. I've had one or two encouraging comments, so I guess it does the job.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Wether mine is brilliant or crap it makes very little difference but I'm sticking with it good or bad.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its Fascinating to read that people in general are mostly happy with their profiles and that a few tweaks may be the ticket......Thanks for the replies so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it makes very little difference with a guy's profile.....so why bother "

You had me at "Good levels of stamina"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I attract different personalities depending on my profile text and pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think mines okay?...I get the right sort of messages so I'm happy with that.

I have tried not to write more demands than a hostage taker and just be honest. Feedback always welcome.

I don't attract too many girlies though

"

Just read your profile Dana and anyone who uses the word 'slurp' gets my vote. Still chortling now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe i do. I love a good read of a profile. Cures the monotony xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havnt put any new pics up for a few months im a big fat pig now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes tippy top happy with mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very happy with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh can i just add. Although we can be happy with our own profiles, others may find fault with them. And thats fine. Whats good for the goose aint always good for the other swingers. I get the odd negative comment about mine and thats all good, everyones entitled to their opinion arent they and at the end of the day im not hurting anyone

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes no difference, I don't get many profile views anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooh can i just add. Although we can be happy with our own profiles, others may find fault with them. And thats fine. Whats good for the goose aint always good for the other swingers. I get the odd negative comment about mine and thats all good, everyones entitled to their opinion arent they and at the end of the day im not hurting anyone

X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I change mine all the time. So yes it sums me up in that I'm airy fairy and don't know what i want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I change mine all the time. So yes it sums me up in that I'm airy fairy and don't know what i want."

Erm Hi xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I think mine says everything I want it to.

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By *hemonkeyheadMan
over a year ago

Reading

i could probably write whatever i want - first glance mine conveys that i'm black and already not to everybody's liking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think mines okay?...I get the right sort of messages so I'm happy with that.

I have tried not to write more demands than a hostage taker and just be honest. Feedback always welcome.

I don't attract too many girlies though

Just read your profile Dana and anyone who uses the word 'slurp' gets my vote. Still chortling now "

Hehe, glad to make you smile

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I reckon

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I think I have put everything I am after into my profile but just seems to not work as 99% of people go and ask against the opposite of what I want! It's very frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem I have with mine is striking a good balance I think.

If I write about sex and my sexual tastes etc, then I get lots of messages from young guys just wanting a quick shag. If I talk less about sex and more about the social side of what I'm looking for, then I tend to get accused of trying to use Fab as a dating site.

I think I'm getting there though. I do get messages from the kinds of people I'd like to meet, they're just quite few and far between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a profile obviously and feel i havent quite got it right yet.....have you ? "

Yes

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm biased obviously, yep I think I've captured myself pretty well, people often tell me they thought it a good read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a profile obviously and feel i havent quite got it right yet.....have you ?

Yes "

Smart ass

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I have a profile obviously and feel i havent quite got it right yet.....have you ? "

I think so.. Will need you lot to tell us!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I have a profile obviously and feel i havent quite got it right yet.....have you ? "

I think so.. Will need you lot to tell us!

Means you all need to meet us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point?

They look at my pictures and think phwaooor and bang off a cock pic.

What I write is immaterial.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo... only for those who want to know i.e. through conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a profile obviously and feel i havent quite got it right yet.....have you ?

I think so.. Will need you lot to tell us! "

No you don't ...

If you get what you want from it , it's right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a profile obviously and feel i havent quite got it right yet.....have you ? "

I think mine needs more. But what do you put, without making it either to long or two short.!!

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a profile obviously and feel i havent quite got it right yet.....have you ?

I think mine needs more. But what do you put, without making it either to long or two short.!! "

God knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Nope. But I like it anyway.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think so but I keep adding bits now and then. Not that anyone takes any notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours says buggerall really tbh....

But not important either as we have no intention of meeting people outside of clubs....once bitten etc

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Nutella lovers, please would you form an orderly...rabble around me

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Yes we are happy with ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my profile is honest and open about who I am and what I am looking for

Dog walking ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The squirrels seem to confuse

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Mine has been the same for quite some time. I'm happy with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Mine is pretty straight to the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope so. It makes sense to me and, I think, is a pretty fair representation of who I am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope so. It makes sense to me and, I think, is a pretty fair representation of who I am. "

Very sexy indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah think ours pretty much sums us up, in both what we want and who we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea but it seems to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think mine is ok. Not sure if anybody takes much notice though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think mine will turn people away more than encourage them, but what you see is what you get and you will know my situation from the start.

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