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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just back from what was supposed to be a birthday meal with my friend and her daughter. They share their birthday today and had booked an Italian for a few of us.

I arrived first for a change , two bunches of flowers in hand and took my seat at our table in a very busy room........I wanted....then some more , after 25 minutes was staring to get a bit anxious. Could kind of tell that people were glancing my way. Phoned my friend...'Oh we're not coming. I thought *** had told you'. Bloody pissed off , had to walk out still holding the flowers , am sure everyone thought I had been stood up.

On the plus side the waiter let me off payment for the Coke that I had been nursing which was kind. He did have a sympathetic tone in his voice though.

So all in all a crap tuesday and a place on my list never to re visit.

x

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Oh that is shit sorry to hear that mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh that is shit sorry to hear that mate "

Thank you.

Have lots of nice flowers in my house now though so every cloud and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not nice

Don't fling the flowers though

Make your house loom pretty or donate them to somewhere / someone that might appreciate them

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Make popery lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charming your friends, if you want new one, let me know

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

How rude!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Pretty rubbish on your friends behalf,how do you forget to tell someone you won't be arriving!

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By *edRidingWolfCouple
over a year ago

Lydney

Oh that's shit!

Time to get some new friends

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Just back from what was supposed to be a birthday meal with my friend and her daughter. They share their birthday today and had booked an Italian for a few of us.

I arrived first for a change , two bunches of flowers in hand and took my seat at our table in a very busy room........I wanted....then some more , after 25 minutes was staring to get a bit anxious. Could kind of tell that people were glancing my way. Phoned my friend...'Oh we're not coming. I thought *** had told you'. Bloody pissed off , had to walk out still holding the flowers , am sure everyone thought I had been stood up.

On the plus side the waiter let me off payment for the Coke that I had been nursing which was kind. He did have a sympathetic tone in his voice though.

So all in all a crap tuesday and a place on my list never to re visit.

x"

Oh poor you, that's outrageous!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People suck sometimes.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's pretty bad and sorry that you've had that evening. I'd have felt deflated and upset, probably angry, as it's thoughtless and avoidable. I've fabbed a couple of your pics, which may help get some more positive attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just back from what was supposed to be a birthday meal with my friend and her daughter. They share their birthday today and had booked an Italian for a few of us.

I arrived first for a change , two bunches of flowers in hand and took my seat at our table in a very busy room........I wanted....then some more , after 25 minutes was staring to get a bit anxious. Could kind of tell that people were glancing my way. Phoned my friend...'Oh we're not coming. I thought *** had told you'. Bloody pissed off , had to walk out still holding the flowers , am sure everyone thought I had been stood up.

On the plus side the waiter let me off payment for the Coke that I had been nursing which was kind. He did have a sympathetic tone in his voice though.

So all in all a crap tuesday and a place on my list never to re visit.

x"

Mates can piss yiu off at times. Ring befire you set off next time, make sure plans not changed. My friend diedvtoday. I can't sleep. She was 41.... Don't let what happened today ruin a good friendship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, not the best....but worse things can happen to you in life!! (believe me)

.....I would have stayed and eaten my dinner lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that but try and look on the positive side of things:

You have friends

You have some lovely flowers to brighten up your house

You got a free

The worst that happened was that your friends in a mix up thought that each other had cancelled - most probably an innocent mistake if, up to that point, they had always been reliable.

I'm sure you felt uncomfortable on your own with the flowers but I'm also sure there's plenty of worse ways to spend an evening so keep smiling and today's a new day - hope it's better for you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That's bloody annoying. It reminds me of the scene in 'keep the aspidestra flying' when the guy turns up for a cancelled party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the positives out of the night..

Free

Flowers for yourself

You know these friends don't appreciate you enough to warrant anymore of your time

A lot more women on this site probably checked out your profile

A lot more men probably did too

Every cloud....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Firstly thank you to everyone who has commented on this thread. I appreciate it.

As pointed out by a few I obviously do realise that there are so many worse things that can happen in life and to the lady whose friend has passed away you have my sincere condolences x

I'm sure that in the long run our friendship won't be affected by what happened. I texted to tell them and they suitably grovelled so I guess I do have the option of making them feel bad for just a little while longer

Happy Wednesday xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xx

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"People suck sometimes. "

So we can see!! lol.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Firstly thank you to everyone who has commented on this thread. I appreciate it.

As pointed out by a few I obviously do realise that there are so many worse things that can happen in life and to the lady whose friend has passed away you have my sincere condolences x

I'm sure that in the long run our friendship won't be affected by what happened. I texted to tell them and they suitably grovelled so I guess I do have the option of making them feel bad for just a little while longer

Happy Wednesday xxx"

To right they deserve to be made to grovel,next time make sure they pick you up with a huge bouquet of flowers and they pay for the restaurant

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