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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so I'm not sure if this relates to other people men or women but I'm curious.

I class myself as bi however I don't find mens faces or bodies attractive in anyway.

Good looking cocks drive me wild and sucking them and being fucked by them is an immense pleasure so I think it's the sexual act itself that makes me so excited.

Does this apply to other bi men ?

Also is it similar for bi women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds the same for Mr, he likes the contact and feel of cock but is not attracted to men as such.

For me, i Love to be attracted to women I don't just see boobs or a pussy and go yes please. I like the whole packagage I love a woman's looks, and her persona, that's what gets me going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex likes sucking cock but he's not attracted to men. He just likes cock!

I'm fully attracted to women, emotionally, mentally, romantically and not just physically. I've been in relationships with both women and men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That sounds the same for Mr, he likes the contact and feel of cock but is not attracted to men as such.

For me, i Love to be attracted to women I don't just see boobs or a pussy and go yes please. I like the whole packagage I love a woman's looks, and her persona, that's what gets me going "

With a women I suppose looks become important to me to a certain extent. Not always the case.

Mens faces are unimportant it's what the cock looks like ,size not an issue just how good they look.

I also thinks it's how they feel when I pleasure them or when they fuck me that's a huge turn on.

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Can totally relate to tht OP....I don't in any way look at another guy and think, "wow I fancy you" in the same way I would a woman - sure there has to be some level of attraction and I wouldn't just play with any bloke, but to put it at a very base level it's the sexual act that does it for me when it comes to my bisexuality.

Mr G

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Can totally relate to tht OP....I don't in any way look at another guy and think, "wow I fancy you" in the same way I would a woman - sure there has to be some level of attraction and I wouldn't just play with any bloke, but to put it at a very base level it's the sexual act that does it for me when it comes to my bisexuality.

Mr G"

^This for me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the input guys

I suppose I've always pondered what makes a person bi.

I've even thought that it's just a faze but then when I'm buying lots of different dildos and enjoying them so much I suppose I had to embrace it.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Mayhap 'tis, mayhap t'ain't... culdn't say f'sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the input guys

I suppose I've always pondered what makes a person bi.

I've even thought that it's just a faze but then when I'm buying lots of different dildos and enjoying them so much I suppose I had to embrace it.

"

Embrace away it makes for a fun life

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Basically, don't feel the need to pigeonhole yourself OP.

You like what you like and don't like what you don't like. Maybe that will change, maybe you'll confirm it.

Either way, I'm sure you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think - now this is only what I've taken from my observations on fab so I could be wrong - that most men who are bi aren't particularly attracted to men, but are more attracted to the sex acts.

Am I right or barking up the wrong tree?

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Definitely not a phase thing for me - have been curious for years, just hadn't scratched the itch until very recently......and definitely want to scratch it some more mow I have!!

Mr G

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I think - now this is only what I've taken from my observations on fab so I could be wrong - that most men who are bi aren't particularly attracted to men, but are more attracted to the sex acts.

Am I right or barking up the wrong tree?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think - now this is only what I've taken from my observations on fab so I could be wrong - that most men who are bi aren't particularly attracted to men, but are more attracted to the sex acts.

Am I right or barking up the wrong tree?

Yes "

Yes to which?

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts


"I think - now this is only what I've taken from my observations on fab so I could be wrong - that most men who are bi aren't particularly attracted to men, but are more attracted to the sex acts.

Am I right or barking up the wrong tree?"

Can't speak or others, but personally speaking you're bang on the nail

Mr G

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I sometimes see women I quite fancy and have enjoyed finger fucking a woman, but I don't want to eat pussy. Not sure what that makes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I don't fancy men but would love to play with a cock just to see what it's like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've felt like this for years and years and now I've got to an age or maturity where I'm me and I choose what I like and if I have to be labelled then that's fine I can deal with it.

I get the same pleasure sexually from men and women and I like that.......plus I get more choice

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I think - now this is only what I've taken from my observations on fab so I could be wrong - that most men who are bi aren't particularly attracted to men, but are more attracted to the sex acts.

Am I right or barking up the wrong tree?

Yes

Yes to which?"

Woof woof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think - now this is only what I've taken from my observations on fab so I could be wrong - that most men who are bi aren't particularly attracted to men, but are more attracted to the sex acts.

Am I right or barking up the wrong tree?

Yes

Yes to which?

Woof woof "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the input guys

I suppose I've always pondered what makes a person bi.

I've even thought that it's just a faze but then when I'm buying lots of different dildos and enjoying them so much I suppose I had to embrace it.

Embrace away it makes for a fun life "

Couldn't agree more . It's something I believe I enjoy and life should be an amazing ride (no pun intended)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes see women I quite fancy and have enjoyed finger fucking a woman, but I don't want to eat pussy. Not sure what that makes me. "

Sexy as anything

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sexuality runs the spectrum from full emotional and sexual interest is others, through sexual but not romantic/emotional and vice versa or very often just some elements of physical attraction.

We're complex creatures so we shouldn't be that surprised really I guess.

There's nothing wrong with cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know a lot of friends that are straight that admit to liking a finger in the ass (when pissed of course) a lot don't embrace it or admit to however it's certainly more acceptable now then it's ever been.

*breaks into song.......I am what I am...

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By *ouisebottomTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"I think - now this is only what I've taken from my observations on fab so I could be wrong - that most men who are bi aren't particularly attracted to men, but are more attracted to the sex acts.

Am I right or barking up the wrong tree?"

?? this sums me up perfectly, I'm. Not attracted to men as such but it's doing the sex acts that get me going x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can relate to the OP ... I often don't find male bodies especially attractive visually (although a well-built man is certainly very sexy to me). What turns me on is the act, as someone said earlier. That, and being wanted by a man really melts me and makes me horny as long as I feel attracted too.

Usually it's the person who I'm attracted to, rather than their body male or female.

I don't know if this is a bisexual thing though... I've heard many hetero women say the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can totally relate to tht OP....I don't in any way look at another guy and think, "wow I fancy you" in the same way I would a woman - sure there has to be some level of attraction and I wouldn't just play with any bloke, but to put it at a very base level it's the sexual act that does it for me when it comes to my bisexuality.

Mr G"

This sums it up for me precisely.

I can fall for a woman's attractiveness but not a man's.

It's just the cock for me during play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow I'm surprised how there's lots of similar responses.

*sighs a breath of relief...I'm normal ....ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very new to all this and we are on here as a couple. It the M typing this. I'm in no way attracted to men but have had a play with a man before. Started off years ago just after leaving school between me and a mate at the time. Wanking each other off whilst watching porn etc etc or whilst at sleep overs. Me and the F are both will to try things again and see how it goes. It's the sexual side of things that turns me on.. not the physical or emotional side. Can think of anything more exciting than taking F from behind whilst having another couple or woman involved in some way. But alas it's not happened yet which is why we are on here lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always describe myself as the straightest bi guy. I don't find men attractive but I appreciate a toned body but don't fancy men per se, just like their cocks and even more so if their wife is present. Saying that, I am very enthusiastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always describe myself as the straightest bi guy. I don't find men attractive but I appreciate a toned body but don't fancy men per se, just like their cocks and even more so if their wife is present. Saying that, I am very enthusiastic. "

Amen to that

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Forget the tag.

If it feels good do it

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By *uddlybear2015Man
over a year ago

BEDFORD


"Forget the tag.

If it feels good do it"

Must admit that in the same way a nice bum on a woman is a turn on,so is a nice mans, its not just about the cock for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll suck as many cocks as I like as long as no one implies it makes me less of a man or a little bit gay ...

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