FabSwingers.com forum: A balanced view.

By *am-Raider OP Man
over a year ago

Corby

It can actually be quite difficult to give a balanced view of someone without causing them offence..so if we have no gripe with someone we tend to either big them up or say nothing.

So here is a scary challenge should you choose to accept it.

Make two comments on the poster above (or quote one).

The first a constructive criticism.

And the second some well considered praise.

Anyone brave enough?

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By *am-Raider OP Man
over a year ago

Corby

Ah..thought not.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Eh?

Wotevva it is, I'll have ya for breakfast and leave yr leftovers for ma cat.

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By *am-Raider OP Man
over a year ago

Corby

"Eh?

Wotevva it is, I'll have ya for breakfast and leave yr leftovers for ma cat.

Erm.

So is you eating me the good bit....and the moggy getting my scraps the bad bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been an interesting read.

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By *am-Raider OP Man
over a year ago

Corby

"This has been an interesting read.

I can hear the treacle thick sarcasm in your voice.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think it's very difficult to give constructive criticism to people you only know from their profile and avatar. In some cases you may also know their posts on the forum and/or have met them.

Most will concentrate on body parts for their praise.

There's always the difficult news sandwich though.

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By *am-Raider OP Man
over a year ago

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"I think it's very difficult to give constructive criticism to people you only know from their profile and avatar. In some cases you may also know their posts on the forum and/or have met them.

Most will concentrate on body parts for their praise.

There's always the difficult news sandwich though.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Eh?

Wotevva it is, I'll have ya for breakfast and leave yr leftovers for ma cat.

Erm.

So is you eating me the good bit....and the moggy getting my scraps the bad bit?

I didn't say I'd eat you, just have you

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Eh?

Wotevva it is, I'll have ya for breakfast and leave yr leftovers for ma cat.

Erm.

So is you eating me the good bit....and the moggy getting my scraps the bad bit?

I didn't say I'd eat you, just have you

Mind you, yr a bit tall... might have some trouble throwing you around the bed...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Eh?

Wotevva it is, I'll have ya for breakfast and leave yr leftovers for ma cat.

Erm.

So is you eating me the good bit....and the moggy getting my scraps the bad bit?

I didn't say I'd eat you, just have you

Mind you, yr a bit tall... might have some trouble throwing you around the bed... "

I imagine sex with you involves a lot of tossing around.

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By *am-Raider OP Man
over a year ago

Corby

I'm sure you'd give it your best shot. And I dare say the cat would get fuck all!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Eh?

Wotevva it is, I'll have ya for breakfast and leave yr leftovers for ma cat.

Erm.

So is you eating me the good bit....and the moggy getting my scraps the bad bit?

I didn't say I'd eat you, just have you

Mind you, yr a bit tall... might have some trouble throwing you around the bed...

I imagine sex with you involves a lot of tossing around. "

You know me... mercurial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on, OP. You start. I'll offer myself up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go on, OP. You start. I'll offer myself up

You're hot... but you're not in my bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go on, OP. You start. I'll offer myself up

You're hot... but you're not in my bed

I'm not sure that's what he had in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go on, OP. You start. I'll offer myself up

You're hot... but you're not in my bed

I'm not sure that's what he had in mind

No but that's what I have in mind for you

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By *am-Raider OP Man
over a year ago

Corby

"Go on, OP. You start. I'll offer myself up

Nah..your right.

Firstly without any bullshit the lady of you is pretty stunning and the guy I would consider would be appreciated by the females. You are an attractive couple.

And secondly if you weren't then I would find it hard to criticise.

So it was a dumb thread that I started!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It can actually be quite difficult to give a balanced view of someone without causing them offence..so if we have no gripe with someone we tend to either big them up or say nothing.

So here is a scary challenge should you choose to accept it.

Make two comments on the poster above (or quote one).

The first a constructive criticism.

And the second some well considered praise.

Anyone brave enough?

ah it's a very brave concept

The thing is we all know even the most well intentioned constructive feedback will be misconstrued by some and cause offence so I'm backing out graciously and cowardly as it'll all turn into a mahoosive bun fight and cause unnecessary angst! You know what Fab is like

Most of us are here for positive feedback and to wallow in sycophantic praise - it's like work appraisals, some are very happy to accept all the positives lavished on then but then get very defensive and upset as soon as the discussion turns to developmental areas!

Good luck OP!

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By *am-Raider OP Man
over a year ago

Corby

"Go on, OP. You start. I'll offer myself up

You're hot... but you're not in my bed

That's a clever way to do it. I like.

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By *am-Raider OP Man
over a year ago

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"It can actually be quite difficult to give a balanced view of someone without causing them offence..so if we have no gripe with someone we tend to either big them up or say nothing.

So here is a scary challenge should you choose to accept it.

Make two comments on the poster above (or quote one).

The first a constructive criticism.

And the second some well considered praise.

Anyone brave enough?

ah it's a very brave concept

Good luck OP! "

Yeah well said..you are right. It's a non starter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go on, OP. You start. I'll offer myself up

Nah..your right.

Firstly without any bullshit the lady of you is pretty stunning and the guy I would consider would be appreciated by the females. You are an attractive couple.

And secondly if you weren't then I would find it hard to criticise.

So it was a dumb thread that I started!

Not dumb! I really wanted to see what you had to say.

But as the lady of the couple I'll say thanks for your nice comments. Since I didn't get constructive criticism I'll just say that I am an asshole sometimes. And I'm not in Ruby's bed

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By *igal17Man
over a year ago

Ayr SW Scotland

RubyTuesday

A couple of your pictures don't show what is undoubtedly a fine body to best effect.

You've written a great profile and really explained what you want and importantly what you don't want. I bet it doesn't stop you getting bucket loads of idiot messages though.

PS as a Stones fan I also love the name. X

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