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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it i have found talking to men on fab or not on here? Lot of them seem to miss exes even if their exes havent been nice to them. Heard some horror stories. Now i know why ave been single for a long time am not nasty !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I don't miss my ex I just miss the 10 grand of mine she took.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exes are just that for good reason no other look to future not over shoulders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i miss one of my shitty exes to a degree, not to the point that i'd want to get back with him though. i reckon it's out of habit more than anything.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Why is it i have found talking to men on fab or not on here? Lot of them seem to miss exes even if their exes havent been nice to them. Heard some horror stories. Now i know why ave been single for a long time am not nasty !! "
i just wouldnt get with people who have so much personal baggage to get through..

i only have 2 shitty ex's in my life and that from teen and early twenties..my story involves them as my experiences but they definitely dont rule my life now...personally i feel that fab is a therapy for some people, or a way of half moving on, but without much inner processing being done. its a way of avoiding things by filling life with 'better# stuff to mask it..but thats my opinion...i dont want to know about your ex's and all the shitty stuff shes done..i am not an unpaid counsellor. you dont want a relationship, i dont want to deal with your shit as if i was in one, with none of the benefits for me..thats the point i am not your offloading platform, because i am not a doormat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on better with my ex now then we did when we were togther xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met many guys and never had this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my ex (mother to my son) is a gold digging whorebag intent on grabbing what she can to make herself appear better than everyone else.

We don't talk funnily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't got one, but I guess it is an easy option to fall back on to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that they missed the routine of having someone permanent in their life.

I would say it was the majority of mens fault as to why their exes aren't now fond of them for one reason or another.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Within relationships things may not of always gone to plan, and things may have happened that probably shouldnt of.....however people and experiences could have also played a vital role in making the person who they are today, and despite the bad that may have happened it might be outweighed by the good that the person got out of it. Despite the head knowing a relationship wouldnt work, it doesnt necessarily mean that the heart will listen.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Don't miss mine. One was a complete twat and I was young and stupid.

The other one was a good guy. We just wanted different things and the split was amicable. We're still friends but don't miss him as I am happier alone.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Or maybe they miss the companionship, and someone to go home to of an evening.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"my ex (mother to my son) is a gold digging whorebag intent on grabbing what she can to make herself appear better than everyone else.

We don't talk funnily. "

You picked her, so why slag off the mother of your son?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my ex (mother to my son) is a gold digging whorebag intent on grabbing what she can to make herself appear better than everyone else.

We don't talk funnily. "

In my opinion you should never disrespect the mother of your child in that way.. at the end of the day what ever happened between you she is still the mother of your child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because people change. I didn't know 10 years down the line it was gonna be all about posessions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah, keep your high horse to yourself.

Women can be vile creatures when it comes to kids. unless you've a dad on the receiving end, button it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah, keep your high horse to yourself.

Women can be vile creatures when it comes to kids. unless you've a dad on the receiving end, button it."

Firstly I won't button it I'm entitled to an opinion and secondly calling her a gold digging whorebag doesn't make you out to be innocent either!

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Why is it i have found talking to men on fab or not on here? Lot of them seem to miss exes even if their exes havent been nice to them. Heard some horror stories. Now i know why ave been single for a long time am not nasty !! "

Didn't miss mine. I got telescopic sights.

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By *ark074Man
over a year ago

nottingham


"Why is it i have found talking to men on fab or not on here? Lot of them seem to miss exes even if their exes havent been nice to them. Heard some horror stories. Now i know why ave been single for a long time am not nasty !!

Didn't miss mine. I got telescopic sights. "

I've got one of those laser red dot things on mine. And trip wires round the perimeter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yeah, keep your high horse to yourself.

Women can be vile creatures when it comes to kids. unless you've a dad on the receiving end, button it.

Firstly I won't button it I'm entitled to an opinion and secondly calling her a gold digging whorebag doesn't make you out to be innocent either! "

Yes. And I am entitled to my opinion. And in this case I have far more facts than anyone else will ever have.

I guess ending a marriage for financial gain is fine in your world.

Still.. life goes on, I'm happy with my freedom and independance now! She's almost done me a favour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't got one, but I guess it is an easy option to fall back on to fuck."

in my case you guess wrongly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I missed my first ex for 3 years because he was my childhood sweetheart and we were together yonks, but we grew apart.

My kids dad, i don't miss him. The trust had gone and he was stressful to be around. We try to remain on good terms for the children. It works 90% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a good relationship with my ex for the benefit of my children

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Why is it i have found talking to men on fab or not on here? Lot of them seem to miss exes even if their exes havent been nice to them. Heard some horror stories. Now i know why ave been single for a long time am not nasty !! "
I'm sure your exes probably talk about you in a less than favourable way too. theres two sides to every story of a relationship breakdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it i have found talking to men on fab or not on here? Lot of them seem to miss exes even if their exes havent been nice to them. Heard some horror stories. Now i know why ave been single for a long time am not nasty !! I'm sure your exes probably talk about you in a less than favourable way too. theres two sides to every story of a relationship breakdown "

Absolutley.

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By *igal17Man
over a year ago

Ayr SW Scotland


"Hey I don't miss my ex I just miss the 10 grand of mine she took."

I wish it was only costing me 10k! And no, I'm not rich. Nowhere near.

Having said that although I don't miss her I work hard to keep things on good terms as we have kids and she lives local.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I have a good relationship with my ex for the benefit of my children "

This.

Although I've never had thoughts about getting back together with her (even when she was single). We broke up for a reason.

Come to think of it, I've never got back together with anyone. I don't go backwards in life.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"I have a good relationship with my ex for the benefit of my children

This.

Although I've never had thoughts about getting back together with her (even when she was single). We broke up for a reason.

Come to think of it, I've never got back together with anyone. I don't go backwards in life. "

Have no problems/issues with exe's...would always speak/help if appropriate.... always look forwards

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it i have found talking to men on fab or not on here? Lot of them seem to miss exes even if their exes havent been nice to them. Heard some horror stories. Now i know why ave been single for a long time am not nasty !! I'm sure your exes probably talk about you in a less than favourable way too. theres two sides to every story of a relationship breakdown

Absolutley."
one was an alcoholic and the second is now happy with a male partner

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By *eeeee7Woman
over a year ago

over yonder


"Why is it i have found talking to men on fab or not on here? Lot of them seem to miss exes even if their exes havent been nice to them. Heard some horror stories. Now i know why ave been single for a long time am not nasty !! I'm sure your exes probably talk about you in a less than favourable way too. theres two sides to every story of a relationship breakdown

Absolutley.one was an alcoholic and the second is now happy with a male partner "
doesn't matter why they are exes, you asked why men miss their exes when they've been nasty to them. you only have their side of the story.

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