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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you do when you see someone on the site you know/recognise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scream as camp as possible "HIYA!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do this face .... . And then this....,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quietly back away from their profile and go in my bathroom and scream "shit!" Really loudly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Scream as camp as possible "HIYA!" "

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry


"I quietly back away from their profile and go in my bathroom and scream "shit!" Really loudly."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I quietly back away from their profile and go in my bathroom and scream "shit!" Really loudly."

Screaming shit in your bathroom will give the neighbours the wrong impression thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing...especially as they wouldn't recognise me unless we'd met or we're friends on here.

I've seen supposedly single males out with their partners and children, locals who post face pics and guys who've messaged me. I assume that they want to keep their lifestyle discreet as do I, so why would I acknowledge them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to find someone o know on here but have never seen anyone yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely nothing...especially as they wouldn't recognise me unless we'd met or we're friends on here.

I've seen supposedly single males out with their partners and children, locals who post face pics and guys who've messaged me. I assume that they want to keep their lifestyle discreet as do I, so why would I acknowledge them? !-"

Say you saw a hit bloke on here who you knew was single, would you engage conversation?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely nothing...especially as they wouldn't recognise me unless we'd met or we're friends on here.

I've seen supposedly single males out with their partners and children, locals who post face pics and guys who've messaged me. I assume that they want to keep their lifestyle discreet as do I, so why would I acknowledge them? !-

Say you saw a hit bloke on here who you knew was single, would you engage conversation?"

*hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and not give it another thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to find someone o know on here but have never seen anyone yet "

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to find someone o know on here but have never seen anyone yet

Why? "

I don't know just think it would be massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not better to give people some privacy.

Leave them be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen someone I know on here and would never do anything about it. She is after discretion the same as I am so why mention it or act on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen someone I know on here and would never do anything about it. She is after discretion the same as I am so why mention it or act on it? "
I have seen my neighbour on here!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"What do you do when you see someone on the site you know/recognise?

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Block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has it made for uncomfortable neighbourly banter when you have since seen them in person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you do when you see someone on the site you know/recognise?

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I've seen family and former work placement colleagues I teased them they asked me what I'm doing on fab?same as them .

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I wouldn't do a thing . I like my private life kept private and respect that others will be the same . I just focus on my own account ,i don't care what's others are doing that's their own business.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Wait until they work out who you are?

*still waiting*

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Entirely depends on the relationship I have with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone from my gym has recognised me. From my boobs too as my face pic is hidden lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone from my gym has recognised me. From my boobs too as my face pic is hidden lol x"

Well they are good boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"has it made for uncomfortable neighbourly banter when you have since seen them in person? "
she hasn't found me..yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't do a thing . I like my private life kept private and respect that others will be the same . I just focus on my own account ,i don't care what's others are doing that's their own business. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy from school found me, we had a laugh about it and are friends now.

Yesterday I spotted a friend of friends on here though who I used to talk to on Tinder. Looking forward to seeing how that pans out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to drinks cabinet and drink myself senseless hoping I forget....sleep.. wakeup..log on Fab... repeat

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By *GHertsCouple
over a year ago

North Herts

Not quite the same but we played with a couple a while back the male of which was wearing a rugby club shirt for the same club my best friend of 40 years is also a member of. Checking my best friend's Facebook page a day or so later, the first person to pop up in his galleries?! Yep you guessed it!!

Would I say anything to my best friend, even anecdotally? Of course not, same rule applies, nothing to do with him, and I also know the other guy would never say anything to my friend about us.

Don't understand anyone that says they hope they spot someone they know on here, almost comes across as hoping they'd then hold something over that person, which frankly is a little creepy!!

Mr G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave my laptop to a friend at work to clean and asked him not to go snooping, obviously he did and saw my pictures from another site I'm on.....he was the one that told me about fab. He has spoken to me about things and I've asked him not to as I see him as a work mate and not that way, plus he's married......I haven't come across his profile yet lol

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DDOS the website.

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By *osmicplusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found a girl I went to school with, didn't realise it was her as had no pics, messaged her and it got deleted, thought nothing of it. Later that night I recognised her profile name was her Facebook url! Anyway called her out on it had a chat was all good.

Another time found one of my exs had joined up luckily still mates and have played.

And on another site I got a message from someone saying nice bike etc, at this point I hadn't posted shit on that site about me and bikes. Anyway scared shit out of me and deleted profile haha

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By *weet medicineWoman
over a year ago

Kesgrave

Had someone not so discreet approach me in tescos when out with my boys to say "youre on fan arent you" was not impressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anything I can do about a guy who recognised me from a different site and after I politely said I wasn't interested, he turned bitter and vile. He called me by my real first time and said he's thinking of mentioning I'm on here to my brother and their friends (one of which is a work colleague of mine). He knows if people I work with find out I'm on a site like this, my career is potentially over with. I'll never be able to live it down! Why do some people find rejection hard and why be so horrible!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I gave my laptop to a friend at work to clean and asked him not to go snooping, obviously he did and saw my pictures from another site I'm on.....he was the one that told me about fab. He has spoken to me about things and I've asked him not to as I see him as a work mate and not that way, plus he's married......I haven't come across his profile yet lol"

Happened to me when I was at university. Had to leave my laptop with the tech guys. I wondered why they were always smiling at me when I picked it up later on! Lol. Good job I've left now.

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By *weet medicineWoman
over a year ago

Kesgrave

I wouldn't respond to him in any way as he will be after your reaction. I would however report him to the police he has threatened you & intimidated you. Be safe & hope it works out ok x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scream as camp as possible "HIYA!" "

That's exactly what we did when we spotted hubby's ex wife on here

"HIYA!" *waving manically*

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely nothing...especially as they wouldn't recognise me unless we'd met or we're friends on here.

I've seen supposedly single males out with their partners and children, locals who post face pics and guys who've messaged me. I assume that they want to keep their lifestyle discreet as do I, so why would I acknowledge them? !-

Say you saw a hit bloke on here who you knew was single, would you engage conversation?

*hot"

Nope. I'd message him on fab if I was interested. And if I saw the profiles of friends, family, colleagues or neighbours I'd block them.

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By *weet medicineWoman
over a year ago

Kesgrave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything I can do about a guy who recognised me from a different site and after I politely said I wasn't interested, he turned bitter and vile. He called me by my real first time and said he's thinking of mentioning I'm on here to my brother and their friends (one of which is a work colleague of mine). He knows if people I work with find out I'm on a site like this, my career is potentially over with. I'll never be able to live it down! Why do some people find rejection hard and why be so horrible!? "

Tell him you'll report him to the police for threatening behaviour and see how he likes the thought of a criminal record

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't seen anyone I know yet...apart from the ones I introduced to the site lol...plus all my friends and family know I am on here....have had a few messages saying people off here have seen me in town n stuff ...nobody ever says hello tho...what is that about?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run!, hide!, booked a 1 way flight to Mexico

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had two men from my gym recognise me - they messaged me here though !

Many years ago on a different site my then boss messaged me not realising who he'd messaged and sent me pics I so wish I hadn't seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anything I can do about a guy who recognised me from a different site and after I politely said I wasn't interested, he turned bitter and vile. He called me by my real first time and said he's thinking of mentioning I'm on here to my brother and their friends (one of which is a work colleague of mine). He knows if people I work with find out I'm on a site like this, my career is potentially over with. I'll never be able to live it down! Why do some people find rejection hard and why be so horrible!?

Tell him you'll report him to the police for threatening behaviour and see how he likes the thought of a criminal record "

I just sat there with my jaw open in shock. Couldn't believe how nasty he was. blocked him straight after. I'm paranoid in case he's photoshot my pics. Family members will obviously recognised my bedroom because my brother decorated my room for me. It's just horrible

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By *ime for me21Man
over a year ago

skeg

I wouldn't do anything I know a few people that are on here. in person but It never is spoken about of site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I wouldn't respond to him in any way as he will be after your reaction. I would however report him to the police he has threatened you & intimidated you. Be safe & hope it works out ok x x"

I hope that's the last I heard about it. I don't understand how he recognised me because my face pic isn't on here and I've never met him. I do have a similar pic on a different site but I never thought it was that obvious. My dream career has only just began. So much to lose . Thank you for your kind words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen my uncle,3 of my cousins and work colleagues in here, we're all adult enough to be Descreet I've blocked family but work colleagues I've played with a couple hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As yet I haven't had the pleasure but it would probably be like the Facebook mentality I have, I speak to them on there but see them face to face I scurry off in the other direction!!

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few ex pub regulars appear from my days as a licencee

Ive had a laugh about it with them and said no more after all whats the big deal we are all here for the same thing

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