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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This is definetly not a dig but genuine curiosity.

There seems to be more and more younger guys joining the site 25 and under. What is it that has got you into swinging? Do you actually consider yourself a swinger or someone who thinks its an easier option of finding nsa fun than going to a nightclub.

I guess im asking as an oldie for two reasons, when i was that age the lads seemed to do all right for themselves by just going to the pub/club. But also we didnt have the internet when i was that age, so dont know if all the lads would of been on swinging sites.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

cheaper than 3 blue wickeds, then a slow dance and taxi home..

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"cheaper than 3 blue wickeds, then a slow dance and taxi home..

"

But only if you don't consider that your time is of any value.

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

bloody hell dont they even get a bag of chips or kebab these days

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"bloody hell dont they even get a bag of chips or kebab these days "
you got kebab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop talking about food this time of the night, please!

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"bloody hell dont they even get a bag of chips or kebab these days you got kebab? "

no, didnt have kebab shops in my day lol, it was usually a few drinks and a snog in the pub ment you had pulled lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cheaper than 3 blue wickeds, then a slow dance and taxi home..

"

You're on cracking form tonight!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"cheaper than 3 blue wickeds, then a slow dance and taxi home..

You're on cracking form tonight! "

Have had a very chilled out day... so am as relaxed as relaxed can be xx

hope yu too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emmmm, where are the younger gents then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in bed?? theve got school tomorrow lol

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By *iamondsmiles. OP   Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Emmmm, where are the younger gents then? "

Youve eaten them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cheaper than 3 blue wickeds, then a slow dance and taxi home..

You're on cracking form tonight!

Have had a very chilled out day... so am as relaxed as relaxed can be xx

hope yu too "

Yeah mon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"in bed?? theve got school tomorrow lol "

Beat me to it!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"cheaper than 3 blue wickeds, then a slow dance and taxi home..

You're on cracking form tonight!

Have had a very chilled out day... so am as relaxed as relaxed can be xx

hope yu too

Yeah mon! "

and heres one lady who could eat them for breakfast ,dinner and supper

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"This is definetly not a dig but genuine curiosity.

There seems to be more and more younger guys joining the site 25 and under. What is it that has got you into swinging? Do you actually consider yourself a swinger or someone who thinks its an easier option of finding nsa fun than going to a nightclub.

I guess im asking as an oldie for two reasons, when i was that age the lads seemed to do all right for themselves by just going to the pub/club. But also we didnt have the internet when i was that age, so dont know if all the lads would of been on swinging sites."

oooooh.... can I have a guess at this one... pretty please!!!!

for a fair amount on them I think they have this notion that because people swing, they will play with anyone... especially them older women because hubby can't satisfy them and/or they aren't getting enough.... heck I'll just say it, easy sex right!!!!!!

obviously we know the above isn't true... but I'll have a stab at that is what a lot of them think.....

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"in bed?? theve got school tomorrow lol

Beat me to it! "

yes but your there head mistress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ya dont you no at my age were thankful for anything

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester


"ya dont you no at my age were thankful for anything "

speak for your self

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"This is definetly not a dig but genuine curiosity.

There seems to be more and more younger guys joining the site 25 and under. What is it that has got you into swinging? Do you actually consider yourself a swinger or someone who thinks its an easier option of finding nsa fun than going to a nightclub.

I guess im asking as an oldie for two reasons, when i was that age the lads seemed to do all right for themselves by just going to the pub/club. But also we didnt have the internet when i was that age, so dont know if all the lads would of been on swinging sites.

oooooh.... can I have a guess at this one... pretty please!!!!

for a fair amount on them I think they have this notion that because people swing, they will play with anyone... especially them older women because hubby can't satisfy them and/or they aren't getting enough.... heck I'll just say it, easy sex right!!!!!!

obviously we know the above isn't true... but I'll have a stab at that is what a lot of them think....."

this is not like you you starting to feel old and left on the side

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

to be fair though i dont think it is that easy for them on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Emmmm, where are the younger gents then?

Youve eaten them all "

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I wish!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"to be fair though i dont think it is that easy for them on here "

I agree and good luck to them.. they aren't doing any harm. Often their postings are amongst the most polite on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oooooh.... can I have a guess at this one... pretty please!!!!

for a fair amount on them I think they have this notion that because people swing, they will play with anyone... especially them older women because hubby can't satisfy them and/or they aren't getting enough.... heck I'll just say it, easy sex right!!!!!!

obviously we know the above isn't true... but I'll have a stab at that is what a lot of them think....."

.

That is rather harsh I'd say!

I can only speak for the ones I have met, and they don't just play with anyone and are not desparate.

They do not feel they have much common with girls nearer their own age, and they seem to have more sexual hang ups compared with more mature ladies.

Sex with d*unken young girls are not much fun allegedly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely agree with _abio, the young uns do think that we're all gagging for it and they'll be offered sex every night and orgies every weekend. So when they send out messages they cant believe noone will take them up on their kind offer to service us. And so the threads are borne asking what they are doing wrong. And if they are lucky enough to get a meet, many dont turn up cos there so shit scared of having to perform, which is why many wont turn up at parties.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"oooooh.... can I have a guess at this one... pretty please!!!!

for a fair amount on them I think they have this notion that because people swing, they will play with anyone... especially them older women because hubby can't satisfy them and/or they aren't getting enough.... heck I'll just say it, easy sex right!!!!!!

obviously we know the above isn't true... but I'll have a stab at that is what a lot of them think.....

.

That is rather harsh I'd say!

I can only speak for the ones I have met, and they don't just play with anyone and are not desparate.

They do not feel they have much common with girls nearer their own age, and they seem to have more sexual hang ups compared with more mature ladies.

Sex with d*unken young girls are not much fun allegedly.

"

i think different young guys will always put mature lady as a trophy there may be 1 in 100 who doesnt good luck girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cheaper than 3 blue wickeds, then a slow dance and taxi home..

You're on cracking form tonight!

Have had a very chilled out day... so am as relaxed as relaxed can be xx

hope yu too

Yeah mon!

and heres one lady who could eat them for breakfast ,dinner and supper "

The young do nothing for me! I'd feel a "bully" tying up a kiddie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oooooh.... can I have a guess at this one... pretty please!!!!

for a fair amount on them I think they have this notion that because people swing, they will play with anyone... especially them older women because hubby can't satisfy them and/or they aren't getting enough.... heck I'll just say it, easy sex right!!!!!!

obviously we know the above isn't true... but I'll have a stab at that is what a lot of them think.....

.

That is rather harsh I'd say!

I can only speak for the ones I have met, and they don't just play with anyone and are not desparate.

They do not feel they have much common with girls nearer their own age, and they seem to have more sexual hang ups compared with more mature ladies.

Sex with d*unken young girls are not much fun allegedly.

i think different young guys will always put mature lady as a trophy there may be 1 in 100 who doesnt good luck girls "

I agree, but some deluded older women will think differently no doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're certainly exceptions to the rule, ive met an absolutely lovely 26 yr old who had a maturer outlook than I did. Equally Ive turned down a 21yr old who asked me to give him a go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're certainly exceptions to the rule, ive met an absolutely lovely 26 yr old who had a maturer outlook than I did. Equally Ive turned down a 21yr old who asked me to give him a go!"

Oooh I agree. There are many exceptional younger men I'm sure: they just lack that je nais sais quoi for me to play with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until recently I worked as a Door Steward in Glasgow City Centre.....

What I found is the following.

1) Girls aged 16-25 would approach the door either with a drink in them or whatever other substance and offer Blow job or sex just to get through the door. After a few drinks they were fair game.

2) Aged 25-40 would after a few drinks openly flirt and become a tease...yes with a bit of effort you could be lucky.

3) Over 40 the quicker they got intoxicated and the more desparate they appeared..

Guys on the other hand would shag anything as long as it didn't interfere with the football.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not one to go out to get d*unk and get shagged, never have, never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol read this with a smile Kas

I started on the scene when i was 17 way before the Internet

Used ta go to a local sauna (had discovered my bi side years before)

And although it was a "normal sauna" ya soon got ta know who ya could play with when it was quiet lol

And was often taken back by guys ta perform if ya like in front of their wives with them

Then i moved on to playing with their wives and being invited ta parties

So yes although their are a lot more younger now because its so accessible

There have always been young on the scene xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is definetly not a dig but genuine curiosity.

There seems to be more and more younger guys joining the site 25 and under. What is it that has got you into swinging? Do you actually consider yourself a swinger or someone who thinks its an easier option of finding nsa fun than going to a nightclub.

I guess im asking as an oldie for two reasons, when i was that age the lads seemed to do all right for themselves by just going to the pub/club. But also we didnt have the internet when i was that age, so dont know if all the lads would of been on swinging sites.

oooooh.... can I have a guess at this one... pretty please!!!!

for a fair amount on them I think they have this notion that because people swing, they will play with anyone... especially them older women because hubby can't satisfy them and/or they aren't getting enough.... heck I'll just say it, easy sex right!!!!!!

obviously we know the above isn't true... but I'll have a stab at that is what a lot of them think....."

I agree with u on this one _abio. So often the young gents come in chat and say anyone want some fun today/tonight , and then they always comment on the content of the chat coz its not one hundred per cent full on rude , they say is this face book or a sex site , so hit the nail on the head _abio , they think the women are easy lays , which of course the more mature swinger knows is certainly not the case.

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