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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's up with me starting to think it might be me or just my profile. Ok we are all here for abit of fun but that's not the only reason. Finding it hard to get even a social. Any advice on why.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's up with me starting to think it might be me or just my profile. Ok we are all here for abit of fun but that's not the only reason. Finding it hard to get even a social. Any advice on why.? "

You've only been here 9 weeks. Its all about patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perseverance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can take time hun mabe check out local socials in the meets section to kick start things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile looks fine to me, just network yourself, don't be negative, it's not a pretty trait on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience and perseverance is the key...Rome was not built in a day...and the ratio between single men and women/couple's is huge...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here two months and not done very well, but had a degree of success in the club I go to. Mentioned this in another thread once but going to a club will show you're a real person and that way you are more likely to get chatting to someone and receive a verification or two!

If you do go to a club, don't expect too much straight away, it will probably take you a few visits before anything happens.

As a good lady on this thread mentioned, patience is key!

It can be disheartening when messages get deleted but don't let it get to you, I am happy with this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's up with me starting to think it might be me or just my profile. Ok we are all here for abit of fun but that's not the only reason. Finding it hard to get even a social. Any advice on why.? "

Nobody knows what you are doing, so it is impossible to advise. What socials have you tried to attend. What clubs have you been to.

Your profile is not awful but it doesn't give anyone much of an idea about your personality, likes, dislikes and offerings. It hasn't changed much since you last asked for advice.

It uses several of those stock phrases that are always used and don't add much. Your username suggests you might be dom but there is not much in your text to explain that. It is a bit too much of a, "i don't want to blow my chances with anyone, so I will keep it vague/bland," sort of exercise.

Rather than tinkering with it, have you thought of sitting down and handwriting something which is truly about you, written in your own words with no attempt to appease others?

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