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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In time, what advice would you give a younger you?

Mine would be to study harder.

And ask Sarah out, u fool!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't settle down. Travel the world first.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Mine would be to stand up for myself more, and not to let what others think of me effect who i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't steal that porn mag. You don't have £500, you're not the bill payer, they don't have £500 and you don't even know where Guyana or São Tomé are!! It's not worth it!!

Even if the recorded story does tell you it wants you to fuck it senseless!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often thought bout this but younger me was a dick so he'd probably tell me to fuck off with my advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to have been braver, more adventurous and think a little less about others (not in a hurtful way) - putting myself last always has been me - even now im still that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't please everyone, so stop trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell myself,

'Don't worry, you're going to be rich. I've just invented time travel....'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go to law school.

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

I would simply tell myself

"It'll be ok"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go down the maths and science route academically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell myself 'marriage is overrated, don't do it'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would simply smile and say "don't worry everything turns out awesome .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spend more time with your dad

Wear a helmet

Study harder

Ask that 1 girl out...

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Stop caring what others thought of you, as they were not around for long.

Stand up for yourself more, you might have gotten more out of life.

Study harder in school, you had the brains.

Don't buy that air pistol, you will regret it for a lifetime.

Stick to your cycling, you were good at it.

I would tell me, who my friends are now and that they are still around for me.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Believe you are attractive (especially pre kids) and don't settle for second best because you were grateful for attention, get to know your dad better as you never know how long you've got, go to uni at 18 not 28 and take up all those law offers, save more, and don't spend so much time angsting about what other people think because it will hold you back.

Ms G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advise myself you can't do this life over. This is it, so enjoy it now, do it now. And don't take a desk job! It will suck you soul away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more confident

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By *parkly MittensWoman
over a year ago

My own little world

Don't follow that fool to college, go somewhere else.

Follow your own passions and don't let anyone dull your light.

Men will always be a head fuck so stay out of that game for a while

But my younger self was a head strong bitch so I would probably ignore myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id just say live your life the best that you can

and just remember that for every set/knock back that life may throw at you tomorrow is another day

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"In time, what advice would you give a younger you?

Mine would be to study harder.

And ask Sarah out, u fool!! "

*throws spanner in cosmic works*

The laws of physics allow for time travel but the amount of energy needed if prohibitive (more than is contained in our Solar System)...

However, assuming such a machine was created it is not possible to travel backwards in time to a point before the time machine was built.

Sorry.

Should have spent more years as a teenager doing stuff and worrying less?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In time, what advice would you give a younger you?

Mine would be to study harder.

And ask Sarah out, u fool!!

*throws spanner in cosmic works*

The laws of physics allow for time travel but the amount of energy needed if prohibitive (more than is contained in our Solar System)...

However, assuming such a machine was created it is not possible to travel backwards in time to a point before the time machine was built.

Sorry.

Should have spent more years as a teenager doing stuff and worrying less?"
Doc managed it with Marty tho

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"In time, what advice would you give a younger you?

Mine would be to study harder.

And ask Sarah out, u fool!!

*throws spanner in cosmic works*

The laws of physics allow for time travel but the amount of energy needed if prohibitive (more than is contained in our Solar System)...

However, assuming such a machine was created it is not possible to travel backwards in time to a point before the time machine was built.

Sorry.

Should have spent more years as a teenager doing stuff and worrying less? Doc managed it with Marty tho "

Hate to break it to you but that was a film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't seat on cold bench during the winter, that will give you haemorrhoids.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Listen to my mom's advice concerning traditional remedy for pimples.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"Don't seat on cold bench during the winter, that will give you haemorrhoids."

I laughed so hard - if I get haemorrhoid I'm suing you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't seat on cold bench during the winter, that will give you haemorrhoids.

I laughed so hard - if I get haemorrhoid I'm suing you."

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to college and university.

Spend more time with your dad tell him every day that you love him.

Dont let hubby buy that new motorbike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get as many high quality qualifications while you are young...

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend


" You can't please everyone, so stop trying."
This. Plus be open about who you are, I spent 30+ years hating myself for being a CD, in mortal fear of being found out until I finally told my friends and they all shrugged and said "so?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make the most of every second you have, work hard and play even harder

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's all about the dash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say "tell Lisa you love her, dickhead, or she'll be gone forever"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go down the maths and science route academically.

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Don't go down the maths and science route...Indulge your artistic bent

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many things. I'm really happy with my life right now but I could have been here so much earlier if I'd just made some different calls:

Late twenties - Know when to let go, and when not to settle. Don't stick with your girlfriend and marry her despite her not being what you want just because she's got a good heart. In doing so you will break it and shatter her life in ways you can't even understand. Leave her before it gets too serious but stick by her as a friend, because she's one of the very best you will ever have. Do not go to South Shields in August 2014. A nightmare awaits you there which will permanently alter you as a man and will blight the next 2 years of your life.

Early twenties - go to university earlier - Yes you need to go out to work at 16 but you dont need to wait till 26. Because if you do, while you will get a good degree you will have no true understanding of the student experience and just feel old.

Late teens - get in the gym, and stick at it. It's not impossible, you just haven't stuck at it long enough, if you can lose 7+ stone in your late twenties it would be so much easier to lose 3-4 in your teens.

Mid teens - Give up on that crush, it's never going to happen, she's a stuck up cow and won't end up going anywhere near as far as she thinks she will. You will eclipse her by age 30. On the other hand, Beth isn't teasing you, she really likes you, and you should jump on that shit because she's actually really cool.

Early teens - You are NOT inferior, you are not a leper or somehow wrong. You are a big fish in a small pond. Neither let it define you and make you shrink, nor let it allow you to become lazy.

Pre-10 - Do not take their offer to advance a year. They have your best interests at heart and think they are doing the right thing, and yes you are more than capable academically. But it will isolate you from your peer group, make you a target and set up a cycle of violence that you won't get out of for a decade. Avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick up for yourself..don't listen to the knobs and don't get married!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lay off the fast food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lay off the fast food "

Yeah that too!

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

I'd only go back to October 2011 & tell the ex to move out then rather than wait a it longer (took me another 4 miserable months to prove I was right & he was cheating).

Oh & tell Frank how I really felt about him sooner & not dismiss his sore throat as tonsillitis

JG x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry. Be happy

*humms the tune*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't cancel your Canadian visa. You'll always look back and wonder 'what if...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go travelling at 18, have some fun and enjoy yourself, career can wait.

And most definitely do not get involved with and marry that man. What are you thinking it was never going to work. You are not worthless and do not need to settle for second best.

You are not dirty and a slag for enjoying sex, it's ok , it's fun, enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would give myself every lottery winning combination for 1992, not so much for the money, but to see them try to explain how 1 person gets at least a share in the jackpot every week

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