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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies what would you do if you became friends with a guy and then one of his past meets contacted you saying a whole load of crazy shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the guy's past meet and talk to the guy about it. Bitches be cray cray.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what she said and if I was still seeing him.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A strange situation. Quite bemusing.

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By *parkly MittensWoman
over a year ago

My own little world


"Ignore the guy's past meet and talk to the guy about it. Bitches be cray cray."

Bitches be bitchin'

Talk to the guy about it

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Ignore the guy's past meet and talk to the guy about it. Bitches be cray cray."

Its his own fault. We as men are told the one rule of sex and we are told it often "dont put your dick in crazy" but granted as men we do completely forget said rule if crazy be hot..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the same thing I would do if it was on here or in life,

Talk to the person in question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get both sides of the story.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

its more common than you think round here...

you cant say anything as youd be the trouble maker..you dont say anything and you are guilty because of your silence..

sorry. no answers if you get any, let me know will you x

another reason though all my filters are on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell the guy who has contacted me to back right off & mind his own business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did he piss against a lamppost?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends what she said and if I was still seeing him."

Haven't met him cos apparently he isn't even the person in the pictures.

Asked him on kik if he was the person in the pics and he said yeah why, I said somebody had messaged me saying he wasn't and he answered back with the person who it was and seemed pretty pissed off.

Whole thing is way too much drama for me but just think it's odd and if the guy isn't the person in the pics then surely he shouldn't have been verified as genuine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what she said and if I was still seeing him.

Haven't met him cos apparently he isn't even the person in the pictures.

Asked him on kik if he was the person in the pics and he said yeah why, I said somebody had messaged me saying he wasn't and he answered back with the person who it was and seemed pretty pissed off.

Whole thing is way too much drama for me but just think it's odd and if the guy isn't the person in the pics then surely he shouldn't have been verified as genuine?"

If you're talking with him on KIK, surely you can just ask for a live pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what she said and if I was still seeing him.

Haven't met him cos apparently he isn't even the person in the pictures.

Asked him on kik if he was the person in the pics and he said yeah why, I said somebody had messaged me saying he wasn't and he answered back with the person who it was and seemed pretty pissed off.

Whole thing is way too much drama for me but just think it's odd and if the guy isn't the person in the pics then surely he shouldn't have been verified as genuine?"

Easy way to verify if it's him in the pic. Give him a word to write on a piece of paper and get him to send you a pic of him holding the paper. Then yoy will know

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

Ask.for a live kik pic, u can tell if it's camera.of gallery on kik , I've caught loads of em out by asking for one, and ask em to touch their nose or something random when they do it, if they refuse then u Know x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends what she said and if I was still seeing him.

Haven't met him cos apparently he isn't even the person in the pictures.

Asked him on kik if he was the person in the pics and he said yeah why, I said somebody had messaged me saying he wasn't and he answered back with the person who it was and seemed pretty pissed off.

Whole thing is way too much drama for me but just think it's odd and if the guy isn't the person in the pics then surely he shouldn't have been verified as genuine?

If you're talking with him on KIK, surely you can just ask for a live pic?"

I did-no pic plus I've kind of told him I ain't arsed with the hassle. Just curious as to why people do it as to date I've never had this happen to me before.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Depends what she said and if I was still seeing him.

Haven't met him cos apparently he isn't even the person in the pictures.

Asked him on kik if he was the person in the pics and he said yeah why, I said somebody had messaged me saying he wasn't and he answered back with the person who it was and seemed pretty pissed off.

Whole thing is way too much drama for me but just think it's odd and if the guy isn't the person in the pics then surely he shouldn't have been verified as genuine?

If you're talking with him on KIK, surely you can just ask for a live pic?

I did-no pic plus I've kind of told him I ain't arsed with the hassle. Just curious as to why people do it as to date I've never had this happen to me before. "

Either she's telling the truth and is trying to do you a solid by letting you know he's pretending to be something he's not or he's telling the truth and she's trying to put you off him for some weird reason. Either way, it's drama.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends what she said and if I was still seeing him.

Haven't met him cos apparently he isn't even the person in the pictures.

Asked him on kik if he was the person in the pics and he said yeah why, I said somebody had messaged me saying he wasn't and he answered back with the person who it was and seemed pretty pissed off.

Whole thing is way too much drama for me but just think it's odd and if the guy isn't the person in the pics then surely he shouldn't have been verified as genuine?

If you're talking with him on KIK, surely you can just ask for a live pic?

I did-no pic plus I've kind of told him I ain't arsed with the hassle. Just curious as to why people do it as to date I've never had this happen to me before.

Either she's telling the truth and is trying to do you a solid by letting you know he's pretending to be something he's not or he's telling the truth and she's trying to put you off him for some weird reason. Either way, it's drama."

If I'm honest I lean more towards her telling the truth than him but shouldn't be verifying people as genuine if they aren't the people in the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ladies what would you do if you became friends with a guy and then one of his past meets contacted you saying a whole load of crazy shit?

"

it happened to me...I got contacted off her then he chimed in defending her so I told them both to fuck off or I'd report them....I had no idea what I'd say but it did the trick...

that was on here about 4 years ago

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I got someone spreading the crazy shit about me after I met someone they had. Apparently they don't like sharing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd tell the guy who has contacted me to back right off & mind his own business!"

Jeez I can't type today!!

*tell the other women to back off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile sweetly and rise above it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what she said and if I was still seeing him.

Haven't met him cos apparently he isn't even the person in the pictures.

Asked him on kik if he was the person in the pics and he said yeah why, I said somebody had messaged me saying he wasn't and he answered back with the person who it was and seemed pretty pissed off.

Whole thing is way too much drama for me but just think it's odd and if the guy isn't the person in the pics then surely he shouldn't have been verified as genuine?

If you're talking with him on KIK, surely you can just ask for a live pic?

I did-no pic plus I've kind of told him I ain't arsed with the hassle. Just curious as to why people do it as to date I've never had this happen to me before.

Either she's telling the truth and is trying to do you a solid by letting you know he's pretending to be something he's not or he's telling the truth and she's trying to put you off him for some weird reason. Either way, it's drama.

If I'm honest I lean more towards her telling the truth than him but shouldn't be verifying people as genuine if they aren't the people in the pictures. "

You wouldn't believe some of the crazy shit people can pull off with photoshop.

They would pass as Brad Pitt, full length photo verified if they wanted to.

If he's not willing to put a live pic on KIK or skype/cam to prove his identity...he's fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in the middle of it too

Men asking to swap notes on people I've met and bunny boilers going on about friends of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known one or two crazy bitches on here recently, but to be honest from what you've said this girl seems legit and he seems shady AF x

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Depends what she said and if I was still seeing him.

Haven't met him cos apparently he isn't even the person in the pictures.

Asked him on kik if he was the person in the pics and he said yeah why, I said somebody had messaged me saying he wasn't and he answered back with the person who it was and seemed pretty pissed off.

Whole thing is way too much drama for me but just think it's odd and if the guy isn't the person in the pics then surely he shouldn't have been verified as genuine?

If you're talking with him on KIK, surely you can just ask for a live pic?

I did-no pic plus I've kind of told him I ain't arsed with the hassle. Just curious as to why people do it as to date I've never had this happen to me before.

Either she's telling the truth and is trying to do you a solid by letting you know he's pretending to be something he's not or he's telling the truth and she's trying to put you off him for some weird reason. Either way, it's drama.

If I'm honest I lean more towards her telling the truth than him but shouldn't be verifying people as genuine if they aren't the people in the pictures.

You wouldn't believe some of the crazy shit people can pull off with photoshop.

They would pass as Brad Pitt, full length photo verified if they wanted to.

If he's not willing to put a live pic on KIK or skype/cam to prove his identity...he's fake."

Or someone could just upload a photo verification pic. Or have a genuine meet in person. Then add fake pics later. Doesn't mean they were falsely verified in the first place; but it's a flaw in the system that someone unscrupulous could easily exploit. Which is another reason I don't hold a lot of stock in veris and tend to trust my own judgement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've known one or two crazy bitches on here recently, but to be honest from what you've said this girl seems legit and he seems shady AF x"

It's just that the first message off the woman was saying he was fake then another saying that he ls actually real but not for sharing, that's the thing that made me doubt her.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I've known one or two crazy bitches on here recently, but to be honest from what you've said this girl seems legit and he seems shady AF x

It's just that the first message off the woman was saying he was fake then another saying that he ls actually real but not for sharing, that's the thing that made me doubt her. "

Oh, that puts a whole different slant on it. Still, drama.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

(and I'm wondering if part if you isn't tempted to meet him now just to piss her off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've known one or two crazy bitches on here recently, but to be honest from what you've said this girl seems legit and he seems shady AF x

It's just that the first message off the woman was saying he was fake then another saying that he ls actually real but not for sharing, that's the thing that made me doubt her.

Oh, that puts a whole different slant on it. Still, drama."

It's almost like the Sam/Ronnie drama level. Isn't this site supposed to be drama free ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get fab ladies bitching over me all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've known one or two crazy bitches on here recently, but to be honest from what you've said this girl seems legit and he seems shady AF x

It's just that the first message off the woman was saying he was fake then another saying that he ls actually real but not for sharing, that's the thing that made me doubt her. "

In that case just go with your gut I reckon. Seems like a lot of drama to me which he could easily quash with a live pic on kik x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"(and I'm wondering if part if you isn't tempted to meet him now just to piss her off)"

I did but only cos I'm an inquisitive nosey bastard that seeks truth, but not to have any sexual contact with the fella because previous meets put me off as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've known one or two crazy bitches on here recently, but to be honest from what you've said this girl seems legit and he seems shady AF x"

awwww you're back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've known one or two crazy bitches on here recently, but to be honest from what you've said this girl seems legit and he seems shady AF x

awwww you're back "

Can't stay away Roxi haha

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Ladies what would you do if you became friends with a guy and then one of his past meets contacted you saying a whole load of crazy shit?

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I would say keep it off the forum or you could end up banned for airing dirty washing.

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