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First messages that entice you to respond?

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By *igBan OP   Man
over a year ago

kidlington

We've seen the ones that don't work. Let's see the ones that work then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember ads first message but must have been a cracker as I haven't stopped talking to him since!!

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, any that don't just mention my boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah I'm easy. I'll respond to any message. No effort required here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message with a face pic of an attractive man or woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of them. I look at profiles before messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody message me first?????

Ah, I've heard the myth you speak of.

I would reply to anyone, I'm lonely. And I need the attention.

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By *igBan OP   Man
over a year ago

kidlington

I think most mem would apreciate a message and reply back. Is just that according to the other thread it seems quite difficult to get a woman or couple attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something funny and original would get my attention...... But not likely on here!!!

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

I quite like overt flirters that suggest fun things they'd like to do together.

But 'hi' works equally well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was a very good attempt OP at getting pointers by asking the question! I applaud you

In my experience it's a little bit of a perfect storm, it's the original message tied into the person being receptive to the message at that time... I've sent nothing messages and been successful, then sent well worded ones that fell flat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Hi' works well, no point sending a paragraph, just for the recipient to not read or delete the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally check out profiles first :0)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check the profile first. If they are tall enough, I read the rest of the text and heck out the pics. This is before I've even looked at the message!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"'Hi' works well, no point sending a paragraph, just for the recipient to not read or delete the message. "

'Hi' NEVER works with me, most 'Hi' messages also have crap profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that demonstrates that the person has at least skimmed my profile, plus their own profile catching my eye in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't reveal my tricks !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tits! Can I suck 'em?

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Can't reveal my tricks ! "

ses pas vos trucs Je veux que tu révèles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Hi' works well, no point sending a paragraph, just for the recipient to not read or delete the message.

'Hi' NEVER works with me, most 'Hi' messages also have crap profiles!"
most of the women who've messaged me first, which isn't many, have just sent 'hi', I don't just use that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We reply to all messages we receive the response is based upon original we get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't reveal my tricks !

ses pas vos trucs Je veux que tu révèles"

A bon ? Dis moi c'est quoi que tu aimerais que je révèle ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't reveal my tricks !

ses pas vos trucs Je veux que tu révèles

A bon ? Dis moi c'est quoi que tu aimerais que je révèle ? "

What tricks you have up your sleeve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't reveal my tricks !

ses pas vos trucs Je veux que tu révèles

A bon ? Dis moi c'est quoi que tu aimerais que je révèle ?

What tricks you have up your sleeve "

Many yet not only in my sleeve

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Can't reveal my tricks !

ses pas vos trucs Je veux que tu révèles

A bon ? Dis moi c'est quoi que tu aimerais que je révèle ? "

Oh a lady never tells

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

[Removed by poster at 11/07/16 21:03:23]

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Can't reveal my tricks !

ses pas vos trucs Je veux que tu révèles

A bon ? Dis moi c'est quoi que tu aimerais que je révèle ?

What tricks you have up your sleeve

Many yet not only in my sleeve "

Es-tu un sorcier?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't reveal my tricks !

ses pas vos trucs Je veux que tu révèles

A bon ? Dis moi c'est quoi que tu aimerais que je révèle ?

Oh a lady never tells "

Even in PM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't reveal my tricks !

ses pas vos trucs Je veux que tu révèles

A bon ? Dis moi c'est quoi que tu aimerais que je révèle ?

What tricks you have up your sleeve

Many yet not only in my sleeve

Es-tu un sorcier?!"

Better than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't reveal my tricks !

ses pas vos trucs Je veux que tu révèles

A bon ? Dis moi c'est quoi que tu aimerais que je révèle ?

What tricks you have up your sleeve

Many yet not only in my sleeve

Es-tu un sorcier?!

Better than that "

So I have just googled what is better than a sorcier, apparently nothing, or maybe an Alien or a vampire

Fail

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By *aughty_amazonWoman
over a year ago

BRISTOL

"When the sun rises in the west and sets in the east, when the mountains blow in the wind like leaves, then you shall return to me my moon and stars."

Im a big GOT geek and they must've googled it just to quote it, loved it x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If they're near me, sane, solvent, single, and send me a nice pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How's your luck wench?" that was 4 years ago now and we still speak daily and get together when he's within easy reach.

Not the normal message I respond to but so glad I did!

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By *igBan OP   Man
over a year ago

kidlington


"Can't reveal my tricks !

ses pas vos trucs Je veux que tu révèles"

It's not your tricks I want you to reveal

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