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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think I have come to the conclusion that I'm way to picky..

All the guys I end up talking to the conversation never goes anywhere and fades out..

Just need to find that one guy that conversation is good flows get on attracted to each other and well the rest will Cum.. (see what I did there)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Most people have their own criteria and preferences when looking to meet people but still manage to have success

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By *randMrs Spanish BrunetteCouple
over a year ago

home sweet home


"Think I have come to the conclusion that I'm way to picky..

All the guys I end up talking to the conversation never goes anywhere and fades out..

Just need to find that one guy that conversation is good flows get on attracted to each other and well the rest will Cum.. (see what I did there) "

Problem is you are in the wrong County. You should be in Cheshire

MrsSB

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I no Mrs sb I no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is nothing wrong with being picky or sticking to your principles..

why sell yourself short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm way way too picky for what I am. I ain't getting any younger but I can't bring myself to compromise on anything. I've tried getting to know someone 1st before meeting and I got real excited about one guy and really liked him from messaging and speaking on the phone, dick was a good size but upon meeting I didn't fancy him in the flesh.

I can't compromise on dick size cos penis worship is my thing and also like the sharp painful feeling when the dick first goes in so I can't comprise on dick size. Also need to have some attraction to the bloke as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not just you women who are picky. I for 1 am very picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I have come to the conclusion that I'm way to picky..

All the guys I end up talking to the conversation never goes anywhere and fades out..

Just need to find that one guy that conversation is good flows get on attracted to each other and well the rest will Cum.. (see what I did there) "

Drink more .... That usually helps to lower your standards

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know I'm way way too picky for what I am. I ain't getting any younger but I can't bring myself to compromise on anything. I've tried getting to know someone 1st before meeting and I got real excited about one guy and really liked him from messaging and speaking on the phone, dick was a good size but upon meeting I didn't fancy him in the flesh.

I can't compromise on dick size cos penis worship is my thing and also like the sharp painful feeling when the dick first goes in so I can't comprise on dick size. Also need to have some attraction to the bloke as well.

"

I no what you mean.. no matter now nice everything else is.. still need to be attracted to them as well.. I'm lucky I have a 9inch cock on tap (hubbys) but still need more

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Stick to your guns it always goes wrong when you think you're too picky and lower your standards

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

There's being picky and there's preference, I think being picky is finding a fault in every person that you speak to. I prefer tall men because I'm tall, I don't think that's picky, just my preference.

Anyway it's your body and you chose who touches it so so if that makes you picky so be it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'm way way too picky for what I am. I ain't getting any younger but I can't bring myself to compromise on anything. I've tried getting to know someone 1st before meeting and I got real excited about one guy and really liked him from messaging and speaking on the phone, dick was a good size but upon meeting I didn't fancy him in the flesh.

I can't compromise on dick size cos penis worship is my thing and also like the sharp painful feeling when the dick first goes in so I can't comprise on dick size. Also need to have some attraction to the bloke as well.

"

its a height issue for me, if they aren't over 6ft I don't want to know..

I get called heightist all the time but I don't care.. the short ones try it on all the time

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By *r SelectiveMan
over a year ago

newcastle

I'm also very picky..so no not just women can be picky or choosey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheeky American... that's true and would work for one time meets but want regular.. so kinda can't be d*unk for time I meet them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol OP C is just the same. Nothing wrong with bring selective

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Leggy.. me to.. as I'm 5ft 10 a guy shorter then me is a big no no x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not alone there hubby has not played with anybody new for over two years lol as he way to picky lol

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

maybe its better to be picky than regret meeting someone or lose your self respect sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe its better to be picky than regret meeting someone or lose your self respect sometimes."

That's is very true.. I did have one or 2 meets that I so wish I didn't bother with but learnt from them I suppose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It dont say much for the 6ft plus guys on the site if youve been on here for months and still looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It dont say much for the 6ft plus guys on the site if youve been on here for months and still looking "

Tell me about it..

But it's also not just about them being tall x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It dont say much for the 6ft plus guys on the site if youve been on here for months and still looking

Tell me about it..

But it's also not just about them being tall x "

Have you tried dogging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

You and your patience lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It dont say much for the 6ft plus guys on the site if youve been on here for months and still looking

Tell me about it..

But it's also not just about them being tall x

Have you tried dogging?"

Not really my thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It dont say much for the 6ft plus guys on the site if youve been on here for months and still looking

Tell me about it..

But it's also not just about them being tall x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I have come to the conclusion that I'm way to picky..

All the guys I end up talking to the conversation never goes anywhere and fades out..

Just need to find that one guy that conversation is good flows get on attracted to each other and well the rest will Cum.. (see what I did there) "

I've found this too. People who are happy with internet conversation until I've decided if I really like them enough to meet, seem to be a minority here.

I guess it's just that people like different things and have different priorities.. I prefer text chat to meeting a lot of the time, it's my preferred way of getting to know people and deciding if we have a connection or not.

Other people dislike writing and prefer face to face conversation, or even don't care about conversation at all and just want to get straight on with the business, so to speak.

For my part, I've learned to accept that the latter are the majority here. Nothing wrong with being picky and knowing what you want though, we just have to be a bit more patient.

Don't compromise if it doesn't feel right, I'm sure the right one(s) will come along x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think I have come to the conclusion that I'm way to picky..

All the guys I end up talking to the conversation never goes anywhere and fades out..

Just need to find that one guy that conversation is good flows get on attracted to each other and well the rest will Cum.. (see what I did there)

I've found this too. People who are happy with internet conversation until I've decided if I really like them enough to meet, seem to be a minority here.

I guess it's just that people like different things and have different priorities.. I prefer text chat to meeting a lot of the time, it's my preferred way of getting to know people and deciding if we have a connection or not.

Other people dislike writing and prefer face to face conversation, or even don't care about conversation at all and just want to get straight on with the business, so to speak.

For my part, I've learned to accept that the latter are the majority here. Nothing wrong with being picky and knowing what you want though, we just have to be a bit more patient.

Don't compromise if it doesn't feel right, I'm sure the right one(s) will come along x"

Yes I agree text talk or talking on the phone a few times to make sure there is something there etc.. but as you say it's very hard to find guys that want that as well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably way too picky when it comes to Tinder.

No bio - left

1 picture - left

1st picture features more than 1 person - left

Miserable facial expression - left

Then any common boring text in bio - left

Actually I'm definitely way too picky, swiped left on some really hot girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm probably way too picky when it comes to Tinder.

No bio - left

1 picture - left

1st picture features more than 1 person - left

Miserable facial expression - left

Then any common boring text in bio - left

Actually I'm definitely way too picky, swiped left on some really hot girls "

There's no penis pictures on display on that so everyone is a swerve!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm probably way too picky when it comes to Tinder.

No bio - left

1 picture - left

1st picture features more than 1 person - left

Miserable facial expression - left

Then any common boring text in bio - left

Actually I'm definitely way too picky, swiped left on some really hot girls "

LOL.. to many people I know on tinder so not even going to try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm extremely picky and hardly ever have meets on here because of it. Sometimes I wish I could be like my friends and have loads of fun on here, but I just can't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm extremely picky and hardly ever have meets on here because of it. Sometimes I wish I could be like my friends and have loads of fun on here, but I just can't do it."

I wont tell anyone....honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm probably way too picky when it comes to Tinder.

No bio - left

1 picture - left

1st picture features more than 1 person - left

Miserable facial expression - left

Then any common boring text in bio - left

Actually I'm definitely way too picky, swiped left on some really hot girls "

If I like the pic I swipe right. I don't even bother reading the bio

Swiped right on someone earlier today, we matched, had a few messages on Tinder, spoke on kik, exchanged numbers, spoke on the phone and are going to meet tomorrow for a drink. There may be no spark when we meet in the flesh but unless we meet we'll never know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm extremely picky and hardly ever have meets on here because of it. Sometimes I wish I could be like my friends and have loads of fun on here, but I just can't do it."

Snap... or I find as well when I go out all my friends seams to find guys and I'm the lemon on my own still

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm picky but some things can be compromised on like distance. My preference is 30 mins drive away max but I recently met a guy who is 50 and it's the best thing that's come out of fab for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm extremely picky and hardly ever have meets on here because of it. Sometimes I wish I could be like my friends and have loads of fun on here, but I just can't do it.

Snap... or I find as well when I go out all my friends seams to find guys and I'm the lemon on my own still "

Story of my life

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