FabSwingers.com forum: A look at me thread.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Go on take a look and then if you would be so kind let me know what it is that is putting people off messaging me or returning a message.

There is a part of my body I am really insecure about and I want to see if it's justified. I don't want any of that just not my type or your a single bloke nonsense.

Is it my chin my eyes my hair my lack of smile etc or is it some thing to do with my profile.

I am getting a lot of views which means people are seeing my profile pic seeing I am 31 and single and also I am male yet still click on me. Then they decide nah. So what is it.

(This reads like it was written by a 7 year old I apologise)

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You're cute. I'd meet you if I was in your age range and was your type.

However, your profile, although covering most things it should be covering, is very long and rambly. I got bored halfway through. I do have a short attention span though, and others will be fine with it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

The smiling photos are better than the ones in which you aren't smiling. You look downright sullen in some of them.

There's nothing about you physically that would put me off.

I didn't read your profile and can't comment on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like when you asked a week ago OP, it is still an innoffensive load of blurb. It says little about you and little to attract - and I really would get rid of the mini-rant about other men. That sort of thing never reads well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I don't know what's putting others off but for me personally, apart from your age, you could maybe lose some of the more waffly bits of the profile..

just cut it down to what you want and what you like...

once you get chatting to people you can discover more about them and vice versa...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the 16th June pics.

Everything else is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cock pics on your profile that's where your going wrong

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Get rid of the 16th June pics.

Everything else is good

Can't see pics dated 16th June.

And I didn't realise he's asked before and ignored advice. Thats a bit disappointing.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

you are cute physically..

you dont tell me what you want in your profile. forget your 'inexperience..i want to know what you want to experience.

you come across as shy pic wise and not sure on your profile...i fear i would end up eating you for breakfast, if you didnt run away after a cup of tea...

im assuming you want a fwb, but im not sure..

im assuming you may not be ready for group play..but im not sure

i have to assume alot...

so honey..get out your notebook and make a list..what you like and what youd like to experience right at this moment..this changes as you go along...my fav pic is the one with you sticking your tongue out..you look well cheeky..let your personality shine and stick around and quit worrying over physicalities xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get rid of the 16th June pics.

Everything else is good

Can't see pics dated 16th June.

And I didn't realise he's asked before and ignored advice. Thats a bit disappointing."

He's got rid of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile is a little rambly like others have said. the paragraph about the chatrooms doesnt really need to be there imho.

also you say you havent met anyone offline yet you have a meet veri which you dont have showing and since most ppl dont rely on cam veris they do on meet ones.

as for the pics id lose the non smiley ones and keep the ones you are smiling in and maybe put more into saying what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be gutted if the ladies got rid of all their fanny pics

Has nothing to offer re profile's mines basic but functions.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Wotevs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right deleted the paragraph of ranting about the chat rooms I have deleted the photos from the 16th.

I have no idea how to show the verification so if someone would tell me I would appreciate it. now I just need to think of how to rewrite it

Thank you for your advice people I appreciate it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Right deleted the paragraph of ranting about the chat rooms I have deleted the photos from the 16th.

I have no idea how to show the verification so if someone would tell me I would appreciate it. now I just need to think of how to rewrite it

Thank you for your advice people I appreciate it. "

I'm not keen on the grumpy looking pics from 26th either.

It's one of those that would be most likely to put me off out of all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go on take a look and then if you would be so kind let me know what it is that is putting people off messaging me or returning a message.

There is a part of my body I am really insecure about and I want to see if it's justified. I don't want any of that just not my type or your a single bloke nonsense.

Is it my chin my eyes my hair my lack of smile etc or is it some thing to do with my profile.

I am getting a lot of views which means people are seeing my profile pic seeing I am 31 and single and also I am male yet still click on me. Then they decide nah. So what is it.

(This reads like it was written by a 7 year old I apologise)"

aww I think you look very nice,good pics and profile..but as always with the nice fellas you're miles away xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with the profile although you could do with getting off bloody cam and getting out there a bit Club party social that sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will redo the grumpy photos haha I'm not a grumpy person

The reason I don't do clubs and socials is because I have no one to go with I have no idea what to expect and I don't want to be the spare part in the corner while everyone who knows eachother are all getting along whilst I try desperately to fit in Like in the chat rooms haha

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I went to my first club alone. In fact I've gone alone nearly every time I've been.

By all means choose a club or event and try to get to know a few people going but don't expect anyone to take you.

Grab your balls and get on with it. If you don't enjoy it, you don't have to do it again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I went to my first club alone. In fact I've gone alone nearly every time I've been.

By all means choose a club or event and try to get to know a few people going but don't expect anyone to take you.

Grab your balls and get on with it. If you don't enjoy it, you don't have to do it again."

I just have this horrid image of all the couples together then a few single ladies and 4 million Greek god single men then me haha

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I went to my first club alone. In fact I've gone alone nearly every time I've been.

By all means choose a club or event and try to get to know a few people going but don't expect anyone to take you.

Grab your balls and get on with it. If you don't enjoy it, you don't have to do it again.

I just have this horrid image of all the couples together then a few single ladies and 4 million Greek god single men then me haha"

Er, no. Most clubs have a mixed clientèle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with the profile although you could do with getting off bloody cam and getting out there a bit Club party social that sort of thing "

hes had a meet but chose to show the cam ones

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder

"Go on take a look and then if you would be so kind let me know what it is that is putting people off messaging me or returning a message.

There is a part of my body I am really insecure about and I want to see if it's justified. I don't want any of that just not my type or your a single bloke nonsense.

Is it my chin my eyes my hair my lack of smile etc or is it some thing to do with my profile.

I am getting a lot of views which means people are seeing my profile pic seeing I am 31 and single and also I am male yet still click on me. Then they decide nah. So what is it.

(This reads like it was written by a 7 year old I apologise)"
iwould have you I a heartbeat but sadly too far away and too young, my loss I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right deleted the paragraph of ranting about the chat rooms I have deleted the photos from the 16th.

I have no idea how to show the verification so if someone would tell me I would appreciate it. now I just need to think of how to rewrite it

Thank you for your advice people I appreciate it. "

same way u published ur 2 cam ones

go to your account and manage verifications click show on profile/do not show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I went to my first club alone. In fact I've gone alone nearly every time I've been.

By all means choose a club or event and try to get to know a few people going but don't expect anyone to take you.

Grab your balls and get on with it. If you don't enjoy it, you don't have to do it again.

I just have this horrid image of all the couples together then a few single ladies and 4 million Greek god single men then me haha

Er, no. Most clubs have a mixed clientèle."

Socials are different. Also some clubs do single nights. Went to the townhouse on Friday to one it was fantastic. And we're all normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

same way u published ur 2 cam ones

go to your account and manage verifications click show on profile/do not show"

Actually the cam ones I did when the notification banner came up I pressed publish but with the social one I accidentally pressed the other option as I was on my phone it's cool tho I have published it now and it was only two days ago I had the meet

It was someone I have been speaking to for a bit she was in Peterborough so we met for a coffee.

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