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"What are the things women look for in a guys profile? Looking to improve mine. " Surely that depends on the woman my advice just be yourself don't write what you think someone wants to here write about who you are as a person and what your all about . Easier said than done I know but its the only advice I have. | |||
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"What are the things women look for in a guys profile? Looking to improve mine. Surely that depends on the woman my advice just be yourself don't write what you think someone wants to here write about who you are as a person and what your all about . Easier said than done I know but its the only advice I have." I am just asking to see how I can make mine better looking. But yes still be myself. | |||
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"What are the things women look for in a guys profile? Looking to improve mine. Surely that depends on the woman my advice just be yourself don't write what you think someone wants to here write about who you are as a person and what your all about . Easier said than done I know but its the only advice I have. I am just asking to see how I can make mine better looking. But yes still be myself. " Individuality, character, what they like, what they offer, decent spelling and decent pictures. | |||
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"So we're saying a 'good body' or photos that allude to such, are what a profile needs then ? What if the guy doesn't have one ?" Not photos that allude to a good body, no. Just well posed, well lit photos
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"So we're saying a 'good body' or photos that allude to such, are what a profile needs then ? What if the guy doesn't have one ?" Photoshop  | |||
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"So we're saying a 'good body' or photos that allude to such, are what a profile needs then ? What if the guy doesn't have one ?" Your reading to much into a post every woman is different just like every snow flake no two are the exactly the same . One woman's dream guy is another woman's most hated come on ..i no its hard for us guys on here but let's be sensible about it after all as a guy I don't fancy every woman I meet does that mean there's something wrong with the ones I don't no its not their thought its me my tastes and hand ups at play .. | |||
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"So we're saying a 'good body' or photos that allude to such, are what a profile needs then ? What if the guy doesn't have one ? Your reading to much into a post " Am I ? Go look at the most fabbed men and show me how far down you get before you get to the 'Dad bods' (OK, I know a lot of guys Fab other guys pics too but still ...) What I am essentially saying is that 'most' users will look at the pics before reading the message or certainly use them in conjunction with the message being the secondary trigger. I'm not even saying that is wrong, but what I am saying us if your pics don't match expectation it doesn't matter how great your profile or message is, in the majority of cases they won't go anywhere And that's not wrong either It just is what it is | |||
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"So we're saying a 'good body' or photos that allude to such, are what a profile needs then ? What if the guy doesn't have one ? Your reading to much into a post Am I ? Go look at the most fabbed men and show me how far down you get before you get to the 'Dad bods' (OK, I know a lot of guys Fab other guys pics too but still ...) What I am essentially saying is that 'most' users will look at the pics before reading the message or certainly use them in conjunction with the message being the secondary trigger. I'm not even saying that is wrong, but what I am saying us if your pics don't match expectation it doesn't matter how great your profile or message is, in the majority of cases they won't go anywhere And that's not wrong either It just is what it is "Bear in mind that the criteria for a woman fabbing a picture of a man is not the same criteria for a woman deciding to communicate with or to meet with a man. | |||
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"So we're saying a 'good body' or photos that allude to such, are what a profile needs then ? What if the guy doesn't have one ? Your reading to much into a post Am I ? Go look at the most fabbed men and show me how far down you get before you get to the 'Dad bods' (OK, I know a lot of guys Fab other guys pics too but still ...) What I am essentially saying is that 'most' users will look at the pics before reading the message or certainly use them in conjunction with the message being the secondary trigger. I'm not even saying that is wrong, but what I am saying us if your pics don't match expectation it doesn't matter how great your profile or message is, in the majority of cases they won't go anywhere And that's not wrong either It just is what it is "Again I think your reading to much into it eye candy is eye candy . But hay its your opinion and your entitled to it i just happen to disagree based on my own experiences in the silly lets meet for sex world | |||
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"So we're saying a 'good body' or photos that allude to such, are what a profile needs then ? What if the guy doesn't have one ? Your reading to much into a post Am I ? Go look at the most fabbed men and show me how far down you get before you get to the 'Dad bods' (OK, I know a lot of guys Fab other guys pics too but still ...) What I am essentially saying is that 'most' users will look at the pics before reading the message or certainly use them in conjunction with the message being the secondary trigger. I'm not even saying that is wrong, but what I am saying us if your pics don't match expectation it doesn't matter how great your profile or message is, in the majority of cases they won't go anywhere And that's not wrong either It just is what it is
Bear in mind that the criteria for a woman fabbing a picture of a man is not the same criteria for a woman deciding to communicate with or to meet with a man."Just as it isn't for men looking for women and couples ... | |||
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"So we're saying a 'good body' or photos that allude to such, are what a profile needs then ? What if the guy doesn't have one ? Your reading to much into a post Am I ? Go look at the most fabbed men and show me how far down you get before you get to the 'Dad bods' (OK, I know a lot of guys Fab other guys pics too but still ...) What I am essentially saying is that 'most' users will look at the pics before reading the message or certainly use them in conjunction with the message being the secondary trigger. I'm not even saying that is wrong, but what I am saying us if your pics don't match expectation it doesn't matter how great your profile or message is, in the majority of cases they won't go anywhere And that's not wrong either It just is what it is
Bear in mind that the criteria for a woman fabbing a picture of a man is not the same criteria for a woman deciding to communicate with or to meet with a man.
Just as it isn't for men looking for women and couples ..."Correct. The question, however, was about what women look for in a man's profile. | |||
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"What are the things women look for in a guys profile? Looking to improve mine. " Asking the meaning of life might be easier  | |||
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"So we're saying a 'good body' or photos that allude to such, are what a profile needs then ? What if the guy doesn't have one ? Your reading to much into a post Am I ? Go look at the most fabbed men and show me how far down you get before you get to the 'Dad bods' (OK, I know a lot of guys Fab other guys pics too but still ...) What I am essentially saying is that 'most' users will look at the pics before reading the message or certainly use them in conjunction with the message being the secondary trigger. I'm not even saying that is wrong, but what I am saying us if your pics don't match expectation it doesn't matter how great your profile or message is, in the majority of cases they won't go anywhere And that's not wrong either It just is what it is
Bear in mind that the criteria for a woman fabbing a picture of a man is not the same criteria for a woman deciding to communicate with or to meet with a man.
Just as it isn't for men looking for women and couples ...
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The question, however, was about what women look for in a man's profile."Which, in many cases, is an attraction to the man through his pics If the pics aren't good or lack attraction to the viewer, then largely any communication will end there. Sorry if it sounds like I am nit picking, but there are a lot of deniers in these forums (again that isn't levelled at yourselves). Most women, who the OP seeks to attract, have lots of attention from a lot of guys. Dare I say it, but given the choice between an average profile written by a hot guy and a great profile written by an average guy, I would surmise that it would be likely the hot guy that got the most interest. Now I might expect a string of ladies to tell me different and if that's what works for them, great but let's be honest here, the site is about, (amongst a myriad of other things), fantasy and realising those fantasies. How many women fantasise about shagging a nice, safe, average looking guy with an OK personality but a great profile ? I am not wishing to come across as bitter, twisted, entitled or any other adjective levelled at those that challenge the status quo. My knickers aren't in a twist and I do realise that loads of average guys do well on here (I include myself in that), but going back to my initial comment, the chances are, if you aren't hot to those you seek, you ain't getting anywhere any time soon. | |||
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"So we're saying a 'good body' or photos that allude to such, are what a profile needs then ? What if the guy doesn't have one ? Your reading to much into a post Am I ? Go look at the most fabbed men and show me how far down you get before you get to the 'Dad bods' (OK, I know a lot of guys Fab other guys pics too but still ...) What I am essentially saying is that 'most' users will look at the pics before reading the message or certainly use them in conjunction with the message being the secondary trigger. I'm not even saying that is wrong, but what I am saying us if your pics don't match expectation it doesn't matter how great your profile or message is, in the majority of cases they won't go anywhere And that's not wrong either It just is what it is
Bear in mind that the criteria for a woman fabbing a picture of a man is not the same criteria for a woman deciding to communicate with or to meet with a man.
Just as it isn't for men looking for women and couples ...
Correct.
The question, however, was about what women look for in a man's profile.
Which, in many cases, is an attraction to the man through his pics
If the pics aren't good or lack attraction to the viewer, then largely any communication will end there.
Sorry if it sounds like I am nit picking, but there are a lot of deniers in these forums (again that isn't levelled at yourselves).
Most women, who the OP seeks to attract, have lots of attention from a lot of guys.
Dare I say it, but given the choice between an average profile written by a hot guy and a great profile written by an average guy, I would surmise that it would be likely the hot guy that got the most interest.
Now I might expect a string of ladies to tell me different and if that's what works for them, great but let's be honest here, the site is about, (amongst a myriad of other things), fantasy and realising those fantasies.
How many women fantasise about shagging a nice, safe, average looking guy with an OK personality but a great profile ?
I am not wishing to come across as bitter, twisted, entitled or any other adjective levelled at those that challenge the status quo.
My knickers aren't in a twist and I do realise that loads of average guys do well on here (I include myself in that), but going back to my initial comment, the chances are, if you aren't hot to those you seek, you ain't getting anywhere any time soon."I don't see it that way. I am average. I would consider a really handsome man "out of my league." It would make me uncomfortable. That. Is not down to any lack of self-confidence. It may sound corny but it really is the personality that attracts me. | |||
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"1. Photos that give a realistic idea of what you look like. Definitely no cock pics.... seriously! 2. Some descriptive text. Ideally this should be free of spelling mistakes and not just look like the end result of someone throwing a keyboard into a box of squirrels!" We agree, two pics could cover the whole body shot thing. Think cop mug shots but (or butt, you choose!) naked ! Having to stick all the various body parts together like some kind of adult cut and stick is just no fun at all. Your words, should reflect you, not what you think people want to read. That way anyone who contacts you will be doing so honestly. | |||
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