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"Ok serious for a moment. What do women get out of the pain? For me pain and pleasure dont go in the same sentence?" ok actually its not about pain for me its a sensation ( dont like really heavy spanking/ caning etc) but the sensation does cause an endorphin response, weirdly enough it does take me to a more receptive and dreamy state...it kinda asks me to let go..your mind doesnt compute, it switches off as it gets distracted and therefore you body starts to relax and wellbeing happens and for me so does sexual arousal..it can take me to sub state..and it gives me permission to go there...that's my take and experience of it and im not into the bruises welts etc that some are..i never thought id like impact play but i really do...especially big thick heavy thuddy floggers..x | |||
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"Ok that kind of makes sense. Just being the kids do of guy I am I don't like Inflicting pain on women " i get you, if you learnt more about it youd see what it does, its safe ( i have a safe word) i personally only ever do it with someone who is experienced and knows me and it is consensual...my dom wouldnt dream of going over my limits ever..hes not there to hurt me hes there to give me a safe ride into subspace which i can only describe as liberating and destressing..i can promise you proper Doms care about their subs wellbeing x | |||
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"Ok that kind of makes sense. Just being the kids do of guy I am I don't like Inflicting pain on women " I used to be quite shy of inflicting pain on women... Then i met some very interesting women | |||
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"Do you never have to be asked very much if you'd like to spank someone? I've seen a lot of very spankable arses out and about lately. " Oh yes, and the rest. | |||
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"Do you never have to be asked very much if you'd like to spank someone? I've seen a lot of very spankable arses out and about lately. Oh yes, and the rest." Damn....was last month I was in Leicester!! Mr G | |||
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"No one admitting to liking to spank? Or be spanked even? Too much smarting, on a hot day?" Spanking others, no not my thing. However, I'm rather partial to getting the occasional spank. | |||
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"No one admitting to liking to spank? Or be spanked even? Too much smarting, on a hot day? Spanking others, no not my thing. However, I'm rather partial to getting the occasional spank. " I knew D loves that | |||
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"No one admitting to liking to spank? Or be spanked even? Too much smarting, on a hot day? Spanking others, no not my thing. However, I'm rather partial to getting the occasional spank. I knew D loves that " He'd run a frigging mile. Last time a women asked him, his face was a picture. | |||
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"Holding a bad girl tightly by her hair and bending her over forcefully....then just holding her there and hear her panicked breaths of anticipation as you are about to deliver a bare arsed hard spanking , is one of the joys of a good sub . " | |||
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"Giving no Receiving? Oh hell yes Opposite for me " I meant I enjoy giving yet no receiving, just in case it wasn't clear | |||
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"Giving no Receiving? Oh hell yes Opposite for me I meant I enjoy giving yet no receiving, just in case it wasn't clear " Too late | |||
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"Giving no Receiving? Oh hell yes Opposite for me I meant I enjoy giving yet no receiving, just in case it wasn't clear Too late " Can someone help us to settle that down haha I said the opposite of what she said, so what the opposite would be ? | |||
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"Giving no Receiving? Oh hell yes Opposite for me I meant I enjoy giving yet no receiving, just in case it wasn't clear Too late Can someone help us to settle that down haha I said the opposite of what she said, so what the opposite would be ? " Ok ok I was wrong *goes off to the naughty step* | |||
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"Giving no Receiving? Oh hell yes Opposite for me I meant I enjoy giving yet no receiving, just in case it wasn't clear Too late Can someone help us to settle that down haha I said the opposite of what she said, so what the opposite would be ? Ok ok I was wrong *goes off to the naughty step*" no longer than 2mins43 ? | |||
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"Giving no Receiving? Oh hell yes Opposite for me I meant I enjoy giving yet no receiving, just in case it wasn't clear Too late Can someone help us to settle that down haha I said the opposite of what she said, so what the opposite would be ? Ok ok I was wrong *goes off to the naughty step*" love to put you on or over the naughty step xx | |||
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"I've also started exploring being spanked but have sone deeprouted pyschological issues around receiving pain so get massive sub drop so taking it very slowly " so make sure you have got someone who provides you with plenty of after care, immediately and several days later xx look after you x | |||
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