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By *unkybbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Feltham

ok here it is how far do you go on a 2nd date? (a real date not a sex date lol)

Its been a long time since I dated so cant remember lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm date thats when two people meet and go out for dinner and drinks then one walks the other home

They kiss outside the door and make arrangements to meet again

(or have i been reading too many mills and boon?)

Then they eventually marry having saved themselves for the wedding night of course and live happily ever after forsaking all others

Children follow and all is well with the world

Good luck with it hope it goes well xx

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By *unkybbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Feltham

(or have i been reading too many mills and boon?)

I love Mills and Boon lol

Im so nervous but excited at the same time, god knows if I will be able to control myself I havent had sex for a while, might pounce on him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if your a man or a woman...

If your a woman.. The idea is to always always leave them wanting/needing a little more no matter how many dates..

If its the man.. we get used to always wanting more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always shag em on the 1st date....at least i'l know if their worth seeing again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i always shag em on the 1st date....at least i'l know if their worth seeing again "

just follow your heart if it feels right go for it or you could have a kiss and a cuddle get him all worked up and then say its too soon ill bet hell be back if he wants you for you if not you know then

good luck xxx

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"i always shag em on the 1st date....at least i'l know if their worth seeing again

just follow your heart if it feels right go for it or you could have a kiss and a cuddle get him all worked up and then say its too soon ill bet hell be back if he wants you for you if not you know then

good luck xxx"

I agree just go with the flow as there is no rush. But hey if the feeling is right then jump his bones.

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By *unkybbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Feltham

we kissed and touched a bit on our 1st date, people at the tube station were getting a bit of a show lol. I almost ripped his shirt off there he made me so horny lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

remember this is about feelings not sex if he has feelings for you hell respect that and not want to treat it as swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok here it is how far do you go on a 2nd date? "

I have been known to go as far as London but I draw the line at any further afield if they haven't come across with the goodies on the 1st date.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

This IS a try before you buy culture these days....

SO 1st date is important!!!

2nd one just a follow up surely...???

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By *unkybbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Feltham

bastard just text me to cancel grrrrrrr

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"bastard just text me to cancel grrrrrrr"

shouldda shagged him first date....

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By *unkybbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

Feltham

lol if he wanted sex he only had to say. He wanted to get to know me 1st hahahaha

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"lol if he wanted sex he only had to say. He wanted to get to know me 1st hahahaha "

So is it a total cancel or a reshedule???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol if he wanted sex he only had to say. He wanted to get to know me 1st hahahaha

So is it a total cancel or a reshedule???"

Maybe he just didn't fancy you and left it until the last minute because he didn't want to hurt your feelings but then realised he'd have to cancel at some point anyway. Would you rather have someone who does fancy you or a half-hearted fuck from someone who doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol if he wanted sex he only had to say. He wanted to get to know me 1st hahahaha

So is it a total cancel or a reshedule???

Maybe he just didn't fancy you and left it until the last minute because he didn't want to hurt your feelings but then realised he'd have to cancel at some point anyway. Would you rather have someone who does fancy you or a half-hearted fuck from someone who doesn't. "

Blimey as a bloke that's a very tough one to answer, but in fear of making the wrong decision I'll take the shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol if he wanted sex he only had to say. He wanted to get to know me 1st hahahaha

So is it a total cancel or a reshedule???

Maybe he just didn't fancy you and left it until the last minute because he didn't want to hurt your feelings but then realised he'd have to cancel at some point anyway. Would you rather have someone who does fancy you or a half-hearted fuck from someone who doesn't.

Blimey as a bloke that's a very tough one to answer, but in fear of making the wrong decision I'll take the shag. "

I'm the opposite but that's mainly due to the fact that I just can't get a gallop on for someone I don't fancy. Some guys can fuck anything in a skirt and good luck to them, I can't.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting


"lol if he wanted sex he only had to say. He wanted to get to know me 1st hahahaha

So is it a total cancel or a reshedule???

Maybe he just didn't fancy you and left it until the last minute because he didn't want to hurt your feelings but then realised he'd have to cancel at some point anyway. Would you rather have someone who does fancy you or a half-hearted fuck from someone who doesn't.

Blimey as a bloke that's a very tough one to answer, but in fear of making the wrong decision I'll take the shag.

I'm the opposite but that's mainly due to the fact that I just can't get a gallop on for someone I don't fancy. Some guys can fuck anything in a skirt and good luck to them, I can't."

BUt those guys that fuck anything in a skirt are usually the same ones who dont give a fuck about the person they are fucking.....just care about themselves and getting their end away.

Better off without....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol if he wanted sex he only had to say. He wanted to get to know me 1st hahahaha

So is it a total cancel or a reshedule???

Maybe he just didn't fancy you and left it until the last minute because he didn't want to hurt your feelings but then realised he'd have to cancel at some point anyway. Would you rather have someone who does fancy you or a half-hearted fuck from someone who doesn't.

Blimey as a bloke that's a very tough one to answer, but in fear of making the wrong decision I'll take the shag.

I'm the opposite but that's mainly due to the fact that I just can't get a gallop on for someone I don't fancy. Some guys can fuck anything in a skirt and good luck to them, I can't.

BUt those guys that fuck anything in a skirt are usually the same ones who dont give a fuck about the person they are fucking.....just care about themselves and getting their end away.

Better off without.... "

I'd hate to walk away from a meet and have it thought of me that I was a selfish lover and a crap shag. At least I know myself and I know that if I meet people I fancy then it goes without saying that I'll want to have a bloody good time with them and if the attraction is there I usually get to a point where I can't get enough.

When I was younger and sex was still relatively new I pretty much welcomed attention fro any woman if it meant I could get her knickers off but that wanes as the years pass and you become more refined and more selective.

But contrast that with someone new to swinging and it must be like a kid being let loose in a sweet shop; they'll grab all and everything but after a few hours gorging themselves silly on stuff they don't really like they'll start making for the ones they prefer.

It goes without saying that those we fancy don't always fancy us so it's a game you play to find someone who likes you as much as you like them. That's when sex can be fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol if he wanted sex he only had to say. He wanted to get to know me 1st hahahaha

So is it a total cancel or a reshedule???

Maybe he just didn't fancy you and left it until the last minute because he didn't want to hurt your feelings but then realised he'd have to cancel at some point anyway. Would you rather have someone who does fancy you or a half-hearted fuck from someone who doesn't.

Blimey as a bloke that's a very tough one to answer, but in fear of making the wrong decision I'll take the shag.

I'm the opposite but that's mainly due to the fact that I just can't get a gallop on for someone I don't fancy. Some guys can fuck anything in a skirt and good luck to them, I can't."

Must agree, as my comment was in jest,if they don't get the little fella interested then there's no way it's gonna happen.

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By *riendlyfunfemWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own


"ok here it is how far do you go on a 2nd date? (a real date not a sex date lol)

Its been a long time since I dated so cant remember lol "

Just go with the flow....

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