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If whatever you're doing isn't working for you, try changing the method. There would be timewasters whether there was a joining fee or not.
To me, a timewaster is someone you've made arrangements with and who doesn't turn up. People are perfectly entitled to change their mind at any point though. | |||
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"or have some sort of failed to meet count on each profile. so when a meet agreed both click agreed then if one don't turn up can raise a case against them like eBay lol. very good buyer would fuck again a* lol "That would be a good idea well dun. Think fab should really look at doing a failed to meet option. | |||
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"Single female here it's exactly the same for us very frustrating playing ping pong with messages then no meets profile states clearly what I'm looking for but gets ignored seem to spend more time messaging than actually meeting not sure there's a solution to it to be honest xxx" Weekend was ruined cos of being let down by. | |||
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"This site is full of time wasters. The trouble we had to try and get a single guy for sat nite. Let down by so many time wasters. This site needs to get rid of these people spoiling the site for genuine ones. I think fab should introduce a sign up fee to join. I'd happily pay providing they got rid of fakes and time wasters." I've never had a problem with time wasters. Maybe screen your choices better? Spend time getting to know them? Or go to a club? At least then if there is no one suitable to play with, you can still enjoy the facilities. | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ" You know... it's a strange concept but if you have nothing constructive to add, you could save yourself the time to post and just find stuff that doesn't make you yawn? Radical I know!  | |||
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"or have some sort of failed to meet count on each profile. so when a meet agreed both click agreed then if one don't turn up can raise a case against them like eBay lol. very good buyer would fuck again a* lol
That would be a good idea well dun. Think fab should really look at doing a failed to meet option."If would be abused by bitter people. The amount of men I say no to if they all decided to report me then I'd be gone if such a feature existed. | |||
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"Single female here it's exactly the same for us very frustrating playing ping pong with messages then no meets profile states clearly what I'm looking for but gets ignored seem to spend more time messaging than actually meeting not sure there's a solution to it to be honest xxx Weekend was ruined cos of being let down by." Ruined? You have each other! Try being a single being let down | |||
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" If would be abused by bitter people. The amount of men I say no to if they all decided to report me then I'd be gone if such a feature existed. " So true, would just be seen as another revenge tactic  | |||
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" If would be abused by bitter people. The amount of men I say no to if they all decided to report me then I'd be gone if such a feature existed. So true, would just be seen as another revenge tactic "But reading it again they said a feature where both of you select an option to show that a meet has been agreed and arranged then afterwards you can select an option to show that they turned up. That would be harder to abuse because only people you've actually agreed to meet would be able to say if you turned up or not. | |||
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" If would be abused by bitter people. The amount of men I say no to if they all decided to report me then I'd be gone if such a feature existed. So true, would just be seen as another revenge tactic
But reading it again they said a feature where both of you select an option to show that a meet has been agreed and arranged then afterwards you can select an option to show that they turned up. That would be harder to abuse because only people you've actually agreed to meet would be able to say if you turned up or not. "a great idea | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ You know... it's a strange concept but if you have nothing constructive to add, you could save yourself the time to post and just find stuff that doesn't make you yawn? Radical I know! "Still yawn | |||
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"or have some sort of failed to meet count on each profile. so when a meet agreed both click agreed then if one don't turn up can raise a case against them like eBay lol. very good buyer would fuck again a* lol
That would be a good idea well dun. Think fab should really look at doing a failed to meet option.
If would be abused by bitter people. The amount of men I say no to if they all decided to report me then I'd be gone if such a feature existed. "And can you imagine how many people from on here would report me
That would be funny since they say they detest me and wouldn't come within 50 miles of me | |||
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"This site is full of time wasters. The trouble we had to try and get a single guy for sat nite. Let down by so many time wasters. This site needs to get rid of these people spoiling the site for genuine ones. I think fab should introduce a sign up fee to join. I'd happily pay providing they got rid of fakes and time wasters." Just join a paysite then. Problem solved | |||
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"or have some sort of failed to meet count on each profile. so when a meet agreed both click agreed then if one don't turn up can raise a case against them like eBay lol. very good buyer would fuck again a* lol
That would be a good idea well dun. Think fab should really look at doing a failed to meet option."That's a good idea actually for all those people that get let down at the arranged place. | |||
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"This site is full of time wasters. The trouble we had to try and get a single guy for sat nite. Let down by so many time wasters. This site needs to get rid of these people spoiling the site for genuine ones. I think fab should introduce a sign up fee to join. I'd happily pay providing they got rid of fakes and time wasters. Just join a paysite then. Problem solved" Exactly. ... same old bla bla threads | |||
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"Yes that's wot a time waster is. Sent loads msg bk and forth. Swapped phone numbers gave out postcode and nothing. Phone off and ignore msgs on here." Or maybe people change theirind and that's life???.. Just cus you exchange a few messages does mean a meet is on the cards. | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ" Bit sleepy still? Pop back to bed for a while... | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ Bit sleepy still? Pop back to bed for a while..." Relaxed on a sunbed checking out bikini butts  | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ You know... it's a strange concept but if you have nothing constructive to add, you could save yourself the time to post and just find stuff that doesn't make you yawn? Radical I know! " | |||
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"This site is full of time wasters. The trouble we had to try and get a single guy for sat nite. Let down by so many time wasters. This site needs to get rid of these people spoiling the site for genuine ones. I think fab should introduce a sign up fee to join. I'd happily pay providing they got rid of fakes and time wasters." Fab does have a arranged a meet but didnt turn up box to tick on the report section. I wonder if fab takes that kind or reporting seriously though. It's happened to me too. One guy even gave me his address, I drove all the way there, knocked on the door and a completely different guy opened the door! Despite the man I met on fab saying he lived alone. Why give the wrong address? Another guy arrange a coffee social in Costa, I travelled to him , he messaged to say he's 10 mins away, when I got there he wasn't even there! He didn't bother to turn up at all. Then had the nerve to ask for a "second meet". Lol no chance. I'm a genuine single woman, not ugly and I travelled you them. Why time waste? I didn't want to marry them lol  | |||
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"Single female here it's exactly the same for us very frustrating playing ping pong with messages then no meets profile states clearly what I'm looking for but gets ignored seem to spend more time messaging than actually meeting not sure there's a solution to it to be honest xxx Weekend was ruined cos of being let down by. Ruined? You have each other! Try being a single being let down "you seem one of the good guys on here why someone can let you down ill never know x | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ Bit sleepy still? Pop back to bed for a while... Relaxed on a sunbed checking out bikini butts "Clearly those bikini butts are not keeping you interested enough to stop you from moaning... | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ Bit sleepy still? Pop back to bed for a while... Relaxed on a sunbed checking out bikini butts
Clearly those bikini butts are not keeping you interested enough to stop you from moaning..."Moaning ???...... haha This is general chat.... read back and not once was there any form of moaning in any format | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ Bit sleepy still? Pop back to bed for a while... Relaxed on a sunbed checking out bikini butts "Ahhhhhh. GC not long now before I am laying naked by hut 4 or in the dunes xxxxxx Suzi | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ Bit sleepy still? Pop back to bed for a while... Relaxed on a sunbed checking out bikini butts
Clearly those bikini butts are not keeping you interested enough to stop you from moaning...
Moaning ???...... haha
This is general chat.... read back and not once was there any form of moaning in any format "Apologies I misunderstood your yawn comment. | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ Bit sleepy still? Pop back to bed for a while... Relaxed on a sunbed checking out bikini butts
Clearly those bikini butts are not keeping you interested enough to stop you from moaning...
Moaning ???...... haha
This is general chat.... read back and not once was there any form of moaning in any format "So "Exactly. ... same old bla bla threads" is not moaning? Sounds like someone is moaning to me! But why not just scroll by if it bores you? | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ Bit sleepy still? Pop back to bed for a while... Relaxed on a sunbed checking out bikini butts
Clearly those bikini butts are not keeping you interested enough to stop you from moaning...
Moaning ???...... haha
This is general chat.... read back and not once was there any form of moaning in any format
So "Exactly. ... same old bla bla threads" is not moaning? Sounds like someone is moaning to me! But why not just scroll by if it bores you?"Again... YAWN... | |||
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"... I'd happily pay providing they got rid of fakes and time wasters. I've never had a problem with time wasters. Maybe screen your choices better? Spend time getting to know them? Or go to a club? At least then if there is no one suitable to play with, you can still enjoy the facilities. " This ^^ In 4+ years on this and other sites, I've never wasted any time on a timewaster. Yes, I've spent time getting to know people, who subsequently turned out to be unsuitable, but I've never had a no-show for an arranged meet. This site has a function to report members who fail to turn up without warning. OP if you want a pay-site, there are plenty to choose from. However, I don't think you'll find they are any better than this one. | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ Bit sleepy still? Pop back to bed for a while... Relaxed on a sunbed checking out bikini butts "Better be careful laying on a sunbed like that, a bird might come and peck your penis! | |||
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"YAWN ZZZZZZZ Bit sleepy still? Pop back to bed for a while... Relaxed on a sunbed checking out bikini butts
Better be careful laying on a sunbed like that, a bird might come and peck your penis!"All good here | |||
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"Change the process. Have social meets first. Look for different characteristics in your target people. I've had very few people fail to meet in many years of swinging." We don't do social we have a young child. So on occasion wen we don't have child we mite only be able give a weeks notice at most. We like to make a nite of been child free with loads of drink and get naughty with others | |||
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"us single guys can find it hard too. just makes it all the more worth it when you get a good meet" Never found it hard.. it's haw you approach and conduct yourself as an individual | |||
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"us single guys can find it hard too. just makes it all the more worth it when you get a good meet Never found it hard.. it's haw you approach and conduct yourself as an individual "I said single guys can find it hard, not that I do find it hard. my point was purely that until you've spoken to someone you shouldn't really judge. | |||
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"us single guys can find it hard too. just makes it all the more worth it when you get a good meet Never found it hard.. it's haw you approach and conduct yourself as an individual
I said single guys can find it hard, not that I do find it hard. my point was purely that until you've spoken to someone you shouldn't really judge. "No you never... you said US single guys which indicates you including yourself along with others.. | |||
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"Change the process. Have social meets first. Look for different characteristics in your target people. I've had very few people fail to meet in many years of swinging. We don't do social we have a young child. So on occasion wen we don't have child we mite only be able give a weeks notice at most. We like to make a nite of been child free with loads of drink and get naughty with others" So you expect some one you've never met to come round and get pissed with you? Can you not see why this might be a huge stumbling block? | |||
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"This site is full of time wasters. The trouble we had to try and get a single guy for sat nite. Let down by so many time wasters. This site needs to get rid of these people spoiling the site for genuine ones. I think fab should introduce a sign up fee to join. I'd happily pay providing they got rid of fakes and time wasters." You have to just suck it up, I,m afraid. I,'ve had loads of men chat to me then "leg it down the road" when I say I will meet. For some it's all fantasy and dreams. A timewaster is somebody who arranges to meet then does not show. Even when they show up they are not obliged to have sex with anyone. I have heard it said that some couples treat single men like walking dildos. Maybe the ones you chatted to didn't want to do what you had in mind. X | |||
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