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Acceptable age gap ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am getting more and more offers from younger women , admittedly some pretty weird requests too lol ,

What do you feel is an acceptable age gap both younger and older than your own age ? I met a 26 year old recently and it was fun but I am not sure I could go much younger !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how rich you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My upper limit is 55, lower limit is 30.

If I click with someone, we click.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Age* is but a number

*legal obviously

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I wouldnt go lower than 28 ,i dont feel we would have much in common.upper age 52/53.

Miss,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am getting more and more offers from younger women , admittedly some pretty weird requests too lol ,

What do you feel is an acceptable age gap both younger and older than your own age ? I met a 26 year old recently and it was fun but I am not sure I could go much younger ! "

Whatever floats your boat. As long as it is 18+.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have played with a 26yr old girl - my eldest is 25 - and that used to bother me a bit but not anymore - she was more mature than a lot of people with a few more years under their belts

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Acceptable to who? As long as your happy do what suits you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever floats your boat OP...

Only you know what is acceptable for you

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Around 10 years difference, both ways is my preference.

I've made the odd exception but it's rare for me to attracted to those much younger or older than me.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The simple answer to this is the age gap you feel is appropriate is fine, others may have negative opinions on the subject but if you're happy those opinions are of no consequence. Personally I like guys around my own age so go around 10 years either way

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Age* is but a number

*legal obviously "

Why do people say that? I wouldn't be impressed if my 18 year old rocked up with an 80 year old! At 55 I can't imagine what I'd have in common with a twenty year old or eighty year old.

It's also about being "comfortable, so for me it's no one young enough to be my kid or old enough to be my dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's hope Mick Jagger doesn't read this!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"The simple answer to this is the age gap you feel is appropriate is fine, others may have negative opinions on the subject but if you're happy those opinions are of no consequence. Personally I like guys around my own age so go around 10 years either way "

This

I like it better than my reply.

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By *assie48Woman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

i think it depends on the individual i for example have children in their late 20's so i wouldnt go anything younger than 30 and no older than 58

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood


"Age* is but a number

*legal obviously

Why do people say that? I wouldn't be impressed if my 18 year old rocked up with an 80 year old! At 55 I can't imagine what I'd have in common with a twenty year old or eighty year old.

It's also about being "comfortable, so for me it's no one young enough to be my kid or old enough to be my dad. "

Be sensible though, is that a scenario you could honestly see happening?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having sexual spark is most important !! But I'd rather an older man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person but I am generally attracted to men aged mid / late 30's upto late 40's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Acceptable to who? It's wholly your decision really isn't it? As long as both parties are adult, consenting and having fun I don't see a problem.

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By *assie48Woman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

the annoying bit is why do people feel it necessary to lie about their age u can normally tell their rough age

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Have met younger and older, life is all about experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends how rich you are "

This really made me giggle!

OK when I was younger it generally tended to be 10 years my senior, anything else made me unhappy.

However I'm now at the age of 35 ranging from 25-60 as a general.

It's just numbers. If we click and you can push my buttons and I can push yours, who gives a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think age doesnt matter its the person some people are older minded and some younger if two people click and make a connection then it doesnt matter what year you was born ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think age doesnt matter its the person some people are older minded and some younger if two people click and make a connection then it doesnt matter what year you was born ??????"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Upper is 55. Can't bear younger guys so only tiny bit lower. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attitude, maturity and state of mind often plays a big part in our level of comfort on the age range we will play with, rather than the age itself.

Sometimes we won't feel comfortable with people around our age because they don't have the above, whereas we will fell comfortable with younger ones because they do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That a fair and objective response , thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That a fair and objective response , thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Acceptable to who? It's wholly your decision really isn't it? As long as both parties are adult, consenting and having fun I don't see a problem. "

Thank you!

We know we are Marmite, we like being Marmite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as its consentual adults, and they aren't vulnerable, I don't see a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ageis just a number so no real limits but over 70 would probably be pushing it a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 49 and have a subconscious lower limit at about 30, but I have to confess to some great meets with a 28 year old lady.

As for any upper age limit, I'd say that I have no upper limit as long as there is mutual attraction.

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